FabSwingers.com forum: Pictures

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now...were polite enough to let people know who they are talking to and for those we add as friend they get to see a little extra

but what are peoples views on single males pictures i know everyone want them to have a face picture up but thats not going to happen

but weve come across quite afew that have pictures of them with other people now of course we dont expect to be the only couple people meet so some will have pictures of there meets up but more than a few have them without protection and when ever we enquire about it because we only do safe play we get 'it was a long term ex'

of course most couples dont use protetion but do you trust singles with what they say? and does there ex really want to be up there? infact are they even single!! weve seen a few that have pictures of women on there profiles and weve got the responce of its someone i fucked or someone i met...right but its not you and your not a couple so why put her up there?

im just not sure whether any of them could be genuine and if some are id like to hear they are so we dont keep ruling them out

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rules [under the `terms` at the bottom of the page], says that you are allowed other people in your profile photos, providing that they cant be identified.

... but as for the rest, you or I may never know the answers to the questions you ask, many people run those questions through their minds, but at the end of the day, it is simply part of the minefield that is swinging.

S&A

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THESE ARE MY VIEWS BTW AND I ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF

re Pics: I never use pics that contain others without the express permission of those contained within, and even si, i aill always disguise them.

Bareback

If i hit on a profile and I see many pics bareback, and I check the pics of those whom they have met and I see the same, then they are not the right couple for me. i like to think that I am d&d free and i am hoping to stay that way. in this world one can only vouch for oneself.

FACEPICS

I would show a facepic if i had no family, no friends, no colleagues etc. or if I had reached a stage in my life whereby i didnt give a hoots what anyone thought about me. As I have all the above, and i care for those whose careers could be totally destroyed if it got out that i was flashing my wares on a swingers site, and and i also worry about the ridicule my family would have to suffer hence I wont. Even when it comes to sending pics, i dont anymore as they always seem to end up on other sites unknown. so the best way for me is a cam 2 cam on msn. at least that way, i can see the other person is whom they say they are, and more importantly we can see each others smile. At the end of the day, this is supposed to be fun.

Pics can tell a million lies

jeez i see myself talking crap again, lol