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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all, I'm really struggling on Fab to get a meet and just wondered if you had any advice? I'm always respectful in my messages and always try and relate to the person's interests in order to get a conversation started but most messages just get ignored and deleted. Any advice and any feedback on my profile would be much appreciated. Thanks guys

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hello all, I'm really struggling on Fab to get a meet and just wondered if you had any advice? I'm always respectful in my messages and always try and relate to the person's interests in order to get a conversation started but most messages just get ignored and deleted. Any advice and any feedback on my profile would be much appreciated. Thanks guys"
most will look at the profile and pictures before reading the message or deleting it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profiles quite short. Try adding a bit more about you and what your looking for. Also, perhaps more pics.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Your profile text doesn't make you sound confident.

My perception on reading the little bit that you've written is you are a boring shag, you know this and want to change that but don't quite know how.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There's not much variation in the pics and they aren't enticing (unless you're a chest person)

I always tell people to make their profile a clear representation of themselves.

If you've done that then that's fine. You'll attract the people that are right for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great thank you and will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That makes sense and I see what you mean about the confidence thing. Think maybe a new description would be the way forward. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I suppose you're right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bump the thread when you’ve updated everything and let’s see where we’re at

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, I'm really struggling on Fab to get a meet and just wondered if you had any advice? I'm always respectful in my messages and always try and relate to the person's interests in order to get a conversation started but most messages just get ignored and deleted. Any advice and any feedback on my profile would be much appreciated. Thanks guys"

Be detailed or be funny ony your profile and messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks pull my finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, persistance and patience are key. Don't take knock backs to heart, stay upbeat and keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think you're absolutely right, it seems confidence is definitely the key to success. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've given my profile a bit of an overhaul. What do you guys think? I will add more/a better variety of pics later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don’t think you need to mention “white” when describing the type of women you’re looking for, other than that, seems ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'll take that on board. Thank you, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics needed. Us ladies like teasing pics, but the hairy chest is nice. X

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By *traightguy101Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I would agree with the variation in your photos, I'm working on finding my own style at the moment, so that's a work in progress. Wouldn't mind extra feedback myself. I'm always making little tweeks to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll definitely be adding more pics. Thanks for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, I'm really struggling on Fab to get a meet and just wondered if you had any advice? I'm always respectful in my messages and always try and relate to the person's interests in order to get a conversation started but most messages just get ignored and deleted. Any advice and any feedback on my profile would be much appreciated. Thanks guys"

Mate unless you have a 9+” cock you have very little chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback, it would seem the general opinion is the pictures so I'm going to work on that.

Your profile is very positive and honest and seems you have a new lease of life. Best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, it would seem the general opinion is the pictures so I'm going to work on that.

Your profile is very positive and honest and seems you have a new lease of life. Best of luck to you "

New lease of life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the power of the woman again..

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By *traightguy101Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Thanks for the feedback, it would seem the general opinion is the pictures so I'm going to work on that.

Your profile is very positive and honest and seems you have a new lease of life. Best of luck to you

New lease of life? "

Most likely replying to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all, I'm really struggling on Fab to get a meet and just wondered if you had any advice? I'm always respectful in my messages and always try and relate to the person's interests in order to get a conversation started but most messages just get ignored and deleted. Any advice and any feedback on my profile would be much appreciated. Thanks guys"

Go to socials and clubs, even then the chances are nothing will happen until your face and behaviour is known.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha well I've got absolutely no chance then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll give it a try thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd say it all boils down to how much time and effort you put in .

as they say theres someone for everyone

one cant expect to come online for an hour or two everyday , ping a few messsages off and get results

look at verifications of men that have met couples , gives you the heads up they meet men

look for couples in the forums , send a message to those you like

browse daily and ping messages off

meet and events daily to spot someone .

its a full time hobbie ..but pays off if you put 1oo% effort in .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that makes sense, I've always felt it's definitely something you need to dedicate time to and results will come. I'll bear this in mind. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Put a couple of new pics up. Hopefully it'll help but we'll see

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