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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

What do you mean by humble?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What do you mean power? They only have as much power as men allow them to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree. I have bad patches / no shows / timewasters / guys who aren't interested all the time. I go to clubs and still not guaranteed any fun unless i go with someone.

Chin up babe. Xx

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Nothing admirable about them uppity women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thats a load of bollox for starters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol "

Not all. Only the ones that like to constantly whinge about it but refuse to use the site tools to prevent such an influx.

Oh and us miserable mingers get barely any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol "

Yeah, but have you seen the crap they’ve got to sift through before they get to anyone remotely decent?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t agree.

Proportional men out vote women, so the ladies will get more messages. Personal, I don’t; I use my filters to keep it low and hide when I need too.

Power... people on have this if you give it up. So don’t. Men have every right to say no or yes, as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

Green arrow would indicate you're doing alright on here 4 meets planned in 1 week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

What do you mean by humble? "
Humble as in sound really nice in their response or message. I put it down to the sheer volume of same old same old messages you receive and must get tired of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble."

Again, I disagree about choice. I want quality not quantity. Just because there’s hundreds of men doesn’t mean I want to sample all!

There’s only a few men I’d meet and they tend to be forum-goers, club visitors, local and have great profiles. Many profiles are derogatory too which is a no-no. So choice isn’t high because I have preferences, just like the men do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day "

I'm sure that will go up now you have said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

I'm sure that will go up now you have said that "

It really doesn't work like that.

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside


"I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble.

Again, I disagree about choice. I want quality not quantity. Just because there’s hundreds of men doesn’t mean I want to sample all!

There’s only a few men I’d meet and they tend to be forum-goers, club visitors, local and have great profiles. Many profiles are derogatory too which is a no-no. So choice isn’t high because I have preferences, just like the men do. "

Very well expressed and perfectly incapsulates the frustration in both men and women on here

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

I'm sure that will go up now you have said that "

Guess quantity doesn’t matter it’s if they fit what your looking for .... maybe it’s time to give it all a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble.

Again, I disagree about choice. I want quality not quantity. Just because there’s hundreds of men doesn’t mean I want to sample all!

There’s only a few men I’d meet and they tend to be forum-goers, club visitors, local and have great profiles. Many profiles are derogatory too which is a no-no. So choice isn’t high because I have preferences, just like the men do. "

Obviously this is from my time on here, your pot to pick from is greater. so would you say you pick the best of wots on here but would rather go with out if they don't meet exactly what you want.

Men are less picky as we are driven by our cocks ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

I'm sure that will go up now you have said that

It really doesn't work like that. "

Your profile is very funny and pics very sexy. Must be a problem with the men in your area. Move up here I'll message you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble.

Again, I disagree about choice. I want quality not quantity. Just because there’s hundreds of men doesn’t mean I want to sample all!

There’s only a few men I’d meet and they tend to be forum-goers, club visitors, local and have great profiles. Many profiles are derogatory too which is a no-no. So choice isn’t high because I have preferences, just like the men do.

Obviously this is from my time on here, your pot to pick from is greater. so would you say you pick the best of wots on here but would rather go with out if they don't meet exactly what you want.

Men are less picky as we are driven by our cocks ??"

Are men driven by their cocks?

I’m sure many have preferences too.

I would go without if there was no one here...but I prefer the clubs so waiting isn’t normally a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If by power you mean that they can choose to say yes or no to a potential meet, that's a little known (or should that be little used) ability shared by the fellas of fab too.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others "

Exactly this. I am in the longest dry spell i’ve Had in a long time... because I have the highest standards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to treat others as I would like to be treated.

Empathy more than humility perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others

Exactly this. I am in the longest dry spell i’ve Had in a long time... because I have the highest standards lol"
Thats because your profile isn’t available..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others have said it, but men can be choosy too. There are more women on here so it does shift the balance somewhat, but I think a lot of men’s success is down to their profiles. Many out on what they think women want to see, 5 cock pictures, but the majority don’t want to see that. Out of 50 messages, I’d say there’re only a couple who actually put some effort into their profile and write a decent opening message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

girl power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u look at my status you will find your wrong op

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

You get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If by power you mean that they can choose to say yes or no to a potential meet, that's a little known (or should that be little used) ability shared by the fellas of fab too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean power? They only have as much power as men allow them to have"

Never a truer word. The feminists of the world can vouch for the reverse of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol "

I get usually 3 replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others

Exactly this. I am in the longest dry spell i’ve Had in a long time... because I have the highest standards lol Thats because your profile isn’t available.. "

Holding out for the right one... then I reveal myself

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous. "

Especially when we're due on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

I get usually 3 replies"

I got 4 replies once. I didn’t even send an pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

I get usually 3 replies

I got 4 replies once. I didn’t even send an pm. "

Wow ! You are my hero

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

I'm sure that will go up now you have said that

It really doesn't work like that.

Your profile is very funny and pics very sexy. Must be a problem with the men in your area. Move up here I'll message you x"

Yes Welsh men are a law unto themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on. "

Is that your excuse?

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

Not all. Only the ones that like to constantly whinge about it but refuse to use the site tools to prevent such an influx.

Oh and us miserable mingers get barely any "

Ha! You are hardly that!!!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous. "

We may take over the world next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

Is it not the same in the outside world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

We may take over the world next "

Would be better than the cocks running it at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

We may take over the world next "

That could be possible, yous rule my line of work. Power of the miff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

I get usually 3 replies

I got 4 replies once. I didn’t even send an pm. "
the responses were because the women were alcoholics and saw that bottle of beer down your pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

I get usually 3 replies

I got 4 replies once. I didn’t even send an pm.

Wow ! You are my hero "

You copied that from your verification didn’t you? Show off.

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day "

I'd be more than happy with 10 a day!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Is that your excuse? "

Nah, I'm a hitman in disguise, just when I'm due on I'll take out whoever I want for no reason.

Reality : gets angry, hungry and frustrated. Replies to messages I wouldn't normally open, in an attempt to vent some frustration and let off some "you're a prick" steam.

Cry because I've eaten all the food. Cry because I got a headache. Cry because I'm fat and have no self control.

Wake up the next morning to cramps. Realise it was all auntie flows fault and all is well with the world again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

I get usually 3 replies

I got 4 replies once. I didn’t even send an pm.

Wow ! You are my hero

You copied that from your verification didn’t you? Show off. "

No, it was from A chuck Norris' movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Is that your excuse?

Nah, I'm a hitman in disguise, just when I'm due on I'll take out whoever I want for no reason.

Reality : gets angry, hungry and frustrated. Replies to messages I wouldn't normally open, in an attempt to vent some frustration and let off some "you're a prick" steam.

Cry because I've eaten all the food. Cry because I got a headache. Cry because I'm fat and have no self control.

Wake up the next morning to cramps. Realise it was all auntie flows fault and all is well with the world again "

Don't be so hard on yourself. You're not fat, a crank may be.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Traditionally it is men who typically engage conversation. Online sex site. is what it is.

Huge amount of competition. Alot of women likely deal with stupid messages

All the more reason to make your message stand out.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Traditionally it is men who typically engage conversation. Online sex site. is what it is.

Huge amount of competition. Alot of women likely deal with stupid messages

All the more reason to make your message stand out. "

Helps if you have silky voice too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have the best cakes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If some guys had a bit of gumption and half a brain cell they might not struggle so much

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

We may take over the world next

Would be better than the cocks running it at the moment."

Sure would .... we couldn’t do any worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I referenced this in a previous thread, but the user cross section would likely mean that even if every user sent one message to the opposite sex, most men would still have an empty inbox.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I bet you guys get hundreds of messages per day and can just choose who to respond to or who to meet, where as most guys get 1 or two replies not even an initial message. You have all the power! Lol

Not all. Only the ones that like to constantly whinge about it but refuse to use the site tools to prevent such an influx.

Oh and us miserable mingers get barely any "

That’s probably due to the fact nobody knows where you’re from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's just choice not power, so many men to choose from, Spoilt for choice.

As far as humble, i no wot you mean, when reading a profile I find some on here don't come across very well, seem not very nice but it could just be the tone you read it. So when I read a profile that comes across as a nice person, that could be considered as humble.

Again, I disagree about choice. I want quality not quantity. Just because there’s hundreds of men doesn’t mean I want to sample all!

There’s only a few men I’d meet and they tend to be forum-goers, club visitors, local and have great profiles. Many profiles are derogatory too which is a no-no. So choice isn’t high because I have preferences, just like the men do.

Obviously this is from my time on here, your pot to pick from is greater. so would you say you pick the best of wots on here but would rather go with out if they don't meet exactly what you want.

Men are less picky as we are driven by our cocks ??

Are men driven by their cocks?

I’m sure many have preferences too.

I would go without if there was no one here...but I prefer the clubs so waiting isn’t normally a problem "

Yes to a degree we are

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Unless you’re an out and out bastard, women always have the power, they are the’gatekeepers’.

They are called the weaker sex, but you try reclaiming a bit of quilt from one at 2 in the morning!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on. "

Well, don’t forget there’s the week when you’re due on, the week you’re actually on, and then there’s the week when you’ve just been on. So that only leaves one week in the month men can actually talk to women, and because you’re all on different cycles, timing is a big issue.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you’re an out and out bastard, women always have the power, they are the’gatekeepers’.

They are called the weaker sex, but you try reclaiming a bit of quilt from one at 2 in the morning!"

Hahaha... have you got a deathwish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If some guys had a bit of gumption and half a brain cell they might not struggle so much"

Harsh. But completely fair.

I'm not the best looking, am no adonis and when I was meeting always found it pretty easy to get meets

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"If some guys had a bit of gumption and half a brain cell they might not struggle so much"

That's like saying if I could run faster I could beat Usain Bolt at the Olympics. True, but not very informative.

The reality is far, far more men are interested in casual sex than women. Hence women who are interested can pick and choose who they have sex with. Hence they have more power than men in that situation.

I find it difficult to see how anyone can seriously dispute that.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"What do you mean power? They only have as much power as men allow them to have"

^^^^^^^^^^^

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I try to treat others as I would like to be treated.

Empathy more than humility perhaps?"

Exactly. Spot on!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah you men need to quit your moaning and bow down to our every needs. We rule this site deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When did 2 or more people meeting for mutual pleasure or any other reason become a matter of power....

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"If some guys had a bit of gumption and half a brain cell they might not struggle so much

That's like saying if I could run faster I could beat Usain Bolt at the Olympics. True, but not very informative.

The reality is far, far more men are interested in casual sex than women. Hence women who are interested can pick and choose who they have sex with. Hence they have more power than men in that situation.

I find it difficult to see how anyone can seriously dispute that.

"

Well said. And that is exactly what the OP was getting at by using the term power. I am very picky and like someone said i go to clubs quite a lot so i can be picky on here. If someone isn't what i want,rude etc. I just don't move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

I must be one of the humble ladies - if i get a meet (who meets my criteria), i tend to think it's simply cos i can offer 3 holes .

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day "

Same!

But hey I'm old, fat and grumpy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

What do you mean by humble? Humble as in sound really nice in their response or message. I put it down to the sheer volume of same old same old messages you receive and must get tired of it."

That's courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Well, don’t forget there’s the week when you’re due on, the week you’re actually on, and then there’s the week when you’ve just been on. So that only leaves one week in the month men can actually talk to women, and because you’re all on different cycles, timing is a big issue............. "

I’ve never had PMT! Meet me the week before though and there’s no talking!!! Sex-hungry monster arrives!!! not good when you’re single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

I must be one of the humble ladies - if i get a meet (who meets my criteria), i tend to think it's simply cos i can offer 3 holes ."

Think I’m in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it is women are as picky as men. Just because we outnumber them doesn’t mean we are all of a good enough calibre to hold conversation, humour sensuality and skills thereafter. Profiles on here go some way to indicating who and what you are like. But the real test is if you can hold that connection in person. Women may have more to choose from but let’s be fair once you have had steak you aren’t going to go for a burger if steak is available. Speaking from a burger’s point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Well, don’t forget there’s the week when you’re due on, the week you’re actually on, and then there’s the week when you’ve just been on. So that only leaves one week in the month men can actually talk to women, and because you’re all on different cycles, timing is a big issue.............

I’ve never had PMT! Meet me the week before though and there’s no talking!!! Sex-hungry monster arrives!!! not good when you’re single "

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

I must be one of the humble ladies - if i get a meet (who meets my criteria), i tend to think it's simply cos i can offer 3 holes .

Think I’m in love "

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day "

I am lucky if I have had 10 messages since I joined lol

It's just one of them things who knows one day I may get hundreds we can live in hope.

But us guys out number the woman so they can pick and choose.

Making all us guys have to work hard and put some effort into getting noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's still a man's world OP . Chin up and carry on.Power is given by the way.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I’m lucky if I get 10 messages a day

Same!

But hey I'm old, fat and grumpy! "

Me too I guess ha ha ... I’m sure I will survive

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Well, don’t forget there’s the week when you’re due on, the week you’re actually on, and then there’s the week when you’ve just been on. So that only leaves one week in the month men can actually talk to women, and because you’re

all on different cycles, timing is a big

issue............. "

The joys of being post menopausal .... get none of that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Post menopausal women should get paid more when they can be effective all month.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Well, don’t forget there’s the week when you’re due on, the week you’re actually on, and then there’s the week when you’ve just been on. So that only leaves one week in the month men can actually talk to women, and because you’re all on different cycles, timing is a big issue.............

I’ve never had PMT! Meet me the week before though and there’s no talking!!! Sex-hungry monster arrives!!! not good when you’re single "

Just send me a pm on that week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post menopausal women should get paid more when they can be effective all month. "

Do they get redundancy if their libido falls off a cliff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if it’s true but comedian Cathryn Ryan said

“if you are a white woman in 21st century, you are entitled to everything”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know if it’s true but comedian Cathryn Ryan said

“if you are a white woman in 21st century, you are entitled to everything”

"

Well dammit why haven't I got it then? Where do I go to lodge my claim?

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over a year ago

I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Nothing admirable about them uppity women ?"

We should be thankful and know our place....

Now get back on your knees and stop whining

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!? "

Yes yes yes Im with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

I mostly admire the ones who have their snatch on show

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!? "

You have had three meets within the space of three weeks. It would be extremely rare for a man to do that. Thus you do have it easier than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!?

You have had three meets within the space of three weeks. It would be extremely rare for a man to do that. Thus you do have it easier than men.

"

Ah well the question was about ‘power’ not whether it was easier or not... i would agree it is easier for a woman, depending on what she is looking for..but I don’t agree ‘we’ the women have the power!! At least I personally don’t think I have the power!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!?

You have had three meets within the space of three weeks. It would be extremely rare for a man to do that. Thus you do have it easier than men.

Ah well the question was about ‘power’ not whether it was easier or not... i would agree it is easier for a woman, depending on what she is looking for..but I don’t agree ‘we’ the women have the power!! At least I personally don’t think I have the power!! "

Oh you do those eyes can hipnotize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the power to pick up a flower it takes me an hour or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know if it’s true but comedian Cathryn Ryan said

“if you are a white woman in 21st century, you are entitled to everything”

Well dammit why haven't I got it then? Where do I go to lodge my claim?"

I’m listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also lady ignite mentioned on another thread she chews men and spits them out so it must be true in regards to her circumstances

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

That’s good

I know a few men that like me to use my power over them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Also lady ignite mentioned on another thread she chews men and spits them out so it must be true in regards to her circumstances "

I eat the tasty one's though I don't spit those one's out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also lady ignite mentioned on another thread she chews men and spits them out so it must be true in regards to her circumstances

I eat the tasty one's though I don't spit those one's out."

Haha well you didn’t say that

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don’t think we hold all the power! In fact it’s not about power it is about finding what your looking for!!! I could just as easily be disappointed and let down as any man!

It may be hard to get a meet on here as a man but believe me it’s just as hard for me because I’m not just out for a fuck!!!!

I have 50 messages at the minute but I know that 99 per cent are just a “fancy a fuck” now type messages which really pisses me off!!

Unfortunately it means because the ratio is higher for men you do have to do the looking and be ready for a lot of messages.

So you either keep looking, take the rough with the smooth that is fab or give up!!!?

You have had three meets within the space of three weeks. It would be extremely rare for a man to do that. Thus you do have it easier than men.

Ah well the question was about ‘power’ not whether it was easier or not... i would agree it is easier for a woman, depending on what she is looking for..but I don’t agree ‘we’ the women have the power!! At least I personally don’t think I have the power!! "

And now I have that song by Snap going through my brain!!

The simple answer to the original post however is no-one has the power (unless it's in a D/s way and it's been given but that's different!!) - we each as individuals hold our own "power" and it's up to us how we use it and how we express our own preferences.

As many have said, yes the good ladies of Fab may have more to choose from but that doesn't mean they have more power at all.

On balance I actually think if you're a decent and genuine guy who "gets" the site, the playing field is pretty level.

To give an example (and I know this is me working on the assumption I am a decent and genuine guy!!) I may not get many unsolicited messages from ladies but those I do get I can say 99% of them are of a decent quality - whereas ladies can and do get a far greater number of messages but 99% of them are not worth their time - so on balance it's actually about the same for both men and women.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Post menopausal women should get paid more when they can be effective all month. "

ha ha love this idea

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Post menopausal women should get paid more when they can be effective all month.

Do they get redundancy if their libido falls off a cliff?"

Mines gone up not fallen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post menopausal women should get paid more when they can be effective all month.

Do they get redundancy if their libido falls off a cliff?

Mines gone up not fallen "

That’s good news

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

I mostly admire the ones who have their snatch on show"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

I mostly admire the ones who have their snatch on show

"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

After some humble pie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Traditionally it is men who typically engage conversation. Online sex site. is what it is.

Huge amount of competition. Alot of women likely deal with stupid messages

All the more reason to make your message stand out.

Helps if you have silky voice too."

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

If only men with power could remain humble eh?

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others "

You're right of course. However, there are frequent threads/comments posted along the lines of "Why are women/couples so picky? Why won't they shag anything [meaning them]? Don't they realise this is a sex site [as if exercising choice and having standards is a bad thing]?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be fussy and turn people down also.

Anyone has the power to request what they'd like and to accept or deny those offers from others

You're right of course. However, there are frequent threads/comments posted along the lines of "Why are women/couples so picky? Why won't they shag anything [meaning them]? Don't they realise this is a sex site [as if exercising choice and having standards is a bad thing]?""

Exactly this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree to an extent. The men on here who have substance and appeal, tends to even the playing field, when it comes to meet potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In that case, I want 10 naked, hot, under 30 bi men,scrubbed and ready to meet my every sexual need, in a swanky hotel in Central London on Sunday.

God I feel so powerful!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble.

If only men with power could remain humble eh?"

Those braggarts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In that case, I want 10 naked, hot, under 30 bi men,scrubbed and ready to meet my every sexual need, in a swanky hotel in Central London on Sunday.

God I feel so powerful!!!"

That's such a blatant abuse of your power! Disgraceful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In that case, I want 10 naked, hot, under 30 bi men,scrubbed and ready to meet my every sexual need, in a swanky hotel in Central London on Sunday.

God I feel so powerful!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In that case, I want 10 naked, hot, under 30 bi men,scrubbed and ready to meet my every sexual need, in a swanky hotel in Central London on Sunday.

God I feel so powerful!!!"
Which Hotel am I reporting to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuckin split dicks with power, dangerous.

Especially when we're due on.

Is that your excuse?

Nah, I'm a hitman in disguise, just when I'm due on I'll take out whoever I want for no reason.

Reality : gets angry, hungry and frustrated. Replies to messages I wouldn't normally open, in an attempt to vent some frustration and let off some "you're a prick" steam.

Cry because I've eaten all the food. Cry because I got a headache. Cry because I'm fat and have no self control.

Wake up the next morning to cramps. Realise it was all auntie flows fault and all is well with the world again "

'Mon up to Glasgow chick and I'll cheer you up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women have so much power on here, I admire the ones who remain humble. "

Not sure what you mean by have so much power.

As with anything we usually hand power over to others. Men may have less choice and often less patient so may get more easily annoyed as many of their expectations are not met.

I don't see the women here have more power but rather potentially more choice but that may not be the case either with many rather waiting to meet the right ones rather than any 'ones'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well thats a load of bollox for starters"

Haha I have to agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I don't see the women here have more power but rather potentially more choice but that may not be the case either with many rather waiting to meet the right ones rather than any 'ones'."

Spot on IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I don't see the women here have more power but rather potentially more choice but that may not be the case either with many rather waiting to meet the right ones rather than any 'ones'.

Spot on IMO"

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