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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

1 of my recipients has had a strong positive

It's still arley days atm and wear not out the red zone yet but.........YAY WOOOPEEY

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yay

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Congratulations, I'll get the knitting needles out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a fascinating bloke, Seeside, congratulations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations hope everything goes smoothly

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Thanks everyone.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations, I'll get the knitting needles out xx"

Lol you don't no wot culler to use yet

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations hope everything goes smoothly

Thanks.

And so am i. (fingers crossed)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'One of my recipients'

Makes you sound promiscuous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spiffing

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"'One of my recipients'

Makes you sound promiscuous

We'll I am helping 2 couples.

All (AI) ill add

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"'One of my recipients'

Makes you sound promiscuous

We'll I am helping 2 couples.

All (AI) ill add

Just in case sum don't no wot this meens.

It's Artificial insemination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations, I hope all goes well x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'One of my recipients'

Makes you sound promiscuous

We'll I am helping 2 couples.

All (AI) ill add

That's really selfless of you Seeside, well done x

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations, I hope all goes well x

Thanks

I'm hoping it to

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"'One of my recipients'

Makes you sound promiscuous

We'll I am helping 2 couples.

All (AI) ill add

That's really selfless of you Seeside, well done x"

Thanks

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Congratulations and hope it all goes well your such a nice chap x

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Congratulations _eeside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Congratulations, and good on you for helping out those couples.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations and hope it all goes well your such a nice chap x"

Thanks

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations _eeside

Thanks

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations, and good on you for helping out those couples. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congratulations, I'll get the knitting needles out xx

Lol you don't no wot culler to use yet

Pink knitting needles are best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

That's a lovely way of doing it and for the child to grow up knowing that he /she is very much wanted. Hope everything progresses well

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"1 of my recipients has had a strong positive

It's still arley days atm and wear not out the red zone yet but.........YAY WOOOPEEY

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M

Brilliant news for you and the lucky parents to be.

I hope all goes well!!!!

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Congratulations baby maker. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

Just be careful if you're going down this unofficial route, you would technically through DNA be the child's father which would enable you to be on the birth certificate and be stung for maintenance. They could move away and not want the sperm donar to have anything to do with the child and may want to raise it themselves as parents.

Don't know who has been taken advantage of most in this situation, the couple who are so desperate for a child they'll take a random strangers spunk in a cup, or you being so desperate to be a Father that you agree to this. Was proper medical screening done before this, do the couple know that the conditions you have with dyslexia and Aspergers are hereditary?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. "

Hang on. You’ve asked a question and then leapt to conclusion without awaiting answers. That’s not commendable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. "

Fgs! Who pissed in your chips?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'll join ranks.

Yay congratulations you're going to be a Fath... nope sorry can't do it.

My kids father is a sperm donar that's all he was good for. Being a Father is so much more than donating sperm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'll join ranks.

Yay congratulations you're going to be a Fath... nope sorry can't do it.

My kids father is a sperm donar that's all he was good for. Being a Father is so much more than donating sperm. "

Its not about that, or you.

I get that your judgement is clouded by your own experience though.

It might be private, but that doesn't mean it hasn't been done through a clinic. You didn't wait to hear any answers though, just ranted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good news x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever see a tiny human with a Hawaiian shirt and Magnum ‘tache, I’ll know it’s yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'll join ranks.

Yay congratulations you're going to be a Fath... nope sorry can't do it.

My kids father is a sperm donar that's all he was good for. Being a Father is so much more than donating sperm.

Its not about that, or you.

I get that your judgement is clouded by your own experience though.

It might be private, but that doesn't mean it hasn't been done through a clinic. You didn't wait to hear any answers though, just ranted."

You think it's been done through a clinic or by now do you think that _eeside is quite direct in what he says and no a NHS private arrangement is just that, an arrangement between just him and the couple.

Seeside correct me if I'm wrong, have you done this through a clinic?

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. ."

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I so so hope this go's the way you plan. Congratulations my friend. Being a dad at least to me is the most important rewording and at times frustrating thing I've ever done and by fuck it's been hard work but I'd not change a single thing my kids are my world. My son's my best friend and my daughter just continues to make me more and more proud....

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congratulations, I'll get the knitting needles out xx

Lol you don't no wot culler to use yet

Pink knitting needles are best.

Lol

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

That's a lovely way of doing it and for the child to grow up knowing that he /she is very much wanted. Hope everything progresses well

Thanks

I hope so to

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"If I ever see a tiny human with a Hawaiian shirt and Magnum ‘tache, I’ll know it’s yours!

Lol

If its a boy he will have a Hawaiian shirt

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

A BIG THANK YOU

To all Hoo have posted positive posts

I realey hope it go's well to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on"

Because you've stated many times you have hardly any family or friends to really sit you down and have a good talk with you.

With any decision in life there are pros and cons and you must consider the cons just as much as the positives.

This isn't about you refusing to take off your shirt, this is a potential human being.

You've put it on an open forum for people to discuss, whenever I post something and people comment I don't just ignore the stuff that isn't what I want to hear as sometimes and more often than not, the stuff you don't want to hear is the most important part.

You're refusal to say if it's been done correctly through a clinic can only be assumed that you haven't.

I hope it works out for you I do, but there's nothing wrong in me telling you to be careful and make sure you know everything that this involves cos this is a child not a moustache or a Hawaiian shirt.

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh my. Having watched your posts for a while i have a lot of respect for the general way you deal with any issues you have _eeside..

That being said without knowing the complete ins and outs of this arrangement(no pun intended) it's impossible to condone it.

I hope for your own sake you have taken all legal precautions to protect yourself and the child in every eventuality in the childs best interests?

With all due respect until you have experienced being a father you can't comprehend the lengths you would go to to protect your own child, so for instance if you strongly disagree with something that is happening with the little one as it's biological father do you have any "legal" say?

I don't mean to sound negative here but when it comes to protecting little people parents loose all sense of moral obligations towards other adults..i would without a moments pause throw any adult under a bus to protect my two boys as would most parents...just be aware please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a nice thing to do, ignore those who's desire to piss on your chips is strong,they wake up sucking lemons most days..So many men don't play a role in their childs upbringing and fuck off as soon as their woman is pregnant.You on the other hand are helping a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

Because you've stated many times you have hardly any family or friends to really sit you down and have a good talk with you.

With any decision in life there are pros and cons and you must consider the cons just as much as the positives.

This isn't about you refusing to take off your shirt, this is a potential human being.

You're refusal to say if it's been done correctly through a clinic can only be assumed that you haven't.

Although I’m happy you’re getting what you want. There is nothing wrong with someone telling you to be careful and just because she asked you a few questions which you don’t like, doesn’t make it negative.

A lot of people will just say congratulations and move on, but at least somebody has taken the time to point out potential risks and problems down the line. They’re the kind of people you should listen to when making a big choice like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers crossed for you and the couple _eeside xx

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Oh my. Having watched your posts for a while i have a lot of respect for the general way you deal with any issues you have _eeside..

That being said without knowing the complete ins and outs of this arrangement(no pun intended) it's impossible to condone it.

I hope for your own sake you have taken all legal precautions to protect yourself and the child in every eventuality in the childs best interests?

But that's the thing i am awear of the ins and outs of the agreement.

I met the couple face to face and we all had a long chat befor anything started.

It is private so no NHS or clinics ect but that don't meen no one don't put safely 1st.

Thay are married so both thar names will be on the birth certificate so teknikley I'm not a parent. And as a donor im exzempt from chiled surport. but as its private not NHS this meens that i can still see the child and be in its life

Help out ect...

Everyone has Thar own up to date tests witch thay shear and all medical problems are also talked about. So thay no about all my medical conditions as i do thars. And thay wos Verry happy to continue As wos i.

And the welfer of the child is at top priority.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

Because you've stated many times you have hardly any family or friends to really sit you down and have a good talk with you.

With any decision in life there are pros and cons and you must consider the cons just as much as the positives.

This isn't about you refusing to take off your shirt, this is a potential human being.

You're refusal to say if it's been done correctly through a clinic can only be assumed that you haven't.

I get wot your saying and i have considered all possible risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is your life Seeside. Sometimes it may be hard sometimes it may be good.

I don't know how this will work out for you but I wish you peace and happiness and the strength to live your future in the way that suits you.

If others disagree with your choices simply remind them they have their own lives to live and remember those who do not approve of or question your choices have their reasons their opinions but only you knows what's right for you.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"This is your life Seeside. Sometimes it may be hard sometimes it may be good.

I don't know how this will work out for you but I wish you peace and happiness and the strength to live your future in the way that suits you.

Thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so couple more questions that I assume you would have discussed in your long chat.

Who would they say you are to the child so as not to provide confusion?

Do you have a say in any cultural or religious beliefs?

Would you be available throughout the child's life should any medical decisions need to be made?

Will you be allowed to buy things for the child and be there for birthdays and Xmas?

Do you have any say in where the child lives, what if they wanted to live abroad?

What if they changed their mind and didn't want you involved, how would you legally have a right to see the child?

What if they turned out to be bastards and think hang on this guy is the dad through DNA lets get some maintenance from him which without having any official guidance or protection, you would be liable for it.

This is a major thing and there are probably 100's more things that need to be discussed.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys. "

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I have to agree with others on this thread, you're a great sounding guy but a verbal private agreement is worth absolutely nothing. If you don't have legal papers they can, at any point, force a DNA test and try to get money from you. I appreciate and commend you helping couples out that cannot get pregnant but the proper protocols and safety nets used through the proper channels are there for a reason. It's to protect both donor and couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who was a surrogate twice for the same couple from Italy.She got 25k first time 35k second.H we reason was mostly financial Which is cool if you can do it.

I suppose what your doing is better than some random spern donor.They know what you look like and who you are and any family medical issues.It makes more sense than a random.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

Because you've stated many times you have hardly any family or friends to really sit you down and have a good talk with you.

With any decision in life there are pros and cons and you must consider the cons just as much as the positives.

This isn't about you refusing to take off your shirt, this is a potential human being.

You're refusal to say if it's been done correctly through a clinic can only be assumed that you haven't.

I agree,I hope things work out how you want and everyone involved is happy,but it sounds an absolute minefield with so many questions.

I presume everything has been fully looked into and the legal side has been understood. Congratulations.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why would you not be on the birth certificate,surely you can't put another person on it if they didn't actually make the child.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect. "

I actually get your trepidation and concerns for future events but I’m guessing all that concerns the Op is the here and now . There’s nothing wrong with taking a situation like this one day at a time . There are or will be four people involved in this which means there will be lots of anomalies and changes to the plan . But it sounds to me that he is kicking this off on a positive note and that’s all you can do in such a unusual situation . Good luck fella I think it’s a good thing you’ve done for two other people

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Why would you not be on the birth certificate,surely you can't put another person on it if they didn't actually make the child."

Because he is not married to the woman , he has no claim to be on the birth certificate. The mother has the right to name who she likes on that certificate. If he had a parental responsibility order then he would have a right but he can’t get one of those until the baby is born . It’s complicated and a minefield .

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why would you not be on the birth certificate,surely you can't put another person on it if they didn't actually make the child.

Gosh I didn't know that.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Why would you not be on the birth certificate,surely you can't put another person on it if they didn't actually make the child.

Gosh I didn't know that. "

Yes I think men have more rights than they used to . I was an unmarried Father and although with the Mother I was shocked to find that I had no legal right to be on the birth certificate . Hence why I applied for parental responsibility . This allows you the same rights as the Mother . Ie ,, she can’t just take the child out of the country or even worse have the child adopted . I’d hazard a guess OP does not want a parental responsibility order as in reality the woman could actually come back on him for maintenance . All this is a minefield . I’m not sure how I would feel knowing I had a child running about and I had little or no input

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

Were the couples married or in a civil partnership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seaside 2 - Soon Come

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

Were the couples married or in a civil partnership? "

One civil partnership getting married soon other married

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

Were the couples married or in a civil partnership?

One civil partnership getting married soon other married "

You're fine then. In terms of any future financial responsibility. If they had not been married or in a civil partnership, you would have been the legal father and any written agreement to the contrary would have been legally worthless.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

Were the couples married or in a civil partnership?

One civil partnership getting married soon other married

Yes exactly hence why i made sure they were both married or civil partnership first i never would of done it if single.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

OMG A Virgin Dad..

Early days for Congrats tho. Will you be involved with the child?

Hope you have some sort of contract in place just in case the couples split and they come after you for maintenance, one of the reasons I have discouraged my son from going this route. He says he has Lesbian friends queuing up for his sperm.

I hope all goes well Seeside its a huge responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it goes well for you, Seeside.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

You're applauding bad behaviour.

If you got nothing good or nice to say then don't bother, that equates to him saying I'm sticking my fingers in my ears and not listening to anyone that doesn't agree with what I'm doing.

This place blows my mind sometimes.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That’s what the news was!!! Congratulations

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Seaside 2 - Soon Come

No need for that. We all know _eeside is dyslexic. Uncalled for.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Just keep us posted _eeside xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seaside 2 - Soon Come

No need for that. We all know _eeside is dyslexic. Uncalled for. "

No need for what? Let’s not jump to conclusions. It was my way of saying congratulations _eeside

Some people

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Seaside 2 - Soon Come

No need for that. We all know _eeside is dyslexic. Uncalled for. "

I took that as he means his child is coming soon,like a follow up movie.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That's a nice thing to do, ignore those who's desire to piss on your chips is strong,they wake up sucking lemons most days..So many men don't play a role in their childs upbringing and fuck off as soon as their woman is pregnant.You on the other hand are helping a couple.

well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well put"

When's the next social you're going to cos I really want to meet you in person. You seem like someone I'd have a good chat with

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

well put

When's the next social you're going to cos I really want to meet you in person. You seem like someone I'd have a good chat with

I don't go to them, always way too far unfortunately

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Seaside 2 - Soon Come

No need for that. We all know _eeside is dyslexic. Uncalled for.

I took that as he means his child is coming soon,like a follow up movie. "

Ahh

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's great that you've been willing to help a couple have a child.

Some of the comments you see as negative are actually good points but I trust you've had the proper support to protect yourself now and in the future.

A child is for life!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Seaside 2 - Soon Come

No need for that. We all know _eeside is dyslexic. Uncalled for.

I took that as he means his child is coming soon,like a follow up movie.

Ahh

Where did you get he was calling his spelling from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well put

When's the next social you're going to cos I really want to meet you in person. You seem like someone I'd have a good chat with

I don't go to them, always way too far unfortunately

I mean this with respect, I say lots of crazy stupid shit that you could dig me out on, don't use this _eeside thing as a way to show your distaste towards me.

Encouraging and agreeing all the time is more harmful than good. That goes for everyone. Maybe I think too much or maybe I just actually care too much but knowing that this forum is the place where he interacts with people the most and doesn't have much family or many close friends to pull him up on anything, it's kind of our duty to offer alternative ways of thinking and offer help or advice and make sure all options and possibilities have been discussed and considered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you all the best Seeside and I’m happy to see you happy. I would also say that some of the so called “negative” comments might give you useful legal information. Which might come handy at some point although I hope you never need it. That being said that’s a fucking great news! You should definitely smash one for two

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. "

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I wish you all the best Seeside and I’m happy to see you happy. I would also say that some of the so called “negative” comments might give you useful legal information. Which might come handy at some point although I hope you never need it. That being said that’s a fucking great news! You should definitely smash one for two

Hopefully he's had good legal advice already and everything goes as planned.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

How do you know for definite that's it's your sperm that conceived the baby _eeside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully he's had good legal advice already and everything goes as planned.

But he HAS NOT that is my whole point. No NHS involvement no clinic, no official guidance from anywhere. Just him and two desperate people that want a baby getting together for a chat and then having his spunk in a cup.

But fuck it, it ain't my problem, what fascinates me is the attitudes and thought processes of everyone else I share this forum with.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?"

Not if he doesn't produce sperm.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?"

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on"

So i take it you've been pulled on your shit now?

Bit late to not answer questions....is this because every word is a lie?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Whilst this is a selfless thing to do, I have concerns about further down the line.

What happens when things go wrong?

The relationship breaks down etc?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hopefully he's had good legal advice already and everything goes as planned.

But fuck it, it ain't my problem, what fascinates me is the attitudes and thought processes of everyone else I share this forum with. "

Not everyone , I’m totally with you on this one .

It’s beyond a joke sometimes on here

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Not if he doesn't produce sperm. "

Is this the case _eeside? or are you still going quiet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. .

Y must you BOO BOO everything...

I'm not going to arnsar your follow up questions as I'm shor your just going to try and complain.

At lest i want kids and the child will no me.

Witch is mor than sum can say.

Now I'm ending this conversation.

If you got nuthing good or nice to post pleas don't bother posting. As i won't be responding to them from now on

So i take it you've been pulled on your shit now?

Bit late to not answer questions....is this because every word is a lie?"

I actually believe this to be true and there's asking questions that are valid and appropriate and then there's being nasty. He needs to be told stuff but not abused.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Not if he doesn't produce sperm.

Is this the case _eeside? or are you still going quiet..."

He's not online to respond.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Congrats ive helped two couples in past same way both boys.

That's excellent, maybe you could share your experience so he knows what to expect.

Agreed i was very careful in making sure couples were decent both lesbian couples as well and do have legal papers in place in case of comeback but i cant see it

Were the couples married or in a civil partnership?

One civil partnership getting married soon other married

Yes exactly hence why i made sure they were both married or civil partnership first i never would of done it if single."

And this is wot i did to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations! Although I do read this with some concern as others have stated. You really do need to get things put in writing, verbal agreements are all well and good but without anything physical (other than the child of course) I do worry about you.

I am interested to know how you met this couple etc? How long you had been in contact with them etc before the deed happened etc, I do wish you all the happiness in the world (and not trying to ‘piss on your chips’ lol) but after seeing some of your posts I do worth about it, did you seek advice beforehand from anyone else in this position or medical or indeed professional, legal advice?

Like I say, I do wish you all the best and I hope it all goes well.

Geeky x

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Not if he doesn't produce sperm.

Is this the case _eeside? or are you still going quiet...

He's not online to respond. "

He is...maybe you shouldnt answer for others ms woods...comes off as arrogant...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn’t have posted such a topic on the forums Seeside.

You’re opening yourself up to a lot of criticism.

Sorry but I think this could all end up negative for you and will no doubt confuse the child.

I can also see the married couple causing you issues as in not letting you see the child or if they split they will force a paternity test and claim maintenance from you.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Not if he doesn't produce sperm.

Is this the case _eeside? or are you still going quiet...

He's not online to respond.

He is...maybe you shouldnt answer for others ms woods...comes off as arrogant..."

Pot

Kettle

Black

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Not if he doesn't produce sperm.

Is this the case _eeside? or are you still going quiet...

He's not online to respond.

He is...maybe you shouldnt answer for others ms woods...comes off as arrogant..."

Not at all he's just told me he's working now, so can't respond on here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

Nice one. Nice one for derailing the thread and now all the comments are going to be about how inconsiderate you are blah blah blah, when it should be about drumming it in to _eesides head that he needs some legal and professional guidance on this not just a verbal contract.

Seeside can you just say that you're gonna seek some proper guidance on this please. "

Yes I agree. I think you need to safeguard yourself on this one Seeside..lovely as you are, You are vulnerable and I worry that you may, in the long run,be taken advantage of. You need to protect yourself from this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my son's can't have kids because of chemotherapy for testicular cancer, hooks brother has already volunteered to provide sperm in a private arrangement. So I am with Seeside on this, he's doing a kind thing for others. So if you don't like it leave him alone. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"1 of my recipients has had a strong positive

It's still arley days atm and wear not out the red zone yet but.........YAY WOOOPEEY

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3GwjfUFyY6M

Just reposting as the threads been somewhat derailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my son's can't have kids because of chemotherapy for testicular cancer, hooks brother has already volunteered to provide sperm in a private arrangement. So I am with Seeside on this, he's doing a kind thing for others. So if you don't like it leave him alone. X"

Whatever we all say publicly on this thread, is only our public opinion, creating any child brings constant worry to your life, and I’m sure Seeside is aware of all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol the rage off everyone....

Why are you trying to give this idiot legal advice? Too late now

the lady is concieving?

Im gonna assume all the haters just live on chippies & they are offended they smell too..."

Why don't you just shut up x

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Whatever we all say publicly on this thread, is only our public opinion, creating any child brings constant worry to your life, and I’m sure Seeside is aware of all that.

this is the only post i agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever we all say publicly on this thread, is only our public opinion, creating any child brings constant worry to your life, and I’m sure Seeside is aware of all that.

this is the only post i agree with"

Everyone!!!! I’m not affiliated with this guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever we all say publicly on this thread, is only our public opinion, creating any child brings constant worry to your life, and I’m sure Seeside is aware of all that.

this is the only post i agree with

Everyone!!!! I’m not affiliated with this guy.

His Dad said the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite amazing when you google it.

theres even AI kits for sale on line , amazing.

opened my eyes .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It adds fuel to the burn & Its not like the forums are a bastion of truth & acceptance...

If i find it dodgy some guys providing a child for a married couple instead of using a sperm bank & still gets to see the child yet not actually being the father..fairytales to me

damn those wombs won't batter themselves _eeside...sorry fish i meant to say..

call me a twat.... because i don't respect forumites..

Bless. Did your mummy neglect you as a child? Have you come here to take out some of that anguish?

Poor love.

yes...i believe you used to mind me with her...putting ciggarettes out in my anus & selling me on ebay.."

If only I had sent you to school to for spelling and grammar lessons.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"It adds fuel to the burn & Its not like the forums are a bastion of truth & acceptance...

If i find it dodgy some guys providing a child for a married couple instead of using a sperm bank & still gets to see the child yet not actually being the father..fairytales to me

damn those wombs won't batter themselves _eeside...sorry fish i meant to say..

call me a twat.... because i don't respect forumites..

Bless. Did your mummy neglect you as a child? Have you come here to take out some of that anguish?

Poor love.

yes...i believe you used to mind me with her...putting ciggarettes out in my anus & selling me on ebay..

If only I had sent you to school to for spelling and grammar lessons."

"sent you to school to for spelling and grammar lessons"

great grammer....why 'to for'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure the OP is quite capable of making his own decisions in life .He got his father without being caged by the dogma of others.

You got one life bro and it's your life not theirs.If it's a mistake then it's your mistake if it's a beautiful thing then it your beautiful thing . Follow your heart.

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

" I'm sure the OP is quite capable of making his own decisions in life .He got his father without being caged by the dogma of others.

You got one life bro and it's your life not theirs.If it's a mistake then it's your mistake if it's a beautiful thing then it your beautiful thing . Follow your heart.

Northface all the way pmsl

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Seeside, good luck and hopefully you will take some of the advice on here and make sure you have all the conditions of this agreement in writing.

I don't think Seeside is stupid he is just dyslexic and has Aspergers, doesn't mean he can't make important decisions, albeit with the help of qualified people, as we all do, at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is the couple _eeside? Are they from fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seeside, good luck and hopefully you will take some of the advice on here and make sure you have all the conditions of this agreement in writing.

I don't think Seeside is stupid he is just dyslexic and has Aspergers, doesn't mean he can't make important decisions, albeit with the help of qualified people, as we all do, at times.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"It adds fuel to the burn & Its not like the forums are a bastion of truth & acceptance...

If i find it dodgy some guys providing a child for a married couple instead of using a sperm bank & still gets to see the child yet not actually being the father..fairytales to me

damn those wombs won't batter themselves _eeside...sorry fish i meant to say..

call me a twat.... because i don't respect forumites..

Bless. Did your mummy neglect you as a child? Have you come here to take out some of that anguish?

Poor love.

yes...i believe you used to mind me with her...putting ciggarettes out in my anus & selling me on ebay..

If only I had sent you to school for spelling and grammar lessons.

"sent you to school to for spelling and grammar lessons"

great grammer....why 'to for'"

Because my phone wanted to. That is why

Once again

Grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know for definite that's it's your sperm that conceived the baby _eeside?"

He would have had to cum in a cup there and then, in the bathroom or wherever and they would have had to injected it pretty soon after, spermicide in a pot does not have much sperm life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I'm sure the OP is quite capable of making his own decisions in life .He got his father without being caged by the dogma of others.

You got one life bro and it's your life not theirs.If it's a mistake then it's your mistake if it's a beautiful thing then it your beautiful thing . Follow your heart.

Northface all the way pmsl

I would be so proud son.. somebody brought you to this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?"

Maybe he fired blanks!!!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Mini magnum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?

Maybe he fired blanks!!!"

And see side said get my gun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wouldn't want a kid with someone is immature and judgemental as you, swings and roundabouts and before calling someone out for being on a swingers site incase you haven't noticed as are you so what makes you a better calibre of person?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mini magnum!"

Oh, she's good!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Mini magnum!

Oh, she's good!"

Very quick lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

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over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?"

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I hope it all goes well for you Seeside, unlike my brother in law who was duped by a lesbian and now pays for a child he doesn't see.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure? "

We can't, but he's had enough advice on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure? "

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See side you’re a lovely chap, we hope it works out ok for you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I hope it all goes well for you Seeside, unlike my brother in law who was duped by a lesbian and now pays for a child he doesn't see."

Them lesbians eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 of my recipients has had a strong positive ......

1 of? How many are you trying to impregnate?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use. "

Quite right, they are all adults and there have been some good points on here for Seeside to consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 of my recipients has had a strong positive ......

1 of? How many are you trying to impregnate?

There was a television programme about people who do this on regular basis.. fascinating

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"1 of my recipients has had a strong positive ......

1 of? How many are you trying to impregnate?

2 couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use.

Quite right, they are all adults and there have been some good points on here for Seeside to consider

But he's not going to consider any of them, especially when so many people kiss his cheek to finger his arse. He won't listen, I know this now.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use.

Quite right, they are all adults and there have been some good points on here for Seeside to consider

But he's not going to consider any of them, especially when so many people kiss his cheek to finger his arse. He won't listen, I know this now. "

Well there's not much more people can do then, it's his choice whether he takes advice or not

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Well I hope it all goes well for you Seeside, but if this has not been organised through a clinic then like others I would urge you to seek advice - maybe Citizens Advice can find you the right help if you cannot afford lawyers fees etc? Not everyone else is as nice as you are, and situations change, so you should be forewarned and hopefully protected somehow. Good luck!

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Being a sperm donor is not being a dad. Giving your spunk in a cup to random people off the Internet doesn’t strike me as a great idea.

Why are so many people saying congratulations for spunking in a cup? Madness.

Why would a couple even want the sperm donor involved In the kids life? You’ve no legal legs to stand on. You could never see the kid and get stung for maintenance payments the next 18 years.

Doesn’t there need to be tests for hereditary conditions and legal paperwork drawn up?

One step at a time. If you want to be a father then first step is to find a girl. Fall in love. Marry her (or not). Then have a baby together.

Find out your legal rights. Have a think too because bringing humans into the world isn’t a joke.

Say they didn’t want the baby when it’s born. Could you support and bring up a kid on your own?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use.

Quite right, they are all adults and there have been some good points on here for Seeside to consider

But he's not going to consider any of them, especially when so many people kiss his cheek to finger his arse. He won't listen, I know this now.

Well there's not much more people can do then, it's his choice whether he takes advice or not

We all have choices in life and should respect other people's choices just as we would like them to respect ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought of a name _eeside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still havnt got a clue what this thread is about,but i do know from this and other seaside threads is that he could post any old thing and loads of you would be like"awwwww seaside thats lovely".....pathetic,come down from his ass

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I find this no different to those weirdos who ask for "breeding".

personally i think this whole thread is a troll...

Not to put anyone down...but i wouldnt want a kid with a guy who smells of fish & chips and can barely spell...ooh and who also met said couple on a swingers site...

I wasn't aware he met them on a swingers site, even if he did, what's the problem with that?

No problem where he met them at all, be they fellow swingers or not as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure they have everything in place and wish them all the best of luck.

How can you be sure?

None of us can, only they know if they have or not as the case may be. They are all adults so I would hope they have. Maybe sure was the wrong word to use.

Quite right, they are all adults and there have been some good points on here for Seeside to consider

But he's not going to consider any of them, especially when so many people kiss his cheek to finger his arse. He won't listen, I know this now.

Well there's not much more people can do then, it's his choice whether he takes advice or not

We all have choices in life and should respect other people's choices just as we would like them to respect ours. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still havnt got a clue what this thread is about,but i do know from this and other seaside threads is that he could post any old thing and loads of you would be like"awwwww seaside thats lovely".....pathetic,come down from his ass"

Do you have an alternative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn’t there need to be tests for hereditary conditions and legal paperwork drawn up?2....not if its done privately...which is why there could be potential problems in future. I hope it all goes well, but defintiely try and see a legal advisor, because the point about doing it all under the radar, means that there is none of the automatic protection there would be if it was done properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you thought of a name _eeside? "

How about Judy if it's a girl you always see her at the see side.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Have you thought of a name _eeside?

How about Judy if it's a girl you always see her at the see side.

And for a boy?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

I know what it means I was asking what the process was.

So you've got an agreement with the couple that you'll be involved with the child's upbringing providing both financial and emotional support for the child?

This is another example of the forum commending things that shouldn't be commended. "

You know I was thinking the same thing. There have been cases where things have gone tits up for the very reason you've stated.

Sadly no one wants to appear to be a party pooper and rain on somebodies parade but I don't think these types of "agreements" are workable in the long run.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good luck with everything,hopefully it turns out as you all wish. Bringing life into this world is a beautiful thing.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Good luck with everything,hopefully it turns out as you all wish. Bringing life into this world is a beautiful thing."

And helping others to do that is very kind.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

That's seems a more friendlier way of doing it, than the sonar and child never knowing.

What a bloody nice bloke you are mate!

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

And I was only revisiting series 3 of The Bridge last night too!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And I was only revisiting series 3 of The Bridge last night too! "

Good series,hopefully not the same outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I was only revisiting series 3 of The Bridge last night too!

Good series,hopefully not the same outcome."

Season 4 starts on Friday, I can’t wait!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And I was only revisiting series 3 of The Bridge last night too!

Good series,hopefully not the same outcome.

Season 4 starts on Friday, I can’t wait!"

Does it oh my God thanks for that. I thought I'd have to wait yonks.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's the process for A.I then, how much involvement is the donar to have?

Well AI meens Artificial insemination.

So in short a pot and a syringe.

As for involvement.

Cos its private not NHS its down to personal agreement with me and the couple. Witch wos made before anything started to happen.

So in short i still get to see the child

This confuses me? Why would the couple need you for Artificial insemination?Wouldnt the husband of sufficed?"

Or Mabey both of the couple are female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your welcome, BBC2 at 9pm.

Started in the New Year in Sweden, had to ask people not to give anything away.

Apparently it is totes amazeballs.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Thank you.

Sumone understands

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Seeside, good luck and hopefully you will take some of the advice on here and make sure you have all the conditions of this agreement in writing.

I don't think Seeside is stupid he is just dyslexic and has Aspergers, doesn't mean he can't make important decisions, albeit with the help of qualified people, as we all do, at times.

Thanks

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"OMG A Virgin Dad..

Ya i no.

Thay shoodount go side by side but i am now both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this whole thread, I just want to say, Seeside, things may seem completely great now, but further down the line things could change, and you need to make sure to cover yourself. Just go and seek a bit of advice beforehand like from the Citizens Advice. People can have the best of intentions, but life gets in the way.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Seeside. Do watch ITV This Morning on catch up today on at 10.40. Very interesting talk on the Super sperm donor. May give you some useful advice and safe guards.

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