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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know other people have asked this, but what do I need to do with my profile to make it more attractive?

I know there's no pic (for my discretion) but have stated I can send one privately, it's been said I have no veris but how can I if I never get a response?

I've tried to keep my profile informative with out being too long winded and I try to make any messages I send in keeping with the recipient's wishes (no dick pics etc. )

Suggestions welcome

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I know other people have asked this, but what do I need to do with my profile to make it more attractive?

I know there's no pic (for my discretion) but have stated I can send one privately, it's been said I have no veris but how can I if I never get a response?

I've tried to keep my profile informative with out being too long winded and I try to make any messages I send in keeping with the recipient's wishes (no dick pics etc. )

Suggestions welcome"

Hi. You can put up some kind of pics without putting your face on. Not many people will bother to look at a profile with no pics. The Sydney University thing is a waste of text, so delete that. You need to say what you have to offer a potential meet and what you are also looking for, likes/dislikes. As you know, there are thousands of single guys on here and some have fantastic profiles and pics, so you have a lot of competition,but welcome and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Onions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know other people have asked this, but what do I need to do with my profile to make it more attractive?

I know there's no pic (for my discretion) but have stated I can send one privately, it's been said I have no veris but how can I if I never get a response?

I've tried to keep my profile informative with out being too long winded and I try to make any messages I send in keeping with the recipient's wishes (no dick pics etc. )

Suggestions welcome"

Made u look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you did "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thank you! "

Was that for me?

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

I agree that you should have a photo of some part of your body at least. There's nothing much in there that would interest me. Talking about your marriage makes you sound a bit vulnerable and that would put me off. Also don't like the piss taking banter bit. Doesn't sound pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, thank you for the advice

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Guilty as charged. Long-winded with the no dick-pic clause, just me.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Yes, thank you for the advice "

You're welcome. If you press 'reply+quote, we can see who you are replying to.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You've been here for a very short time so be patient. Read some of the other threads on profile advice.

If you're happy to go on camera you can get a cam verification to get that tick. Join in the forum - it's a relatively small crowd but a good way of getting to know people who might meet you for a social (or more) and can confirm you are real.

Welcome to Fab. It's only as good as you make it.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Guilty as charged. Long-winded with the no dick-pic clause, just me."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't see it as "talking about my marriage" just clarifying that I'm single and "piss taking banter" is just a way of laughing at yourself?

Anyway, duly noted , looks like it's a total re write then

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Didn't see it as "talking about my marriage" just clarifying that I'm single and "piss taking banter" is just a way of laughing at yourself?

Anyway, duly noted , looks like it's a total re write then "

Needs a bit of tweaking and some body pics at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've been here for a very short time so be patient. Read some of the other threads on profile advice.

If you're happy to go on camera you can get a cam verification to get that tick. Join in the forum - it's a relatively small crowd but a good way of getting to know people who might meet you for a social (or more) and can confirm you are real.

Welcome to Fab. It's only as good as you make it.

"

thank you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Didn't see it as "talking about my marriage" just clarifying that I'm single and "piss taking banter" is just a way of laughing at yourself?

Anyway, duly noted , looks like it's a total re write then

Needs a bit of tweaking and some body pics at least. "

duly tweaked and body pic posted (if that doesn't put them off I don't know what will )

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've seen a lot worse OP but it's very generic and no different from loads of other single guy profiles either - you need to try and make yourself stand out, inject some of your personality into it. I'd also say it reads very much about what you want as opposed to what you think you can offer.

The one pic is a good start, but there's a lot you can do with a timer on a phone camera and a little imagination - if you're struggling for ideas take a look around at other single guy profiles for inspiration but try and avoid the plethora of disembodied cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s rephrase a few things ?

(I am a 43 year old straight man recently single)

Delete it’s says by your name your age and it’s tells me your straight

and looking to re discover the fun and sexy times with a like minded woman or couple

Shorten rediscover means you lost something what says you won’t again ?

i have a face pic but for my discretion will share it privately with anyone who messages me or replies .

How about : Discresstion is of high importance to me but I’m happy to share a face pic once we chat.

I've always had an interest in swinging on some level so would like to get to know someone with an open mind to this.

Delete if you not interested why would you or others be here?

I'm of average build, kept in shape by working on site and with shaved head and nice blue eyes (I'm told!)

The first part is in you bio why not say “ your job keeps you in shape?

I have no real type I go for,but am partial to a nice pair of boobs and decent conversation (not necessarily in that order!)

So your happy to meet headless body as long as they have a good set of tits.

How about something like “ I’m attracted to a decent conversation first and and love ladies of all shapes and sizes” ?

Drop me a message if any of this sounds good to you

What sounds good ? The menu ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you hold your phone betrayed you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The way you hold your phone betrayed you. "
are you suggesting that the way it’s held (with a firm grip) and up to the face is redolent of a cock?

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

There is no perfect formula to a successful profile it's more about luck for single guys on here.

I'd suggest go to clubs and socials to meet people in person even just socially.

That way you will get a verification from people which would help and also people can meet you and judge you on your personality in person rather than on your profile alone.

Good luck bud

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Also if you can go in the chat rooms and if confident go on cam and chat with people. But that can be hard to talk in the chat rooms as well and can be quite clicky in there at times.

Also get involved in the forums and people will slowly check your profile and you may strike lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The way you hold your phone betrayed you. "

??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no perfect formula to a successful profile it's more about luck for single guys on here.

I'd suggest go to clubs and socials to meet people in person even just socially.

That way you will get a verification from people which would help and also people can meet you and judge you on your personality in person rather than on your profile alone.

Good luck bud"

cheers for the advice and thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s rephrase a few things ? "

Now they are all good ideas, sounds a lot better like that

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