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By *oungalpha20 OP   Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

A frequent asked question. Do woman actually message first? I know a few do but do some woman expect guys to message first to show their effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, they're either shy or have enough mail so they don't need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I messaged the man above first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady above messaged me first I believe, cause she thought Exeter/ Essex were the same place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been messaged first a few times

Not loads but it is a nice suprise when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The lady above messaged me first I believe, cause she thought Exeter/ Essex were the same place!"

Not quite, because I couldn’t see properly as I was tipsyroo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have on occasion

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yes they do if they find your profile appealing. They can be very pro active i've found

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

I have been lucky enough to receive messages first from a few of fabs fair maidens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a woman message me first yet so I can't say that they do from experience. But I am sure it does happen

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By *oungalpha20 OP   Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

I've had a couple first messages. Just seems a common question on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple message first. Was quite flattered and they were kind and pretty much made my day at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ...

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Some do. The overwhelming majority don’t

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We've messaged first a few times when someone's profile and pics have warranted it but we have more than enough willing hopefuls throwing messages our way that we don't have to.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Yep, they definitely do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve messaged guys first before.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I am sure that some single female profiles do message first but the trouble is that if a single female messages us we immediately get suspicious and that probably means that we miss the one genuine lady.

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