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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you like people to feel around you?

Do you want them to find you kind? Funny? Relaxed? Entertaining?

Do you make an effort to affect those around you day to day or do you just get on with your own thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make peolle laugh and smile and feel jolly comfortable

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like people to feel relaxed around me and I make an effort to do so as I know I can come over as being a bit blunt and aloof at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always surprised if anyone finds me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I'm just trying to stay out of everyone's way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

relaxed hopefully...

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar


"How would you like people to feel around you?

Do you want them to find you kind? Funny? Relaxed? Entertaining?

Do you make an effort to affect those around you day to day or do you just get on with your own thing?

"

It' all about communication,,Live..Laugh...Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read what the person in front of me needs me to be by talking and listening they normally need a good old fasioned laugh with a shameless common loon

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

with the jobs I do you have to have fun and a laugh

there is times where its serious and being blunt has to come into it for everyones safety

just built a few walls up over the week suggested something better to the lady advised it wouldnt take much to do either

yet makes it safer and great for the lady with watching child and doing the washing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want them to tremble and kneel before me, like Superman did before Zod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make a concerted effort to make people feel relaxed and happy to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people I'm with.

If I'm with a guy I'd like him to feel uncontrollably horny!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

That I'm nice/easy going.

But also that they have probably outstayed their welcome and they should be leaving soon.

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Depends. I'm a funny guy so I make people laugh when i make people laugh it kinda makes them relaxed breaks that barrier so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want people to feel that they can talk to me but they don't need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

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I've always been a little scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make people feel relaxed and at ease.

I do tend to go out of my way to make sure people are okay and I’d hope they find me friendly and warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed and entertained by me. I love to organise so love it when people around me are happy, especially if I'm hosting a event

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I want people to feel that they can talk to me but they don't need to. "

This, except "probably shouldn't".

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

I've always been a little scared. "

I've just seen the Freudian typo!

I won't make eye contact next time we meet. That should help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want people to feel that they can talk to me but they don't need to.

This, except "probably shouldn't". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

I've always been a little scared.

I've just seen the Freudian typo!

I won't make eye contact next time we meet. That should help. "

Does that mean I can't sit down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you like people to feel around you?

Do you want them to find you kind? Funny? Relaxed? Entertaining?

Do you make an effort to affect those around you day to day or do you just get on with your own thing?

"

Be themselves

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

I've always been a little scared.

I've just seen the Freudian typo!

I won't make eye contact next time we meet. That should help.

Does that mean I can't sit down? "

Cheeky!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I want people to feel that they can talk to me but they don't need to.

This, except "probably shouldn't". "

I think that comes through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the situation. Mostly I like them to feel at unease and not threatened by me. Sometimes I need them to take orders and trust that I know what I am doing. Sometimes I need them to be a little afraid (not scared but on their toes).

I've always been a little scared.

I've just seen the Freudian typo!

I won't make eye contact next time we meet. That should help.

Does that mean I can't sit down?

Cheeky!"

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I hope that I make people feel comfortable and able to open up (not necessarily in the Fab sense of the word!). I’d like to think I can strike up a decent rapport with people, and I think on occasion I can be quite funny.

I think I’m too open with people, to my detriment sometimes as I can be too trusting, say too much then end up being burnt. And it’s not a nice feeling.

At work I need people to trust me and be open, so that I can get a holistic view of their situation, but I also need them to be aware that I’m not there to be their chum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed and funny - people laugh but I have a sneaking suspicion it’s at, rather than with me

jeez, there’s the paranoia alarm bell again

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I would like people to feel like they shouldn't speak unless spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People usually make their own opinions around me. I always try to be nice, friendly and approachable though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you like people to feel around you?

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Themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people to just be themselves

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Relaxed and smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get on with my own thing.

If they feel relaxed, cool it means we can eventually fuck at the back of my renault.

If they don't. I think it is because they didn't like my renault. It has nothing to do with me at all.

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