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By *exycouple69696969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Our thoughts are...No thanks. Don't need the drama if it goes tits up. Don't need the lies and not being able to meet when we want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people hate us, some people like us, some don't care.

I have no problem with anyone's views on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. Some single guys are just as restricted.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not my cup of tea.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not for me, I am drana free. Ms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't care as long as they don't justify or disrespect their partner who has no right of reply. We don't knowingly meet married men alone but it's none of our business what other people do.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We wouldn't meet them ,buy I think a lot of men on here are secretly attached.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them. They're discreet and generally desperate for a fuck so win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet any attached/married guys on principle but a lot of single guys don’t want to meet. They are always out with their mates on Friday or Saturday nights.

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By *utdoorsensualmeetsCouple
over a year ago

Barr - South Ayrshire

we met a guy one night who swore to us he was not attached or married he was divorced. so we went to his house for fun.

got into the bedroom and started to have fun then there was a hammering on his front door.

he went to answer it and we quickly got dressed. his wife had turned up and started shouting on the doorstep into my face i was a slut, bitch and a whore. i have never been so humiliated in my life.

so anyone that thinks attached men are more discreet and fun. good luck as we will never put ourselves in that situation again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for a single guy i can sex up on the regular and maybe have it lead to more, romantically, so wouldn’t meet attached guys as not what i’m after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer them. They're discreet and generally desperate for a fuck so win win. "
your inbox is about to explode lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy socially and really liked him. He told me afterwards that he was attached and I can't say I wasn't a teeny bit tempted - briefly. I just kept thinking what it would be like to find out your partner was on a swinging site without your knowledge. My heart would shattered. I couldn't do that to another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every experience with an attached guy is different. As I’m sure every experience with an attached woman, single woman, single guy is...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I met a guy socially and really liked him. He told me afterwards that he was attached and I can't say I wasn't a teeny bit tempted - briefly. I just kept thinking what it would be like to find out your partner was on a swinging site without your knowledge. My heart would shattered. I couldn't do that to another person.

"

I often think this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"

I should imagine the same goes for married women. Plenty of those on here ‘without permission’ but they don’t draw attention to it to all and sundry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t meet any attached/married guys on principle but a lot of single guys don’t want to meet. They are always out with their mates on Friday or Saturday nights. "

Or with their "proper" girlfriend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married sorry

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

We only know what people choose to tell us.

I've met a widower whose wife was very much alive. A single man with a wife. A married man with no attachments. This last told women he was married to avoid them wanting more from him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not here to judge its up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there honest from the start then i don't have a problem with meeting an attached?married guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant be arsed with them...rarely want to meet anyone, and if i do, i want to actually like them..dont want to marry them, but 'like' would be good...and i find it hard to like someone when the first thing i know about them is that they lie all the time. really cant be arsed with the whining that seems to come with them either,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This IS predominantly a sex site and will attract people who are, believe it or not, looking for sex. The reasons are numerous, preferences even more so. And by all accounts, people lie on this site, not just about their marital status.

Presumably, if married men aren't of interest to you, that's understandable. No need for explanation and you certainly don't need to offer an opinion on his/her choice/right to be here.

A couple of things that may be worth mentioning that may dispel a few myths.

1. Married men don't have the luxury of a lot of free time so if a meet is arranged, the chances are he will attend. My profile clearly states that I am married. I believe women interested in me should know from the outset.

2. I met someone on here a year and a half ago. No drama or discussion of my marriage, just time spent together on a weekly basis, a few hours at a time. The only issue that did come up was that she developed feelings for me and it had to come to an end.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We give them a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a guy socially and really liked him. He told me afterwards that he was attached and I can't say I wasn't a teeny bit tempted - briefly. I just kept thinking what it would be like to find out your partner was on a swinging site without your knowledge. My heart would shattered. I couldn't do that to another person.

"

I kissed my friend's married sister on a night out once many years ago and I felt guilty about it afterwards because her husband (well, ex-husband now) is a really nice guy. It played on my mind for about a week.

I'd never do anything like that again, my conscience couldn't live with it.

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By *im and her 2017Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Have met a married man on a regular basis both together and wife alone ,no pressure and prob some of the best meets we’ve had and yes would do it again with the right man

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By *eeroybrownMan
over a year ago

aldershot

Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry) "

Lots of double standards apply when it comes to men and women, this is just one of them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Married guys suit me fine

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Odd that. I find the opposite.

Much less complicated and often more reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry) "

Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like someone else said on here, you can only go with what people tell you. I'm attached, I assume like a lot of people on here I am here to make a certain connection with someone and seeing what happens.

We're the sum of our individual experiences not reduced to generalisations.

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

I’m married, my wife has a friend with benefits and she has said that if I wanted to or opportunity arose that as long as there were no lies and deceit and it was just a physical relationship then I too can have a fwb , my issue is I have no idea where to start , it’s been a long time since I have had to meet someone , and the dating game has changed immensely from when I was single , yes I have a family yes I have a wife and yes I have the green light but I can’t see anything happening as I don’t know anyone who would be accepting of the two of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always said I wouldn't. But then I was persuaded otherwise. Not ideal but I'm just happy he told me and let me decide

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"

My thoughts are that there are plenty of married attached women on here too!

Whether people meet them or not is up to them!

I do appreciate people who are open about it on their profiles though! Helps people to make an informed decision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know anyone who would be accepting of the two of me "

This is a familiar thought to me. If we have all these thoughts bundling roaming around our heads, is it better to relieve them or fight them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people hate us, some people like us, some don't care.

I have no problem with anyone's views on the matter."

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Each to their own....but not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a married guy, as long as I don’t get any drama I don’t care

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Odd that. I find the opposite.

Much less complicated and often more reliable."

We find the opposite. They are wont to cancel at the last minute due to either their wife changing her plans, the wife getting suspicious or an attack of guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry)

Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted. "

I disagree. The threads seem to be pretty gender inclusive when it comes to playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry)

Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted.

I disagree. The threads seem to be pretty gender inclusive when it comes to playing away. "

I think the women get an easier ride on the Forum, no pun intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted.

I disagree. The threads seem to be pretty gender inclusive when it comes to playing away. "

Gender inclusive perhaps but married women are treated differently. The general consensus seems to be that married men are cheating scumbags if a reply I received was anything to go by.

People are entitled to their opinion of course but let's not forget that we are all here for the same reason presumably. That entitlement however, doesn't stretch to standing in judgement or offering an unwanted, misinformed lecture.

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By *rs AWoman
over a year ago

venus

i dont agree with married men or women playing away without the partner knowing and agreeing .. its not for us .. but each to their own

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

All cheats regardless of gender are a no from me. I've played with cheating men and women, been cheated on. It's all been icky so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"

Maybe they're just not as interested in you as you think they are

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Pain in the arse when they need to coordinate with family life, but wen they're available they are amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer to meet someone single, primarily because of what I'm looking for. I have been tempted by someone who was attached though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"

What about a married attached guy whos wife would likes to go out and play on her own too? There are a few of us couples about. Makes the childcare situation a little easier too

Jenny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m crazy because I assume everyone I meet is married or attached ....

I never ask these questions and if people choose to tell me that’s up to them...

I’m only looking for NSA relationship anyway so what you do in your private life is of no concern to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. Some single guys are just as restricted. "

And unreliable! Others aren't of course. You just have to find whatever works best for you. I couldn't care less if someone is attached or not.

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By *edgehogMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm attached. I have my reasons. I don't actually approve of playing away but like other things, a blanket opinion on something isn't always the best way to gain understanding on a subject. I never thought I'd cheat but I feel it's justifiable in my situation. I'm not doing it for the extra thrill.

I do, however, understand why people don't like the idea of people playing away. Despite me being on here in my situation, I'm not into lying.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m looking for a single guy i can sex up on the regular and maybe have it lead to more, romantically, so wouldn’t meet attached guys as not what i’m after.

"

Exactly the same for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the drama and unavailability that the cheaters bring.

It's not fun when they can only meet on a Tuesday afternoon

I stopped meeting couples because of drama too.

I'm not saying the singles are drama free or telling the truth all the time - but once you get to know someone it all comes out.

For a cheap thrills quick meet - I guess their marital status isn't an issue.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We've met married guys and women. In fact quite a lot of so called singles on here are married. If we meet solo we don't hide the fact we are married at least we know we aren't cheating we have a good chat about are meets after.we don't go to others houses unless meeting as a couple or party we did once but guys daughter popped around. He was divorced. We mainly play at club now so don't ask. What goes on at club stays at club. They could have very good reasons for needing a little bit of fun

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Can we merge this thread with the "unreliable single men" thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we merge this thread with the "unreliable single men" thread? "

perfect.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry)

Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted. "

And several of the men. Ever thought it might be your perception that is off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the drama and unavailability that the cheaters bring.

It's not fun when they can only meet on a Tuesday afternoon

I stopped meeting couples because of drama too.

I'm not saying the singles are drama free or telling the truth all the time - but once you get to know someone it all comes out.

For a cheap thrills quick meet - I guess their marital status isn't an issue.

"

There are general rules surround married people, this is true. The golden rule is that there is always an exception.

I returned to Fabs after 2 years. I found the ideal lover and our arrangement suited the both of us. No drama, no discussions regarding marital status. Just pure, unadulterated filthy fun for a fee hours at a time once a week.

It's been mentioned before that singles do have more time on their hands where availability is concerned. By extension, it also means that it is more difficult to pin them down because of it.

A single person has the pick of the lot, probably being readily available until a meet approaches and a better offer (in their opinion) comes along. I'd imagine no shows are common because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very tired and old debate but still valid.

As one of the aforementioned heretics, I actually agree with the OP's view that my situation does make meeting difficult and I am more likely to be unreliable.

However I am open about my situation on here and I am happy for people to decide for themselves if I interest them or not.

Now can we please get on with berating the barebackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this referring to guys who's wives don't know only?

Mrs F is quite happy for me to meet alone and even happy for me to have something regular.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Maybe I'm misinterpreting things but it seems there are a number of married ladies playing without their partner's knowledge and that's deemed okay (not acceptible, just okay). But guys are wrong for doing it?

That's not meant as a provocative comment, just an observation

(and yes I'm one of THOSE guys - sorry)

Ah, the hypocrisy of the Forum! One or two of aforementioned married women are positive doyennes of the Forum and much feted.

And several of the men. Ever thought it might be your perception that is off?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married. I play with permission. I ask for no judgement from anyone on my relationship dynamic and in return I offer no judgement on anyone else’s. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn't meet them ,buy I think a lot of men on here are secretly attached.

Miss "

I think you are right. I speak to a number of ladies on here who prefer married men as they say they have less opportunity but are more reliable, more discreet and don't generally fuck around with loads of random meets. Personally, I think married/attached or not, it's still down to the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the drama and unavailability that the cheaters bring.

It's not fun when they can only meet on a Tuesday afternoon

I stopped meeting couples because of drama too.

I'm not saying the singles are drama free or telling the truth all the time - but once you get to know someone it all comes out.

For a cheap thrills quick meet - I guess their marital status isn't an issue.

There are general rules surround married people, this is true. The golden rule is that there is always an exception.

I returned to Fabs after 2 years. I found the ideal lover and our arrangement suited the both of us. No drama, no discussions regarding marital status. Just pure, unadulterated filthy fun for a fee hours at a time once a week.

It's been mentioned before that singles do have more time on their hands where availability is concerned. By extension, it also means that it is more difficult to pin them down because of it.

A single person has the pick of the lot, probably being readily available until a meet approaches and a better offer (in their opinion) comes along. I'd imagine no shows are common because of this. "

So you met for a couple of hours on a Tuesday afternoon?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"

I would offer that I am far more reliable, clean, and discreet, than the bulk of single guys in here, the majority of whom many people complain about.

As an aside; if people DON’T wish to be contacted by married/attached guys, please put a note in your profile saying so. Saves time for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

As an aside; if people DON’T wish to be contacted by married/attached guys, please put a note in your profile saying so. Saves time for all concerned "

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading

As a genuine single Male, married men make this even harder to make contact with a lady/couple, let alone arrange a meet(given then that you both find each other attractive).

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Most people on here are between thirty and fifty. Apparently around 75% of people in those age groups are married or living with a partner. I suspect those stats are borne out on here. The people who openly say they are attached are a small minority of the "singles" who actually have partners.

"fab singles" one might call them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a genuine single Male, married men make this even harder to make contact with a lady/couple, let alone arrange a meet(given then that you both find each other attractive). "

Why

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By *URACELLBUNNY67Man
over a year ago

padgate, warrington


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx"
just asking what about married women and attached girls !!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As a genuine single Male, married men make this even harder to make contact with a lady/couple, let alone arrange a meet(given then that you both find each other attractive). "

In what reality have I had on your success here? None, right? Only you have responsibilitiy for your own success. Don’t blame others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xxjust asking what about married women and attached girls !!!!"

What about them? Half of the ladies I regularly chat to on here tell me that they are in fact married.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xxjust asking what about married women and attached girls !!!!

What about them? Half of the ladies I regularly chat to on here tell me that they are in fact married. "

Say it isn't so, the very idea!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xxjust asking what about married women and attached girls !!!!"

I guess that's a separate argument? Why is that raised?

People should just enjoy the site and ignore others differences...you won't change their opinions, so don't let them spoil whatever it is your doing? It's up to you to justify to yourself , if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a single guy i can sex up on the regular and maybe have it lead to more, romantically, so wouldn’t meet attached guys as not what i’m after.

"

Am with you on this one, however is this even something that happens through fab??

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xxjust asking what about married women and attached girls !!!!"

What about them!! most guys dont care if a womens married or in a relationship thats thw difference

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

I've met married ladies both with and without their husband's consent.

Women have met me without concern and others initially didn't want to and then changed their minds.

Others are not at all interested.

That's the beauty of a free choice which is why my profile is unambiguous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx

I would offer that I am far more reliable, clean, and discreet, than the bulk of single guys in here, the majority of whom many people complain about.

Oh I do and I wish more would read profiles.

As an aside; if people DON’T wish to be contacted by married/attached guys, please put a note in your profile saying so. Saves time for all concerned "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx

I would offer that I am far more reliable, clean, and discreet, than the bulk of single guys in here, the majority of whom many people complain about.

Oh I do and I wish more would read profiles.

As an aside; if people DON’T wish to be contacted by married/attached guys, please put a note in your profile saying so. Saves time for all concerned "

Oh I do and I still get contacted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always. I find married men can be so much simpler and they appreciate that it is difficult to get a meet on here, so they really put the effort in.

I find some people (mainly couples) who play more regularly and are able to get meets a lot easier, don't put the same amount of effort in as they know they can easily get a meet

next week from someone else.

Married men have their bonuses in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally this is not for me I'm dead Set against it as I wouldn't like it done to me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So frustrating!!!! makes things so much more complicated and so unreliable...especially when you are looking for a regular fb!! what's everyone's thoughts?xx

I would offer that I am far more reliable, clean, and discreet, than the bulk of single guys in here, the majority of whom many people complain about.

Oh I do and I wish more would read profiles.

As an aside; if people DON’T wish to be contacted by married/attached guys, please put a note in your profile saying so. Saves time for all concerned

Oh I do and I still get contacted "

Not by me you won’t

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've a wonderful fwb for over 2 years who is attached and has never given me a moment's trouble or drama (singles often bring plenty), has only ever had to cancel on me once in all that time, has been honest with me since day 1 about his circumstances. Neither of us has any desire or expectation of anything more than what we already enjoy together. If he was able to meet just a little more frequently it would be pretty damn perfect lol.

However... as fantastic as it is... I don't want to get involved with someone else who is attached, as the hours of availability are very limited. Ideally I'd like a regular, fun, single, guy for overnight and/or weekend adventures, who won't have an issue with me still seeing my fwb every 6-8 weeks... not much to ask for surely ?

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

I bet the question never comes up in a club.

It doesnt matter then you never get asked or women just dont care.

Be honest in your profile and a guy gets linched for it and branded a cheater.

Married guys look after there sexual health a damn sight better than a single guy who would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet the question never comes up in a club.

It doesnt matter then you never get asked or women just dont care.

Be honest in your profile and a guy gets linched for it and branded a cheater.

Married guys look after there sexual health a damn sight better than a single guy who would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping."

Ahhhhhjve said that many times....but apparently in a club it's different rules. That to me is double standards but hey ho....who am I to question why. Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a wonderful fwb for over 2 years who is attached and has never given me a moment's trouble or drama (singles often bring plenty), has only ever had to cancel on me once in all that time, has been honest with me since day 1 about his circumstances. Neither of us has any desire or expectation of anything more than what we already enjoy together. If he was able to meet just a little more frequently it would be pretty damn perfect lol."

If he’s not being honest to his wife/girlfriend (an assumption as you don’t say) I very much doubt he’s being honest with you.....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’d rather not but only because I (who has a man who is 110% aware of my being here) sat down one day and ‘came out’ and had a deep and frank conversation about what I wanted to do with my life.

It frustrates me that others can’t afford their partner the same courtesy. You’re both adults. I don’t feel the need to deceive your loved one.

So no... I won’t aid a ‘cheater’ but I will meet a genuine

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We try to avoid them as we would never want to hurt anybody.

It's meant to be fun for all.

There's no way of telling but we do ask and in fairness most are honest.

Then we just say sorry it's not how we play.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"We try to avoid them as we would never want to hurt anybody.

It's meant to be fun for all."

This

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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago

Sussex


"not here to judge its up to them"

That is exactly how it should be!! We have to remember exactly why we use this site and to me it should be to have sex with like minded people. Regardless of being the male or female who is the married partner, as long as people tell the truth then I see no problem with this. Married people have needs and there are also reasons they cannot leave their relationships. As I be quoted and replied *Who are we to judge*...

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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago

Sussex


"I bet the question never comes up in a club.

It doesnt matter then you never get asked or women just dont care.

Be honest in your profile and a guy gets linched for it and branded a cheater.

Married guys look after there sexual health a damn sight better than a single guy who would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping."

Never laughed so hard so early in the morning... Fuck a frog *dead laughing*.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married/attached men come with too many restrictions. Here's my experience...

Will disappear for hours mid conversation.

No perfume.

No scented shower gels.

No oils.

Can only meet every 3rd Tuesday for 45 mins.

Will need to have a shower before he leaves.

So I'll get the best sex of my life for 30 mins.

Will most likely cancel at short notice.

Claims they won't be like all of the above, until they are.

Takes an exceptional person for me to change my mind. I've met one so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married/attached men come with too many restrictions. Here's my experience...

Will disappear for hours mid conversation.

No perfume.

No scented shower gels.

No oils.

Can only meet every 3rd Tuesday for 45 mins.

Will need to have a shower before he leaves.

So I'll get the best sex of my life for 30 mins.

Will most likely cancel at short notice.

Claims they won't be like all of the above, until they are.

Takes an exceptional person for me to change my mind. I've met one so far. "

You've been meeting the wrong ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being safe so married guys generally are much more aware of this

And I like NSA with repeats and with some married guys this seems to work better

It's dishonest. And that can be a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married/attached men come with too many restrictions. Here's my experience...

Will disappear for hours mid conversation.

No perfume.

No scented shower gels.

No oils.

Can only meet every 3rd Tuesday for 45 mins.

Will need to have a shower before he leaves.

So I'll get the best sex of my life for 30 mins.

Will most likely cancel at short notice.

Claims they won't be like all of the above, until they are.

Takes an exceptional person for me to change my mind. I've met one so far.

You've been meeting the wrong ones."

I don't meet them lol that's a list I've accumulated just chatting to non singles.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I appreciate that folk have their own opinions as to whether they meet married men so I do inform them of that fact.

Usually is the end of the chat, had one berating and a few blocks. But have also gone on to make some lovely friends.

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