FabSwingers.com forum: Top 3 turn ons and turn offs???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you horny lot while you bake your sexy bodies in the sunshine ponder this..... Top 3 turn offs in a profile and Top 3 turn on’s.

I will chuck in mine to start

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Crass usernames

Meet me now reqs

Profiles with less than 3 sentences

Words that make me smile

Pics of torso’s especially b+w

People who understand its all about heads connecting......

Off you go mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn offs

When the sydney university disclaimer is longer than the profile

Every verification they ever had .. plus some from those who left C&P'd on

Daft phrases like 'i dont bite...unless you want me to'

Turn ons

Well thought out and funny profiles

Arty pics

Likes similar to my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on-

Humour and personality in the text

Nice pics

Quirkiness.

Turn offs-

Cock pics

"Fill in later"

Ranty text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn offs:

- really lengthy negative profiles that say nothing about the actual person(s)

- bad spelling and grammar

- leaving little to the imagination

Turn ons:

- clothed/semi clothed photos

- black and white photos

- honesty and humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn on-

Humour and personality in the text

Nice pics

Quirkiness.

Turn offs-

Cock pics

"Fill in later"

Ranty text"

“Fill in later” when the profile is over a year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you horny lot while you bake your sexy bodies in the sunshine ponder this..... Top 3 turn offs in a profile and Top 3 turn on’s.

I will chuck in mine to start

Off

Crass usernames

Meet me now reqs

Profiles with less than 3 sentences

Words that make me smile

Pics of torso’s especially b+w

People who understand its all about heads connecting......

Off you go mwah xx

Pretty much covers it from our end too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn offs

When the sydney university disclaimer is longer than the profile

Every verification they ever had .. plus some from those who left C&P'd on

Daft phrases like 'i dont bite...unless you want me to'

Yes I am with you on the ‘I dont bite’ those that do dont have the need to brag about it

Turn ons

Well thought out and funny profiles

Arty pics

Likes similar to my own"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn on-

Humour and personality in the text

Nice pics

Quirkiness.

Turn offs-

Cock pics

"Fill in later"

Ranty text"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn offs:

- really lengthy negative profiles that say nothing about the actual person(s)

- bad spelling and grammar

- leaving little to the imagination

Turn ons:

- clothed/semi clothed photos

- black and white photos

- honesty and humour"

With you on spelling/grammar but get called a snob when I point it out... I prefer pedant or should that be pendant lols

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you horny lot while you bake your sexy bodies in the sunshine ponder this..... Top 3 turn offs in a profile and Top 3 turn on’s.

I will chuck in mine to start

Off

Crass usernames

Meet me now reqs

Profiles with less than 3 sentences

Words that make me smile

Pics of torso’s especially b+w

People who understand its all about heads connecting......

Off you go mwah xx

Pretty much covers it from our end too "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So all you newbies some themes coming through here, wit, humour, tasteful pics (b&w)

Less is definitely more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offs:

Shouty Demands in profiles

No imagination in pic gallery

Blokes

Ons:

Black n White Erotica

Flirty, Teasy chat

A connection that kinda makes you want to rip each other clothes off

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Turn Offs:

Short and uninformative

Overly graphic or unimaginative pics

Profiles that are all about what they "want"

Turn Ons:

Humour

Showing they've thought about what they are looking for displaying a level of intelligence in doing so

Well thought out teasing and imaginative pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Offs:

Shouty Demands in profiles

No imagination in pic gallery

Blokes

Ons:

Black n White Erotica

Flirty, Teasy chat

A connection that kinda makes you want to rip each other clothes off "

B&W does add a certaing frisson

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn Offs:

Short and uninformative

Overly graphic or unimaginative pics

Profiles that are all about what they "want"

Turn Ons:

Humour

Showing they've thought about what they are looking for displaying a level of intelligence in doing so

Well thought out teasing and imaginative pics "

A man after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons

Banter in messages

Not too shy

Fun personality

Nice person

Turn offs

The opposites of turnons

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Turn Offs:

Short and uninformative

Overly graphic or unimaginative pics

Profiles that are all about what they "want"

Turn Ons:

Humour

Showing they've thought about what they are looking for displaying a level of intelligence in doing so

Well thought out teasing and imaginative pics

A man after my own heart

So it would seem and even more in agreement having just read your profile

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Turn ons:

Sexy pics not showing a full dickage, b&w

A manly build

Interests that are similar to mine

Turn offs:

Demanding profiles

Cum shots

Shorties

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Turns offs on here.....

Lectures on profiles

Nobs and sweaty Fanny pics

Gormless replies to messages sent

Turn ons

Not to much given away

Prompt replies in a proper manner

Pics of underwear and legs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn Offs:

Short and uninformative

Overly graphic or unimaginative pics

Profiles that are all about what they "want"

Turn Ons:

Humour

Showing they've thought about what they are looking for displaying a level of intelligence in doing so

Well thought out teasing and imaginative pics

A man after my own heart

So it would seem and even more in agreement having just read your profile

Totally Sir x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn ons:

Sexy pics not showing a full dickage, b&w

A manly build

Interests that are similar to mine

Turn offs:

Demanding profiles

Cum shots

Shorties

Totally the best pics are the ones conjured up in your mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turns offs on here.....

Lectures on profiles

Nobs and sweaty Fanny pics

Gormless replies to messages sent

Turn ons

Not to much given away

Prompt replies in a proper manner

Pics of underwear and legs

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"So you horny lot while you bake your sexy bodies in the sunshine ponder this..... Top 3 turn offs in a profile and Top 3 turn on’s.

I will chuck in mine to start

Off

Crass usernames

Meet me now reqs

Profiles with less than 3 sentences

Words that make me smile

Pics of torso’s especially b+w

People who understand its all about heads connecting......

Off you go mwah xx

Offs

Negativity

Unrealistic expectations (I’m only human after all )

Bad hygiene

Ons ... just three

Kissing

Long legs

Sexy high heels

I’m sneaking another in there classy ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disclaimer:As I am ultimately looking for women, I used the personal pronoun 'she'. It is not -in any case- a generalisation of women and can easily applicable to men or transgenders as well.

Turn off:

Discrepancy between the way a woman protrays herself on her profile and the verifications she has given or received. (Claiming be attracted to a certain type or even any type, yet has only verifications from the complete opposite type or just one specific type)

High level of self-objectification. (Someone who has more than 150 pictures of herself/himself with different angles, 149 is okay though)

Labelling people through races rather than taking into consideration the individuals

Turn on:

High congruence between profile and verifications.

Arty-pictures, even close up ones can be arty if taken a certain way.

The ability to express eloquently. However, Sometimes a 'fuck off' is welcomed and necessary.

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Turn Offs

The lady isn’t bisexual

Arrogance

No care taken over pictures/profile

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Turn-offs would include, but not be limited to ...

Bad manners

Poor hygiene

Pushy/demanding

Turn-ons

An engaging gentleman

Great smells

Naughty glint in the eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn-offs would include, but not be limited to ...

Bad manners

Poor hygiene

Pushy/demanding

Turn-ons

An engaging gentleman

Great smells

Naughty glint in the eyes "

Is this for scratch n sniff profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like:

Pics of torso, thighs, bum

Verifications which make them sound like a laugh as well as capable

Something in the profile text which makes me laugh

Don't like:

Only cock pics (especially soft, why show me that?)

Overly convoluted profile text

No profile text or 'Ask, I don't bite'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn Offs:

Short and uninformative

Overly graphic or unimaginative pics

Profiles that are all about what they "want"

Turn Ons:

Humour

Showing they've thought about what they are looking for displaying a level of intelligence in doing so

Well thought out teasing and imaginative pics

A man after my own heart

So it would seem and even more in agreement having just read your profile

Twins seperated at birth hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you horny lot while you bake your sexy bodies in the sunshine ponder this..... Top 3 turn offs in a profile and Top 3 turn on’s.

I will chuck in mine to start

Off

Crass usernames

Meet me now reqs

Profiles with less than 3 sentences

Words that make me smile

Pics of torso’s especially b+w

People who understand its all about heads connecting......

Off you go mwah xx

Offs

Negativity

Unrealistic expectations (I’m only human after all )

Bad hygiene

Ons ... just three

Kissing

Long legs

Sexy high heels

I’m sneaking another in there classy ladies

Sneak in what you like we are all entitled to ask for what we need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Disclaimer:As I am ultimately looking for women, I used the personal pronoun 'she'. It is not -in any case- a generalisation of women and can easily applicable to men or transgenders as well.

Turn off:

High level of self-objectification. (Someone who has more than 150 pictures of herself/himself with different angles, 149 is okay though)

Labelling people through races rather than taking into consideration the individuals

Turn on:

High congruence between profile and verifications.

Arty-pictures, even close up ones can be arty if taken a certain way.

The ability to express eloquently. However, Sometimes a 'fuck off' is welcomed and necessary. "

I thoroughly concur fantastic post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn Offs

The lady isn’t bisexual

Arrogance

No care taken over pictures/profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top 3 turn offs

1. Sydney university

2. Up close vagina pics

3. “Bones are for dogs”

Top 3 turn ons

1. Sense of humour in bio

2. Replies to my messages

3. Low standards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn-offs would include, but not be limited to ...

Bad manners

Poor hygiene

Pushy/demanding

Turn-ons

An engaging gentleman

Great smells

Naughty glint in the eyes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Offs:

Shouty Demands in profiles

No imagination in pic gallery

Blokes

Ons:

Black n White Erotica

Flirty, Teasy chat

A connection that kinda makes you want to rip each other clothes off

B&W does add a certaing frisson

They do that Miss T

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like:

Pics of torso, thighs, bum

Verifications which make them sound like a laugh as well as capable

Something in the profile text which makes me laugh

Don't like:

Only cock pics (especially soft, why show me that?)

Overly convoluted profile text

No profile text or 'Ask, I don't bite' "

Cant beat a great torso or bum shot such a turn on and more enticing than a cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Offs:

Shouty Demands in profiles

No imagination in pic gallery

Blokes

Ons:

Black n White Erotica

Flirty, Teasy chat

A connection that kinda makes you want to rip each other clothes off

B&W does add a certaing frisson

They do that Miss T

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Some good advice here. Ok, I think I need to add more photos...in black & white or sepia.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Off's

Lines like I'm gonna smash you and the like

Excessive pics of cocks from different angles

Close up arsehole shots

On's

Body pics esp a nice arse

Humour either in their profile or message

Banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn offs

When the sydney university disclaimer is longer than the profile

Every verification they ever had .. plus some from those who left C&P'd on

Daft phrases like 'i dont bite...unless you want me to'

Turn ons

Well thought out and funny profiles

Arty pics

Likes similar to my own"

Stupid question I’m sure,but what does

“C&P’d” mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off's

When she claims she isnt easy but then has 50 verification's in the space of 2 weeks.

Rude people, manners dont cost anything.

Time wasters.

Turn on

Far to many to name

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn offs

When the sydney university disclaimer is longer than the profile

Every verification they ever had .. plus some from those who left C&P'd on

Daft phrases like 'i dont bite...unless you want me to'

Turn ons

Well thought out and funny profiles

Arty pics

Likes similar to my own

Stupid question I’m sure,but what does

“C&P’d” mean? "

Cut and paste maybe???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn off's

When she claims she isnt easy but then has 50 verification's in the space of 2 weeks.

Rude people, manners dont cost anything.

Time wasters.

Turn on

Far to many to name "

I am with you on rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn offs

When the sydney university disclaimer is longer than the profile

Every verification they ever had .. plus some from those who left C&P'd on

Daft phrases like 'i dont bite...unless you want me to'

Turn ons

Well thought out and funny profiles

Arty pics

Likes similar to my own

Stupid question I’m sure,but what does

“C&P’d” mean?

Cut and paste maybe???"

Maybe, cheers for replying xx

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