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What Women Look For In A Profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all look for what they're after in a profile. How you work that out is anybody's guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The perennial question!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's no magic formula OP - same as in life, what will make you appealing to one person will be a turn off for another, so best thing you can do is be true to yourself, go with what you think works and hope it appeals to someone.

Of course getting personality across helps, as does a decent set of pics, general consensus is a gallery full of disembodied cock pics isn't a great idea, but even that appeals to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of cock pics....usually they check the profile in ninja mode, so they like to watch cock pics....at least 10 diff pics...

I get meet at least once a month because of my cock pics... Good luck to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

true everyone is different and like different things

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Bottom line is that everyone's different so what appeals to one won't appeal to another. You really can't please everyone.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I would say well written (doesn’t have to be a novel but avoid text speak and slang words) show that you have a bit of intelligence, what you’re looking for, what you offer.

Some tasteful pics, sexy and revealing is good but helicoptering around the bathroom not so much.

Being female would help you hugely in my case.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have a tick list of "no's" certain things on a profile, that would make someone an instant no.

After that it's pretty much about whether we click, I don't do instant meets, I like to chat a bit first, a person needs to spark my interest.

Some people instantly do that, some don't.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"

There's not much point asking that here. You need to be talking to women who meet regularly, and i reckon that's about 2% of female forum users.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some profile text and pics that are not just cock lol

I see so many whinges on my updates ,yet they have made no effort at all to create a profile.

Miss

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality."

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Just give an accurate description of yourself and what your looking for

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky? "

Haha blame the phone. ..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A future husband

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I'm looking for no cock pics no action shots. Some sense of your body shape and for the text I like funny, witty.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's difficult to say what does attract me to a profile but on the whole something that shows your personality and isn't full of negatives is a plus.

It is easier to say what puts me off. I don't like action pics or images that show a lady with you. I want to know what you look like and not what your previous fuck looks like - I'm not meeting her so no need for it. Lots of cock pics is a big turn off - a man is far more than just his cock. One or two is ok in conjunction with a good selection of other pics.

I do like a man to say what he is looking for in a potential meet, what attracts him to someone. Lots of guys don't do this because they don't want to limit their chances when in fact it actually increases them. I like to know I'm the kind of person you are looking for.

The best advice I can give anyone is to just be yourself and don't try to fit what you think we want. That way you will attract the people who are genuinely interested in YOU.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've found that women are evenly split in their appreciation (or not) of cock pics. I don't have any as I like to leave something to the imagination

They almost always like a well written profile and tasteful pics (subjective I know!)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like a well written profile with a bit about themselves injected with a bit of humour but not a ramble. Arty pics not showing too much cock, preferably a face pic or the promise of one in a first message

Although if they don't pass the basics ie distance, being able to accomadate then it doesn't matter anyway!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Fit bod nice face with or without cock pic,if you have one thats good,can accommodate and a bit of blurb that doesn't scare the heck out of me. That's it really.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

Haha blame the phone. ..! "

Oops that's funny.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

Haha blame the phone. ..!

Oops that's funny."

It just shows you what a good follower I am (dance term) I just mirrored what he wrote without thinking lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

Haha blame the phone. ..!

Oops that's funny.

It just shows you what a good follower I am (dance term) I just mirrored what he wrote without thinking lol! "

And there i was thinking followers were heifers kept on to replace old cows in the herd.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

Haha blame the phone. ..!

Oops that's funny.

It just shows you what a good follower I am (dance term) I just mirrored what he wrote without thinking lol!

And there i was thinking followers were heifers kept on to replace old cows in the herd. "

Hahaha, well I have put a few pounds on over winter....

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"

Isn't this like asking 'what shoes do women like to wear'?

They all look for their own preferences in their own individual ways.

I can't understand this constant need to appeal to every last Fabber. Surely you only need to focus on the few that would naturally find you appealing?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Isn't this like asking 'what shoes do women like to wear'?

They all look for their own preferences in their own individual ways.

I can't understand this constant need to appeal to every last Fabber. Surely you only need to focus on the few that would naturally find you appealing?"

That's way too rational!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"
. No bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Isn't this like asking 'what shoes do women like to wear'?

They all look for their own preferences in their own individual ways.

I can't understand this constant need to appeal to every last Fabber. Surely you only need to focus on the few that would naturally find you appealing?

That's way too rational!!!"
How would they sleep around the whole site then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you

Good grammer, one or two body pics that include the cock (no close ups) face pic if he likes, but from the text I am looking for one thing only - some sense of who you are coming across, so it needs to be long enough to do that, and lists of desires will not tell me about personality.

Good grammer, Ms Frisky?

Haha blame the phone. ..!

Oops that's funny.

It just shows you what a good follower I am (dance term) I just mirrored what he wrote without thinking lol!

And there i was thinking followers were heifers kept on to replace old cows in the herd.

Hahaha, well I have put a few pounds on over winter.... "

You can lend me a tenner then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bloke I fancy that doesn't come across as a complete twat, in any way, is a good start

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"

You don't have universal appeal: no one does, so don't try to appeal to all: You can't.

Sell yourself, don't be afraid to state what you're looking for as well as what you're offering. Stay away from clichés and have a variety of pictures.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 cock pics and one torso pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 cock pics and one torso pic "

I heard 4 cock pics and two torso pics with a bum pic

Confused :-/ don't know what to do anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 cock pics and one torso pic

I heard 4 cock pics and two torso pics with a bum pic

Confused :-/ don't know what to do anymore "

Really, when did they change... Let's all the men delete the account and leave the ladies to rule the fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 cock pics and one torso pic

I heard 4 cock pics and two torso pics with a bum pic

Confused :-/ don't know what to do anymore "

Mrs here. Torso,buttock and if face pic is shown in the msg or on profile-great and cock pic could be but not required. It's nice if there is more than 2 words in the message

All of us like different things. For me it will be sexy buttock and hairy chest, for other lady it will be a cock.

Have a nice weekend

A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even looking for a single guy but I still check out their profiles when I check out their hot pics.

Humour, intelligence, good spelling and grammar and no cock pics but at most a tease of it would attract me.

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

Just wandering what women look for in a profile. Short or long. All about their personality or what turns them on. Cock pictures or none, face pic? Good grammer, text speech.

Thank you"

the opposite of mine

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