FabSwingers.com forum: Quantity or Quality...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello fellow Fabbers

I am wondering if my approach of, "Quality over quantity" is the right way to go. In my area of Scotland, meets are like hens teeth, so should I go for anything that moves or hang in there till that elusive unicorn presents itself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scotland.... the home of wildlife...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*presents*

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

If I was you I would fuck anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality pls im not chasing girls like a wolf on the hunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

. So that's one vote for quantity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything."

I draw the line at Brightonsteve.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hello fellow Fabbers

Well it depends if using fab is your only means of getting a shag . If it is and you keep with the approach you’re using , the chances are you’ll forget what to do when the elusive unicorn presents itself . That or you’ll be too old to get it up , so maybe shag anything that moves , just to keep your hand in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello fellow Fabbers

Ahh, the old Rosie Palm approach... Yes, I understand what you mean

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Depends if you just wanna get your end away. Sex is just sex, but it's exciting with someone you connect with.

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?"

A few guys probably fuck the liver without wearing a dress

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Depends if you just wanna get your end away. Sex is just sex, but it's exciting with someone you connect with."

I couldn't get a hard on with somebody I didn't fancy.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I can wait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?

A few guys probably fuck the liver without wearing a dress"

I hate liver and wow that is not a pretty picture

I have had to go extended periods without (for example while I was in the Navy, warship and all men meant you were either celebate or batting for the other side), but I had hoped that was an exception and not the rule...

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Being in my 40's, a lumpy size 14 and mother of two. I always assumed that my ability to get laid every time I go out is a sign that once sex is offered guys lower their standards quite a bit. Which is great because obviously I try not to be too picky either!

#reality

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Anything with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

I draw the line at Brightonsteve."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quality wins every time OP so stick with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all relative if you struggle then strike when the iron is hot, if it’s easy choose how to play it. Beggars can’t be choosers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything."

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Do what your happy with your your own person OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything."

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!"

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you, on the Isle of Sky Op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well "

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious."

Not very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?"

If said piece of rotten liver was on here there'd be that many guys trying to fuck it it'd be convinced it's a fillet steak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice "

When you two have finished... care to explain how me telling the op to lower his standards is belittling him? I did kinda think the thread wasn't entirely serious until you two started throwing personal comments about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?

If said piece of rotten liver was on here there'd be that many guys trying to fuck it it'd be convinced it's a fillet steak

Really? That’s just life in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

I didn’t say anything about you, a few people tried to belittle his post. I have no idea who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?

If said piece of rotten liver was on here there'd be that many guys trying to fuck it it'd be convinced it's a fillet steak

Really? That’s just life in general "

Anyone can think highly of themself on here. They won't know if someone is fucking them purely because they want their vagina or cock, or if they really are into them. That goes for the beautiful people as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the very concept of 'just fucking anything' so alien.

Don't people have to fancy each other? Or is the desperation to get your dick wet so overpowering you'd fuck a piece of rotting liver if it was wearing a dress and lipstick?

If said piece of rotten liver was on here there'd be that many guys trying to fuck it it'd be convinced it's a fillet steak

Really? That’s just life in general

Very true so better just going along with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Don’t mention Nora Batty

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just go and hump a tree and have done with. Enjoy the splinters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Don’t mention Nora Batty"

As I thought. Yet again no actual substance behind the jibes. Apologies for the slight off tracking there op. Do what's best for you, if you were after serious input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just go and hump a tree and have done with. Enjoy the splinters."

Lol the wee boss woman

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Oh is it a serious thread,op forget about humping the tree I've heard she's an evil bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Don’t mention Nora Batty

As I thought. Yet again no actual substance behind the jibes. Apologies for the slight off tracking there op. Do what's best for you, if you were after serious input. "

Not a jibe, just referring to a previous thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you like, OP, to achieve your desired goals, once you've decided what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at what your standards are and why you have them. See if you can make a compromise somewhere. You may find you meet someone, who you weren't attracted to initially by appearance, that you warm to, after meeting them in person.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on."

But it’s ok for you to tell the op to shag a tree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on."

I've said the same for years. It's anyone, not anything.

I've also said that the person calling them things would be an anything to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely quality, for me I want a lot more than just soulless sex.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Oh is it a serious thread,op forget about humping the tree I've heard she's an evil birch."

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on."

Yep I agree. That was the only belittling I found but I let it go as I didn't want to get drawn into a petty argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely quality, for me I want a lot more than just soulless sex."

What is quality to you?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

But it’s ok for you to tell the op to shag a tree

If he refers to women like myself as 'anything' then yes why not. I didn't actually think it was a serious thread anyway,how the heck can it be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely quality, for me I want a lot more than just soulless sex."

I usually keep my shoes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

Yep I agree. That was the only belittling I found but I let it go as I didn't want to get drawn into a petty argument. "

People are funny on here, happily jump on a bandwagon and then be disgusted by other people’s remarks it’s like school

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

This is your only option if you want sex op. Let your standards go!

OP someone trying to bellitle you should make you realise that other people are insecure as well

That’s what she does, it’s her thing. It’s tedious.

Not very nice

Oh is it a serious thread,op forget about humping the tree I've heard she's an evil birch.

FTFY

Thankyou! Smiley face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality pls im not chasing girls like a wolf on the hunt"

Would you chase someone you thought was smoking hot?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

Quality will always win the day for me as I personally wouldn't get any satisfaction from having sex with just anyone (male or female) and will always look for a chemistry and connection of sorts before agreeing to meet.

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

Lol so go on match then

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection."

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Flik's standards are very low....luckily for me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

I've said the same for years. It's anyone, not anything.

I've also said that the person calling them things would be an anything to someone else. "

Pisses me off it really does (pmt),if women dare so no to a guy the woman is then a stuff up her arse bitch who wouldnt be able to pull a tramp in 'real' life. Apologies to tramps.

Because of course us ugly women can have our fill of all the good looking buggers on here cos they'll fuck anything after all,the ugly men cry into their beers and wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

I've said the same for years. It's anyone, not anything.

I've also said that the person calling them things would be an anything to someone else.

Pisses me off it really does (pmt),if women dare so no to a guy the woman is then a stuff up her arse bitch who wouldnt be able to pull a tramp in 'real' life. Apologies to tramps.

Because of course us ugly women can have our fill of all the good looking buggers on here cos they'll fuck anything after all,the ugly men cry into their beers and wank."

Your a lovely person

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

Lol so go on match then

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection."

What a ridiculous statement - why would I want to go on Match which is a site for relationships when I'm already in one and not looking for another?

Is it wrong to want to find someone you have a connection and chemistry with (and thereby have more satisfying sex with) in an NSA context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

Lol so go on match then

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection.

What a ridiculous statement - why would I want to go on Match which is a site for relationships when I'm already in one and not looking for another?

Is it wrong to want to find someone you have a connection and chemistry with (and thereby have more satisfying sex with) in an NSA context? "

Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection."

When you meet someone in person you have more than just physical appearance and words on a screen to go by.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Just out of interest what is 'anything' anyway,are we talking about women?!

I absolutely hate the way women are referred to on here at time's. You may not find someone attractive,but that doesn't make them disgusting creatures and someone to look down on.

I've said the same for years. It's anyone, not anything.

I've also said that the person calling them things would be an anything to someone else.

Pisses me off it really does (pmt),if women dare so no to a guy the woman is then a stuff up her arse bitch who wouldnt be able to pull a tramp in 'real' life. Apologies to tramps.

Because of course us ugly women can have our fill of all the good looking buggers on here cos they'll fuck anything after all,the ugly men cry into their beers and wank.

Your a lovely person "

I'm not actually interested in what you think of me to be honest,I just don't like the way some men on here treat women.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"OP be true to yourself and what attracts you.

It's of course slightly different in a club environment, but even then there has to be an attraction and a semblance of connection.

When you meet someone in person you have more than just physical appearance and words on a screen to go by. "

This is very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely quality, for me I want a lot more than just soulless sex.

What is quality to you?"

I might out of kilter with most on here but even although I enjoy sex I don't think it's necessarily the "be-all and end-all". I suppose to me quality is good easy conversation, sharing time together, being there for someone, cuddling without sex particularly raising it's head.

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I say something please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Only if I can say something thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely quality, for me I want a lot more than just soulless sex.

What is quality to you?

Does that make sense?

I don't see how that makes someone quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?"

Thank you all.

'Something'

That's all I wanted to say.

Don't jump on me for my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello fellow Fabbers

Quaility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Only if I can say something thank you "

You always can, especially if you whisper it to my left ear. As the right is fucked due to loud undergroud french rap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?

Thank you all.

'Something'

That's all I wanted to say.

Don't jump on me for my opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?

Thank you all.

'Something'

That's all I wanted to say.

Don't jump on me for my opinion

May I say something?

Yes

Something

No ? Not funny ?

I am out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?

Thank you all.

'Something'

That's all I wanted to say.

Don't jump on me for my opinion

May I say something?

Yes

Something

No ? Not funny ?

I am out

Not up to your usual standard of funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May I say something please ?

Is it going to be a sensible thing you want to say?

Thank you all.

'Something'

That's all I wanted to say.

Don't jump on me for my opinion

May I say something?

Yes

Something

No ? Not funny ?

I am out

Not up to your usual standard of funny. "

Yes, as long as I make myself laugh I am happy !

Just told myself a joke I didn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality pls im not chasing girls like a wolf on the hunt

Would you chase someone you thought was smoking hot?"

No im happy to talk to anyone and see where things lead or if she has funny banter and we get on but im not gonna start running around like a horny headless chicken just because there hot is proberbly more what im trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quality pls im not chasing girls like a wolf on the hunt

Would you chase someone you thought was smoking hot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was you I would fuck anything.

I draw the line at Brightonsteve."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality but I understand why someone might go for quantity, especially the men as there's just not enough quality females to be too picky.

Obviously there has to be a line, but then again any holes a goal for some.

Pussy blindness can be a terrible thing.

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