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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

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No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the definition of hot. People I find hot are not up themselves. I find that trait notably un-hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

Sometimes it can be insecurity that drives them to what they perceive as hot, so better not to judge by appearances alone.

Walking up to a hot guy in a bar- he was so relieved to talk to me because women don't approach him because of his looks. Yet one of the nicest people I ever met x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing"
Nope.


"If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?"

Nope.

(but there are a rare few people who are hot - and rather than it just be another fact they accept about themselves, insist on their hotness being a preface or excuse/reasoning for everything about their life. That's not hot)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It makes me drool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Sometimes it can be insecurity that drives them to what they perceive as hot, so better not to judge by appearances alone.

Walking up to a hot guy in a bar- he was so relieved to talk to me because women don't approach him because of his looks. Yet one of the nicest people I ever met x"

Thanks , I remember it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

Same for me "

Absolutely well said

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm only up my own arse once I've said thanks but no thanks

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

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No, I try and avoid judging people without knowing anything about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

flat earth cunts are..they think they are so great..I asked a flatearther what the gravitational density was of her vagina and she said "Grav dont exist bruv..its tha firmamemt"..I told her to shut up while I licked her pie..

then she sung lisa stansfields "been around the world",when she came..

maybe nasa lied when she came...those cunts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just the hot people.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

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No.

I've met plenty of fugglies who are abnoxious as fuck.

You get nice and nasty whatever. To think otherwise is naive and desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Sometimes it can be insecurity that drives them to what they perceive as hot, so better not to judge by appearances alone.

Walking up to a hot guy in a bar- he was so relieved to talk to me because women don't approach him because of his looks. Yet one of the nicest people I ever met x"

Lucky man. And I thought that kind of thing only happened in 80's teen movies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

I read a person's profile and the attitude they convey in the writing of it ......... Some are not even worth looking at ever again if they come across as untouchable.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

flat earth cunts are..they think they are so great..I asked a flatearther what the gravitational density was of her vagina and she said "Grav dont exist bruv..its tha firmamemt"..I told her to shut up while I licked her pie..

then she sung lisa stansfields "been around the world",when she came..

maybe nasa lied when she came...those cunts..

"

You made me think. Perhaps Lisa Stansfield's hit is the undeniable proof the earth is round. Lisa wouldn't lie to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

No as i am not really that judgemental

I would probably think phwoarrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

flat earth cunts are..they think they are so great..I asked a flatearther what the gravitational density was of her vagina and she said "Grav dont exist bruv..its tha firmamemt"..I told her to shut up while I licked her pie..

then she sung lisa stansfields "been around the world",when she came..

maybe nasa lied when she came...those cunts..

"

I believed you then for a sec. Till you said she sang Lisa Stansfield. She'd know there's no way to be around the world. Only over it.

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By *osta del sol KinkytimesMan
over a year ago

Campanillas, Spain

Definitely attitude not looks as some, lets say not so hot people, think they are hot. But to be honest what I find hot and what someone else finds hot could be totally different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Sometimes it can be insecurity that drives them to what they perceive as hot, so better not to judge by appearances alone.

Walking up to a hot guy in a bar- he was so relieved to talk to me because women don't approach him because of his looks. Yet one of the nicest people I ever met x"

Good point, it's a bit sad that people would avoid him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look"

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?"

My partner is hot and he's not big headed.

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By *osta del sol KinkytimesMan
over a year ago

Campanillas, Spain


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?"

Never avoid anyone based on looks but sometimes the tone of their profile can be off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?"

I'd never assume someone was big headed and avoid them because of it, I'd just assume they wouldn't be interested in talking to me, so I don't really bother. It's a defeatist attitude, but past experience has turned me somewhat reluctant to message people I think who are out of my league (which is most people to be fair).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

flat earth cunts are..they think they are so great..I asked a flatearther what the gravitational density was of her vagina and she said "Grav dont exist bruv..its tha firmamemt"..I told her to shut up while I licked her pie..

then she sung lisa stansfields "been around the world",when she came..

maybe nasa lied when she came...those cunts..

I believed you then for a sec. Till you said she sang Lisa Stansfield. She'd know there's no way to be around the world. Only over it. "

youre a flattard I'd shag. One can only drill some sense into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It makes me drool "

I drool but on occasions it’s hayfever snot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first got into this scene I thought the blokes strutting around were wallies. Then I realised they're only enjoying themselves and advertising their wares. I also found, to my surprise, that I wasn't in any way jealous of them. So now I just think "good on you dude"

But some of them are wallies

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By *osta del sol KinkytimesMan
over a year ago

Campanillas, Spain


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?

I'd never assume someone was big headed and avoid them because of it, I'd just assume they wouldn't be interested in talking to me, so I don't really bother. It's a defeatist attitude, but past experience has turned me somewhat reluctant to message people I think who are out of my league (which is most people to be fair)."

No way man believe in yourself. Don't let anyone tell you different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?

I'd never assume someone was big headed and avoid them because of it, I'd just assume they wouldn't be interested in talking to me, so I don't really bother. It's a defeatist attitude, but past experience has turned me somewhat reluctant to message people I think who are out of my league (which is most people to be fair).

No way man believe in yourself. Don't let anyone tell you different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?"

Yes I do, you can generally get a host of someone attitude fairly early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dosnt bother me either was as there are also super hot people who are really nice same as awt just like some not so hot people can be up there own arse its there behavior that counts not how they look

But do people give them chance to get to know them? Or would they just avoid the hotties because they assume they'd be big headed?

I'd never assume someone was big headed and avoid them because of it, I'd just assume they wouldn't be interested in talking to me, so I don't really bother. It's a defeatist attitude, but past experience has turned me somewhat reluctant to message people I think who are out of my league (which is most people to be fair).

No way man believe in yourself. Don't let anyone tell you different."

Don't get me wrong every now and then I do message people I might not have a chance with because I might get lucky. But in my 27 years of being alive I've only ever had one partner and it only lasted a year and half, so it's hard to shake off that attitude.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's great to have confidence and many people who are hot and do so are not up themselves. Some people won't care but i find those who are generally unattractive.

It's great to turn others on and share your sexual energy but the opposite to have an attitude that stinks, so people perceive you like pig shit as you cross their paths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the person and there attitude

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

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I'm hot and I'm up my own arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

I agree."

I dunno ignite..I've invited you to many gangbangs etc...I know the lack of romance killed for us..but ma mate sneezy was gutted

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By *osta del sol KinkytimesMan
over a year ago

Campanillas, Spain

I have to laugh when I see profile names like hotchick or hotguy tge little devil in my head whispers if you think you are hot then you should fuck yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's great to have confidence and many people who are hot and do so are not up themselves. Some people won't care but i find those who are generally unattractive.

It's great to turn others on and share your sexual energy but the opposite to have an attitude that stinks, so people perceive you like pig shit as you cross their paths. "

It was the hot pics thread the other day that made me think of the question. People with low confidence are often encouraged to believe in themselves, but if someone is hot and does have confidence in their looks they often get slated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

I'm hot and I'm up my own arse! "

In what way? Is it a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but no amount of exterior beauty can hide an ugly attitude. There's nothing as off putting to me personally than that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

Nope.

I think they look great and thank god that there are still people who have confidence in how they look. I can't be doing with this ooo I'm a minger faux modesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a pal who is a pretty successful model, genuinely gorgeous. But she's also the most hilarious, intelligent, modest girl. Girls can initially take a dislike to her assuming she'll be a bitch, but one chat with her and I don't think there's many who wouldn't love her. I think people who dislike just on looks are definitely in the minority, character is so much more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Nope.

I think they look great and thank god that there are still people who have confidence in how they look. I can't be doing with this ooo I'm a minger faux modesty. "

I hear ya!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

I agree.

I dunno ignite..I've invited you to many gangbangs etc...I know the lack of romance killed for us..but ma mate sneezy was gutted"

Good I don't like sneezy anyway he's a twit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

I agree.

I dunno ignite..I've invited you to many gangbangs etc...I know the lack of romance killed for us..but ma mate sneezy was gutted

Good I don't like sneezy anyway he's a twit."

grumpy just went...said "gaydar..again"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Nope.

I think they look great and thank god that there are still people who have confidence in how they look. I can't be doing with this ooo I'm a minger faux modesty.

I hear ya!"

Damn! Am I saying this stuff out loud again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

Nope.

I think they look great and thank god that there are still people who have confidence in how they look. I can't be doing with this ooo I'm a minger faux modesty.

I hear ya!

Damn! Am I saying this stuff out loud again? "

I have that issue many times

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We tend not to judge on looks alone. Attitude, demeanor, personality and just their general 'way' may make us think they are up their own bum though.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude

I agree.

I dunno ignite..I've invited you to many gangbangs etc...I know the lack of romance killed for us..but ma mate sneezy was gutted

Good I don't like sneezy anyway he's a twit.

grumpy just went...said "gaydar..again""

Grumpy is a twit as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

No matter what you look like you can have a bad attitude. It's usually as you're insecure about your own self. That doens't mean you'll be eveybody's cup of tea, but if you're relaxed or confident enough about yourself, nobody will care that much either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé."

I think confidence is a good thing. I wish more people were like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé."

But whats with them having confidence in themselves?

Are you trying to say people should stay in there lane as a plane jane or try to be more than that? Espessially on here when most people want to make themselves more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé."

And....? So what? They think they are hot and you don't? You think your opinion is more accurate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think confidence is a good thing. I wish more people were like that."

That's exactly why so many on the forum aren't like that. They try too hard not to offend upset put off the majority. I don't understand why.

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By *osta del sol KinkytimesMan
over a year ago

Campanillas, Spain


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

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So what's your point?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

100% this

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah I'm very down to earth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not the best looking person by far. But I like who I am and I’m a very confident person.

If that makes me up myself, then fine! I’m better then you bitches anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when hot men are up me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think confidence is a good thing. I wish more people were like that.

That's exactly why so many on the forum aren't like that. They try too hard not to offend upset put off the majority. I don't understand why. "

Don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think your hot and have the self confidence to put yourself out on view for people to appreciate weather it thru hard work in the gym or just a natural gift does it matter weather your a nora batty or beyonce or frank spencer or even the rock whats the issue as long as your respectful friendly and have a personality or a little bit of something about you then your ok by me

Trying to drag people down with insults because you dont see them as hot is ur issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think confidence is a good thing. I wish more people were like that.

That's exactly why so many on the forum aren't like that. They try too hard not to offend upset put off the majority. I don't understand why.

Don't you "

I can't possibly say. I shall remain an ignoramus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo."

So I don't get your point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

So I don't get your point?"

Attractive people think they’re attractive

Or something like that, I don’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

So I don't get your point?

Attractive people think they’re attractive

Or something like that, I don’t know "

Well done. Thanks for clearing it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

So I don't get your point?

Attractive people think they’re attractive

Or something like that, I don’t know

Well done. Thanks for clearing it up "

You’re most welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't have to be attractive to be like it, the ratio helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

So I don't get your point?

Attractive people think they’re attractive

Or something like that, I don’t know

Well done. Thanks for clearing it up

You’re most welcome. "

You still don't have a point. Your mate couldn't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nora Batty is a very attractive lady, ask Compo.

So I don't get your point?

Attractive people think they’re attractive

Or something like that, I don’t know

Well done. Thanks for clearing it up "

Tried my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of people dislike confident women (not so much men in my experience) especially if they don't conform to conventional ideas of attractiveness.

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

To me a persons attitude defines their hotness.

They may at first be aesthetically pleasing but if their attitude sucks , they immediately become ugly.

I’ve seen men who I don’t think are my type, but yet when I speak to them , there’s an immediate attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining. "

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people dislike confident women (not so much men in my experience) especially if they don't conform to conventional ideas of attractiveness.

"

Yep

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over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool. "

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force."

And Nora batty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?"

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather someone say they think they’re attractive, rather than downplay it purely for the extra attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?"

You really need me to explain it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside "

Well done mate, have a biscuit

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d rather someone say they think they’re attractive, rather than downplay it purely for the extra attention.

And the rest? The ones who are attractive and don't know it? Or aren't attractive and are very aware of the fact?"

In general, conventionally attractive people know they’re attractive. My post is aimed at those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

Some are some aren't. I've learnt to never judge a book by it's cover and at least read the first chapter before making my mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit "

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there. "

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

No.

And no.

To the latter point, a caveat though; does it mean they therefore aren’t up their own arse? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's absolutely nothing wrong with confidence, but when it starts to cross over into arrogance, that's when a person becomes unattractive to me.

Margot Robbie is my dream girl. She's beautiful, smart, funny, down to earth. She carries herself well and she has no problem playing ''ugly'' so to speak. But you'd look at her differently if it turned out she thought she was hot shit. Thinking your better than others for whatever reason isn't an attractive quality in a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?"

Where's that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?"

To some women it is, and it's less attractive to me than the hot people who are "up their own arses".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

Where's that then?"

I couldn't point you to a particular thread, but I seen it.

It's pathetic at times.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?"

No it's not ok,but some men on here sprout nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

Where's that then?"

I hate it when people use “literally” wrong. But It’s literally on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

No it's not ok,but some men on here sprout nonsense."

That’s not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

No it's not ok,but some men on here sprout nonsense."

Meaning me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A confident woman doesn't put other women down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bank holiday weekend FFS. Let's party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there. "

As a single woman I spoke to at a club once out it, on Fab men who would be 8s in the real world get treated like 4s, while women who would be 4s elsewhere get treated like 8s - and sometimes start to act like they're 12s.

It's a crude way to put it, but there's a kernel of truth. Some men on the scene are happy to fuck any woman who'll let them, whether they're attracted to her or not, and some women act like it's their due. I've seen some say outright that single men should be grateful for any attention they get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

Where's that then?

I couldn't point you to a particular thread, but I seen it.

It's pathetic at times."

I was trying to work out where it was pertinent to the thread. The guy is arguing with me but his argument is all over the place and not relevant to the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

Where's that then?

I couldn't point you to a particular thread, but I seen it.

It's pathetic at times.

I was trying to work out where it was pertinent to the thread. The guy is arguing with me but his argument is all over the place and not relevant to the thread. "

Oh right. I have no idea what is going on any more. I'm going to play Angry Birds on my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

As a single woman I spoke to at a club once out it, on Fab men who would be 8s in the real world get treated like 4s, while women who would be 4s elsewhere get treated like 8s - and sometimes start to act like they're 12s.

It's a crude way to put it, but there's a kernel of truth. Some men on the scene are happy to fuck any woman who'll let them, whether they're attracted to her or not, and some women act like it's their due. I've seen some say outright that single men should be grateful for any attention they get."

Right... but that wasn't the op question.


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"

This may be why I'm struggling in the context of the op.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Yes we fucking are, get over it!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"My first point is pretty obvious, doesn’t need explaining.

I disagree. I don't get what Nora batty and compo have to do with anything. If you don't have the balls to explain what you mean. That's cool.

Fab is not representative of real life, we all know there are far more men on here than women, so can give a false impression. Also it seems okay to belittle men on here, but make a light hearted joke about women and the brigade are out in force.

And Nora batty?

I’ll take this one.

There are lots of ugly people on here who get a lot of attention because “any hole is a goal” and it goes to their head and they become as ugly inside as they are on the outside

Well done mate, have a biscuit

Oh a fucking love in.

I get it. Unattractive (in your eyes) people shouldn't get ideas above their station. That's an attractive opinion right there.

What about the belittling of men on these threads I’ve noticed, that’s okay though?

No it's not ok,but some men on here sprout nonsense.

Meaning me?! "

Of course I don't mean you. Cough cough.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's a bank holiday weekend FFS. Let's party!"

You bring the drink and food and I'll bring myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points. "

Yes. With your valid ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bank holiday weekend FFS. Let's party!

You bring the drink and food and I'll bring myself."

See you in a few hours then. Don't bother bringing clothes

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I think it tends to be those that believe their own hype that are up their own arses . Keep blowing smoke up ppls arses for long enough they’ll believe it. Equally put ppl down often enough they’ll believe that too and they’ll lose confidence. A point I tried to make frequently on the forum when I first landed and men bashing was constant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Yes. With your valid ones "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points. "

What were they?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points. "

What points? You have horns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they? "

I saw none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it tends to be those that believe their own hype that are up their own arses . Keep blowing smoke up ppls arses for long enough they’ll believe it. Equally put ppl down often enough they’ll believe that too and they’ll lose confidence. A point I tried to make frequently on the forum when I first landed and men bashing was constant "

Pity people didn't listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What points? You have horns? "

What impalas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none"

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points. "

Im struggling to see a point mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate"

It’s only you then mate, cause everyone else is in full agreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

It’s only you then mate, cause everyone else is in full agreement."

Not from what i just read

But if it is only me im happy to be a lone wolf

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Don't look at me!

*Fawns*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

It’s only you then mate, cause everyone else is in full agreement."

Are you on a different thread to what I've been reading?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't look at me!

*Fawns*"

Bambi *and* Jimi?!

My perfect day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

It’s only you then mate, cause everyone else is in full agreement.

Are you on a different thread to what I've been reading? "

Not you as well, everyone else had got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a tad up one’s arse to think you’re the person to decide who is a Nora Batty or not (or Compo etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate"

We all are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I don't like Beyoncé and I'm too young to know Nora Batty without Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all hot people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I don't like Beyoncé and I'm too young to know Nora Batty without Google "

I’m younger than you and remember Nora Batty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can usually tell by their breath. If their head isnso far up their arse it must stink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

We all are. "

Im starting to sense a hidden agenda hiding behind the nora batty thing as were still waiting for this pearl of wisdome from the tame one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?! "

I'm totally fucking lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I don't like Beyoncé and I'm too young to know Nora Batty without Google "

I don't know which is worse, you not knowing who Nora Batty is or me being younger than you AND knowing who she is without Google. I feel like I'm back at school and I'm gonna get told off for being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

I'm totally fucking lost."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can everyone stop going about Nora Batty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

I'm totally fucking lost."

It’s just a bludgeoning of a point and a bludgeoning of a pull a point apart. Neither aspect being particularly interesting (IMO) at this point. The original OP query is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

We all are.

Im starting to sense a hidden agenda hiding behind the nora batty thing as were still waiting for this pearl of wisdome from the tame one"

Ah I don't care about that bull shit. I don't play childish games with hidden agendas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

I'm totally fucking lost.

It’s just a bludgeoning of a point and a bludgeoning of a pull a point apart. Neither aspect being particularly interesting (IMO) at this point. The original OP query is. "

Have we gone off on a tangent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

We all are.

Im starting to sense a hidden agenda hiding behind the nora batty thing as were still waiting for this pearl of wisdome from the tame one"

Haha, think you’re over thinking it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

We all are.

Im starting to sense a hidden agenda hiding behind the nora batty thing as were still waiting for this pearl of wisdome from the tame one

Ah I don't care about that bull shit. I don't play childish games with hidden agendas. "

I know what u mean but its just a feeling im getting

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points. "

Nope (didn't read them) Tried looking but took more than 10 secs so couldn't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

I'm totally fucking lost.

It’s just a bludgeoning of a point and a bludgeoning of a pull a point apart. Neither aspect being particularly interesting (IMO) at this point. The original OP query is.

Have we gone off on a tangent? "

Of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

What were they?

I saw none

Have we forgotten about Nora Batty already?!

I'm totally fucking lost.

It’s just a bludgeoning of a point and a bludgeoning of a pull a point apart. Neither aspect being particularly interesting (IMO) at this point. The original OP query is. "

^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Nope (didn't read them) Tried looking but took more than 10 secs so couldn't be arsed "

Thank you for your input.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"So in conclusion, everyone was in agreement with my very valid points.

Im struggling to see a point mate

We all are.

Im starting to sense a hidden agenda hiding behind the nora batty thing as were still waiting for this pearl of wisdome from the tame one

Haha, think you’re over thinking it."

Isnt it time you got your keys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sooner this gets to 175 posts the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face. "

I am

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

No its not looks that would make me think someone was up their own arse it would be their attitude "

Definitely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face. "

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off "

It's like leaving kids to play nicely and coming back to the house covered in crayon and mashed potato.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off

It's like leaving kids to play nicely and coming back to the house covered in crayon and mashed potato. "

Im sowwy miss

We didnt mean to be bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off

It's like leaving kids to play nicely and coming back to the house covered in crayon and mashed potato. "

And wondering where the fuck they got the mashed potato from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it tends to be those that believe their own hype that are up their own arses . Keep blowing smoke up ppls arses for long enough they’ll believe it. Equally put ppl down often enough they’ll believe that too and they’ll lose confidence. A point I tried to make frequently on the forum when I first landed and men bashing was constant "

I agree with this. It's the same in relationships.

It often seems to be a war on here. I don't understand why some people want to have sex with a gender they seem to hate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off

It's like leaving kids to play nicely and coming back to the house covered in crayon and mashed potato.

Im sowwy miss

We didnt mean to be bad "

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

Being hot and being up your own arse are not mutually exclusive. I know some proper bog trotters that are quite adept at being up their own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this were real life I'd be walking around in circles scratching my head, with a quizzical look on my face.

Yeah I'm fecking stumped too....Bloody steely starts a thread then Fecks off

It's like leaving kids to play nicely and coming back to the house covered in crayon and mashed potato.

Im sowwy miss

We didnt mean to be bad

"

Do i need a smacked bum ok asuming the position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it tends to be those that believe their own hype that are up their own arses . Keep blowing smoke up ppls arses for long enough they’ll believe it. Equally put ppl down often enough they’ll believe that too and they’ll lose confidence. A point I tried to make frequently on the forum when I first landed and men bashing was constant

I agree with this. It's the same in relationships.

It often seems to be a war on here. I don't understand why some people want to have sex with a gender they seem to hate."

That's exactly what I thought when I first started using the forums. It seemed to me that certain women were constantly bashing men. I put it down to low self esteem.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé."

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want! "

This is actually a really valid and oft (on the forum) ignored point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want! "

I know what I look like. It's not my fault attractive men don't care

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it tends to be those that believe their own hype that are up their own arses . Keep blowing smoke up ppls arses for long enough they’ll believe it. Equally put ppl down often enough they’ll believe that too and they’ll lose confidence. A point I tried to make frequently on the forum when I first landed and men bashing was constant

I agree with this. It's the same in relationships.

It often seems to be a war on here. I don't understand why some people want to have sex with a gender they seem to hate.

That's exactly what I thought when I first started using the forums. It seemed to me that certain women were constantly bashing men. I put it down to low self esteem.

"

It will always be the same, just different people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want! "

I know this is supposed to be an empowering statement for women but the kid in the sweet shop thing just makes me think of a meat (buyers) market. Women don't like being treated like meat yet they do the same to men.

It just seems like a power struggle. I think it should be mutual fun and appreciation. It's not good to make one set of people feel good by tearing down another set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

This is actually a really valid and oft (on the forum) ignored point. "

Forumites will quite happily believe their version of truth is truth. Like the majority of the population

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over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

I know what I look like. It's not my fault attractive men don't care "

When I was in my 20's I was pursued by gorgeous young men in their 20's. Then, after a 20 year marriage and 5 years off for good behaviour I went on a certain dating site and found that I was STILL being pursued by the same -gorgeous men in their 20's!

I howled with laughter at the ludicrous reality of it and 'Cried all the way to the bunk' so so speak lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

I know this is supposed to be an empowering statement for women but the kid in the sweet shop thing just makes me think of a meat (buyers) market. Women don't like being treated like meat yet they do the same to men.

It just seems like a power struggle. I think it should be mutual fun and appreciation. It's not good to make one set of people feel good by tearing down another set. "

Jeez what do you have against women??,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

I know this is supposed to be an empowering statement for women but the kid in the sweet shop thing just makes me think of a meat (buyers) market. Women don't like being treated like meat yet they do the same to men.

It just seems like a power struggle. I think it should be mutual fun and appreciation. It's not good to make one set of people feel good by tearing down another set. "

Agreed. But I also think there’s a fair bit of collating some of the empowered behaviour as being man-hating too - not abusive behaviour, but sometimes the assertive behaviour can be dismissed as being abusive too, which is also a major problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

This is actually a really valid and oft (on the forum) ignored point.

Forumites will quite happily believe their version of truth is truth. Like the majority of the population"

Nods. Now that *is* true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a hot person thinks they are hot, is that a bad thing?

If you see a hot woman in a sexy tight dress or a hot man in a tight shirt showing off his 6 pack, does it make you think they are up their own arse?

"
i would say yes lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want!

I know this is supposed to be an empowering statement for women but the kid in the sweet shop thing just makes me think of a meat (buyers) market. Women don't like being treated like meat yet they do the same to men.

It just seems like a power struggle. I think it should be mutual fun and appreciation. It's not good to make one set of people feel good by tearing down another set. "

I totally agree, I don't agree with tearing anyone down, least of all men - I love 'em! And I hate games and power struggles - when I met a bunch of young men it was mutual fun and appreciation all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few Nora Battys on here who think they look like Beyoncé.

I think men wrongly assume because some women on here have learned to wield the power they have found they possess, because fab is a buyers market, that their attitude comes from arrogance or some kind of delusional state.

I reckon most are just like a kid in a sweet shop realising they can have whatever they want! "

This is true as I have heard it said more then once that fab is the only place that women have all the power...sadly to some it goes to thier heads. Not all but some..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

On the other hand, some of them are just right up themselves!

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