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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Veri, change how you used the site?

We're you no longer desperate? Get contacted more? Felt more choosy?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It got me more meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. All it did was give me a green tick and proved I’m real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. All it did was give me a green tick and proved I’m real. "

It's a lovely shade of green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't actually remember getting my first..

But it would have been about 7yrs ago so thats my excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more men contact me. I guess they thought that veri made me genuine and more likely to meet them (there are a lot of moans about timewasters and fakes on my local updates).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't make any difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but never have been desperate

Its all one big game

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It gave me more confidence in myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Women profiles can have no pics no text no veris and men will still mail them.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Not that I noticed. I still had filters on and met someone I contacted first though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first veri changed my perspectives on a lot of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, even with a couple of verifications I was still regularly accused of being fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't remember who gave me my first. In my first 6 months on here I met a lot of men; I can't remember if the first one verified me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it was a cam veri. Just proved I'm real.

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By *yronutMan
over a year ago

St Austell

All of a sudden I am getting 'viewed' by men..... I'm straight.... Before first very I never ever got a view....

At least its an improvement.... That said one of two couples looking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It allowed me to post on the forums

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I was very different in those long ago days and had a meet the same day - i now take weeks - but as others say, it's mainly difficult for single men. I don't think it's changed much, though those who prefer to contact people with a veri would obviously message.

Some would message a profile for a decaying tree stump with a hole, with or without a veri.

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"No, even with a couple of verifications I was still regularly accused of being fake"

Same, although why anyone thinks I would fake old,fat and grumpy is beyond me!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

This is my second time on the site. The first time I managed to find a meet (and get verfied) very quickly. I then had a break and expected it to be easy when i returned with a brand new profile. But it took a long time before i got a meet and the verification did help get more.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I think it has got harder thsn it was eight or so years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No difference, oh hang on I'm lying, my first veri had a number of what I'd call "in jokes" which actually made it worse for me on here grrrrr

You then get questioned "why have you hid my veri "

Etc etc and it's not like you can stipulate what they put......oh shit I've just realised where I'm going wrong hahahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it hasn't changed a thing for me. Maybe I get more polite no thank you's rather than no replies at all but that's about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was veried three times within an hour of joining as I joined after going to a club.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Neither my first nor my last have made any difference other than proving I'm genuine and real which is what they're there for.

In fact I was recently in a position where a veri I'd left for someone else was totally unfairly used against them in a thread and caused me to question the value of publishing them at all - although on balance I decided I have nothing to hide and if people want to judge based on them it's their problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. All it did was give me a green tick and proved I’m real. "

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