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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Pleas reed all of this post.

If you agree just post ... Yes....

If this gets 175 yes,s Mabey admin will notice it.

Ok so unless you no this link.......

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

The forum rules seem to be impossible to akses.

At lest on a mobile anyway I'm not Shor about pc....

Wood it be a good idear to add a tab at the top of the forum list that takes you to the rules ???

If the rules got pind to the top of the main forum page.

It wood make mods and admins lives easyarr cos thay wood not haf to keep telling people of for braking them. As new and old people will be able to akses them and see them.

Even now thar is no way to see the rules unles you no that link.... Witch a new member is never going to no.

At the moment thar are Onley 2 tabs at the top of the main forum page. Thay are......

#Recent threads you posted to

And

#Forum search.

If you add a tab clearly named forum rules that took you straight to the rules thar wood be no excuse for anyone to brake them. As people will be able to find and see them with ezz. And the people that did brak them wood have clearly broke them on purpose.

But rite no the rules are almost impossible to find so as a result anyone can brake them under the clam that thay had no idear of the rules. Witch most onistley don't no the rules. Sum don't even no Thar are rules in the 1st place.

How can anyone no the rules of the forum,s if the rules are not on show and carnt be found in the 1st place. ?

Just post...yes.... if you agree.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - definitely please!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Yes that sounds sensible

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I wos hopeing for a fue mor than this

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

What a sensible, and long-overdue, idea Seeside

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Yes.

What a sensible, and long-overdue, idea Seeside

Thanks.

Shame clearly most don't seem to think so cos this thread is like a gost town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I wos hopeing for a fue mor than this

The thing is countless threads have been started about various suggestions but rarely is something implemented. We just need to wait for the powers that be to decide these thing's.

People break rules anyway even if it's plastered under their noses.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I wos hopeing for a fue mor than this

The thing is countless threads have been started about various suggestions but rarely is something implemented. We just need to wait for the powers that be to decide these thing's.

People break rules anyway even if it's plastered under their noses."

It also depends on how one person reads the rules compared to another, I've been put on the naughty step for saying things that I didn't think was breaking the rules when others have said similar comments and got away with it,

Just removing the comments should be enough and time outs for repeat offenders

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I wos hopeing for a fue mor than this

The thing is countless threads have been started about various suggestions but rarely is something implemented. We just need to wait for the powers that be to decide these thing's.

People break rules anyway even if it's plastered under their noses."

Yes People break rules anyway.

But not all of them brak them on purpose.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I wos hopeing for a fue mor than this

The thing is countless threads have been started about various suggestions but rarely is something implemented. We just need to wait for the powers that be to decide these thing's.

People break rules anyway even if it's plastered under their noses.

Just removing the comments should be enough and time outs for repeat offenders"

I no wot you meen thar. And i think that larst bit is also good idear to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also a link or a copy of the post that lead to the ban, in the 'banning email' to make it clearer what the ban was for.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Yes

Its a good idea,some peeps gna be twats anyway but its not going to do any harm is it?

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

There are rules somewhere?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Also a link or a copy of the post that lead to the ban, in the 'banning email' to make it clearer what the ban was for. "

Now that I agree with.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Also a link or a copy of the post that lead to the ban, in the 'banning email' to make it clearer what the ban was for.

Now that I agree with."

Definitely agree with this

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Also a link or a copy of the post that lead to the ban, in the 'banning email' to make it clearer what the ban was for. "

100% agree with this

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"There are rules somewhere?"

This is y this thread is up.

This is My point ezakley.

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By *ondonexplorerMan
over a year ago

Ascot

A spell checker would be good!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Also a link or a copy of the post that lead to the ban, in the 'banning email' to make it clearer what the ban was for.

Now that I agree with.

Definitely agree with this

It's always good to know exactly what your crime was eh.

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

"A spell checker would be good!!

I hope for your sake that wasn't a dig at the O.P

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Does it really matter? I think it's a bit sad even to care. It's an online forum. If you get a ban for a day or a few, then so what?

It's hardly life changing or important is it?

And if they tell you in detail, then they will have to employ someone to do that, and then someone to answer the appeals. And that will raise costs, and then the site will stop being free to use.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Pleas reed all of this post.

If you agree just post ... Yes....

If this gets 175 yes,s Mabey admin will notice it.

Ok so unless you no this link.......

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

The forum rules seem to be impossible to akses.

At lest on a mobile anyway I'm not Shor about pc....

Wood it be a good idear to add a tab at the top of the forum list that takes you to the rules ???

If the rules got pind to the top of the main forum page.

It wood make mods and admins lives easyarr cos thay wood not haf to keep telling people of for braking them. As new and old people will be able to akses them and see them.

Even now thar is no way to see the rules unles you no that link.... Witch a new member is never going to no.

At the moment thar are Onley 2 tabs at the top of the main forum page. Thay are......

#Recent threads you posted to

And

#Forum search.

How can anyone no the rules of the forum,s if the rules are not on show and carnt be found in the 1st place. ?

Just post...yes.... if you agree.

I did think about making the rules a sticky thread that people had to read before they could post on any of the forums.

Maybe have a "yes I've read the rules" tick box which then allowed people to post.

I know they'd still skim to the end and tick the box, but no one could say "I've never seen the rules"

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does it really matter? I think it's a bit sad even to care. It's an online forum. If you get a ban for a day or a few, then so what?

It's hardly life changing or important is it?

And if they tell you in detail, then they will have to employ someone to do that, and then someone to answer the appeals. And that will raise costs, and then the site will stop being free to use.

I suspect if someone gets too many holidays they might get a permanent one?

A non swinging forum I post on has an xxx strikes and you're out policy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

Does this not still rely on someone actually reading them, regardless of where they are??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, it would be an idea to have them easier to access, but maybe a re-writing of them is in order too, to make them less ambiguous - you can fall foul of the rules whilst trying to adhere to them!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Does it really matter? I think it's a bit sad even to care. It's an online forum. If you get a ban for a day or a few, then so what?

It's hardly life changing or important is it?

And if they tell you in detail, then they will have to employ someone to do that, and then someone to answer the appeals. And that will raise costs, and then the site will stop being free to use.

I suspect if someone gets too many holidays they might get a permanent one?

A non swinging forum I post on has an xxx strikes and you're out policy...."

Many people have had a permanent vacation that used to post regularly on here......

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes. If they were easier to access it would remove the ignorance plee

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

no, not everyone uses the forums, the rules can be found easily!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does it really matter? I think it's a bit sad even to care. It's an online forum. If you get a ban for a day or a few, then so what?

It's hardly life changing or important is it?

And if they tell you in detail, then they will have to employ someone to do that, and then someone to answer the appeals. And that will raise costs, and then the site will stop being free to use.

I suspect if someone gets too many holidays they might get a permanent one?

A non swinging forum I post on has an xxx strikes and you're out policy....

Many people have had a permanent vacation that used to post regularly on here......"

There you go then.....

Most forums will eventually say goodbye to recidavists.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Does it really matter? I think it's a bit sad even to care. It's an online forum. If you get a ban for a day or a few, then so what?

It's hardly life changing or important is it?

And its hardly fair for a new member to get a day or wotever ban for braking a rules thay had no idear exzosted to start with.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"no, not everyone uses the forums, the rules can be found easily!"

Pleas say Wear thay are then.

With No links.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I can't really remember now but isn't there something about the rules when you join up?

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I can't really remember now but isn't there something about the rules when you join up?"

I'm.not Shor i think thar may be the link but not Shor.

And if it dus have the link.

Wot if sumone deleted that message by alto delete or axsardount or delibrate.

Thar is no other way to see the rules.

And that's the problem.

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

No.... I have never read fab rules

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I can't really remember now but isn't there something about the rules when you join up?

I'm.not Shor i think thar may be the link but not Shor.

And if it dus have the link.

Wot if sumone deleted that message by alto delete or axsardount or delibrate.

Thar is no other way to see the rules.

And that's the problem."

Well at the end of the day we all very quickly learn the rules don't we with our little holidays.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I can't really remember now but isn't there something about the rules when you join up?

I'm.not Shor i think thar may be the link but not Shor.

And if it dus have the link.

Wot if sumone deleted that message by alto delete or axsardount or delibrate.

Thar is no other way to see the rules.

And that's the problem.

Well at the end of the day we all very quickly learn the rules don't we with our little holidays."

Yes i won't deniy that. But that's not my point

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Keep on posting _eeside x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And yes to rules clearly posted. Only yesterday did I advise a couple to remove a post because they quoted from a pm. I was questioned and didn’t deign to reply and their post was subsequently removed.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes it makes so much sense

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Hoo els agrees with this ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hoo els agrees with this ?

Actually, Seeside, your lack of spelling reminds me of Chaucer when agreed spellings of words had not yet been agreed so in that respect, Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Although I’ve called someone a twat once because they deserved it. Rules are there to be broken sometimes

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You can't force people to read the rules, most people say they know them then give the wrong advice to people on the forum about them/ break them themselves and end up banned so I am not sure it would make any difference where the rules were.

Four people who say they know the rules broke them on this thread one of which said " see you in a couple of days" so it proves my point.

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

Here are the forum rules if anyone wants to read them. Admin are aware they are not on the mobile option and if they decide to put them on there I am sure they will let us all know.

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