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By *easers4u OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

Hey everyone. I was speaking to someone the other day, helping him with the wording of some of his messages (a little too forward too quickly, resulting in blocking/deleting etc) Anywho he said to me your not getting so much attention because of your looks and personality, it's because your a willing woman with a vagina! He's not easily offended so it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to my comments.

So my question is, do you guys (an gals) actually look at a profile or is a willing vagina enough? I mean I've heard of not looking at the fireplace when stoking the fire, however surely there's got to be some attraction at first right?! Or is he right, in which case my confidence has been well and truly knocked... fecker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure your willing vagina has great looks and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted there wasn't any pics of your vagina on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly on our account need attractions for any thing more than social definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure your willing vagina has great looks and personality

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Mine’s a right cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be a mix of everything for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be attraction end of, if not, it isn't happening no matter how willing the vagina is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure your willing vagina has great looks and personality

Mine’s a right cunt."

Actually, correction - a lefty cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone. I was speaking to someone the other day, helping him with the wording of some of his messages (a little too forward too quickly, resulting in blocking/deleting etc) Anywho he said to me your not getting so much attention because of your looks and personality, it's because your a willing woman with a vagina! He's not easily offended so it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to my comments.

So my question is, do you guys (an gals) actually look at a profile or is a willing vagina enough? I mean I've heard of not looking at the fireplace when stoking the fire, however surely there's got to be some attraction at first right?! Or is he right, in which case my confidence has been well and truly knocked... fecker "

I prefer profiles with few or no pics. I chat to them so don't care if they have no profile text. I don't treat people as meat.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

I would take it as meaning anything towards you, men are different to women, the fact glory holes exist proves there's a lack of interest in the other party.

Personally I prefer mental attraction, over looks, though not totally discounting looks i'm not daft (I hope)

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I wouldn't let one persons opinion knock you, remember what they say about opinions and arseholes - everyones got one!

Yes I'm sure lots of men's mantra is 'any holes a goal' but then they grow up (well some of them do!) , and find out that meaningful sex is so much more satisfying and experimental; I'm sure there are lots of things you wouldn't dream of trying with a stranger on a one night stand.

Quality over quantity everytime for me

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

wouldn't take (not would) effin typin!

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By *ruckerdan84Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well it could be both if you looking just for some gratification then maybe not looking at the face pics but if you looking for hot steamy passionate love making then they has to be some visual stimulation

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's due to attitudes like this that I haven't had sex since March last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you call a vagina with teeth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be more of a connection than the one between a cock and a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a bit of something in the people we play with, not always looks just being able to have a laugh is enough for us.

If we’re all happy we will happily play with them.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hey everyone. I was speaking to someone the other day, helping him with the wording of some of his messages (a little too forward too quickly, resulting in blocking/deleting etc) Anywho he said to me your not getting so much attention because of your looks and personality, it's because your a willing woman with a vagina! He's not easily offended so it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to my comments.

So my question is, do you guys (an gals) actually look at a profile or is a willing vagina enough? I mean I've heard of not looking at the fireplace when stoking the fire, however surely there's got to be some attraction at first right?! Or is he right, in which case my confidence has been well and truly knocked... fecker "

by the look of your photos your a very sexually attractive women can't know you any other way as we have not meet or spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't let one persons opinion knock you, remember what they say about opinions and arseholes - everyones got one!

Yes I'm sure lots of men's mantra is 'any holes a goal' but then they grow up (well some of them do!) , and find out that meaningful sex is so much more satisfying and experimental; I'm sure there are lots of things you wouldn't dream of trying with a stranger on a one night stand.

Quality over quantity everytime for me

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YES! Quality is much better than quantity

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By *easers4u OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

Thanks everyone, funny isn't it how it takes so much to get our confidence up and so little to knock it down again...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Someone I'm chatting to with a view to meeting's vagina (or cock for that matter) is the last thing on my mind when I start talking to them, and in fact even after I've talked to them for a while - far more important to me is establishing whether they have a personality and physicality I'm attracted to, and then whether there's a chemistry and connection - without those things the contents of someone's pants don't even cross my mind

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By *urlesque!Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's due to attitudes like this that I haven't had sex since March last year

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I understand where you are coming from. I try to select those who are engaging at another level hence my choice of not having a picture readily available.

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By *indaDILFlikeMan
over a year ago

wirral

"Hey everyone. I was speaking to someone the other day, helping him with the wording of some of his messages (a little too forward too quickly, resulting in blocking/deleting etc) Anywho he said to me your not getting so much attention because of your looks and personality, it's because your a willing woman with a vagina! He's not easily offended so it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to my comments.

So my question is, do you guys (an gals) actually look at a profile or is a willing vagina enough? I mean I've heard of not looking at the fireplace when stoking the fire, however surely there's got to be some attraction at first right?! Or is he right, in which case my confidence has been well and truly knocked... fecker "

I honestly look at pictures, see if there my type, read the essay that they have spent years writing and then msg...then I don't get a reply. Should just bullet point profiles in my opinion...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Thanks everyone, funny isn't it how it takes so much to get our confidence up and so little to knock it down again..."

Its so easy to believe a negative then a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See, I try to engage and chat. But my problem is I'm too honest... Like, I'll say I've not been with anyone since I broke up with my ex 2 years ago as it broke me and for a long time I still felt like I'd be cheating on her even if we wasn't together. Because I here was still feelings there. Now why do I say it??? Why mention my ex, I know it's not the thing to do lol. Also I tend to write too much, go into too much detail I think. If someone asks what am I into I'll write a bloody essay about what I like lol. Need to calm it down a bit I think. I don't talk about sex or anything... I like to get to know someone first as it's the most important thing.... Anyway, I am who I am if I wasn't I'd be someone else

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By *easers4u OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

See this is what i thought too before he made me doubt myself. I could never imagine arranging a meet with someone I'm not attracted too no matter how well endowed they were, i find personality a major turn on

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP this guy's comment says everything about the attitude of some men on fab and it says far more about him than it does of you.

Thank goodness they're not all like this otherwise my fanny would have sealed up by now

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Surely got to be some connection / attraction. Or you would be as well buying a fake vagina from a sex shop.

Got to be able to chat and have a laugh as well.

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By *man86Man
over a year ago

stocport

There has to be a attraction if its physical or mental but usually it will be from a phisical attraction. But personally I usually need both to feel comfortable with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a difficult question to answer without seeing your vagina, We’d almost certainly say you but you could have the most amazing vagina in the history of vagina’s that Just has to be fucked no matter if we met and we didn’t find you compatible and then by no fault of our own We’d have been dishonest.

If you’d be so good as to forward a few pictures of your vagina We’ll make an accurate decision for you.

Thanks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"OP this guy's comment says everything about the attitude of some men on fab and it says far more about him than it does of you.

Thank goodness they're not all like this otherwise my fanny would have sealed up by now

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I fear mine already has

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By *indaDILFlikeMan
over a year ago

wirral

"It’s a difficult question to answer without seeing your vagina, We’d almost certainly say you but you could have the most amazing vagina in the history of vagina’s that Just has to be fucked no matter if we met and we didn’t find you compatible and then by no fault of our own We’d have been dishonest.

If you’d be so good as to forward a few pictures of your vagina We’ll make an accurate decision for you.

Thanks "

Now that's what you call support and kindness.

Good for you guys, good for you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Every woman has a vagina... Not everyone has a naughty twinkle in her eye ..a sense of humour... enthusiasm , cute dimples and generally make a man feel that he is the best thing she's been waiting for and spent a good deal of time and trouble getting ready to meet

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By *easers4u OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"It’s a difficult question to answer without seeing your vagina, We’d almost certainly say you but you could have the most amazing vagina in the history of vagina’s that Just has to be fucked no matter if we met and we didn’t find you compatible and then by no fault of our own We’d have been dishonest.

If you’d be so good as to forward a few pictures of your vagina We’ll make an accurate decision for you.

Thanks "

That is such a kind offer, Thank you for taking one for the team! See there are lovely people out there. Now to go stick my legs in the air while artfully trying to take a pic of said vagina without doing myself an injury...if you don't hear back from me I did indeed do said injury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's completely different from men to women, even person to person I do t think it's entirely gender specific although it is more common for a man to be able to literally fuck anything than a woman to do the same.

Myself personally, I could never ever have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to, guys could very well have had sex with me just because I have a fanny and it was available.

I try and ensure they do actually find me attractive, I do this by going to places in public with them, like a restaurant, a coffee shop or even walking around Asda with them to pick up munch if we're just in the house, but it's not a fool proof method.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be a connection of some sort otherwise I find it all a bit cold.

Quality over quantity all the time for me.

I’d rather take the time and it not go anywhere then lay there afterwards thinking Hmmmm!

Wasnt all that!

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By *leasureme99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Nothing wrong with your profile, beautiful legs, tits and ass, and nice tats, he's probably just pissed as you guys are well out of his league and he wouldn't stand a chance lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hey everyone. I was speaking to someone the other day, helping him with the wording of some of his messages (a little too forward too quickly, resulting in blocking/deleting etc) Anywho he said to me your not getting so much attention because of your looks and personality, it's because your a willing woman with a vagina! He's not easily offended so it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to my comments.

So my question is, do you guys (an gals) actually look at a profile or is a willing vagina enough? I mean I've heard of not looking at the fireplace when stoking the fire, however surely there's got to be some attraction at first right?! Or is he right, in which case my confidence has been well and truly knocked... fecker "

We look at a profile , check out how long they’ve been on the site , check their verifications ( if any ) , look at the pics , and then guess whether they would be up for a genuine meet or not . So yeah a willing cock or vagina ( or both ) , is part of the criteria we look for .

There’s no point in having attraction if the people aren’t likely to meet is there ?

If they are likely to meet there is a certain amount of truth to the fact that they are a willing cock / vagina . Just as we are too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at profiles first.

While pictures are normally the first thing that get my attention, their profile text is more important. I'll read that and decide from there whether I think we'd be a good match.

I need more than just a willing cock to be able to fuck someone. And yes initial attraction is a must, but if the personality doesn't match the pictures then I lose interest straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like someone and have some sort of connection ... I'm not desperate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a difficult question to answer without seeing your vagina, We’d almost certainly say you but you could have the most amazing vagina in the history of vagina’s that Just has to be fucked no matter if we met and we didn’t find you compatible and then by no fault of our own We’d have been dishonest.

If you’d be so good as to forward a few pictures of your vagina We’ll make an accurate decision for you.

Thanks

That is such a kind offer, Thank you for taking one for the team! See there are lovely people out there. Now to go stick my legs in the air while artfully trying to take a pic of said vagina without doing myself an injury...if you don't hear back from me I did indeed do said injury "

We’re getting worried

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By *easers4u OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"It’s a difficult question to answer without seeing your vagina, We’d almost certainly say you but you could have the most amazing vagina in the history of vagina’s that Just has to be fucked no matter if we met and we didn’t find you compatible and then by no fault of our own We’d have been dishonest.

If you’d be so good as to forward a few pictures of your vagina We’ll make an accurate decision for you.

Thanks

That is such a kind offer, Thank you for taking one for the team! See there are lovely people out there. Now to go stick my legs in the air while artfully trying to take a pic of said vagina without doing myself an injury...if you don't hear back from me I did indeed do said injury

We’re getting worried

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I tried soo hard! After much effing and jeffing and a red face nothing to do with the task at hand but the sheer effort, I gave up...God loves a tryer though eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on here are not looking for a wife.

Most wouldn't turn down a willing vagina their physically attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want women for their vaginas. Although, it's the labia and cliroris I mainly want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are arseholes and have that mindset, but then some woman are too. I think you can soon figure these people out, like you said he was too forward on his first message. I like to chew people's ears off prior to a meet and then they have to be willing to social with me and it has to be obvious they are into me not just a willing vagina. That's why I seldom meet, when I do I know that they are on my wave length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a good look through the profile... an attraction is important (as is trying to avoid dissapointment when I am not what they are looking for). If they're pics are good ... and I mean that there isn't everything hanging out on show (need to leave something to the imagination)... I am within their age range etc and they appear not up their own arse on the text then I'll message them... it's not all about the vagina xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sure your willing vagina has great looks and personality

Mine’s a right cunt.

Actually, correction - a lefty cunt.

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I was going to say that, then thought you might have said it. You did say it. I'm right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess being on this site it’s hard not to be a bit cynical and rightly so... I think if someone is willing to chat to you and invest some time in getting to know you as a person then hopefully that’s a sign that it’s not just about the vagina...sex And a connection is a strange thing... do women invest more emotionally into it then men Im not sure... I’m sure it is probably equal on both sides... all you can do is be who you are and hope for the best and even though we come across people who make us feel shit...it’s worth it when we find someone who stimulates us mentally as well as physically!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess being on this site it’s hard not to be a bit cynical and rightly so... I think if someone is willing to chat to you and invest some time in getting to know you as a person then hopefully that’s a sign that it’s not just about the vagina...sex And a connection is a strange thing... do women invest more emotionally into it then men Im not sure... I’m sure it is probably equal on both sides... all you can do is be who you are and hope for the best and even though we come across people who make us feel shit...it’s worth it when we find someone who stimulates us mentally as well as physically!! "

Well said xxx

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

If I’m being honest...

Good looks are always a win for me

But if you can’t spell, smoke, or have a weird profile... it’s a bit of a turn off

But, if you are clever, funny and seem like my kind of gal... you will always rank higher than most on my hotlist

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