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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you think some people are born miserable? I used to think it was circumstances that turned people miserable but i think that some just wallow in misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some get off being miserable and hate others having fun .

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Do you think some people are born miserable? I used to think it was circumstances that turned people miserable but i think that some just wallow in misery "

I see people everyday who thinks the world owes them something when really the world owes them bugger all. Then I see people who have gone through the most tragic of events and are always smiling and are a pleasure..

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Do you think some people are born miserable? I used to think it was circumstances that turned people miserable but i think that some just wallow in misery "

I think you are right, some seem to enjoy wallowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people really can't help themselves. A good friend of mine is married to a miserable twat. In all the years I've known them, I can honestly say I've never heard him say anything other than negative, miserable bollocks! it makes me quite angry at times cos she is such a sweety.

I won't spend time with negative types, it's too exhausting frankly.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There used to be this woman i know and she would start nearly every sentence with "ive had a hard life" only a couple of years older and no worse a life than anyone but god she would go on to anyone that would listen

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Funsuckers!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think life may have dealt them a blow and they are unable to deal with it in the short, medium and long term...

Often it will be a case of a change ( temp or perm ) to a part of their life that causes the pain or upset. Some are prepared to do that, others not.... and sadly for those, things may not change.

It takes a great deal of ownership to resolve, but it will only be when they 'own' their happiness will it change. Till then much of the same.

In swinging, my first few years were great, then it stopped being fun so I changed how I approached it... since then, it is fun again... but in a totally different way.

No one can make me happy except ME... others may help... but it is always down to me.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

If i wasn't paranoid i'd think you f*c*e*s were talking about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If i wasn't paranoid i'd think you f*c*e*s were talking about me. "
lol no your lovely make us smile alot here at times ..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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If i wasn't paranoid i'd think you f*c*e*s were talking about me. "

stop being paranoid.....we are

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and to be fair.... the biggest smiles are often on the faces of the people with the least..........

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


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If i wasn't paranoid i'd think you f*c*e*s were talking about me. lol no your lovely make us smile alot here at times .. "

speak for yourself i think hes a miserable git

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"and to be fair.... the biggest smiles are often on the faces of the people with the least.........."

that's very true

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I can't be paranoid anyhow, no-ones out to get me, sob sob.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"and to be fair.... the biggest smiles are often on the faces of the people with the least..........

that's very true"

though it does take a brave man to smile with only 2"

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

If i wasn't paranoid i'd think you f*c*e*s were talking about me. lol no your lovely make us smile alot here at times ..

speak for yourself i think hes a miserable git "

OI, miserable old git if you will.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"and to be fair.... the biggest smiles are often on the faces of the people with the least..........

that's very true

though it does take a brave man to smile with only 2""

but he can lick a cream cake from the other side of the counter

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"There used to be this woman i know and she would start nearly every sentence with "ive had a hard life" only a couple of years older and no worse a life than anyone but god she would go on to anyone that would listen"

i think at times any attention will do for some people - and if they cant get it, or the right type for them, by being positive then they will seek/elicit sympathy by sharing situations where they are the "victim" or "helpless" .

others just like to make others as miserable as they feel, or are jealous of other's more positive outlook or preceived better life than theirs. " Car crash" friends - and i try to avoid them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can't be paranoid anyhow, no-ones out to get me, sob sob."
no one is . We like you far to much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't we all just turn those frowns....upside down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short to be miserable, now piss off and let me eat me gruel

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"There used to be this woman i know and she would start nearly every sentence with "ive had a hard life" only a couple of years older and no worse a life than anyone but god she would go on to anyone that would listen

i think at times any attention will do for some people - and if they cant get it, or the right type for them, by being positive then they will seek/elicit sympathy by sharing situations where they are the "victim" or "helpless" .

others just like to make others as miserable as they feel, or are jealous of other's more positive outlook or preceived better life than theirs. " Car crash" friends - and i try to avoid them ! "

Couldnt agree more really, there are two types of people victims and survivors and only yourself can choose which path to take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know what you mean, some people i know just like to keep telling me about what a hard life they have had, when i have had my problems over the years, i just dont see the point of boring people, i prefer to keep it to myself. Then i do know some people who are always smiling even though they have had such bad luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found some miserable people who have to be right all the time its there way and there way only ... my mums a bit like this , lol no matter what you say and do thay are always right ... even when wrong ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can make me happy except ME... others may help... but it is always down to me

never a truer word said View

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"No one can make me happy except ME... others may help... but it is always down to me

never a truer word said View"

Not even if I tickle ya?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one can make me happy except ME... others may help... but it is always down to me

never a truer word said View

Not even if I tickle ya?"

tickle me clit that makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it you insist

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"No one can make me happy except ME... others may help... but it is always down to me

never a truer word said View

Not even if I tickle ya?

tickle me clit that makes me happy "

you aint got one no more youve rubbed it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think some people are born miserable? I used to think it was circumstances that turned people miserable but i think that some just wallow in misery "

Some definitely are others are so frustrated for god knows what reason. I think some secretly relish in being miserable though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think at times any attention will do for some people - and if they cant get it, or the right type for them, by being positive then they will seek/elicit sympathy by sharing situations where they are the "victim" or "helpless" . others just like to make others as miserable as they feel, or are jealous of other's more positive outlook or preceived better life than theirs. " Car crash" friends - and i try to avoid them ! "
I've made up my own catchphrase that sums up these victims of themselves.I call these types of poeple.......JEREMEY KYLE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be depression in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it could be.

But also, i wonder if some people just arent as resilient as others?

Ive found that the people with real bad problems, who have had a really bad time of it, are the ones who keep smiling.

The people ive met, who moan the most really have very little to complain about, but have had such sheltered lives, they think they have it hard!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"yes it could be.

But also, i wonder if some people just arent as resilient as others?

Ive found that the people with real bad problems, who have had a really bad time of it, are the ones who keep smiling.

The people ive met, who moan the most really have very little to complain about, but have had such sheltered lives, they think they have it hard!!"

i have to disagree,this almost becomes telling depressed people to shake themselves out of it.Depression is a medical condition and very different from miserable feckers who are pessimistic.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Happy as a pig in shit me.

*Rummages thru cd collection for Leonard Cohen & Morrisey albums*

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