FabSwingers.com forum: Advice to younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, if you could go back in time to give your younger self advice what would it be? Mine would be:

“Failing an exam to spite your teacher is fucking stupid”

“Don’t turn down the threesome your ex offers you with her best mate”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lick it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do everything pretty much exactly the same

Except leave out the part about getting with the crazy lady for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few but two in particular would have changed my life completely.

Age 16.. Don't marry him

Age 26.. Don't go back to Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DO. NOT. GET. MARRIED.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Find out what hubbies kinks are earlier in the relationship

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Ignore the lady that said no to a threesome.... should have snuck downstairs and banged the 2nd lady afterwards.

Nievity of being young and trying to be the Gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not pluck your eyebrows!!! Your thirty something year old self will not thank you for it

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Do not pluck your eyebrows!!! Your thirty something year old self will not thank you for it "

They cant look any worse than today's horrific Caterpillars

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am loving the replies.

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By *homas1923Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not gone to Chams in my early 20's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not gone to Chams in my early 20's"

How bad was it?!!

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

To 17 year old me.....

1). Take the fecking ring off when you’re putting up footy nets.

2). Trust your instincts with the blonde. She is a bunny boiler.

3). Spend more time with your Dad

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By *homas1923Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

it was brilliant lol can't stop now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Don’t marry the first man you meet

2) Live your life to the full

3) Study! And don’t take the easy option

4) Don’t spend your life pleasing others

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To 17 year old self - do NOT leave the Navy whilst still in training

If I followed that advice there wouldn't be any need for any of the other advice I'd need to stop off at various points and give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, if you could go back in time to give your younger self advice what would it be? Mine would be:

“Failing an exam to spite your teacher is fucking stupid”

“Don’t turn down the threesome your ex offers you with her best mate”"

Have much, much more sex

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"So, if you could go back in time to give your younger self advice what would it be? Mine would be:

“Failing an exam to spite your teacher is fucking stupid”

“Don’t turn down the threesome your ex offers you with her best mate”"

Be more assertive

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By *parklesueTV/TS
over a year ago

Middleton

Give in to urged to dress earlier xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Study more.

Take that job offer abroad.

Don't get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore those who bully you because they are the insecure, unpleasant folks ...not you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Pick tails not heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop giving a fuck what others think of you. Actually I should take that advice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be the bullied one.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I'd tell myself not to worry about what others think and not to fuck everything up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't be the bullied one."

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Your line manager at work She wants you and you know it

The cold meat deli girl boyfriend is a twat Go after her

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Don't be the bullied one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m sensing regret mixed with valuable lessons learned.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

Stop trying to please others and look after yourself first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if the dreams change ....

Never stop chasing them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, hold on to the shares for two more years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do things the way that is right for you and up your fucking work ethnic putting it in now will make life easier later, finally don't think your too big to let friends know you care and are there for them.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Don't worry, hold on to the shares for two more years!"

If you could only see the future!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop trying to please others and look after yourself first "

In the unlikely event we meet, ignore that advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not pluck your eyebrows!!! Your thirty something year old self will not thank you for it

They cant look any worse than today's horrific Caterpillars

Haha, good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if the dreams change ....

Never stop chasing them...

Easy to say...

Impossible to do ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do not pluck your eyebrows!!! Your thirty something year old self will not thank you for it

They cant look any worse than today's horrific Caterpillars

Haha, good point!"

I’ve just skipped past all the pics of your boobs just to check out your eyebrows!

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Stop trying to please others and look after yourself first

In the unlikely event we meet, ignore that advice

Lol ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't marry because you feel you ought to. It's not enough.

Explore kinky shit sooner.

Realise God does not exist in your early teens.

You know where the speed cameras are, you idiot.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

You are never too young to start saving in a pension scheme

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Avoid the relationship with the person with BPD, it won't end well.

Go visit your bro while you have the chance..and tell him you love him.

And that fat arse you worry about will get thousands of likes one day!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Some people will hate you for no reason. Ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if the dreams change ....

Never stop chasing them...

Easy to say...

Impossible to do ..."

Believe 6 impossible things before breakfast and you can change worlds.

It's only impossible if you allow it to be....

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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago

North Somerset

Excersie more

Don't do those things I hate myself for

Have lots and lots of fun

I would still marry the ex tho because that would change too much that I would never want to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry, hold on to the shares for two more years!

If you could only see the future!"

I know what the future would have then been!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on, just do it. Nobody's looking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age 17 listen to my mam when she said he will break your heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend more time than I did with my parents. Not here now

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Just because it feels good doesn’t make it right.

Don’t give up so easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't marry because you feel you ought to. It's not enough.

Explore kinky shit sooner.

Realise God does not exist in your early teens.

You know where the speed cameras are, you idiot.

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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago

clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands

Don't change a thing because it makes you what you are today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't spend your life pleasing others

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Be more naughty

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By *yroneBMan
over a year ago

Bromley

16 year old self: join Fab as the minute you get the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pal wasn't a slut...she was just living life

Stop thinking your boobs are too wee. You'll thank yourself when your 40 and they're not droopy swingers

Have a bit of confidence for Christ sake

Pick a career instead of part time jobs to suit him....your just as important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the bookies i have a few dead certs

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