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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How much of an age gap is too much ? Their is a woman I work with who is 24 and I'm 38. We flirt and it could lead to more. Would that gap impact on a relationship, cheers for any advice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 41 and had a thing with a 21 yo guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have fun with someone older than me. Maybe 20yrs older, but not a relationship. You do see younger lasses with older guys alot though.

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't think there is a right or wrong answer to that question, as long as you are both consenting adults and mature enough, that is a decision you need to come to together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest age gap in a relationship was 16 years. My longest ever relationship he was 14 years older than me. Age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked out by a 23 year old a few years ago so I was at least double her age. I actually declined as I felt she was too young.....in hindsight I should have at least gone out with her for a bit right ? One of my best friends is in her 30’s and people do sometimes assume I am her dad which of course she finds fucking hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years between hubby and I never had an issue with it and neither has any of my friends or family.

Been together 13 years this year

But if I cast my mind back I think my father in law gave hubby a pat on the back when we got together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers that's what I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much of an age gap is too much ? Their is a woman I work with who is 24 and I'm 38. We flirt and it could lead to more. Would that gap impact on a relationship, cheers for any advice ! "

Who cares! If it feels right, go for it.. age is just a number after all

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

My fb is 14 years younger and I'm starting to maybe date a guy 10 years younger. I used to have a strict no younger than 4 years rule until I met my fb and didn't know his age. It made me realize I was being sillyas It all depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it becomes more of an issue in much later life when one partner is a fit and active 70 yo and the other is 90 ...

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Lower limit? I once heard 'half your age plus 1 for every decade'.

So 26 for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with someone 24 years older

Hubby is four years older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dontsee why it matters

if you both fancy each other

lifes for living

when your old and no longer feeling horny you wont be saying

i wish i had worked more

i wish i had done more gardening

i wish i had gone to college

youll be saying i wish i had had more sex and taken every opportunity

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I try to say at least ten years older than my son who is 22 and no older than my parents lol...it's crappy being in the middle age stage lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for the advice , guess I will just go for it and adapt if I need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

RawDom is 15years younger than me. Been together 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a long term relationship with someone who was 16 years older. For me is didn't work. I feel that age difference doesn't matter so much when you're younger, but when you get older it does.

I wouldn't want to think I was in my 50's and my partner was in his 70's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number. My new play toy is 25, he's more adult than me.

If it works and you're both happy, go for it.

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By *hyntravCouple
over a year ago

North Somerset

My ex husband is 21 years older than me. It didn't seem to be a big thing for quite some time but towards the end I was finding my sexuality and love of life and he was finding his pipe and slippers. I was with him for 14 years and the age difference did become an issue.

Rhy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex husband is 21 years older than me. It didn't seem to be a big thing for quite some time but towards the end I was finding my sexuality and love of life and he was finding his pipe and slippers. I was with him for 14 years and the age difference did become an issue.

Rhy "

I see you like cigars too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people say age is just a number, there are big numbers and small numbers but I agree if it works for the individuals involved then it works or as Jacamo says if it fits, it fits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find age and maturity are not necessarily in synch. Hence, it’s not the age I assess but the level of maturity compatibility (within legal age frames).

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Age really is just a number.

My grandfather remarried many years after the death of his first wife, he was 40 years older than his second wife!

They had a very happy marriage, had 2 children (my uncles are both younger than me).

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