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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book."

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this"

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough..."

Beat me to it!!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough..."

True, but I’d worry that 18 year olds on fab may well regret later on in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss...."

Why??

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Makes no difference to us we play with no one under the age of 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

True, but I’d worry that 18 year olds on fab may well regret later on in life"

Life is full of regrets, it's a learning process.

I would rather regret decisions I've made than not having made them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what? Voting? Drinking?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

minimum age for what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

True, but I’d worry that 18 year olds on fab may well regret later on in life"

Anyone of any age can regret being on Fab later in life x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"minimum age for what?"

That's what I thought too.

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Used to be 21.

Then some idiot went and changed it for political purposes!

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"minimum age for what?"

For being on fab x

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

True, but I’d worry that 18 year olds on fab may well regret later on in life

Anyone of any age can regret being on Fab later in life x"

True!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

Beat me to it!!

"

You both beat me but I’d increase the age

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

Beat me to it!!

You both beat me but I’d increase the age "

To what age?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Ive long thought the minimum age needs to be reviewed... even 21 is young to be exploring a lifestyle like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive long thought the minimum age needs to be reviewed... even 21 is young to be exploring a lifestyle like this"

I’m 21

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

you can get married at 16! is there an age restriction in clubs?

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Old enough to vote at 18 and be classed as an adult. So old enough to make their own choices and mistakes in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It surprises me when see 18yr old on here cos when I was that age I was out partying and exploring that way

But guess as social media an life changed so has how people meet an explore

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford


"Makes no difference to us we play with no one under the age of 30."

Thats a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no difference to me, all children in my book.

21? Child? I just see some 18 years olds on here and wonder if their mature enough for a site like this

I've seen some 40 year olds who aren't mature enough...

True, but I’d worry that 18 year olds on fab may well regret later on in life"

That's what life's all about when your 18. It just gives you good memories when your older x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone matures at different rates, I personally think I’m mature enough to make my own decisions to have a lifestyle like this. Meeting with 19 year olds isn’t for everyone but nobody’s forcing you and you can simply change who you’d like to receive messages from.

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford


"Everyone matures at different rates, I personally think I’m mature enough to make my own decisions to have a lifestyle like this. Meeting with 19 year olds isn’t for everyone but nobody’s forcing you and you can simply change who you’d like to receive messages from. "

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I still think 21 myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still think 21 myself"

25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss...."

For what though?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

For naughty possibly kinky naughty sex for hours and hours hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"minimum age for what?

For being on fab x"

So an 18 year wont lie about their age to sign up to here if limit is 21??!.... pretty sure there are a few folk on here who are fluid with the truth about their age at both ends of the scale! (I'm actually 78! )

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As Fab is supposed to be a Swingers site then neither as IMHO swinging can't really start until you have been in a relationship for quite some time.

If you bring this to the party too early in the relationship then it will no doubt end up ending only one way.

Just our view on what "Swinging" is.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"minimum age for what?

For being on fab x

So an 18 year wont lie about their age to sign up to here if limit is 21??!.... pretty sure there are a few folk on here who are fluid with the truth about their age at both ends of the scale! (I'm actually 78! )"

Your too young for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss...."

For what? Elaborate....

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss....

For what? Elaborate...."

Maybe read the thread?

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss....

For what? Elaborate....

Maybe read the thread?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely 21 previous shags before they can be allowed to join up. Need experienced shaggers on here.

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Definitely 21 previous shags before they can be allowed to join up. Need experienced shaggers on here. "

Yep!

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

When it comes to using age to judge experience or maturity, it’s a bit of a mine field...

I know a load of women who are 30+ and I wouldn’t trust them with a rubber teaspoon

They can’t hack being in a relationship, and are always causing trouble

However, my last few relationships were with young girls... I was 28-32, they were 18, 18 and 21

One was a fucking nightmare,

One was the most mature girl I’d dated for a very long time

And the other was really cool and chilled out

I’ve dated older women (30-40’s) that ate worse than teenagers

I get why the age thing gets brought up...

But if you think about it...

Age filtering will never filter out attitudes and maturity...

All you have to do is tell these young girls and guys that you only date 21+

Problem solved

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"When it comes to using age to judge experience or maturity, it’s a bit of a mine field...

I know a load of women who are 30+ and I wouldn’t trust them with a rubber teaspoon

They can’t hack being in a relationship, and are always causing trouble

However, my last few relationships were with young girls... I was 28-32, they were 18, 18 and 21

One was a fucking nightmare,

One was the most mature girl I’d dated for a very long time

And the other was really cool and chilled out

I’ve dated older women (30-40’s) that ate worse than teenagers

I get why the age thing gets brought up...

But if you think about it...

Age filtering will never filter out attitudes and maturity...

All you have to do is tell these young girls and guys that you only date 21+

Problem solved "

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By *aughtyLondonGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"When it comes to using age to judge experience or maturity, it’s a bit of a mine field...

I know a load of women who are 30+ and I wouldn’t trust them with a rubber teaspoon

They can’t hack being in a relationship, and are always causing trouble

However, my last few relationships were with young girls... I was 28-32, they were 18, 18 and 21

One was a fucking nightmare,

One was the most mature girl I’d dated for a very long time

And the other was really cool and chilled out

I’ve dated older women (30-40’s) that ate worse than teenagers

I get why the age thing gets brought up...

But if you think about it...

Age filtering will never filter out attitudes and maturity...

All you have to do is tell these young girls and guys that you only date 21+

Problem solved "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should the minimum age be 21 instead of 18?

Discuss....

For what? Elaborate....

Maybe read the thread?"

Next you’ll try and tell me to read a profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a mum at 19, I would have been mature enough. People mature at different rates.

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