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Does life really begin at 40?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or is it downhill from here? I turned 40 on the 18th... Don't feel it, but what's your opinions on the older(ish) gent? Be good to here what your opinions.

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know in 12 years time.. you old git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FYI OP 40 is not old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FYI OP 40 is not old "

Old(ish) I said... Its older than 39 though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll let you know in 12 years time.. you old git "

Oi!! Apparently I ain't old.. A git maybe... But not old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number buddy.

Oh, and a devastatingly accurate chronological record of how old and decreped you are.

Penblwydd Hapus i ti.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, life begins when you want it to. If you put doing things on hold until (delete as appropriate) the kids have left home/the mortgage is paid off/I’ve retired etc then personally I feel for you.

Grab life by the balls and do what you want today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40’s so far have been the most eventful and exciting of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 40 is not at all old but you do have the benefits of acquired wisdom and experience to draw on....assuming you aren't foolish and don't learn anything.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

40 something is the perfect age, my preferences are for people around my own age or a bit older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, life begins when you want it to. If you put doing things on hold until (delete as appropriate) the kids have left home/the mortgage is paid off/I’ve retired etc then personally I feel for you.

Grab life by the balls and do what you want today"

That's a helluva sensible post from a man who has to walk around holding his own pants up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is only a number buddy.

Oh, and a devastatingly accurate chronological record of how old and decreped you are.

Penblwydd Hapus i ti."

hwyr ond diolch i chi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll let you know in 12 years time.. you old git

Oi!! Apparently I ain't old.. A git maybe... But not old "

I can make you feel better by saying age is just a number but that’s not true lol

There are big numbers and small numbers.. it’s all about numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until you can control your body and mind, you are not old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, life begins when you want it to. If you put doing things on hold until (delete as appropriate) the kids have left home/the mortgage is paid off/I’ve retired etc then personally I feel for you.

Grab life by the balls and do what you want today

That's a helluva sensible post from a man who has to walk around holding his own pants up."

I don’t have to...I choose to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chi neu ti? Dysgwr.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Life began the moment you popped out into the world,

Dates and numbers mean nothing as today might be your last day !

Act young, be foolish but most of all be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don’t have to...I choose to "

You're such a rebel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40's started out a bit crappy but ended on a high..

My 50's are beginning to shape up quite well too..

Life is what you make it OP so stop whinging and get doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life begins when you become comfortable in your own skin and can see the positives in the life around you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life begins when you become comfortable in your own skin and can see the positives in the life around you. "

Well said

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"My 40’s so far have been the most eventful and exciting of my life "

Me too! I’m loving my 40’s (the other decades were pretty good to be honest)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've done a lot in my life and had plenty of unique experiences. I've been rock bottom and on the streets and I've come through a lot of difficult situations. Lived all around the UK and not really been in the same town for more than a few years.. Itchy feet I got. Not sweaty feet but very itchy. Is it time to settle down?? I don't have kids or any ties in one place really... So maybe a bit more exploring left in me yet.

I loved working and living in hotels and the fun and frolicks I've had with the foreign workers was amazing... The live in hotel workers.. Let's just say... Very good times indeed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No, life begins when you want it to. If you put doing things on hold until (delete as appropriate) the kids have left home/the mortgage is paid off/I’ve retired etc then personally I feel for you.

Grab life by the balls and do what you want today"

I couldn't agree more.

Life begins when you're born and ends when you die what happens in the interim is largely down to the individual.

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

For me, life began when I started taking responsibility for my future...

It was about 25-26

Since then, I’ve had the craziest years of my life, met some awesome people, and turned a hobby into a career...

However... if life really does begin at 40...

I can’t fucking wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40s were great and my 50s started in January and, if anything, it's got better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done a lot in my life and had plenty of unique experiences. I've been rock bottom and on the streets and I've come through a lot of difficult situations. Lived all around the UK and not really been in the same town for more than a few years.. Itchy feet I got. Not sweaty feet but very itchy. Is it time to settle down?? I don't have kids or any ties in one place really... So maybe a bit more exploring left in me yet.

I loved working and living in hotels and the fun and frolicks I've had with the foreign workers was amazing... The live in hotel workers.. Let's just say... Very good times indeed "

Bit jealous now.

Sounds like your 40s will be just as good.

Pob lwc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers....."

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My 40's started out a bit crappy but ended on a high..

My 50's are beginning to shape up quite well too..

Life is what you make it OP so stop whinging and get doing "

I'm not whinging lol. Just asking a question. I've lived a pretty interesting life and hopefully plenty more adventures to be had. I don't feel old and I do live life to how I want.. Hense I've had a few downs. Mistakes have been made but my mistakes and learnt from them. I've never been scared of making decisions that are risky and dangerous. Its been fun and it will be fun till I can't wipe my own butt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!! "

I'm so jealous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!! "

Still d*unk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!!

Still d*unk?"

I don't drink at all. Hate hangovers and worked in a lot of bars and clubs etc... Went off drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!!

Still d*unk?

I don't drink at all. Hate hangovers and worked in a lot of bars and clubs etc... Went off drink"

I didn't drink from 24-28. One of the worst decisions I ever made.

Back with a vengeance now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life began when I was 50 and it’s going pretty good so far. Life begins when you start living it and not watching from the sidelines x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is young to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 is young to me."

What’s 25 to you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it depend on age?? For me yes I’m far happier now then I was in my 30’s... but that’s because of personal choices I have made...

I made the decision to make my life better and not just settle... but I don’t think that’s because I hit 40!!! I just decided it was now or never!!

Don’t let age define you! Just be you... that’s what I’m doing and if others don’t like it... well they can just jog on!!! Life is too short to waste!!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Life definitely began at 40 for me - it’s still pretty good in my 50’s

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, life does begin at 40

Certainly our swinging life did.

I also think that by 40 you are generally happier in yourself, children are usually older and you you are still you enough to really enjoy life.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

* young enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life for me is not about hoping, wishing, expecting. It’s all about doing, being and becoming...

Get fabbing, plus enjoy your 40’s mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it depend on age?? For me yes I’m far happier now then I was in my 30’s... but that’s because of personal choices I have made...

I made the decision to make my life better and not just settle... but I don’t think that’s because I hit 40!!! I just decided it was now or never!!

Don’t let age define you! Just be you... that’s what I’m doing and if others don’t like it... well they can just jog on!!! Life is too short to waste!!! "

Very well said indeed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life for me is not about hoping, wishing, expecting. It’s all about doing, being and becoming...

Get fabbing, plus enjoy your 40’s mate "

I intend too. Thanks buddy

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By *iobhainWoman
over a year ago

Éire

I'm loving my 40's much more than I ever did in my 20's & 30's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life for me is not about hoping, wishing, expecting. It’s all about doing, being and becoming...

Get fabbing, plus enjoy your 40’s mate

I intend too. Thanks buddy "

Pleasure! Plus definitely most of us never feel our age. Keep laughing and that’s the best anti ageing prescription ever

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Bloody hope so, because the first 38yrs have been fucking shit

well one or two good days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm loving my 40's much more than I ever did in my 20's & 30's x"

Well you certainly look very sexy and have the body that I very much like.... You are very beautiful indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a shakey start I would say that almost 6 years in, my 40s have definitely been an exciting ride and alot of fun!

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I have just turned 51 and having the time of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is it downhill from here? I turned 40 on the 18th... Don't feel it, but what's your opinions on the older(ish) gent? Be good to here what your opinions.

Thanks all "

Mrs marmite got her sex drive back in her 40th.... and we have been having sooo much fun since, so in answer to your question, yup life begins (again) at 40

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I can't remember that far back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it begins I dreaded turning 40 last June yes my page says 38 dunno I can’t change have tried but no luck

Hopefully it gets better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I idea. I still fell about 20.

Except for the 3 day hangovers.....

I haven't had a hangover since I was 25!!

Still d*unk?"

No, just obviously can hold my drink better ...

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My second bachelorhood began at 40! Been having the time of my life. Older, wiser and more experienced Fab has only made it more amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best times of my life were in my 20’s but I’ve had the best sex in my 40’s

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By *iobhainWoman
over a year ago

Éire


"I'm loving my 40's much more than I ever did in my 20's & 30's x

Well you certainly look very sexy and have the body that I very much like.... You are very beautiful indeed "

Thank you for lovely compliment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely better sex the older you get....the problem is how to get any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm loving my 40's much more than I ever did in my 20's & 30's x

Well you certainly look very sexy and have the body that I very much like.... You are very beautiful indeed

Thank you for lovely compliment x"

The pleasure is all mine. I'm like catchphrase. I say what I see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40's have been pretty good fun for meeting lots of new people, for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

life begins when you allow it to, 40's and 50's have been a ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My next birthday is 40 which doesn't bother me in the slightest and my hubby is currently 42 and life has never been better. Carpe diem and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My next birthday is 40 which doesn't bother me in the slightest and my hubby is currently 42 and life has never been better. Carpe diem and all that "

Mine is in 8 years. Can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dreading it it took me 2 years to get over turning 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines going ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40 is young to me.

What’s 25 to you then "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely better sex the older you get....the problem is how to get any "

That only worked for me because I left my husband.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I did for me.

I got divorced, got my life back, well created a new life

I was 48 yesterday, and I'm having the best decade of my life

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We are having the time of our lives and we are well into our 40's x

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