FabSwingers.com forum: Facebook

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hands up if you have or would swap facebook accounts, iv done it once with the lady I had my 1st meet with of here (and my 2nd, 3rd 4th and 5th lol)

But it felt like I was taking a risk, basically giving her access to my life in a way (not many people not on my friends list, maybe my mum and dad thats about it lol) So didnt take it lightly.

Luckily we're real friends as well now and it all worked out.

Anyone else cross pollinated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep the two completely seperate as my family an close friends are on facebook.

Nobody knows I swing and I think it would be a little bit too close to home!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

And I never will

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I rarely post anything on my FB - just use it to keep up to date with my family and real life friends. So no point adding me. I'm as boring as feck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope!

And I never will"

Likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup have done with a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have quite a few friends on fb from this and another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on mine, all off another (much smaller) site, all are people that I know well and consider good friends but I would be cautious. Interestingly 1 or 2 people from here occassionally come up as a recomended friends just from those few mutual ones.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have what i class as good friends on my facebook and i trust them not to say anything about this part of my life. These people have become my friends and we chat about non sexy things too.

Also fun to have little jokes and innuendo's at time's after a social, meet or party.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah there are one or two I would probably add now, but its only after a while of getting to know em!

But wouldnt push for it cos wouldnt want people to do anything there not confy with!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

A few people that I have become good friend with know I swing and have met them in that world and are friends on fb with.

Mind you they know my family are on there and work contacts. My family know I swing but obviously not work contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But it felt like I was taking a risk, basically giving her access to my life ..."

You're taking exactly the same risk just by being on Facebook in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a very small number of friends from here that I am friends with on Facebook, but very careful who I do add.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't have facebook, but if we did it would be a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually did it the other way around and recommended someone from Facebook about Fab lol! She's just joined and appears to be shagging like crazy lol. Wasn't really a friend just someone I chatted with via Facebooks gaming sites but we have cammed and had sexy phone chats. Have also chatted with a couple of other ladies and found out they are also on here.

Anyone else had a fab friend pop up somewhere else by coincedence????

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not on facebook but if we were, would be a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep the two completely seperate as my family an close friends are on facebook.

Nobody knows I swing and I think it would be a little bit too close to home!! xx"

What ^^ he said. 1000%

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Me and face book arent friends ,, they took my second account with my 2nd farm at level bloody 95 and just closed it.. It was the account I kept just for my internet mates. No I wouldnt let anyone from here into my private life Facebook.. Yikes NO..

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I'm not on it, lots of my friends are though, it just doesnt appeal to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont really "do" facebook, i just go on to put updates on and check friends updates ect. Ive got about 60 friends but i know all of them in person not just online people except two who live in america. I have a couple of people from here but they are people that i would be more than happy to interact with my non swinging life

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

yes...friends are friends however you meet...the ones on my f/book who i have met via bdsm or swinging are ones who have met my family and we all respect the fact we have nilla friends and family on our friends list.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I have what i class as good friends on my and i trust them not to say anything about this part of my life. These people have become my friends and we chat about non sexy things too.

Also fun to have little jokes and innuendo's at time's after a social, meet or party.

Yup that is fun! Once got a desperate phone call from a friend who was reading a conversation between me and Sir that looked totally innocent unless you knew i was his sub...she phoned to ask me to stop as she was crying with laughter and couldnt explain to her kids why

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We've become good friends with a couple we met here, and socialise with them regularly. Scarily, it turned out we had close, mutual (non swinging) friends. Anyway, we are good mates now, and Facebook buddies. Our swinging activities are kept completely separate.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just looked and 14 of my friends out of 66 are through swinging but to be honest you forget how you have met people once they become friends

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We have a special seperate facebook account for this kind of thing

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I dont do facebook..if i did..nope never in Hades would i

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

my hand is down.i dont mix business with plessure.no private life with the secret life.lol

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Nope!

And I never will"

no facebook for family and friends.. fab for fun lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have Facebook but the only reason I use it is to keep in contact with my 15 year old sister, according to her "if you're not on facebook you don't exist" she may be a cocky little madam but no way would I want to expose her to this! If anyone ever asks the answer is I don't do Facebook, as a rule, I don't.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have our own (real life) Facebook accounts, and we have a cpls swinging Facebook account, solves the problem lol.

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

god no

my life is like a series of tupperware boxes everything in seperate boxes with the lids firmly on to stop contamination of each bit.

compartmentalisation great eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"god no

my life is like a series of tupperware boxes everything in seperate boxes with the lids firmly on to stop contamination of each bit.

compartmentalisation great eh

You really do drive me insane!! Love your pics!

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

"god no

my life is like a series of tupperware boxes everything in seperate boxes with the lids firmly on to stop contamination of each bit.

compartmentalisation great eh

You really do drive me insane!! Love your pics!

why thank you kind sir x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah Facebook is real life. Fab is other life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I dont even give out my e-mail address cause you can find my facebook with that info.

Facebook is for family and friends.

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

"Nope I dont even give out my e-mail address cause you can find my facebook with that info.

Facebook is for family and friends.

Can't believe you only have one email account... you need a few... one for signing into porn... one for online shopping (let those fill with spam) and then just one you keep to minimal access for family and close friends and certainly have others for facebook and fab...

And have found fabsters on Badoo on occasions and pointed Badoosters to fab once or twice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted my account a year ago so no lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well talking of facebook I have a meet set up with a sexy brunnette that I used to know years ago at 12. All from ine innicent hello, how you doing haha!!#

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much doubt i would let anyone have access to any amount. There are too many problems documented with people getting personal details and it biting you later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have a select few fab friends on facebook, but they are people i consider "real life" friends as well and i trust them not to spill the beans...and anyway i'm a maverick, i live on the edge...

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

"I very much doubt i would let anyone have access to any amount. There are too many problems documented with people getting personal details and it biting you later."

Thats exactly why I would not go on farcebook, too many bloody noses on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends

some people i class as friends and who i trust are on my facebook and i know they can keep quiet what i do on my private life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

ive chatted to a few people in PM's quite indepth and so class those as friends. We are in total agreement that no mention of this site on there. The pics of me of facebook are completely different to here too and show more a more true reflection of who i am as a person.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

nah id have blocked them.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

nah id have blocked them. "
I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?

its a risk you take...personally i'm quite happy that the swinging friends i have on facebook won't say anything, but i can understand that for some people, they're not prepared to take that risk, or want to keep the two worlds entirely seperate, and i can appreciate that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One vanilla friend on facebook I fell out with got one of her gentleman friends to mail my daughter a link to my profile on here.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't use facebook.... call me old fashioned but I like a more traditional approach to keeping in touch with friends.... we go out places and talk: along with getting pissed, laughing, dancing, shopping, eating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have, but few as there must be trust. However, a friend is a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes though only met once but he also happens to be a friend I work with so no questions will get asked by my kids and I doubt they take any notice

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"my facebook account is the 'day to day' me, with friends and family

nah id have blocked them. I dont know how facebook works but wouldnt they already have information about you and your other friends on there?

if i was so paranoid about stuff id not have a fabs account or facebook one, id never give out any details or take any pictures and id stay in all day.. until shit hits the fan i wont worry about stuff like that. "
I wouldnt call it being paranoid myself , very interesting that you do...you didnt answer my question though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people haven't hear of identity theft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people haven't hear of identity theft.

and some people don't understand what it is. How could Facebook, in isolation lead to identity theft?

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