FabSwingers.com forum: Why verify

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

. If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, "
i always return one if someone sends me one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, i always return one if someone sends me one"

I always do. . But had few meets. N nothing

yet I still talk n see them

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Tell them you'd like one back then. If it's a repeat meet though, there's no real need to keep verifying each other.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Verifications are soooooo 2014.

I don't do them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell them you'd like one back then. If it's a repeat meet though, there's no real need to keep verifying each other. "

It when u don't get from the first meet. But still meet. Why not do a veri. Not like I need them. I just like them for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell them you'd like one back then. If it's a repeat meet though, there's no real need to keep verifying each other.

It when u don't get from the first meet. But still meet. Why not do a veri. Not like I need them. I just like them for me.. "

Just ask then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell them you'd like one back then. If it's a repeat meet though, there's no real need to keep verifying each other.

It when u don't get from the first meet. But still meet. Why not do a veri. Not like I need them. I just like them for me..

Just ask then

Have. They still haven't. I give up asking.. Lol

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

if they cant be bothered leaving you a veri, then simples remove yours from them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if they cant be bothered leaving you a veri, then simples remove yours from them.

But I can't do that unless I block them. N I still talk n see them. .. . Oh I don't care really. Was just wondering as so many scream out for verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ask before you send one, or do they ask you for one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they cant be bothered leaving you a veri, then simples remove yours from them.

But I can't do that unless I block them. N I still talk n see them. .. . Oh I don't care really. Was just wondering as so many scream out for verification "

I think they think it will get them more fucks.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've sent a couple from organised social meets, but not had one in return. I don't sweat the small stuff.

If it's a 1 to 1, then we talk about what to say, as I never display anything that is descriptive of what happened in the bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, stairs......

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, i always return one if someone sends me one"

Same hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you ask before you send one, or do they ask you for one?"

Never done either. But nomaly if either sends the other will return. . I always do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, i always return one if someone sends me one

Same hear

Yeah weather shown or not. I don't show all mine. Older r hidden. Newest shown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one if I receive one first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've sent a couple from organised social meets, but not had one in return. I don't sweat the small stuff.

If it's a 1 to 1, then we talk about what to say, as I never display anything that is descriptive of what happened in the bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, stairs......

I get that. I do t show all mine now as a few were very descriptive.. Some things should be left to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once for a social and he asked me if it was ok if we didnt verify each other. I asked why and he told me it would cause problems with a female he is fwb with. I said ok no problem and never met up again. I am here for the fun not the ones full of drama

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

To add: I will give people veris if I've met them, but I don't display mine any more. I find the whole notion mildly ridiculous (not the fact that you can verify someone, more the text box where you describe your shag in 100 words or less).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met a guy once for a social and he asked me if it was ok if we didnt verify each other. I asked why and he told me it would cause problems with a female he is fwb with. I said ok no problem and never met up again. I am here for the fun not the ones full of drama

Yeah I've had a few like that too. . But sorry if they can't deal with it. Dont be on here......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To add: I will give people veris if I've met them, but I don't display mine any more. I find the whole notion mildly ridiculous (not the fact that you can verify someone, more the text box where you describe your shag in 100 words or less). "

Never knew it was 100 words or less. . Sure a few ice had wound be less. But in a good way

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Never knew it was 100 words or less. . Sure a few ice had wound be less. But in a good way

I have no idea of the actual word limit, I was being mildly facetious, but you know what I mean.

I think it should possibly be a "tick box" type affair.

- Met in person (check)

- Isn't a nutter (check)

All you need to know really.

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By *rMrs Horny300Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, "

Cuba , nobody reads jack shit anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never knew it was 100 words or less. . Sure a few ice had wound be less. But in a good way

I have no idea of the actual word limit, I was being mildly facetious, but you know what I mean.

I think it should possibly be a "tick box" type affair.

- Met in person (check)

- Isn't a nutter (check)

All you need to know really. "

I know wot u meant. .. But would be nice if everyone did. I always veri. If if just a social an gonna go nowhere. I still met the person.

N can verify they real

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I ask if they want to do them. I enjoy writing a nice veri if I've had a good meet.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Verifications are soooooo 2014.

I don't do them anymore. "

That's there year you left one for me. I hope the two things aren't related.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Verifications are soooooo 2014.

I don't do them anymore.

That's there year you left one for me. I hope the two things aren't related.

Well, clearly it was in style then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I ask if they want to do them. I enjoy writing a nice veri if I've had a good meet.

As do I. . They display mine. But not had one bk. . Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ask before you send one, or do they ask you for one?

Never done either. But nomaly if either sends the other will return. . I always do "

I don't send one back if I get one from someone who didn't ask if I wanted one.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I ask if they want to do them. I enjoy writing a nice veri if I've had a good meet.

As do I. . They display mine. But not had one bk. . Weird. "

Some have nothing to say. Some go by the old rule and won't send one if they don't have something nice to say. Some are just lazy and don't get around do doing it. I don't give to receive and never have an expectation of getting one back.

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By *XMandMXxCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Veri's are okay, but very one sided.

We leave a verification after a first meet but not for repeats. Wouldn't expect the same. Check box for 'genuine by meet' and 'not a weirdo' (or similar lol!) would be sufficient with optional text.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some people just move on to the next shag with someone else, their past behind them. Consider social meets, where you then exchange veris, before the sex happens. If they don't give a veri, feel free not to meet for the shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've sent a couple from organised social meets, but not had one in return. I don't sweat the small stuff.

If it's a 1 to 1, then we talk about what to say, as I never display anything that is descriptive of what happened in the bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, stairs......

You got some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask if they want to do them. I enjoy writing a nice veri if I've had a good meet.

As do I. . They display mine. But not had one bk. . Weird. "

I find it odd if they show mine but don't do one back. If it was a bad meet surely they'd hide my veri. They may have just forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed luckily I never had a bad one lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, "

I think sometimes verifications get written but don't show due to filters.

I may be wrong though.....

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Does it really matter?

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Does it really matter?"

It does when you consider the number of profiles who state that they’ll only talk to verified members.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Does it really matter?

It does when you consider the number of profiles who state that they’ll only talk to verified members."

Okay let's say you already are verified, then the urgency isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve verified meets but the men don't verify me back. I think it's sometimes because they don't want to share, so don't want to recommend females to other men XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, i always return one if someone sends me one

I always do. . But had few meets. N nothing

yet I still talk n see them "
i'll give you one if you like

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Does it really matter?

It does when you consider the number of profiles who state that they’ll only talk to verified members.

Okay let's say you already are verified, then the urgency isn't there.

I missed out the ones who insist you must have ‘recent’ verifications or you must be ‘fake’.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

"I,'ve verified meets but the men don't verify me back. I think it's sometimes because they don't want to share, so don't want to recommend females to other men XXX"

I’ve never understood that. If I’ve met someone, and especially if I enjoyed it, then I want to tell them (and everyone else by extension). They can always choose if they want to show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????,

I think sometimes verifications get written but don't show due to filters.

I may be wrong though....."

Good point, yes this does happen. Not sure if the person gets a notification that the veri didn't go through though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it really matter?

It does when you consider the number of profiles who state that they’ll only talk to verified members."

Excactly. N I've verified a few friends who have return to fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I,'ve verified meets but the men don't verify me back. I think it's sometimes because they don't want to share, so don't want to recommend females to other men XXX"

I have wondered that myself.. But why not just ask to not show the veri. I've plenty I dont show for various reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I,'ve verified meets but the men don't verify me back. I think it's sometimes because they don't want to share, so don't want to recommend females to other men XXX

I have wondered that myself.. But why not just ask to not show the veri. I've plenty I dont show for various reasons "

Yeah, I normally prefer not to show so nobody can track who I'm meeting.

I haven't verified everyone I've met, but they never asked. If they did it'd be just rude not to correspond. There're plenty of rude people here. One doesn't know who one is dealing with. Sometimes the picture isn't that important. If we could at least listen to the way they talk...

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By *Gloryhole.West.LondonMan
over a year ago

West London

In my case, "fab straight" guys don't verify me or accept veris from me, even after explaining you can choose not to show the comment, and just display the verification count. Comes with the territory. They're too fab straight for male veris lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". If u send one to someone. I'm sorry is like one back. Good or bad. . But why don't most return one. ????, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask people not to verify me. I don't want the horrible truth to come out. The tv docudrama and accompanying book may make me a few quid though.

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"Tell them you'd like one back then. If it's a repeat meet though, there's no real need to keep verifying each other. "

Must admit this is a pet peave 30 veris .verified by 1man 30 meet ....whyyyyyyy

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