FabSwingers.com forum: No Shows

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's with all the No Shows and then developing amnesia for a meet that's been planned 2 or 3 weeks and reminded of few days before?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why not ask them? It's no good asking us is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont do many planned meets as i never know how my work is going to be and i refuse to take time off just incase of a "no show" but since coming back im more stronger and instead of chatting and then if they cancel now its 1 chance u blow it no my problem if i arange a meet im there no problems no issues just i make time to get there

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

That's not fair, i would be upfront with them and see where that goes. If not forget them, there loss. You can go on to have lots more fab fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not ask them? It's no good asking us is it?

I do but seems guilt/I could care les attitude makes them not reply, I know things happen and one can't make a meet and it would be courteous to let the other person know rather than pretend to have forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in planning ahead, however, I would always re-confirm if the meet is still happening nearer the time, with a deadline to respond no later than 2 to 3 days before the meet.

This way, if the meet falls through for whatever reason, I still have sufficient time to make alternative arrangements if required.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Ask them then move on if unhappy with their response or if there's no response. Plenty of genuine people will repond and remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havnt had many no shows, i think im 10 years of doing this i've only had 3 which isnt bad really, and all of them was in the early days

i do get a lot of guys cancel last min tho but at least they let me know

i think people who no show have no intentions of meeting, maybe its just a game to them, i cant think of any reason at all why i couldnt just fire off a text to someone to let them know if i couldnt make a meet, baring loosing my phone of course lol but then i still have my laptop to message them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in 10 years had one and its was a couple the lady was coming on the boat alone with her single man friend . Her single man turned up with out her ...... Was a set up ... i sent him away ,

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"in 10 years had one and its was a couple the lady was coming on the boat alone with her single man friend . Her single man turned up with out her ...... Was a set up ... i sent him away ,"

Too right Jo. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in 10 years had one and its was a couple the lady was coming on the boat alone with her single man friend . Her single man turned up with out her ...... Was a set up ... i sent him away ,"

oh ive had a few like that, arranged to meet couples and only the guys turned up saying their wifes ill or been called into work etc so instead on cancelling they have come alone lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've heard of single guys turning up to meet couples only to find single males where the excuse is the other half has just nip down to the shops and still not back half an hour later...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in 10 years had one and its was a couple the lady was coming on the boat alone with her single man friend . Her single man turned up with out her ...... Was a set up ... i sent him away ,

oh ive had a few like that, arranged to meet couples and only the guys turned up saying their wifes ill or been called into work etc so instead on cancelling they have come alone lol "
i was on the boat with john and it was a lady for him i was really looking for too . Not just fun for me .. why i sent him away after this woman had been mailing loads ... was never her. And not sure if she was real even after that .

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

No shows happen - you just gotta learn to accept disappointment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think my all time fave one was a couple mailed us when i was with the ex, he said he was looking for a couple to meet with his wife but she was very fussy about who she played with so what he advised us to do was meet him alone, he'd have a 3sum with him and if we was any good he'd bring his wife next time

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"i think my all time fave one was a couple mailed us when i was with the ex, he said he was looking for a couple to meet with his wife but she was very fussy about who she played with so what he advised us to do was meet him alone, he'd have a 3sum with him and if we was any good he'd bring his wife next time

to be fair to him... even brochure brides take 3 weeks to come thro...

by the time he unwraps her, wipes her down and arranges a meet with you both...

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i had arranged to meet a guy i had seen before. txt him on day to confirm all ok still before i wasted good make up ect lol !! also messaged on here and heard nothing for 3 days !! i then got a very blaze' message basically saying hed bumped into pals when out and got plastered and only just home. i really couldnt of cared less as when i has no response, i was talking to another friend and just made plans for the night with him instead and had a flamin fantastic time ! mr plastered just got blocked and deleted with out a second thought.

people can only waste your time if you allow them .as been said set clear times and places ,reconfirm nearer the time , no response then dont go and move on.plenty of reliable people on here i assure you x

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