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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it's fair to say that on a daily basis, in real life, most of us aren't continually subject to compliments and demands for our attention.

So has having attention on Fab but not in real life to the same degree changed you? Maybe it boosted your confidence? Maybe you only feel confident on Fab and not in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a definate confidance booster to even think some of the women I've talked to might be interested.

A shame really becouse I'm such a big headed twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too much attention (emotional/clingy) can be a turn off for some of us married couples ...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I thought this was the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more confident in here but also more cynical. At least in real life I can generally tell when attention or compliments are genuine. On here I just wonder how many other girls are "the most beautiful on the site".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any more or any less attention than in the real world ... Always bonuses to being a fatty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am confident anywhere !

Except in bed ! But I am working on it thanks to a youtube tutorial

m.youtube.com/watch?v=AtlAUTTukI0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fab confident... a tad shy in real life but in the back of my mind I think "I can't be that bad" fab has certainly boosted my perception of myself. It sorta helps you see past the wobbly bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think we’d ever get enough attention on Fab to impact our real lives!

It’s just a small part of our lives. Interesting but small.

I do love a good perv tho

MrsH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's boosted my confidence. Having Mr take some nice pics has helped. I laugh to myself when I'm sat in my jammies scratching my bum and I look at them

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I am confident in fab and confident in real life. Without confidence in my own abilities I would be unable to do the job I do. Xxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m me wherever you find me whether it’s on here or in real life, I’m the same personality, flirty and don’t give a shit type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it's fair to say that on a daily basis, in real life, most of us aren't continually subject to compliments and demands for our attention.

So has having attention on Fab but not in real life to the same degree changed you? Maybe it boosted your confidence? Maybe you only feel confident on Fab and not in the real world?"

Another question on the back of this ... Who thinks they have become too confident ...?

Personally I find that off-putting...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" I think it's fair to say that on a daily basis, in real life, most of us aren't continually subject to compliments and demands for our attention.

So has having attention on Fab but not in real life to the same degree changed you? Maybe it boosted your confidence? Maybe you only feel confident on Fab and not in the real world?"

I've never relied on anyone for my well being, I certainly don't need the false reality of fab to make my day. However, if out and about someone says something nice, or the other half, not known for his compliments does, then yeah...it brings a smile to my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got that outwardly comfortable, easy-going, relaxed confidence that everyone knows is a show that I've developed over decades to hide my many deeply held insecurities and you all talk about when I leave the room.

So... yeah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get attention in both just different types of attention. Find on fab its more directed at my body and sex straight away, where in reality men dont seem to be as forward sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fully aware that most of the attention I get on here is due to the pics I post....

obviously as I wear clothes in the real world the attention I get out there is lot more subtle

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Attention on fab what's that then thaught it was a myth that people talked or messaged you lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" I think it's fair to say that on a daily basis, in real life, most of us aren't continually subject to compliments and demands for our attention.

So has having attention on Fab but not in real life to the same degree changed you? Maybe it boosted your confidence? Maybe you only feel confident on Fab and not in the real world?"

I think its fair to say that some of us aren't continually subject to compliments and demands for our attention on fab .

Both of us are confident in the real world and fab in equal measure

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

When it happens it's a major confidence boost ..just doesn't happen often lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Real life compliments are fewer and more subtle. No one in the office walks up to me and says ‘let’s fuck, sexy arse’

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't get much sexual attention on Fab or the world away from here.

I go get attention and compliments for the things I do and say, out there and sometimes on here.

Fab gives me the opportunity to have sex with people I have come to know and like. And, to talk nonsense on here when my head is buzzing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think I am starting to put guys off on purpose just to see what their character is like.

I'm not a fuck and go so if they back off quickly I know I have done the right thing

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I'm the same moody cow here and out there

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I think I am starting to put guys off on purpose just to see what their character is like.

I'm not a fuck and go so if they back off quickly I know I have done the right thing "

Ooooooo I've been doing this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident in Fab life as well as my real life, but I would say my confidence has grown overall since joining the swinging scene 5 years ago.

Without sounding big headed (as I'm really not) I do receive compliments and attention in real life, and I do wonder if men can sense sexual confidence in a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was the real world "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before Fab I used to talk to men on Facebook apps. I wasn't surprised when men started talking to me and wanted to meet me.

I've never been flattered by attention and don't seek out praise for how I look.

As a child and teenager.I was more concerned about being the best at school work than being one of the popular girls who the boys fancied.

On here, nothing affects me.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I am confident in fab and confident in real life. Without confidence in my own abilities I would be unable to do the job I do. Xxx Suzi"

Hear! Hear! I’m exactly the same... confident in both worlds...

Have yet to test my club confidence - that’s a bridge I have to cross - pending appropriate wing man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was the real world "

No it's just a fantasy, caught in a landslide no escape from reality

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


" I do wonder if men can sense sexual confidence in a woman."

I think most men can and love sexual confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same attention in real life as I do on here. When I'm picking my bananas in Asda it's not uncommon for a guy to give me give me a cheeky smile. Guys don't seem to be afraid to make sexual innuendoes either in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the same attention in real life as I do on here. When I'm picking my bananas in Asda it's not uncommon for a guy to give me give me a cheeky smile. Guys don't seem to be afraid to make sexual innuendoes either in real life. "

Did anybody say banana?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the same attention in real life as I do on here. When I'm picking my bananas in Asda it's not uncommon for a guy to give me give me a cheeky smile. Guys don't seem to be afraid to make sexual innuendoes either in real life.

Did anybody say banana? "

When Eric eats a banana...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the same attention in real life as I do on here. When I'm picking my bananas in Asda it's not uncommon for a guy to give me give me a cheeky smile. Guys don't seem to be afraid to make sexual innuendoes either in real life.

Did anybody say banana?

When Eric eats a banana..."

But you weren’t buying it for Eric lol

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