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By *agermeister OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Incels?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"
by ignoring the bollocks they talk about sex and recognizable them as the sad little psychopaths they are. The only difference between in cell and ISIS supporters is the excuse they find for being hateful little shuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

Nope.

No one has the right to sex.

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By *agermeister OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Incels? "

It's like Excel but not as sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way we stop any radical group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker"

Crowd fund them an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same way we stop any radical group."
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We bomb them?.

No wonder the ops called _agermeister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker

Crowd fund them an escort"

They'll only use it to run down more people, give them a push bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems odd that it's not a right to have sex, but it is a right to have a child!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

I have no idear wot this is about ????

But if haveing a sex life is human rights then I'm owed a lot as I'm 30 and still a virgin so never had a sex life yet.

May never get to have 1 eather.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It seems odd that it's not a right to have sex, but it is a right to have a child!"

Obviously because other people have a right to say no to sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have a right which would clearly infringe another person's right to say no!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

It's an interesting question. In the same way that young people can be radicalised by terrorists, it seems like these incels are radicalising each other by getting together and feeding each others sense of resentment and entitlement.

Better education about sex and relationships in schools might be a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should be deliberately denied a sex life. That isn't the same as having the right to a sex life if no one wants to have sex with you. There's always the paying option.

Involuntary celibacy can be because of various reasons and is not an argument for the right to a sex life.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

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There is still the option of paying a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild "

Exactly. Do women blame men for not getting sex?

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

It doesn't help that those who wish to engage the services of a working girl in the US are having it made more difficult for them with the new legislation that bans their advertising online.

But then there's still a "real men don't have to pay for it" culture too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Toxic masculinity gone wild "

Toxic masculinity is such a bullshit term.

They are cunts.

Masculinity has nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild

Exactly. Do women blame men for not getting sex? "

Yes.

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Toxic masculinity gone wild

Toxic masculinity is such a bullshit term.

They are cunts.

Masculinity has nothing to do with it."

Male hormones gone wild.

It's like they feel emasculated by women, when it's their own actions and personality that is against them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild

Exactly. Do women blame men for not getting sex?

Yes.

True story."

The same way men do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

"

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There's always the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

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There's always the pub "

It’s easier in the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild

Exactly. Do women blame men for not getting sex?

Yes.

True story.

The same way men do?"

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I dunno any men or women that blame the opposite sex for not getting sex, it's a crazy crazy world though so there's bound to be some weirdos out there in the Ethernet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

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There's always the pub

It’s easier in the pub "

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Fezackaley, pint of latter two packets of crisps and some chloroform please bar keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

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There's always the pub

It’s easier in the pub .

Fezackaley, pint of latter two packets of crisps and some chloroform please bar keeper "

I was meaning a smile and some good banter but everyone to there own

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"It seems odd that it's not a right to have sex, but it is a right to have a child!"

Not really.

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We could highlight that both ECHR and UDHR give the right to get married and ‘found a family’. That’s a quite deliberate choice of wording. Reproduction is just one part of sex, and can be achieved without sex. However, that would be to miss the point.

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The point is that people get confused about ‘rights’. A right to marriage (and to found a family, and have sex to do so) just means that you can’t be stopped from doing that without good cause. It doesn’t mean that you HAVE to be provided it. Someone’s right to have sex will never, ever overrule anyone else’s right not to. Failing to provide and failing to permit are two totally separate things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

.

There's always the pub

It’s easier in the pub .

Fezackaley, pint of latter two packets of crisps and some chloroform please bar keeper

I was meaning a smile and some good banter but everyone to there own "

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No the chloroform is just to keep her quiet while I'm watching footy

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


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Toxic masculinity gone wild

Toxic masculinity is such a bullshit term.

They are cunts.

Masculinity has nothing to do with it."

I'm afraid it does. There's a (toxic) element to masculinity that is about needing to be getting laid all the time in order to be a "real man".

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

There is still the option of paying a prostitute. "

Most sex workers wouldn't touch an incel with a bargepole. They tend to have good radar about the kind of men who think it's ok to commit murder because their feelz have been offended...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?by ignoring the bollocks they talk about sex and recognizable them as the sad little psychopaths they are. The only difference between in cell and ISIS supporters is the excuse they find for being hateful little shuts

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker"

They have a right to sex only with consenting partners but it appears this bunch is a subset of the angry male brigade, who are struggling with the rights that others have gained over the last hundred years and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same way we stop any radical group."

With nalpalm? Lots and lots of nalpalm

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The same way we stop any radical group.

With nalpalm? Lots and lots of nalpalm "

Up yer botty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a right to a sex life.. so in my opinion it's a human right.. however, only if the feelings are mutual. No one has the right to take it without the other persons permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex life is a human wrong, not right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sex life is a human wrong, not right. "

Haha

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"The same way we stop any radical group.

With nalpalm? Lots and lots of nalpalm

Up yer botty? "

That's when the incel guy who did the attack in Canada drops the soap in the Prison showers.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

No one has the right to have sex, in nature not all the numbers of all species will procreate..

And no one has the right to express their angst by killing innocent people whatever cause they choose..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

Are people with silly names slaughtering people? Thought a psychopath was claiming a fictitious justification.

As for rights, we as humans have the right to live within the law, and a duty to try to do as little harm as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can totally see their thought process though.

They see handsome good looking guys acting like dicks towards women yet still being rewarded with women.

The incels (usually unattractive) they get rejected by women whether they act in a good way or a bad way so what's to stop that person reaching their limit and then going fuck it, and either going to kill himself or take it out on women in the form of r@pe or flat out killing them.

I've always always been aware of this phenomenon though never knew it had an official term I just knew the male ego is precious and when that gets dented or hurt that's the main trigger on violent crimes towards women.

It's why when I've met 100's of guys from here socially over the years, baring in mind there's only been 6 that I've actually wanted to have sex with and meet again so that's a lot of rejecting men there, but, I know as soon as I see them and not attracted to them in those few minutes I'll talk about the last guy I met and exaggerate about all the crazy shit I've done and that I'm still obsessed with him or I'll portray myself in the worst possible way so that guy walks away thinking he's had a lucky escape and not that he's just been rejected.

Works for me because alright not every guy is a psycho in the making but aside from keeping myself safe I don't want anyone thinking even if it's just for one second that they aren't good enough for me or I don't want anybody to feel rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting thread and isn't getting the input it deserves!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Few incel types (please Google it. You should know how to by now) on here

Toxic masculinity gone wild

Exactly. Do women blame men for not getting sex?

Yes.

True story."

In the real world, men pass me by.

I do not get into a homicidal rage and mow down men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker"

Err,,,,ONE of them killed some people. they may all be sad strange individuals but,they are not all murderers necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Incels?

It's like Excel but not as sexy. "

I spluttered on my tea reading that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I assume this is linked to yesterday’s piece on Radio 4?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker"

Everyone has a choice so I challenge the word involuntary. Extreme exclusions to that are you’ve had your cock chopped off of damaged, or physically restrained/locked up. If it’s religion or belief based it’s a choice.

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By *agermeister OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I assume this is linked to yesterday’s piece on Radio 4?"

No I tend to avoid Establishment propaganda.

U find it an interesting take on what might compel men to commit violence and it fits in neatly with my theory that many men have very large but very fragile egos.

Just look at the number of 'I can't get a shag' posts from single guys in the forum.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"I assume this is linked to yesterday’s piece on Radio 4?

No I tend to avoid Establishment propaganda.

U find it an interesting take on what might compel men to commit violence and it fits in neatly with my theory that many men have very large but very fragile egos.

I can see where you’re coming from, however the article yesterday was a very interesting insight! There were a number of psychologists discussing the issue and whilst I do agree with you regarding the very fragile egos I do think it’s a wider issue and how young people view misogyny

Just look at the number of 'I can't get a shag' posts from single guys in the forum."

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By *agermeister OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

* I not U

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker

Everyone has a choice so I challenge the word involuntary. Extreme exclusions to that are you’ve had your cock chopped off of damaged, or physically restrained/locked up. If it’s religion or belief based it’s a choice. "

I think they consider their celibacy as involuntary due to some,imagined, conspiracy on the part of womankind to deny them their basic human rights.

This may seem like a bit of petulant,teenage foot stamping but clearly,that kind of anger can be devastating. Hopefully,most of them will grow out of it,stop blaming the entire world for their own frustrations and go on to live a happy,peaceful life (with all the mutually consensual sex and happiness in the world) without going to extremes.

There is another movement in America,where else?? called something like MGWOW (men going without women) whose ethos seems to be: ''Ok,if you're not going to have sex with us,then we won't have sex with you either,,,HA,that'll teach them''.

I hope none of them resorts to murder in their cause.Right now I find them quite amusing and I'd hate for that to have to change.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"No one has the right to have sex..."

Technically, they do. But in the sense that it’s not something they can be prohibited from doing, without good cause. Not in the sense that it’s something that must be provided.

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Your right to sex, in both UDHR and ECHR, sits under the same article as the right to get married. Nobody is claiming that this means that everyone must be provided a spouse. Yet, somehow, people have a mental block when it comes to the sex aspect.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"MGWOW"

Do you mean MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way)? That’s a fairly large movement (we unfortunately have some of them on this site) but I’ve never heard of MGWOW, and my initial search only came back with MGTOW results...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"MGWOW

Do you mean MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way)? That’s a fairly large movement (we unfortunately have some of them on this site) but I’ve never heard of MGWOW, and my initial search only came back with MGTOW results..."

Yes,that's the guys. I got the name wrong but, the basic gist of their cause about right.Wouldn't you say?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Surely the default position is that everyone has the right to WANT sex, but not to have it.

Even those in committed relationships, have consensual sex and the No means no rule still applies.

These incels are basically using the lack of sex in their lives as an excuse for not putting in the graft in being able to form relationships.

In their world everything and everyone is to blame for their failure to be decent human beings.

As someone early said, sex workers can see these types and hopefully are able to steer clear of them, after all they deserve the same rights in how they have sex as those in other types of consensual relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think paying for sex would satisfy them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you know that men and women can be absolute arseholes even without an acronym.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I don't think paying for sex would satisfy them though. "

I agree. They clearly have issues that run deeper than most will understand. The ability to have any kind of relationship is a common trait, and even if they paid for it, their issues won't disappear with their sexualised emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you know that men and women can be absolute arseholes even without an acronym."

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Did you know that men and women can be absolute arseholes even without an acronym."
Even arseholes (anus) deserve respect, and labelling them with those lacking in any form of social awareness and decency is degrading to butt holes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you know that men and women can be absolute arseholes even without an acronym. Even arseholes (anus) deserve respect, and labelling them with those lacking in any form of social awareness and decency is degrading to butt holes...."

Not sure about that, my anus can be pretty anti social at times

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

Been reading up on this.

Anyone that's a member of this incels groop clearley lakes in self control.

Thay are no better that the ....."shalow arshols" that are getting all the woman in the 1st place.

I'm a 30 year old virgin and not by choice.

We'll I refuse to pay for meney resouns but that's a different thing. Anyway I'm invonlomtrey selibat. Ya it gets a bit depressing at times but i don't go around hateing eveyone that has sex and wanting them ded

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation. It's a competition of masculinity. But they are so inept socially they are unable to engage in consensual sex and are driven to violent recourse.

Mentally ill, like all those who think violence towards random strangers will bring about the change they want to see.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Yes,that's the guys. I got the name wrong but, the basic gist of their cause about right.Wouldn't you say? "

Abolutely. As with so many of these groups (like the alt-right they have a sizeable overlap with) it’s an umbrella term for people with slightly differing agendas; many still want to have sex with women, but see marriage (and long term relationships) as a conspiratorial assault on men’s rights.

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I was just worried I had another acronym to keep tabs on while I’m on twitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These 'groups' would not exist without social media to create them. As isolated individuals they would probably have lived below the radar muttering their discontent to themselves, or in prison for minor crimes.

Bottom line is we live in crowded societies in most of the world, so have to live within social rules and laws to exist and function.

Those who can't, need to move somewhere else with different laws or less people.

Personally I try to keep my head down, rub up against laws that make me uncomfortable but bend them not break them. My goal in life is to do a little more good than harm before I die. A zero balance would be OK but a little credit even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation. It's a competition of masculinity. But they are so inept socially they are unable to engage in consensual sex and are driven to violent recourse.

Mentally ill, like all those who think violence towards random strangers will bring about the change they want to see.

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Maybe this is some form of natural selection at work. Maybe these are the kind of people that the gene pool can do without and nature has done us all the favour of making them so undesirable that their sub species will eventually die out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe this is some form of natural selection at work. Maybe these are the kind of people that the gene pool can do without and nature has done us all the favour of making them so undesirable that their sub species will eventually die out."

My conspiracy hat antenna are quivering, maybe the forums are to locate these sub species so NASA agents dressed as penguins can lure them to Antarctica and push them over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation. It's a competition of masculinity. But they are so inept socially they are unable to engage in consensual sex and are driven to violent recourse.

Mentally ill, like all those who think violence towards random strangers will bring about the change they want to see.

Maybe this is some form of natural selection at work. Maybe these are the kind of people that the gene pool can do without and nature has done us all the favour of making them so undesirable that their sub species will eventually die out."

That actually sounds feasible.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

"

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

"

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?

I have no idear wot this is about ????

But if haveing a sex life is human rights then I'm owed a lot as I'm 30 and still a virgin so never had a sex life yet.

May never get to have 1 eather."

You can improve your chances by shaving off the seventies pron start moustache

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

When you strip away everything else, it is the base instinct of human existence, to propogate the species and fine tune the DNA. It is how we as a species evolve over millenia. Our instincts have been honed over 100s and 1000s of generations as a result of genetic transfer.

It’s a scientific point. It is where our instincts come from, the programming and reprogramming that carries on ad infinitum. Or until we get hit by an asteroid ir WWIII lol

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women "

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

"

i feel sorry for you _eeside

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside"

Y is that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically being denied the right to have sex, can potentially lead them to murder?

This needs some sort of diagnosis like..

Virgin-homicidalness syndrome

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?

I have no idear wot this is about ????

But if haveing a sex life is human rights then I'm owed a lot as I'm 30 and still a virgin so never had a sex life yet.

May never get to have 1 eather.

You can improve your chances by shaving off the seventies pron start moustache"

Y ?

Y shood i change my looks just cos sum people are shallow and put looks 1st ?

This is the hole resoun y this thread is up realey if you think about it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside

Y is that ?

"

because your a 30 year old virgin looking to impregnate someone and join a swingers site which is as far removed from what your looking for. Not many people want 30 year old virgins and even less are looking to get impregnated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside

Y is that ?

because your a 30 year old virgin looking to impregnate someone and join a swingers site which is as far removed from what your looking for. Not many people want 30 year old virgins and even less are looking to get impregnated"

.

I am....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside

Y is that ?

because your a 30 year old virgin looking to impregnate someone and join a swingers site which is as far removed from what your looking for. Not many people want 30 year old virgins and even less are looking to get impregnated"

I didn't join fab looking to impregnate someone.

I joind fab hopeing to loos my virginity and just Mabey find sumone local for regular sex so i cood aksharley have a bit of a sex life like normal people.

If things grow from that and a relationship formed then yes haveing kids probably wood be put on the to do list.

But i joind fab in hope i woodount be a virgin for to mutch longer.

Since then ive giving up on loosing my virginity cos as you sed no one wants a virgin (storey of my life) so now i just enjoy the social side of fab.

As iv also decided that the person i do loose my virginity to is to also to be the muther of my kid and the start of my own little family.

So Till that person pops up I'm not fucking anyone now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside

Y is that ?

because your a 30 year old virgin looking to impregnate someone and join a swingers site which is as far removed from what your looking for. Not many people want 30 year old virgins and even less are looking to get impregnated

I didn't join fab looking to impregnate someone.

I joind fab hopeing to loos my virginity and just Mabey find sumone local for regular sex so i cood aksharley have a bit of a sex life like normal people.

If things grow from that and a relationship formed then yes haveing kids probably wood be put on the to do list.

But i joind fab in hope i woodount be a virgin for to mutch longer.

Since then ive giving up on loosing my virginity cos as you sed no one wants a virgin (storey of my life) so now i just enjoy the social side of fab.

As iv also decided that the person i do loose my virginity to is to also to be the muther of my kid and the start of my own little family.

So Till that person pops up I'm not fucking anyone now

"

i genuinely hope you find her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeside, im actually being serious (believe it or not)

But dont let anyone put you down,

Stand by your beliefs and your attitude is phenomenal (and for that i take my hat off to you good sir!)

Everything said so far, cannot be spoken for EVERYONE, itll only ever be a majority or generally and thus cannot speak for everyone.

Im sure itll happen for you one day my friend. Maybe not now, nor tomorrow but at some point!

So best of luck! And stay as you are, theres nothing wrong with it

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

i feel sorry for you _eeside

Y is that ?

because your a 30 year old virgin looking to impregnate someone and join a swingers site which is as far removed from what your looking for. Not many people want 30 year old virgins and even less are looking to get impregnated

I didn't join fab looking to impregnate someone.

I joind fab hopeing to loos my virginity and just Mabey find sumone local for regular sex so i cood aksharley have a bit of a sex life like normal people.

If things grow from that and a relationship formed then yes haveing kids probably wood be put on the to do list.

But i joind fab in hope i woodount be a virgin for to mutch longer.

Since then ive giving up on loosing my virginity cos as you sed no one wants a virgin (storey of my life) so now i just enjoy the social side of fab.

As iv also decided that the person i do loose my virginity to is to also to be the muther of my kid and the start of my own little family.

So Till that person pops up I'm not fucking anyone now

i genuinely hope you find her"

I'm hopeing to but I'm not going to hold my breath.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Seeside, im actually being serious (believe it or not)

But dont let anyone put you down,

Stand by your beliefs and your attitude is phenomenal (and for that i take my hat off to you good sir!)

Everything said so far, cannot be spoken for EVERYONE, itll only ever be a majority or generally and thus cannot speak for everyone.

Im sure itll happen for you one day my friend. Maybe not now, nor tomorrow but at some point!

So best of luck! And stay as you are, theres nothing wrong with it "

Thanks

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"There was someone on here not so long ago. Who had a long rant on his profile saying that because women held the cards when it came to sex there would soon be a violent backlash!

It was a single Male who blamed picky women his social isolation and the world for not getting laid.

It’s a real issue so much so it’s been banned from other social media platforms.

Can you imagine if they closed swinging clubs. Some single men rely on them to get sex.

There is still the option of paying a prostitute. Most sex workers wouldn't touch an incel with a bargepole. They tend to have good radar about the kind of men who think it's ok to commit murder because their feelz have been offended..."

Good point.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho"

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"So basically being denied the right to have sex, can potentially lead them to murder?

This needs some sort of diagnosis like..

Virgin-homicidalness syndrome"

I disagree.

Not all virgins are like that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Is this a millennial thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

"

Fair point, in the animal kingdom,those best suited to contribute to the gene pool often demonstrate this through violence. The alpha male in a pride of lions,a bunch of gorillas,a bunch of stags will gain and hold that position by fighting the lesser members and establishing his dominance. The genes of the strongest animal are the strongest genes,thus producing the strongest and most productive offspring.

There are three points, however, that make this less relevant to the human race. 1)We have evolved beyond the need for the strongest,fittest,most agile humans to establish that kind of physical dominance. Brains are more necessary to the human species than brawn.

2) In the animal kingdom,the violence is aimed towards weaker competitors rather than at the female of the species,as the Incel guy in his van did.

3) The animal kingdom also has examples of males establishing themselves as Alpha through other means. Peacocks for example,do this by simply being beautiful.

One has to wonder whether the Incel guy could be considered an Alpha male by any standards at all,strength or beauty.

It may be the right of every human male to procreate but,as in nature,maybe humans also have to prove themselves worthy of that right.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ? "

Same way everyone else did. Go out, talk to people, make relationships built on friendship, trust and love.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho"

A helpful one.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically being denied the right to have sex, can potentially lead them to murder?

This needs some sort of diagnosis like..

Virgin-homicidalness syndrome

I disagree.

Not all virgins are like that "

Not all mate, just some

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ? "

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ? "

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It maybe should be noted that this guy was acting alone.I don't notice a rush of other frustrated males clamouring to express solidarity with him.

Not all virgins are murderers and not all murderers are virgins. Correlation does not necessarily equal causation.

maybe he was just an asshole who just happened to be unable to get laid as well.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Fair point, in the animal kingdom,those best suited to contribute to the gene pool often demonstrate this through violence. The alpha male in a pride of lions,a bunch of gorillas,a bunch of stags will gain and hold that position by fighting the lesser members and establishing his dominance. The genes of the strongest animal are the strongest genes,thus producing the strongest and most productive offspring.

There are three points, however, that make this less relevant to the human race. 1)We have evolved beyond the need for the strongest,fittest,most agile humans to establish that kind of physical dominance. Brains are more necessary to the human species than brawn.

2) In the animal kingdom,the violence is aimed towards weaker competitors rather than at the female of the species,as the Incel guy in his van did.

3) The animal kingdom also has examples of males establishing themselves as Alpha through other means. Peacocks for example,do this by simply being beautiful.

One has to wonder whether the Incel guy could be considered an Alpha male by any standards at all,strength or beauty.

It may be the right of every human male to procreate but,as in nature,maybe humans also have to prove themselves worthy of that right."

It don't meen you haf to pik a fite thoe dus it ?

And If it wos then y am i still single as i fort my way throw school as i got bullied a lot but i allways wun the fite and the bullies allways gave up or coodount get up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Fair point, in the animal kingdom,those best suited to contribute to the gene pool often demonstrate this through violence. The alpha male in a pride of lions,a bunch of gorillas,a bunch of stags will gain and hold that position by fighting the lesser members and establishing his dominance. The genes of the strongest animal are the strongest genes,thus producing the strongest and most productive offspring.

There are three points, however, that make this less relevant to the human race. 1)We have evolved beyond the need for the strongest,fittest,most agile humans to establish that kind of physical dominance. Brains are more necessary to the human species than brawn.

2) In the animal kingdom,the violence is aimed towards weaker competitors rather than at the female of the species,as the Incel guy in his van did.

3) The animal kingdom also has examples of males establishing themselves as Alpha through other means. Peacocks for example,do this by simply being beautiful.

One has to wonder whether the Incel guy could be considered an Alpha male by any standards at all,strength or beauty.

It may be the right of every human male to procreate but,as in nature,maybe humans also have to prove themselves worthy of that right.

It don't meen you haf to pik a fite thoe dus it ?

And If it wos then y am i still single as i fort my way throw school as i got bullied a lot but i allways wun the fite and the bullies allways gave up or coodount get up."

Exactly my point,we humans should be beyond that. there are qualities that we find attractive way beyond strength and fighting prowess. (which Incel guy didn't exactly show anyway).

We are attracted to beauty,kindness,compassion and many other qualities in a person.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own"

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social "

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that. "

Wouldn't put me off. I'd absolutely love a 30 year old virgin, pure and untouched by any other woman, cock uncontrollably aroused dribbling spud water everywhere.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more. "

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Wouldn't put me off. I'd absolutely love a 30 year old virgin, pure and untouched by any other woman, cock uncontrollably aroused dribbling spud water everywhere. "

Seeside you're in!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

"

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

"

I said you shouldn't have to change your look but with other factors stacked against you then you need to have something going for you, if you can't rely on personality or humour and building friendships because you struggle in social situations then you've got to have something about you that people want. OR just do nothing change nothing and nothing will change. I've had these conversations with you over a year ago and you refused to listen then as well so on that basis I wish you all the luck but I'm out.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that. "

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet...... "

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Wouldn't put me off. I'd absolutely love a 30 year old virgin, pure and untouched by any other woman, cock uncontrollably aroused dribbling spud water everywhere. "

Are you near Margate by any chance lol

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it. "

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Wouldn't put me off. I'd absolutely love a 30 year old virgin, pure and untouched by any other woman, cock uncontrollably aroused dribbling spud water everywhere. "

I knew this was you before I scrolled back up

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

I said you shouldn't have to change your look but with other factors stacked against you then you need to have something going for you, if you can't rely on personality or humour and building friendships because you struggle in social situations then you've got to have something about you that people want. OR just do nothing change nothing and nothing will change. I've had these conversations with you over a year ago and you refused to listen then as well so on that basis I wish you all the luck but I'm out. "

I respect the advice but I'm not changing Hoo i am just for a fuck lol

But thanks anyway

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?"

Depends what the thing was. If everyone told me that telling people I was a virgin would put people off, I would stop telling them.

Like I say, it depends where your priorities lie. If it's more important for you to be "yourself" and not change than having sex, than by all means stay as you are.

If having sex is more important, you need to make changes.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?"

you say noone is willing to help you yet when they do take time out to give you advice your not interested. Guess it doesnt mean as much to you. If you all ways do what youve all ways done your always going to get the same results. We all have to put effort into getting what we want

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?"

Yes, but it isn't just to get a fuck is it Seeside, it's to help attract the love of your life, the mother of your children!

Everyone tries to look their best when they are looking for someone, and most people go through different phases and change their look a few times. I think a 'makeover' is a great idea - beards are really trendy for instance, you could find yourself a whole new look and exude confidence just when you need to!

And for goodness sake get yourself on some dating sites or Meetups too. We're only trying to help!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin "

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?you say noone is willing to help you yet when they do take time out to give you advice your not interested. Guess it doesnt mean as much to you. If you all ways do what youve all ways done your always going to get the same results. We all have to put effort into getting what we want"

True

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

People do give a fuck though. None of the stuff you have would bother me if I fancied you, if I fancied you the fact that you struggle with spelling and can be socially awkward would not bother me one jot. All you need to do is make yourself fanciable to someone. You do have a strong look, you shouldn't have to change but if you've reached 30 years on this earth and not found anyone to fuck you then maybe making a few slight changes to your appearance could help. Go to the gym, buy nice new trendy fashionable clothes, get rid of the moustache or grow a full on beard but have it groomed. This isn't meant out of malice, I'm saying this because I've seen you write that you are a virgin and can't find anyone to fuck you at least 104 times over a year and that's averaging you saying it at least twice a week, it's probably more.

I don't need to go to the gym as i got my own equipment.

As for looks. That's my main point y shood i change my looks just to pleas sum shallow person that puts looks 1st just to get a fuck.

You are wanting someone to have sex with you. That means you need to make yourself attractive to them. We all have to do it.

Up to a point yes but wood you do sumthing you didn't want to do just to get a fuck ?

Yes, but it isn't just to get a fuck is it Seeside, it's to help attract the love of your life, the mother of your children!

Everyone tries to look their best when they are looking for someone, and most people go through different phases and change their look a few times. I think a 'makeover' is a great idea - beards are really trendy for instance, you could find yourself a whole new look and exude confidence just when you need to!

And for goodness sake get yourself on some dating sites or Meetups too. We're only trying to help! "

I no your trying to help. And i do appreciate it.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?"

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?"

Nobody should ever be expected to change themselves just to please others but,,, what do you really want?

To lose your virginity? Would you really want your first time to be a soul less,passion less, emotion less,raw,animalistic shag,,,,or would you not prefer the exact opposite? Your first time to be with someone about whom you care deeply and who cares for you? With all the passion that a first time deserves?

Surely,for that person,you would be prepared to do anything,to change anything.

Quite possibly,this site is not really the best place to be looking for something like that. You'd want your first time to have more meaning than that wouldn't you?

I find it hard to believe (and I suspect I'm not alone) that a personable,decent,respectful, good looking guy like you cannot find someone in the real world who likes you enough to be with you,even if only for a short time.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

"

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Nobody should ever be expected to change themselves just to please others but,,, what do you really want?

To lose your virginity? Would you really want your first time to be a soul less,passion less, emotion less,raw,animalistic shag,,,,or would you not prefer the exact opposite? Your first time to be with someone about whom you care deeply and who cares for you? With all the passion that a first time deserves?

Surely,for that person,you would be prepared to do anything,to change anything.

Quite possibly,this site is not really the best place to be looking for something like that. You'd want your first time to have more meaning than that wouldn't you?

I find it hard to believe (and I suspect I'm not alone) that a personable,decent,respectful, good looking guy like you cannot find someone in the real world who likes you enough to be with you,even if only for a short time."

We'll yes opshoun 2 wood be better.

And as for in the real world the fue ladies i have got to no its eather all redey takon or just not interested.

I don't smoke

I don't drink

I don't do anything illegal

As a side effect most ladies arnt interested cos that is wot they do want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off."

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are."

thanks

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The question isn't very well worded, but YES it is a basic human right to decide for yourself what type of sex life you want, and to live your life how you choose... within the law of the land.

Cal

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker

Err,,,,ONE of them killed some people. they may all be sad strange individuals but,they are not all murderers necessarily."

Two actually, the Toronto killer was inspired by an American who shot a load of people (forgive me if I have the details of how they were killed wrong).

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

"

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are."

Even for real life, I think physical attraction is a necessary, if not sufficient, condition for a sexual relationship. You might get on really well with someone and think they are a lovely person, but you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them, as you don't find them physically attractive.

In other words

Attraction to personality but no physical attraction = platonic friendship

Physical attraction but not attracted to personality. = possible nsa fuck

No physical attraction or attraction to personality. =avoid!

Physical attraction and attraction to personality. = sexual relationship.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation."

I meen no afence to you but i struggle to see wot els it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember what i said earlier _eeside mate, stick to yours guns

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are.

Even for real life, I think physical attraction is a necessary, if not sufficient, condition for a sexual relationship. You might get on really well with someone and think they are a lovely person, but you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them, as you don't find them physically attractive.

In other words

Attraction to personality but no physical attraction = platonic friendship

Physical attraction but not attracted to personality. = possible nsa fuck

No physical attraction or attraction to personality. =avoid!

Physical attraction and attraction to personality. = sexual relationship. "

But this is the problem most people seem to have todays date.

If you like sumone by they personality y dus it matter wot thay look like ?

As long as you have a attraction of sum sort you can still have a sexual relationship.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation.

I meen no afence to you but i struggle to see wot els it can be."

Life is about learning and leaving the planet a better place.

You do not have to have children personally to have someone follow in your footsteps.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

When i lost my virginity it was a bi product of being in a relationship. I was looking for a partner, not a fuck.

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over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are.

Even for real life, I think physical attraction is a necessary, if not sufficient, condition for a sexual relationship. You might get on really well with someone and think they are a lovely person, but you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them, as you don't find them physically attractive.

In other words

Attraction to personality but no physical attraction = platonic friendship

Physical attraction but not attracted to personality. = possible nsa fuck

No physical attraction or attraction to personality. =avoid!

Physical attraction and attraction to personality. = sexual relationship.

But this is the problem most people seem to have todays date.

If you like sumone by they personality y dus it matter wot thay look like ?

As long as you have a attraction of sum sort you can still have a sexual relationship.

"

Stay as you are. Make absolutely no changes to your physical appearance at all to try and make yourself more attractive to people and I can guarantee you that I will have the same advice ready for you in another years time when you still haven't had sex.

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over a year ago

No it's not a given right, but a natural desire.

People who carry out such acts are disaffected individuals suffering with mental health issues.

Being deprived of sex isn't the only catalyst in the cause of their actions?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation.

I meen no afence to you but i struggle to see wot els it can be.

Life is about learning and leaving the planet a better place.

You do not have to have children personally to have someone follow in your footsteps."

Ok so you trying to make the planet a better place...

A better place for Hoo ?

If you have no kids Hoo are you doing it for ?

Hoos going to enjoy this better place wen your work is dun. if everyone els followed in your foot steps witch includes no kids Hoo wood this grate better place be for.

No kids meens thar is no one to take over.

Makes it kind of pointless making it better for no one to enjoy it. ?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are.

Even for real life, I think physical attraction is a necessary, if not sufficient, condition for a sexual relationship. You might get on really well with someone and think they are a lovely person, but you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them, as you don't find them physically attractive.

In other words

Attraction to personality but no physical attraction = platonic friendship

Physical attraction but not attracted to personality. = possible nsa fuck

No physical attraction or attraction to personality. =avoid!

Physical attraction and attraction to personality. = sexual relationship.

But this is the problem most people seem to have todays date.

If you like sumone by they personality y dus it matter wot thay look like ?

As long as you have a attraction of sum sort you can still have a sexual relationship.

Stay as you are. Make absolutely no changes to your physical appearance at all to try and make yourself more attractive to people and I can guarantee you that I will have the same advice ready for you in another years time when you still haven't had sex. "

Has anyone seen the film shallow hal.

I no its a comedy but it has the same point.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HKKumbBpD-I

If you like sumone you see parst the looks.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ?

you managed to get yourself to the stp social and your organizing a social of your own

Yes and I'm very grateful for the organises of the stp for giving me a chance to go and i did have a very good time.

But i still left a virgin. Not even a hint anyone wanted mor than just a social

I am afraid that telling people you are a virgin at thirty is going to put off 99% of women.

If you really want to have sex, I would keep quiet about that.

Good idear ill act like the rest of the guys on fab an say i can give a women a orgasam in 2 minutes of fucking just to let them down on the meet......

That tends not to work either...

As atropos says, it's up to you, you can either take advice from people who have had some success on here or you can carry on as you are and remain a virgin

I do take advice thoe but in my own way.

Sumone 1ce sed i haf to stand out.

So i get my brightest shirt that stiks out like a sor thimb.

But i won't change the things that make me...me if that makes sence. Or I'll be no better than all the shallow 1s that think looks are everything and won't even meet sumone just cos of the looks of sumone.

Dus this make sence ?

Yep, we won't meet someone if we don't physically fancy them and that goes for around 99% of other people on here. Call us shallow if you like.

To be blunt, no one is going to fuck you because you have a beautiful soul. They won't even discover you have a beautiful soul if your looks don't attract them because they won't meet you...

We'll you got a point that.

Mabey ill try being a bit mor avenchrous with my pics.

I mite shav my tash in November (movember)

Just to see if anything changes and i can use movember as a excuse to cut it off.

Your pics look reasonably adventurous,,,there is even one of you with your shirt off and you have the decency to show your face (not a bad looking face at all). Your mustache is highly unlikely to be holding you back in any way.

Possibly the only thing holding you back is you.It could be like a self fulfilling prophesy,if you expect nothing but negativity then no positivity will come your way.

My advice would be,don't be shy.Talk to people,let your personality shine through and don't just expect to be shunned.that possibly gives off a negative vibe.

the person who said that no one would fancy you for your personality may have been right about FAB but,in real life personality wins every time. Attraction does play a part but,you are not an unattractive man and don't let anyone tell you that you are.

Even for real life, I think physical attraction is a necessary, if not sufficient, condition for a sexual relationship. You might get on really well with someone and think they are a lovely person, but you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with them, as you don't find them physically attractive.

In other words

Attraction to personality but no physical attraction = platonic friendship

Physical attraction but not attracted to personality. = possible nsa fuck

No physical attraction or attraction to personality. =avoid!

Physical attraction and attraction to personality. = sexual relationship.

But this is the problem most people seem to have todays date.

If you like sumone by they personality y dus it matter wot thay look like ?

As long as you have a attraction of sum sort you can still have a sexual relationship.

Stay as you are. Make absolutely no changes to your physical appearance at all to try and make yourself more attractive to people and I can guarantee you that I will have the same advice ready for you in another years time when you still haven't had sex. "

So if i shave of the tash say for movember as a trile. Wot if nuthing happens ?

Thar is Onley so mutch i can change.

And i had no luck getting a girlfriend before i grow the tash eather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Stay as you are. Make absolutely no changes to your physical appearance at all to try and make yourself more attractive to people and I can guarantee you that I will have the same advice ready for you in another years time when you still haven't had sex.

Has anyone seen the film shallow hal.

I no its a comedy but it has the same point.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HKKumbBpD-I

If you like sumone you see parst the looks."

It's nothing to do with being shallow and calling people shallow for saying they need to have some kind of attraction to the person they want to fuck that isn't going to do you any favours either.

How do you expect someone to want to get to know you enough to decide if they like you if they instantly dismiss you because they aren't attracted to you.

You've been here for over a year now using the forums, many people men and women say that they like you and think you're great and that's based off your personality, how many of them want to fuck you though?

You said you meet people in the real world but nothing comes of it.

It's not shallow to mess some degree of physical attraction. I have loads of male friends that are really nice and intelligent but I'm not attracted to them and that hasn't grown over the years, they're still nice men that I like but don't find attractive.

If you're going to keep saying oh I'm a virgin oh I've never had sex and no one wants sex with me if you're not going to do anything to help your situation then stop moaning about it.

I'm an absolute maniac and I struggle with guys and I ask for advice and I LISTEN to it and try real fucking hard to implement what people have told me to do.

No you shouldn't have to change who you are or how you look but if you want something that badly you would present yourself to the world in the best possible way that you can and if that involved losing a bit of weight and getting in shape am definitely dressing better and grooming yourself then should you really be that stubborn and reluctant to change?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"

Stay as you are. Make absolutely no changes to your physical appearance at all to try and make yourself more attractive to people and I can guarantee you that I will have the same advice ready for you in another years time when you still haven't had sex.

Has anyone seen the film shallow hal.

I no its a comedy but it has the same point.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HKKumbBpD-I

If you like sumone you see parst the looks.

It's nothing to do with being shallow and calling people shallow for saying they need to have some kind of attraction to the person they want to fuck that isn't going to do you any favours either.

How do you expect someone to want to get to know you enough to decide if they like you if they instantly dismiss you because they aren't attracted to you.

You've been here for over a year now using the forums, many people men and women say that they like you and think you're great and that's based off your personality, how many of them want to fuck you though?

You said you meet people in the real world but nothing comes of it.

It's not shallow to mess some degree of physical attraction. I have loads of male friends that are really nice and intelligent but I'm not attracted to them and that hasn't grown over the years, they're still nice men that I like but don't find attractive.

If you're going to keep saying oh I'm a virgin oh I've never had sex and no one wants sex with me if you're not going to do anything to help your situation then stop moaning about it.

I'm an absolute maniac and I struggle with guys and I ask for advice and I LISTEN to it and try real fucking hard to implement what people have told me to do.

No you shouldn't have to change who you are or how you look but if you want something that badly you would present yourself to the world in the best possible way that you can and if that involved losing a bit of weight and getting in shape am definitely dressing better and grooming yourself then should you really be that stubborn and reluctant to change?

"

We'll on that note thar is Onley 2 things i can change witch is the tash and stile of clothes. As I'm in good shap ect as it is.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Here's the thread Foxy started on this subject: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/750790

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is surely a human right for a person to choose what kind of sex life they want to engage in ie same sex or heterosexual.

But it can never be a right to have a sex life because without mutual consent, one person's "right" to have sex will always infringe on someone else's right not to have sex with someone they don't want to.

I do feel for _eeside though....he's now caught in the catch 22 situation of not being seen as a candidate for sex because he has been a virgin for so long....which is helping keep him a virgin.

Someone shag him ffs?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You’re a good lad Seeside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeside,

Honestly the Tash and dangerous shirts are nothing to do with anything.

They may make a difference if you want to get some strange on a Friday at the local hook up joint, but for what you are looking for it would make no difference at all.

Problem is, being on here is counter productive to your stated aim. Online is a weird world, it is aimed at short termism.

Get your arse out and about, how about some classes in coping with dyslexia? Or phsyics, or singing in a choir, anything that will put you actually in a group where you will meet people and build a real network. If she is out there you have to go and find her.

You have the right to search for stuff, no guarantee of finding it, but your best chance is outside your home, not down the back of the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeside,

Honestly the Tash and dangerous shirts are nothing to do with anything.

They may make a difference if you want to get some strange on a Friday at the local hook up joint, but for what you are looking for it would make no difference at all.

Problem is, being on here is counter productive to your stated aim. Online is a weird world, it is aimed at short termism.

Get your arse out and about, how about some classes in coping with dyslexia? Or phsyics, or singing in a choir, anything that will put you actually in a group where you will meet people and build a real network. If she is out there you have to go and find her.

You have the right to search for stuff, no guarantee of finding it, but your best chance is outside your home, not down the back of the sofa."

Something constructive and a decent idea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Seeside,

Honestly the Tash and dangerous shirts are nothing to do with anything.

They may make a difference if you want to get some strange on a Friday at the local hook up joint, but for what you are looking for it would make no difference at all.

Problem is, being on here is counter productive to your stated aim. Online is a weird world, it is aimed at short termism.

Get your arse out and about, how about some classes in coping with dyslexia? Or phsyics, or singing in a choir, anything that will put you actually in a group where you will meet people and build a real network. If she is out there you have to go and find her.

You have the right to search for stuff, no guarantee of finding it, but your best chance is outside your home, not down the back of the sofa."

Wen i get time i do go out and i am part of a groop for thos with my disabilitys to so i do go out and meet people at times

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"It is surely a human right for a person to choose what kind of sex life they want to engage in ie same sex or heterosexual.

But it can never be a right to have a sex life because without mutual consent, one person's "right" to have sex will always infringe on someone else's right not to have sex with someone they don't want to."

You were so close, and then you lost it. Go back and try again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

How about life sentence to hard pointless labour, breaking up rocks till they die. Might that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is surely a human right for a person to choose what kind of sex life they want to engage in ie same sex or heterosexual.

But it can never be a right to have a sex life because without mutual consent, one person's "right" to have sex will always infringe on someone else's right not to have sex with someone they don't want to.

You were so close, and then you lost it. Go back and try again."

Meaning?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Meaning your slight misunderstanding of ‘right’ has been addressed throughout the thread more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning your slight misunderstanding of ‘right’ has been addressed throughout the thread more than once."

How have I misunderstood 'right' then smart arse?

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker

Crowd fund them an escort

They'll only use it to run down more people, give them a push bike"

Neatly done there...I suppose they'd become the Focus of attention too.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"

Toxic masculinity gone wild "

Now, now, don't shake and wake...before we know it there'll be an equality bus along to balance things.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"How have I misunderstood 'right' then smart arse? "

Like I said, it’s only slight, and it’s covered more than once in the thread. Just because something is a ‘right’, it doesn’t mean it has to be provided, it just means it cannot be prohibited without good cause. The right to have sex does not mean that not finding a willing partner is an infringement of that right.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?"

Bloody hell! I know the press loves to keep the security/terrorist kettle on the boil but who invented "incels" as the next ISIS?

Let's just stay real can we? There will always be the odd dangerous fruitcake in the 7 billion people on this planet. You can't spend your life fretting about miniscule percentages!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation.

I meen no afence to you but i struggle to see wot els it can be.

Life is about learning and leaving the planet a better place.

You do not have to have children personally to have someone follow in your footsteps.

Ok so you trying to make the planet a better place...

A better place for Hoo ?

If you have no kids Hoo are you doing it for ?

Hoos going to enjoy this better place wen your work is dun. if everyone els followed in your foot steps witch includes no kids Hoo wood this grate better place be for.

No kids meens thar is no one to take over.

Makes it kind of pointless making it better for no one to enjoy it. ?"

I have a niece, my friends have children. There will always be people having children. I'm just saying you can be a role model to children without having any yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...then how do we stop incels slaughtering people?

Bloody hell! I know the press loves to keep the security/terrorist kettle on the boil but who invented "incels" as the next ISIS?

Let's just stay real can we? There will always be the odd dangerous fruitcake in the 7 billion people on this planet. You can't spend your life fretting about miniscule percentages!"

But they have an acronym and everything... It must be a bigger threat than we realise

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Prof Sir Robert Winston has some interesting thoughts about the male sex urge and it's roots in the survival-of-the-species DNA.

These people appear to driven by the desire of the cave man to impregnate females and so transfer their genes to the next generation.

We'll wots the point in life if thay/you don't ?

Thar is no point.....

That sed thsr are over ways to do this than throw violence.

you think theres nothing more to life than impregnating women

Not ezakley like that no.

But if you don't have kids at all wot is the point ?

Ok so you can have fun doing wotever but in the end Hoos Thar to continue in your foot steps.

No one.

So wot have you dun if no one is thar to tell the story.

Nuthing.

Thank you for just telling me my life has no meaning.

I have chosen not to procreate - a choice I made at a very young age.

Life is not just about procreation.

I meen no afence to you but i struggle to see wot els it can be.

Life is about learning and leaving the planet a better place.

You do not have to have children personally to have someone follow in your footsteps.

Ok so you trying to make the planet a better place...

A better place for Hoo ?

If you have no kids Hoo are you doing it for ?

Hoos going to enjoy this better place wen your work is dun. if everyone els followed in your foot steps witch includes no kids Hoo wood this grate better place be for.

No kids meens thar is no one to take over.

Makes it kind of pointless making it better for no one to enjoy it. ?

I have a niece, my friends have children. There will always be people having children. I'm just saying you can be a role model to children without having any yourself."

Ok Well I can see your point and vue now.

I hope you sukseed in wot your trying to do.

Pursurnley id ruther have kids thow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How have I misunderstood 'right' then smart arse?

Like I said, it’s only slight, and it’s covered more than once in the thread. Just because something is a ‘right’, it doesn’t mean it has to be provided, it just means it cannot be prohibited without good cause. The right to have sex does not mean that not finding a willing partner is an infringement of that right."

Ok...so this is just down to semantics then...the wording needs to be correct to allow that "right" to stand without it being implied that provision is necessary.

I.e "Is it a human right that a person BE ALLOWED to have sex"

And to modify the Op's question "Is it a human right TO BE ALLOWED to have a sex life"

These are fine and do not require provision.

"Is it a right for a human being to have sex?" And "Is it a right for a human being to have a sex life" both imply and require that sex or sex life to be provided by another human (presumably!) who could have no choice in the matter.

So both those statements cannot be rights without infringing a human's right not to have another human have sex with them against their will.

Which is the point I made.

It's like randomly creating two human rights as below.

A human has the right to eat another human. (Should that human want to be eaten)

A human has the right not to be eaten by another human.(Unless they want to be eaten)

This is circular..it's a paradox.

And it can only made right by the introduction of the clauses shown in brackets.

So let's just get our hairs split correctly before assuming that someone else doesn't understand or is wrong.

So from that you can see that from the op's question...no one can ever have a right to a sex life (with a human).

So there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'involuntary celibate'. They kill people apparently. See Toronto Van attacker"

Oh dear! I hope I never get to that stage!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"So there. "

No, not ‘so there’ at all. You are still misunderstanding this on a couple of levels, although you have successfully defined your misunderstanding.

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I will repeat myself. A human right is not something that you must be provided, and certainly not at the expense of other people’s human rights. It is something that you cannot be prohibited from having without good cause. Again, an individuals human rights have to be balanced with the rights of those around them.

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Allow me to provide another example which demonstrates this point: it has recently been determined that internet access is a human right. This does not mean that the government is infringing the human rights of any individual if it fails to furnish them with free internet access in their home. It just means that, for example, the courts need significant justification to impose a court order prohibiting an offender (such as downloaders of illegal pornography) from having any internet access whatsoever.

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As with the sex, this does not mean that someone who can’t find an ISP willing to provide them internet access is infringing their human rights.

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You’re also making the mistake of thinking that the right to have sex is in any way the same as the right to have sex with whomsoever you choose. As stated, the application of one persons rights cannot infringe on the rights of another.

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This is not down to semantics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there.

No, not ‘so there’ at all. You are still misunderstanding this on a couple of levels, although you have successfully defined your misunderstanding.

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I will repeat myself. A human right is not something that you must be provided, and certainly not at the expense of other people’s human rights. It is something that you cannot be prohibited from having without good cause. Again, an individuals human rights have to be balanced with the rights of those around them.

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Allow me to provide another example which demonstrates this point: it has recently been determined that internet access is a human right. This does not mean that the government is infringing the human rights of any individual if it fails to furnish them with free internet access in their home. It just means that, for example, the courts need significant justification to impose a court order prohibiting an offender (such as downloaders of illegal pornography) from having any internet access whatsoever.

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As with the sex, this does not mean that someone who can’t find an ISP willing to provide them internet access is infringing their human rights.

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You’re also making the mistake of thinking that the right to have sex is in any way the same as the right to have sex with whomsoever you choose. As stated, the application of one persons rights cannot infringe on the rights of another.

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This is not down to semantics."

You're a lawyer aren't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there.

No, not ‘so there’ at all. You are still misunderstanding this on a couple of levels, although you have successfully defined your misunderstanding.

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I will repeat myself. A human right is not something that you must be provided, and certainly not at the expense of other people’s human rights. It is something that you cannot be prohibited from having without good cause. Again, an individuals human rights have to be balanced with the rights of those around them.

.

Allow me to provide another example which demonstrates this point: it has recently been determined that internet access is a human right. This does not mean that the government is infringing the human rights of any individual if it fails to furnish them with free internet access in their home. It just means that, for example, the courts need significant justification to impose a court order prohibiting an offender (such as downloaders of illegal pornography) from having any internet access whatsoever.

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As with the sex, this does not mean that someone who can’t find an ISP willing to provide them internet access is infringing their human rights.

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You’re also making the mistake of thinking that the right to have sex is in any way the same as the right to have sex with whomsoever you choose. As stated, the application of one persons rights cannot infringe on the rights of another.

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This is not down to semantics."

The point is simply that these rights cannot be consumated without conflicting with the rights of another. The logic of my answer is completely lost on you.

It's like arguing with a flat earther!

I give up.

You win.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"The point is simply that these rights cannot be consumated without conflicting with the rights of another. The logic of my answer is completely lost on you."

No, the ‘logic’ isn’t lost, but you’re logic is based on a flawed understanding of the whole big picture of what ‘human rights’ are, and how they are applied. You’re labouring under the misapprehension that this is my opinion. It’s not an opinion.

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Go and read about UDHR and ECHR, and how they are applied. It’ll take less time than convincing the governments of the world to adopt your interpretation of human rights. You’ll also need to rewrite the Human Rights Act 1998 to make it compliant with your special definition. Then rewrite all the legislation that’s been written since then, since it all has to comply with that Act.

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Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a misunderstanding between the word ‘right’ and ‘entitlement’. I regard it that we all have the right to have sex, but that we are not entitled to have sex. In the same way we have the right to go on holiday, eat a bar of chocolate, buy a new pair of shoes etc etc However if the opportunity to have the things we want is not available, we are not entitled to them regardless.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 year old Virgin? Would be the last person I go for.. I'd ask why they were still a virgin this day in age? Lol and give me a man with 30 years experience any day

Just mho

You kind of arnsared your own question thar

No one wants a virgin in the 1st place. And if sumone has asburgis so ther for don't socialize very well thay arnt going to get very far unles sumone is willing to help them out. Witch in this day in age no one will help anyone as thay are to bizey trying to for full that own wants.

In short...

How can i get a fuck if no one gives a fuck ? "

You seem to think that you're not getting fucked because women are selfishly fulfilling their own needs, rather than yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent article in the new statesman by mic Wright on incels and their radicalisation. I'll be banned if I put the link.

They're no longer the pitiful sub culture. Now they're truly grotesque.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there is a misunderstanding between the word ‘right’ and ‘entitlement’. I regard it that we all have the right to have sex, but that we are not entitled to have sex. In the same way we have the right to go on holiday, eat a bar of chocolate, buy a new pair of shoes etc etc However if the opportunity to have the things we want is not available, we are not entitled to them regardless.

Mrs"

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"You're a lawyer aren't you. "

No.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Excellent article in the new statesman by mic Wright on incels and their radicalisation. I'll be banned if I put the link.

They're no longer the pitiful sub culture. Now they're truly grotesque. "

Just read it. The simmering resentment and the way the internet enables it makes me think this issue will grow.

It was pretty easy to find thanks to your directions.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Excellent article in the new statesman by mic Wright on incels and their radicalisation. I'll be banned if I put the link.

They're no longer the pitiful sub culture. Now they're truly grotesque. "

I haven't read the article, but apparently after the attack happened, the incel organisation basically posted a threatening message of the "this is one of our soldiers, more attacks to come" ilk.

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