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I KNOW I'M FUCKING FAT!!!!

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Baby your beautiful to me dont let them tell you otherwise

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Baby your beautiful to me dont let them tell you otherwise "

I didn't say I wasn't beautiful...

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By *acksonhoneyCouple
over a year ago

Bromley

First off all your stunning ( love from Honey )

Second off all they are silly little men, reverting back to the playground days, when they kick off when they don't get what they want !! Their loss not yours!!

#idiots

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"First off all your stunning ( love from Honey )

Second off all they are silly little men, reverting back to the playground days, when they kick off when they don't get what they want !! Their loss not yours!!

#idiots "

Thanks Honey!

It doesn't remotely upset me...I'm not here for them

The stupidity bores me to frustration is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entitled pricks.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Entitled pricks."

Quite!

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

They get butt hurt and lash out. They be all, oh look at your one with all her self confidence who does she think she is, well I’ll take her down a peg or two with my strongly worded abusive message. That’s 1 for the men folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite! "

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

You look fine to me, Block and move on x!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look 100% sexy to me, don’t listen to them girl you work it! X

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

Love this!!

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

I do the same..."unfortunately for you, you little stud muffin...even this fatty isn't desperate enough to fuck you"

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"You look fine to me, Block and move on x! "

I do...just needed to have a little rant. Does the soul good

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By *inkyPixelMan
over a year ago

Cranford


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

Savage and awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's half 1 in the morning doll chill the fuck out x

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"It's half 1 in the morning doll chill the fuck out x"

Ranting is acceptable at any time imo

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

You're gorgeous. End of.

x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

You are beautiful duck the haters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it "

jeez!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it

jeez!"

That's the best way to defeat a bully/troll, play their game

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

Frustrated boys. Ignore.

Love the purple hair. What colour is now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

I've told you about this before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell haters you are only one letter away from being fit...and they are a million miles from being fucked.

And you look gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

Well I'm number one fan of Big Beautiful Women and I think the issue is those type of guys you mention are stupid for thinking Big women are an "easy fuck"

So they are not necessarily interested in the person just as long as the person says yes. I can imagine these type of guys do the same when they're knocked back by anyone, "you old bitch" "you skinny bitch" etc

The other funny thing is that they probably don't have the equipment to handle a bbw anyway. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

Well I'm number one fan of Big Beautiful Women and I think the issue is those type of guys you mention are stupid for thinking Big women are an "easy fuck"

So they are not necessarily interested in the person just as long as the person says yes. I can imagine these type of guys do the same when they're knocked back by anyone, "you old bitch" "you skinny bitch" etc

The other funny thing is that they probably don't have the equipment to handle a bbw anyway. Lol"

This.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

Frustrated boys. Ignore.

Love the purple hair. What colour is now?"

Still purple atm. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think it matters what shape your body is. Obviously by your post you've a bit of something about you and would most likely ruin "gym fit posers" who by the way take rejection badly as they have low self esteem issues, hence the reason they spend their life in the gym trying to make themselves feel good. I'm now working on getting fat and telling everyone to fuck off. You go lass xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who do that are only showing their lack of tact, manners, and intelligence. Best to delete, and move on...

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Personally I don't think it matters what shape your body is. Obviously by your post you've a bit of something about you and would most likely ruin "gym fit posers" who by the way take rejection badly as they have low self esteem issues, hence the reason they spend their life in the gym trying to make themselves feel good. I'm now working on getting fat and telling everyone to fuck off. You go lass xx "

I'm alright with how I am.

I don't think my size has any relevance to how sexy I am and there's only one person who's opinion of my appearance I'm bothered about and he thinks I'm hot

It's the stupidity of them that annoys me...the insults are water of a ducks back

And the majority of guys who throw insults at me aren't gym fit.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Guys who do that are only showing their lack of tact, manners, and intelligence. Best to delete, and move on... "

I do

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I tend to reply along the lines of

“It’s ok I’d be angry too if I’m that much of a loser that the “desperate” fat chick won’t shag me - then are some tough breaks”

Or similar

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They have major personal limitations - lacking in empathy including and probably have limited sex lives due to inadequacies.

Block them after rejection or just block and delete. We all help each other by reporting inappropriate user behavior too.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"I tend to reply along the lines of

“It’s ok I’d be angry too if I’m that much of a loser that the “desperate” fat chick won’t shag me - then are some tough breaks”

Or similar "

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"They have major personal limitations - lacking in empathy including and probably have limited sex lives due to inadequacies.

Block them after rejection or just block and delete. We all help each other by reporting inappropriate user behavior too."

Always block and report, not sure the reporting does much...but I do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a much bigger girl, but I'm happy in my own skin xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a much bigger girl, but I'm happy in my own skin xxx"

Who wouldn't be happy inside you

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

They are just lashing out because they want you and you said no. Just smile as you hot that block button

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Your stunning OP don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Just block there sorry asses

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By *traight up guyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Just laugh at the hilarity of their stupidity. It's their way of dealing with rejection. I define bullying as putting somone else down to make themself feel elevated above that perso - It's a form of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look fine to me, Block and move on x!

I do...just needed to have a little rant. Does the soul good "

Yes. Yes it does. I leave mine until Thursdays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks."

Aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat with a Ph. aka. Phat!...down with the kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there is something in the water I got one of these yesterday. I was like no shit! My profile clearly states I'm fat. This is after this guy sending me messages again and again and again and he would never have chance to jump on this bouncy castle

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Just block them if you are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I always block immediately after saying no thanks... Not that anyone has ever been abusive or called me fat, but there's always a first time! And it saves them messaging me again

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By *retty.blue.eyesWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Definitely something in the water my way aswell. I've had a few of the same type of messages over the last week not that I'm overly fussed. Your stunning OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor little fragile egos they have, leading to sour grapes. Silly little nobodies to be ignored!

Mr B

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I get asked things like ‘where are you from?’ Or ‘are you bi?’ always from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I always block immediately after saying no thanks... Not that anyone has ever been abusive or called me fat, but there's always a first time! And it saves them messaging me again "

This for me too.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Hi op

Just had a look at your pics

And in my vue your not that fat in fact you look quite normal size in most of your pics and rother nice.

Ps you got a very pritty face to espeshley in the 7th April pic. But that's just me. I like a pritty face over other pics.

Don't let the bullies get to you. Your fine as you are

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It’s the pnes that randomly message from out of nowhere to tell you your fat

I just laugh and kinda say yo myself

“Cheers for telling me mate never would have noticed otherwise”

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

How meny of my female friends get these messages all the time .. all of them, why can’t we all be gentlemen and just shut the fuck up when they get a nick back and just move along.. some dudes should give them selfs rules

1. Be nice

2. Be polite

3. Be respectful

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it "

Yeah I did that once and had the little idiot wrapped around my finger. I then told him I was bored now and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh the old look at me thread

I did look,and tbh i think your gorgeous,so dont worry your pretty little self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine how much time they would have saved if they just read your profile, OP.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it

Yeah I did that once and had the little idiot wrapped around my finger. I then told him I was bored now and blocked. "

Yea the amount of back peddling and groveling that comes afterwards is amusing for a short time

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By *reckledbumWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

Brilliantly said chicken.

Some people are so feckin double standard and belong firmly on the block list xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it

Yeah I did that once and had the little idiot wrapped around my finger. I then told him I was bored now and blocked.

Yea the amount of back peddling and groveling that comes afterwards is amusing for a short time "

It was I was entertaining myself whilst painting and having a giggle just agreeing with everything he was saying.

Another time I was just abusive back,it was quite worrying actually how vile I got I saw a different side to me that's for sure. He got all my frustrations that day,and had it back ten fold.

Thankfully I've only had a few.

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By *reckledbumWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool


"It’s the pnes that randomly message from out of nowhere to tell you your fat

I just laugh and kinda say yo myself

“Cheers for telling me mate never would have noticed otherwise” "

Some twirp once felt the urge to msg me with a hahaha small tits.

I replied with woohoo 10/10 for observation

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford

I think your beautiful

Glad you don't give a fcuk too, their opinion is as shite as their personalities

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By *il.redCouple
over a year ago

ashford


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

Haaahaaaaa yaaaaas girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are beautiful duck the haters xx"

Ducking those haters, Quack, Quack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cycle of abuse continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men say anything to get what they want .This type not worth the hassle avoid them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a woman with curves, you are not fat, and you are definitely not ugly or fugly as posted the other day in another post.

If I were 10 years younger, better looking and closer to you, I would be all over you

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

Yeeeeees let it out, always good to vent!!

They're just stroppy little kids - annoyingly they are everywhere!

Xxx

( p.s. Helloooo, i luuuv you profile and pics )

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By *ive_Have_FunMan
over a year ago

cork

Well at least you know your first feeling and impression of them was correct, and they are total losers....

They obviously take rejection badly and feel they must somehow feel better so they give you a hard time.

Just a shame there isn't a name and shame forum so others could be warned.

*sarcasm coming*

Clearly in their heads your the problem because they're prefect in every way.....

Screenshot, block & report.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

It does you good to vent once in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op dont worry as your pretty most men on here are rude short and ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

I have JLo’s body.

I need ideas for disposal. She’s starting to smell

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

I have JLo’s body.

I need ideas for disposal. She’s starting to smell "

I wondered why I'd not seen her on TV or film for a while...

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By *ive_Have_FunMan
over a year ago

cork


"Op dont worry as your pretty most men on here are rude short and ugly "

Ah here bright_eyes_x, there was no need to tell me I'm like that in public...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op dont worry as your pretty most men on here are rude short and ugly

Ah here bright_eyes_x, there was no need to tell me I'm like that in public... "

Sorry lovey i have loose lips

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Strumps... YOU my darling are gorgeous, not only on the outside but you're a beautiful person inside too.

I'm proud to call you my friend, and any idiot who feels its acceptable to resort to name calling is pathetic

Love you baby girl xxx

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By *ouncy BabyWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

The attitude of SOME guys is because we’re fat we should be grateful that someone wants to fuck us....oh how wrong they are.

Had it many times myself after I’ve refused their desperate advances. Good job this site has some decent guys to balance the bad.

P.s looking hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pinching some of these responses. I’ve been lucky that I haven’t had any abuse like that but always be prepared for it.

And yes you are stunning and size has little relevance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat or not fat.. stop shouting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

I do the same..."unfortunately for you, you little stud muffin...even this fatty isn't desperate enough to fuck you" "

love this Strumpet.

Don't let them get to you.

Needy whiny little insecure men who've nothing else better to do.

I had one guy that used to just send one worded rude messages calling me all the names under the sun...blocked, reported but he just made up new profiles.

I've just learnt to not even open the messages now.

I did once loose my rag and a lot of expletives came out of my mouth.

They're not worth your time energy or oxygen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

Yes you definitely are...but fat is beautiful and you are eminently fuckable...Ergo...

You are gorgeous and bloody good for you for knowing that... too many sexy gorgeous big women dont realise how beautiful they are

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "
That's an awesome rant Strumps love it . As you said there's no need to even bother with cuntbubbles like that. We love you just the way you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one response like that (quite recently) and I went on to ask him why he had messaged me and what he thought I would feel from his abusive response to my no thank you.

He said he was joking and did actually want to meet me. We had a bit of a conversation where he eventually got it that some people need attraction to want to meet and he went on his merry way.

I wouldn't send abuse back, as that would make me as bad as him and it's childish-which I admit I can be at times.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

It's the age-old knee jerk reaction to call someone fat. Which is hilarious as you're still trying to stick your dick in me.

It's like, darling, didn't you hear the bo-po revolution calling?

I have fat, I am not *fat*. Also, people should fear us more rather than mock us- wouldn't take much for me to just elbow drop you with my fat, fabulous body and ruin your knuckle dragging, mouth breathing day.

*Removes tongue from cheek*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've only had one response like that (quite recently) and I went on to ask him why he had messaged me and what he thought I would feel from his abusive response to my no thank you.

He said he was joking and did actually want to meet me. We had a bit of a conversation where he eventually got it that some people need attraction to want to meet and he went on his merry way.

I wouldn't send abuse back, as that would make me as bad as him and it's childish-which I admit I can be at times."

When I did it felt good and he caught me on a bad day,so yeah he got it back twice as bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!"

Haha your profile pic is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

It’s bullshit, as you can see from comments above: everyone thinks you’re hot. Not that I imagine comments from infantile little flowers with delicate egos will bother you but it’s true.

Imagine what that person would be like in the sack?

Sadly, I feel it makes things so much harder for normal, genuine people. If girls are being bombarded with, “.fancy a fuck?”, cock pics and now apparently insults it’s quite hard to get through the barriers which get built up. Sort it out “lads”.... there should be a name & shame function!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u look very cute and innoscent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had one response like that (quite recently) and I went on to ask him why he had messaged me and what he thought I would feel from his abusive response to my no thank you.

He said he was joking and did actually want to meet me. We had a bit of a conversation where he eventually got it that some people need attraction to want to meet and he went on his merry way.

I wouldn't send abuse back, as that would make me as bad as him and it's childish-which I admit I can be at times.

When I did it felt good and he caught me on a bad day,so yeah he got it back twice as bad.

"

I've never felt good about personally insulting someone, even people who insult me. I tend to feel sorry for them more than anything. I get small bursts of anger that are gone in a par sec. It's a personality flaw I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome "

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block all men and remove that you are "looking for men" on your profile then they can't contact you with vile messages and cock pics?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've only had one response like that (quite recently) and I went on to ask him why he had messaged me and what he thought I would feel from his abusive response to my no thank you.

He said he was joking and did actually want to meet me. We had a bit of a conversation where he eventually got it that some people need attraction to want to meet and he went on his merry way.

I wouldn't send abuse back, as that would make me as bad as him and it's childish-which I admit I can be at times.

When I did it felt good and he caught me on a bad day,so yeah he got it back twice as bad.

I've never felt good about personally insulting someone, even people who insult me. I tend to feel sorry for them more than anything. I get small bursts of anger that are gone in a par sec. It's a personality flaw I think. "

I'll grow up one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!"

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured "

It was actually the speed and G force, rather than fear. Honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured

It was actually the speed and G force, rather than fear. Honest."

Imagine if that was my cum face? Or Ahhhhhh face as Nathan Barley put it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured

It was actually the speed and G force, rather than fear. Honest."

Hahaha yes this is exactly what I have read from your facial expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured

It was actually the speed and G force, rather than fear. Honest.

Imagine if that was my cum face? Or Ahhhhhh face as Nathan Barley put it"

Please, do that face next time you cum at a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!

Haha your profile pic is awesome

It was at Alton Towers for my 40th with my best mate. There was a crowd of people trying to find themselves and all ended up pointing and laughing at mine. I couldn’t stop pissing myself laughing every time I looked at it!

I did laugh too ! The moment was well captured

It was actually the speed and G force, rather than fear. Honest.

Imagine if that was my cum face? Or Ahhhhhh face as Nathan Barley put it

Please, do that face next time you cum at a meet "

She’ll have to make me make it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd. "

I love your boobs.. still

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By *rhappy01Man
over a year ago

yorkshire

If you want my honest opinion to why men act like that they message all women regardless of age looks as they will have sex with anything. However certain people do actually go fo there types an not just fill women full of shit in your case the guy or guys that do this are basically not interested in you an are bit desperate at the time so wen they message you an you turn them down wen really there not interested in you they go on the defensive of what the hell this women is turning me down wen in real life she would not get anywhere near me she’s lucky I even messaged an now she’s turning me down !! As in real life in clubs pubs there is always that girl that is not pleasant at all as in she’s not a good looker an she has a bad personality then a desperate guy who is also good looking gets with her who by the way has no interest in her thinks she’s repulsive but just wants a shag after that shag this girl sets her standards due to him and then only gets other men like him who are also assholes wen truth is she will never ever get a man like him in life other than sex an that’s we’re women fail as they get with scum bags who the men don’t even like her an just fill her full of shit. Sounds harsh but that’s the gods honest truth !!!

Why on my profile I state my type I like gingers pale skin, freckles Or brunettes like 18 to 35 slim an over 35 chubby or curvy your size. So that separates the dogs from the men as now a tanned blonde sees my profile she is instantly going to know I have no interest in her men don’t put a type on there profile as that means they can fill women full of shit whatever age size shape an hair to get a chance to have sex ( do not trust a man that does not describe is type)

Best way is to hide profiles an all pics an if a man messages ask him to describe his type that way he’s fucked if it’s not you.

Ps sorry if it sounded harsh not aimed at you just giving truth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

I love your boobs.. still "

To be honest that's the kind of responses I get from guys I've told they aren't my type. They either respond with something complemtary or thank me for my reply! Must be the way I say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

I love your boobs.. still "

Just looked, they’re absolute beauties aren’t they?

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

Fat is no longer a dirty word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

Fat is no longer a dirty word.

"

It never was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had one response like that (quite recently) and I went on to ask him why he had messaged me and what he thought I would feel from his abusive response to my no thank you.

He said he was joking and did actually want to meet me. We had a bit of a conversation where he eventually got it that some people need attraction to want to meet and he went on his merry way.

I wouldn't send abuse back, as that would make me as bad as him and it's childish-which I admit I can be at times.

When I did it felt good and he caught me on a bad day,so yeah he got it back twice as bad.

I've never felt good about personally insulting someone, even people who insult me. I tend to feel sorry for them more than anything. I get small bursts of anger that are gone in a par sec. It's a personality flaw I think.

I'll grow up one day."

I don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

I love your boobs.. still

To be honest that's the kind of responses I get from guys I've told they aren't my type. They either respond with something complemtary or thank me for my reply! Must be the way I say it "

Most do that with me. Had one in thousands of messages who replied abusively about my weight.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

Fat is no longer a dirty word.

It never was "

I'm afraid you're wrong.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd. "

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out. "

Are you for real with this?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

Are you for real with this?"

Yes. Do you disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jusvread this thread and i wouldnt sweat over the impetuous children that plague the site ive checked out your profile and from where im standing you have fuck all to stress about not only are you pretty you have a style that blows me away you keep doing what you do doll and gorget the men that tantrum

D x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out. "

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy reaponding to these dicks

I just say.. yeah even a fat chick chick knocks you back

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Block all men and remove that you are "looking for men" on your profile then they can't contact you with vile messages and cock pics?

"

A lot of the conversations I have on here are with single guys from the forums. Why should I block a whole group of people from messaging me when it's a minority who are total cock wombles?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Block all men and remove that you are "looking for men" on your profile then they can't contact you with vile messages and cock pics?

A lot of the conversations I have on here are with single guys from the forums. Why should I block a whole group of people from messaging me when it's a minority who are total cock wombles? "
Well said xx

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

"

Bloody love this!!

It’s the typical ‘toys out of the pram’ moment & entirely proves why the ‘no thanks’ was the correct response lol!!

And anyway, how the hell are we meant to fit this much fucking awesomeness into a smaller body?! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were "

And fucking fair play to you....oh and I'm a chubster that don't give a fuck too....good on ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Bloody love this!!

It’s the typical ‘toys out of the pram’ moment & entirely proves why the ‘no thanks’ was the correct response lol!!

And anyway, how the hell are we meant to fit this much fucking awesomeness into a smaller body?! xx"

This might be my favourite response ever. Sexy as.

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

The world is full of morons and losers

In your day to day life, you may easily avoid these people by the simple act of having good life choices...

i.e. Good Job, Cool Friends, Being choosey about where you go for a drink at the weekends, Having High Standards etc

These all act as your filter for said morons...

But when it comes to online dating and swingers sites... there’s no real filter... we’re all thrown in together

You choose to drink at the nice wine bar, because Daz, Bazza & Shazza don’t get as much value from their benefit cheques in there... and therefore it’s not gonna kick off every 5mins, and Bazza’s not gonna come over and offer you a bite of a Gregs Sausage Roll that he’s had stuffed down his pants since lunchtime...

It’s just the nature of social media in general, that you’re gonna get messages from morons...

Just ignore them, and most importantly... Don’t judge others by the standards you set for yourself...

They might not be horrible... just too stupid to realise how horrible they’re being to others x

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!"

Yes. Not all, but many men. You'd be surprised.

A bloke messages a woman he thinks is not that attractive, but fuckable. He thinks he is more attractive than her. She rejects him and he feels hurt and lashes out.

It's the behaviour of an arse, obviously, but it happens.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

"

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!

Yes. Not all, but many men. You'd be surprised.

A bloke messages a woman he thinks is not that attractive, but fuckable. He thinks he is more attractive than her. She rejects him and he feels hurt and lashes out.

It's the behaviour of an arse, obviously, but it happens. "

He can think all he likes....he may lower his standards for a fatty....but I won't lower mine!

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!

Yes. Not all, but many men. You'd be surprised.

A bloke messages a woman he thinks is not that attractive, but fuckable. He thinks he is more attractive than her. She rejects him and he feels hurt and lashes out.

It's the behaviour of an arse, obviously, but it happens.

He can think all he likes....he may lower his standards for a fatty....but I won't lower mine!

"

Damn there goes my only hope.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple. "

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now..."

Strumpet. It really makes me sad to here you've had to put up with this. I just wanted you to know 3 things.

1. Your fucking gorgeous and any one who doesn't realise how lucky they are to be chatting to you doesn't deserve to be chatting to you.

2. People are twats.

3. You said it's a minority. Well just try and remember who you keep coming back here, it sounds like the good far outweighs the bad.

I genuinely hope you get more of the right kind of cocks.

xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

"

Admit it. You were cranky and tired.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

Strumpet. It really makes me sad to here you've had to put up with this. I just wanted you to know 3 things.

1. Your fucking gorgeous and any one who doesn't realise how lucky they are to be chatting to you doesn't deserve to be chatting to you.

2. People are twats.

3. You said it's a minority. Well just try and remember who you keep coming back here, it sounds like the good far outweighs the bad.

I genuinely hope you get more of the right kind of cocks.

xxxxxxxx

"

You're sweet.

What they say rarely gets me down, occasionally I'll second guess myself but my OH is pretty good at making me remember it's all bollocks.

The fact that they think it's ok to give anyone abuse is what pisses me off.

I'm nothing special, I'm an acquired taste...but I'd rather play with someone who really fucking wants me rather than someone who's messaging because he things that cos I'm fat he stands more of a chance.

I'm fat, not stupid

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Admit it. You were cranky and tired. "

I'm always cranky and tired Bee...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont get abuse but then again i dont entertain idìots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Admit it. You were cranky and tired.

I'm always cranky and tired Bee... "

You sound like Dr Banner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get abuse but then again i dont entertain idìots"

Your were not the Friday night vocalist at my local then?

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"I dont get abuse but then again i dont entertain idìots"

I get it regardless. As I said above.

Is it my fault? No.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Admit it. You were cranky and tired.

I'm always cranky and tired Bee...

You sound like Dr Banner. "

Who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact that they think it's ok to give anyone abuse is what pisses me off."

I refer you to my 2nd point.


" but I'd rather play with someone who really fucking wants me rather than someone who's messaging because he things that cos I'm fat he stands more of a chance.

I'm fat, not stupid "

Yeah,

and just think what kind of a fucking loser that person is.

They are never going to meet someone they like. They don't even like themselves enough to act like a fucking grown up.

It is really sad and they only deserve pity.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now..."

Just delete and block anyone whose message you aren't interested in.

I appreciate you may still get the odd idiot who sends unsolicited abuse, but doing that would reduce it dramatically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You sound like Dr Banner.

Who?"

You don't know who Dr Banner is?

I recant my former compliments. Sort yourself out woman.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

Just delete and block anyone whose message you aren't interested in.

I appreciate you may still get the odd idiot who sends unsolicited abuse, but doing that would reduce it dramatically. "

I more often than not do.

I think it's a shame that people put the responsibility on whoever is getting the abuse instead of who's giving it.

I shouldn't have to block every person I'm not interested in just incase they want to be a cunt...

You can't win on here, I simply just wanted to have a rant and shake off some of my frustration at their stupidity.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"

You sound like Dr Banner.

Who?

You don't know who Dr Banner is?

I recant my former compliments. Sort yourself out woman."

I do...it's confirmed.

Momentary lapse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had the your hubby is a fat fucker message. Some people are just arseholes. X

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

Just delete and block anyone whose message you aren't interested in.

I appreciate you may still get the odd idiot who sends unsolicited abuse, but doing that would reduce it dramatically.

I more often than not do.

I think it's a shame that people put the responsibility on whoever is getting the abuse instead of who's giving it.

I shouldn't have to block every person I'm not interested in just incase they want to be a cunt...

You can't win on here, I simply just wanted to have a rant and shake off some of my frustration at their stupidity."

I am not suggesting you are responsible for the abuse. Obviously, the only person responsible is the abuser.

Fact is, on a site like this, you are going to get idiots. That ain't gonna change. All I am doing is trying to suggest a way of avoiding abuse from said idiots.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

Just delete and block anyone whose message you aren't interested in.

I appreciate you may still get the odd idiot who sends unsolicited abuse, but doing that would reduce it dramatically.

I more often than not do.

I think it's a shame that people put the responsibility on whoever is getting the abuse instead of who's giving it.

I shouldn't have to block every person I'm not interested in just incase they want to be a cunt...

You can't win on here, I simply just wanted to have a rant and shake off some of my frustration at their stupidity.

I am not suggesting you are responsible for the abuse. Obviously, the only person responsible is the abuser.

Fact is, on a site like this, you are going to get idiots. That ain't gonna change. All I am doing is trying to suggest a way of avoiding abuse from said idiots. "

Oh I know! For the most part I shrug it off and it doesn't affect my day...yesterday was one of those where every other message was vile or abusive and I just needed to vent.

So far today, just one dickhead. Some days are better than others

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all your lovely comments.

Just want to make a few things clear...

Being called fat, doesn't offend me. I am a fatty and I'm ok with that. What annoys me is the fact that someone will send me a message, usually something crude or boring and then get abusive when I've said no. I'm called fat/ugly because they've nothing else to say to me.

I get abusive messages on here every single day, sometimes as a result of me saying no thanks, sometimes for no reason at all.

Sometimes a rant does you good! And this did

Don't reply to people you are not interested in, then you won't get abuse.

Simple.

Unfortunately not that simple...

The abuse isn't always a result of rejection...it often follows a message I've not responded to and sometimes a first message is simply to tell me how fat and disgusting I am.

I've never been one to keep my mouth shut, not about to happen now...

Just delete and block anyone whose message you aren't interested in.

I appreciate you may still get the odd idiot who sends unsolicited abuse, but doing that would reduce it dramatically.

I more often than not do.

I think it's a shame that people put the responsibility on whoever is getting the abuse instead of who's giving it.

I shouldn't have to block every person I'm not interested in just incase they want to be a cunt...

You can't win on here, I simply just wanted to have a rant and shake off some of my frustration at their stupidity."

I’ve heard and understood you from your OP .

It’s a rant, not a validation seeking post and I applaud your rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You sound like Dr Banner.

Who?

You don't know who Dr Banner is?

I recant my former compliments. Sort yourself out woman.

I do...it's confirmed.

Momentary lapse "

It’s things like this that makes me go off my friends.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"

You sound like Dr Banner.

Who?

You don't know who Dr Banner is?

I recant my former compliments. Sort yourself out woman.

I do...it's confirmed.

Momentary lapse

It’s things like this that makes me go off my friends. "

I'm sleep deprived!

I'm allowed moments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out. "

Most guys do thank me for the reply and say things like it was worth a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best to block after saying no thanks, it avoids abusive messages and also stops them from messaging again at a later date, repeating the meet requests.

I am also a fatty

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve just had it too. His first message was “can we meet plz”. I said sure my next free date is 2022 (clearly not red my profile!) andought I was he said can’t wait til then you’ll be twice as fat and ugly. So clearly if he already thought I was fat and ugly then he must be totally desperate

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

There are a group of men who approach larger women because they think it will be easier to get a fuck. When said women reject them, it's a massive blow to their ego and they lash out.

As has been said, the losers here are the ones who can't get a fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any women are worried about their size, I wouldn’t be.

I keep hearing that ‘bigger is better’ when I over hear women talking in the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I’ve just had it too. His first message was “can we meet plz”. I said sure my next free date is 2022 (clearly not red my profile!) andought I was he said can’t wait til then you’ll be twice as fat and ugly. So clearly if he already thought I was fat and ugly then he must be totally desperate "

Omg my phone is playing up today!! I know how to spell read and god know what I was trying to say when my phone chose andought!!

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By *amille66Woman
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross London

You’re not fat, you’re gorgeous.

Ignore the fuckers!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged u think you’re pretty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously! Are they fucking stupid?!

These men who send the "fancy a fuck", "hot pics", "ur sexy as fuk" messages only to be told thanks but no thanks or deleted, who then feel the need to tell me how fat and ugly I am.

Do they think I'm una-fucking-ware?

Do they think I'm wandering around thinking I've got fucking JLo's body?!

Do they honestly think I'd put naked photos of myself online if i gave a fuck what a total stranger thinks of my body? Or my face for that matter?

Can they honestly not accept how fucking obvious it is that those kinda messages aren't gonna persuade me to jump on their dicks?

People are fucking stupid!

Aaaaand breathe.

Thanks. Just needed to let that out....as you were

Fat is no longer a dirty word.

It never was

I'm afraid you're wrong."

Unfortunately yes he was...I love big women and so do a lot of men who swing...In the vanilla world being fat is considered to be fugly and you are either lazy greedy slobbish or a mixture of all 3 and believe me as a cuddly guy its just as bad for us as it is for you ladies. I work off the premise that if anyone judges me purely on an arbitrary thing like my size I am entitled in return to judge him on the arbitrary fact that he is a dick. But unfortunately that's the world we live in so we have to just deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have messaged u think you’re pretty xx"

Good gracious, your brave, be warned she’s tired and cranky. (See above^)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it "

When I'm (LB)in the right mood I love winding the nobheads up and while I'm serenely gliding around the keyboard being calm, logical and a tinsy bit facetious they're getting more and more apoplectic until the final barrage of abuse comes back and they block us...Then I go to bed and curl up in a ball and cry myself to sleep knowing I'm not going to experience the best night of my life...EVER!!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!

Yes. Not all, but many men. You'd be surprised.

A bloke messages a woman he thinks is not that attractive, but fuckable. He thinks he is more attractive than her. She rejects him and he feels hurt and lashes out.

It's the behaviour of an arse, obviously, but it happens.

He can think all he likes....he may lower his standards for a fatty....but I won't lower mine!

"

To me standards are not based purely on appearance. I have chatted to some girls before that have been drop dead gorgeous but within 10 mins of talking I’ve wanted to go. Then there’s been the not so good looking girls where 3 hours chatting has passed in the blink of an eye (and I’ve wanted to rip their clothes off lol), so standards are a hard thing to define. Unfortunately though, a lot of people base it purely on looks alone

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Perfect answer, i just hope i remember it next time i need it


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

I do the same..."unfortunately for you, you little stud muffin...even this fatty isn't desperate enough to fuck you" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have messaged u think you’re pretty xx

Good gracious, your brave, be warned she’s tired and cranky. (See above^) "

Maybe God have mercy upon his soul.

We will remember him.

***Sings 'Nearer My God to thee'***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when they call me fat and ugly, as I don’t even have any pics on display!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically no one is fat, we just have fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there is something in the water I got one of these yesterday. I was like no shit! My profile clearly states I'm fat. This is after this guy sending me messages again and again and again and he would never have chance to jump on this bouncy castle "

Well they generally can't read either ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever tried to say okay I'll fuck you, just to confuse the shit out of them ?

I sometimes wish I received some abuse just to play along with it "

Join in on the nocturnal thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have messaged u think you’re pretty xx"

Zorro, I think your mask is a bit too big.

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over a year ago

I'm guessing the guy has a few copy and paste messages and reply copy and pastes.

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over a year ago


"If any women are worried about their size, I wouldn’t be.

I keep hearing that ‘bigger is better’ when I over hear women talking in the pub. "

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Ladies. You could always respond to the abuse in kind. There's nothing that an unsuccessful bloke hates more than being told why he's unsuccessful.

Send them off with a bruised ego. It's fair game if they've tried to bruise yours.

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over a year ago


"Ladies. You could always respond to the abuse in kind. There's nothing that an unsuccessful bloke hates more than being told why he's unsuccessful.

Send them off with a bruised ego. It's fair game if they've tried to bruise yours."

I disagree. This is where the cycle of abuse continues. It pisses them off then they go abuse someone else.

So all these women and couples that say they are abusive back, are just perpetuating the problem.

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over a year ago

Don’t know what they are on about. Maybe they think they couldn’t handle you...on the other hand, you look great, no ifs, no buts.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Aw, diddums. And this fat girl turned you down. Ouch, that must smart a bit."

Childish, yes. But that's always been the first thought to pop into my head when I receive one of those type messages. Occasionally I have replied in that vein.

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over a year ago

Last word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told thousands of men that they aren't my type and in 7 years I'm yet to receive any abusive responses. It's very odd.

You're hot. You are out of most men's league and most will know that the chances of you fucking them are very low, but they think it's worth a punt. Hence they are not unduly disappointed when you reject them.

On the other hand where a man messages a woman who he thinks is not hot and she still rejects him, the hurt is more raw. Some will deal with that by lashing out.

F*cking hell is that seriously how men's minds work?!

Yes. Not all, but many men. You'd be surprised.

A bloke messages a woman he thinks is not that attractive, but fuckable. He thinks he is more attractive than her. She rejects him and he feels hurt and lashes out.

It's the behaviour of an arse, obviously, but it happens. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitled pricks.

Quite!

I’ve been known to answer - yep I’m fat and ugly and you still asked and I still said no, objectively who is the loser in this scenario?

Every single post this girl makes is pure gold and makes me want to hug & squeeze her!"

Who? Me?!

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over a year ago

I worry quite a lot about the idea of perpetuating abuse. It’s a tad abusee shaming for asserting themselves back in the line of attack, there’s ways of responding yes, however let’s not lose focus unduly. I’m not saying abuse away per se in reply, but I don’t think a retort is the reason the abuser goes off and repeats their behaviour. They were behaving that way first, let’s acknowledge that incredibly clearly, eh?

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