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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What do you really want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you really want?"

To say what I'm looking for without being called a slut as I just stated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? "

Say what you mean and mean what you say

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"What do you really want?

To say what I'm looking for without being called a slut as I just stated "

But what is that?

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I thought a TS was post op and a TV was like a cross dresser

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

Sometimes I wonder, what others smoke! Must be good stuff.

Now the serious stuff:

We live in a free country, so you are free to say whatever you want. Why do you care what others call you? The least you care the happier yiu will be.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"What do you really want?

To say what I'm looking for without being called a slut as I just stated

But what is that?"

It's what happens when you have a pair of tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will never have something that costs nothing but means alot...thats manners

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"What do you really want?

To say what I'm looking for without being called a slut as I just stated

But what is that?

It's what happens when you have a pair of tits.

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I meant, what is it that the op wants? I understand it's not to be called a slut, but apart from that I can't work it out from their post.

As far as I'm concerned, do and say whatever you want op and f the others.

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? "
honestly do you really care what others say on here ?!? ... who are they ?! .... do they have an impact on your life ?! .... do and say what you want .... who actually cares what other think or say ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? honestly do you really care what others say on here ?!? ... who are they ?! .... do they have an impact on your life ?! .... do and say what you want .... who actually cares what other think or say .... "

Yes but there's tolerance and just ignoring what they say but there comes a point where there's enough messages going against you and what you want to the point where you just think "okay there's too much going on right now I should just delete it" instead of keeping it up on your status and getting what fun I want out of it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What do you really want?

To say what I'm looking for without being called a slut as I just stated "

Yes, I understand that bit. When you say ....”i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut....” what does ‘what I really want’ refer to? Don’t repeat what you already said because you’ve already said that bit and I understood. I understand if you genuinely ‘can’t say’ but just wanted to understand more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? "

I think it's a real shame that you feel that way. This lifestyle is all about hedonism and having fun.

How we wish to have that fun is up to consenting adults and you should not get grief about it.

Mt has met up with TS and TVs and had a great time with them

X

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? honestly do you really care what others say on here ?!? ... who are they ?! .... do they have an impact on your life ?! .... do and say what you want .... who actually cares what other think or say ....

Yes but there's tolerance and just ignoring what they say but there comes a point where there's enough messages going against you and what you want to the point where you just think "okay there's too much going on right now I should just delete it" instead of keeping it up on your status and getting what fun I want out of it "
you obviously care too much about what others think ... your hear for your own reasons ... no one else’s ... therefore there is no right or wrong status ... just concern yourself about what you want .... there will always be judgemental folk regardless but stay true to yourself and Fook everyone else .... that’s just my opinion anyways x best wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? honestly do you really care what others say on here ?!? ... who are they ?! .... do they have an impact on your life ?! .... do and say what you want .... who actually cares what other think or say ....

Yes but there's tolerance and just ignoring what they say but there comes a point where there's enough messages going against you and what you want to the point where you just think "okay there's too much going on right now I should just delete it" instead of keeping it up on your status and getting what fun I want out of it you obviously care too much about what others think ... your hear for your own reasons ... no one else’s ... therefore there is no right or wrong status ... just concern yourself about what you want .... there will always be judgemental folk regardless but stay true to yourself and Fook everyone else .... that’s just my opinion anyways x best wishes "

Exa'fuckin'ctly

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? honestly do you really care what others say on here ?!? ... who are they ?! .... do they have an impact on your life ?! .... do and say what you want .... who actually cares what other think or say ....

Yes but there's tolerance and just ignoring what they say but there comes a point where there's enough messages going against you and what you want to the point where you just think "okay there's too much going on right now I should just delete it" instead of keeping it up on your status and getting what fun I want out of it you obviously care too much about what others think ... your hear for your own reasons ... no one else’s ... therefore there is no right or wrong status ... just concern yourself about what you want .... there will always be judgemental folk regardless but stay true to yourself and Fook everyone else .... that’s just my opinion anyways x best wishes

Exa'fuckin'ctly "

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"As a transsexual, i find I can't say what I really want without being called a slut or any other horrible names or I can't post a status without it being taken out of context if I want something then I state what I want then have to delete it shortly after...when I want to find something on the site I want so it almost restricts myself to posting statuses because I don't want drama... it's just the reality of things search ts/tv the deferences between statuses.. I find a lot of men forget that it is a sex site and almost treat transsexuals differently so the point they expect us to be on dating sites when a lot of "straight" men have a fabguys account where they are bottom, what's your opinions on this? "

Ok, I've looked at your profile (some seriously sexy pictures there - and I'm saying that as a very comfortable with my sexuality hetro female).

I apologise if I'm overstepping, but are you transitioning? I have a friend who is she was saying that a lot of people who transition have body dysmorphia so are not comfortable with the body parts that they have, therefore have no sex drive. She was keen to point out that she didn't suffer with that (m2f). Are you getting comments based on this?

And I really am sorry if I've misunderstood, or overstepped. Feel free to ignore this comment if you aren't comfortable with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a tv

If I had tried much younger I would consider becoming a ts

I don’t fancy men, only other tvs or ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without breaking site rules, if you find that people on this one are too narrowminded, there are speciality sites which cater for more specialised tastes.

Perhaps one of those would be more suitable, and you could just use this one as a social site as the facilities are very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EVERYONE and anyone should be able to search for and signal for their wants and needs without fear of intolerance or ridicule.

You’re profile is incredibly attractive, good luck finding what you’re looking for

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