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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay

No wonder when there are many women on Fab also ‘offering’ paid services on other sites... goes against the objective of true swinging does it not?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If they are on other sites they're not breaking any fab rules are they?

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"If they are on other sites they're not breaking any fab rules are they? "

Might do on Amazon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they are not allowed to have some down time on here? As long as they're not asking for money on here. Let them have their fun, I say. They're not breaking any fab rules

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Pay ‘em and enjoy or don’t pay ‘em and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how that affects the genuine men on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they are on other sites they're not breaking any fab rules are they? "

If they aren't touting for business on here, no.

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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay


"If they are on other sites they're not breaking any fab rules are they?

If they aren't touting for business on here, no. "

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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay

Some actually do...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No it doesnt as long as their not asking for payment on here.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't understand how that affects the genuine men on here?

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Neither do I.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Some actually do..."

Report those that do. Forward the message to admin and block the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would they send the "can't pay, we'll take away" people in if you didn't pay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder when there are many women on Fab also ‘offering’ paid services on other sites... goes against the objective of true swinging does it not?"

I don’t get it? I think the dick heads make it difficult for genuine guys but not the fact that a few get paid to have fun too? I know one who does both but I’m not going to pay her and she knows that so a meet will be genuine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would they send the "can't pay, we'll take away" people in if you didn't pay? "

OUCH! ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some actually do..."

Why does that affect 'genuine' guys ?

What is a genuine guy ? How can you guarantee you are a genuine guy ? How can I know that you are not some loony stalker ?

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been some singles and indeed couples offering paid services on other sites for as long as I can remember from being on fabs. This is not a new thing and as has been said, as long as they are not breaking the site rules and offering it on here then they are free to do that.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"No wonder when there are many women on Fab also ‘offering’ paid services on other sites... goes against the objective of true swinging does it not?

I don’t get it? I think the dick heads make it difficult for genuine guys but not the fact that a few get paid to have fun too? I know one who does both but I’m not going to pay her and she knows that so a meet will be genuine!"

You have much to learn, Grasshopper.

The dickheads actually make it much easier for the normal guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand how that affects the genuine men on here?

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It really doesn’t; but I think it maybe makes them feel a little better.

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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay

The genuine swinging guys, in my case recently widowed, who genuinely enjoy the scene and pleasures of enjoyment of others but not prepared to pay for mutual enjoyment to those who only reply to messages indicating so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The genuine swinging guys, in my case recently widowed, who genuinely enjoy the scene and pleasures of enjoyment of others but not prepared to pay for mutual enjoyment to those who only reply to messages indicating so. "

I can’t say I’ve ever seen such a profile.

And before you suggest it may be because you and I are different genders; we’re both seeking women. If I did see such a profile, I would pass it by without it particularly rattling me.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"The genuine swinging guys, in my case recently widowed, who genuinely enjoy the scene and pleasures of enjoyment of others but not prepared to pay for mutual enjoyment to those who only reply to messages indicating so.

I can’t say I’ve ever seen such a profile.

And before you suggest it may be because you and I are different genders; we’re both seeking women. If I did see such a profile, I would pass it by without it particularly rattling me. "

I'm the same gender as the OP and it's never happened to me.

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

I see a few people on the ponce. In particular a Couple asking for people to take them out and buy them drinks. Personally I'd be embarrassed to do that, but each to their own.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I see a few people on the ponce. In particular a Couple asking for people to take them out and buy them drinks. Personally I'd be embarrassed to do that, but each to their own. "

I've seen that sort of thing- mostly in statuses. It's the sort of thing that repels me anyway, so I probably wouldn't click on the profile.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why do men think automatically that this site is so easy for women?

Trust me it isn't, we probably have more shit to rule out, but it seems to be at least 99% of messages then you start speaking and at least another 0.9% gets ruled out as well leaving you with 0.1%, yeah that is great odds!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If it’s difficult for genuine single guys, then it must be - logically - easy for fake married ones.

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow


"I see a few people on the ponce. In particular a Couple asking for people to take them out and buy them drinks. Personally I'd be embarrassed to do that, but each to their own.

I've seen that sort of thing- mostly in statuses. It's the sort of thing that repels me anyway, so I probably wouldn't click on the profile.

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it's like they're using it as a bargaining tool.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I see a few people on the ponce. In particular a Couple asking for people to take them out and buy them drinks. Personally I'd be embarrassed to do that, but each to their own.

I've seen that sort of thing- mostly in statuses. It's the sort of thing that repels me anyway, so I probably wouldn't click on the profile.

it's like they're using it as a bargaining tool. "

Do you want to bargain with the tools that do this?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"If it’s difficult for genuine single guys, then it must be - logically - easy for fake married ones. "

And the fake singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s difficult for genuine single guys, then it must be - logically - easy for fake married ones.

And the fake singles.

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And those 'barmy blokes from Brighton'

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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay

Not thinking at all or even suggesting that it’s an easy way here, true swinging is not that way ...

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By *illows Man OP   Man
over a year ago

torquay

They do spoil it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a few people on the ponce. In particular a Couple asking for people to take them out and buy them drinks. Personally I'd be embarrassed to do that, but each to their own.

I've seen that sort of thing- mostly in statuses. It's the sort of thing that repels me anyway, so I probably wouldn't click on the profile.

I saw: looking for a big cock and even bigger wallet.... “oh bugger off, love” - state of it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They do spoil it. "

Men who lie spoil it...I'm not really married.....

People with out of date photo's spoil it.

People who don't take no for an answer, spoil it.

People who thing it is ok to turn up for sex, having had a shower yesterday, spoil it.

I am a single woman, I am fortunate in many ways. It also means people will try to deceive me in many ways, to gain a meet.

This is the internet, people are not all 'genuine'. If you can't accept that, this is not a good place to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many people are there like this ? I’ve never received such an offer either now or as my single profile ...

... are they replies or first messages ?

On the plus side ... if you are getting drowned in such messages you now how girls and couples feel ! Take that ball ache and x100

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