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By *ames3212 OP   Man
over a year ago

sunderland

seems like most messages just seen to get read and left, any advice on the best way to start a message,

I always try and be nice with messages but it doesn't work

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Gizzashagyabitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Helloooooooo

Seems to work for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello"

Msg too long

Try this: hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helloooooooo

Seems to work for me!"

Helloooooooo! is what pops in my head looking at your pics. Those green panties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of cock pics next to random objects. Not a sky remote or a lynx can - up your game a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helloooooooo

Seems to work for me!"

Is work for u , caz u are a nice lady, but when you recive a message , what you will like to be in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hideehoo

Or

Creme eggs?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Lots of cock pics next to random objects. Not a sky remote or a lynx can - up your game a bit"

I got one next to a pringles tube once. Terrifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

say "If I had a star for every time you brightened my day, I'd have a galaxy in my hand."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of cock pics next to random objects. Not a sky remote or a lynx can - up your game a bit

I got one next to a pringles tube once. Terrifying "

You don’t like Pringles?

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By *ames3212 OP   Man
over a year ago

sunderland


"Helloooooooo

Seems to work for me!"

wish it worked that easy for me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck?

Works most times I send it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey seems to be a winner

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Best way to start ...... tell them to message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say "If I had a star for every time you brightened my day, I'd have a galaxy in my hand.""

Oh yeah who doesnt like chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey seems to be a winner "

I'm great in bed..... i can sleep for days!

Looolll

This is one of the best status i ever read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say "If I had a star for every time you brightened my day, I'd have a galaxy in my hand."

Oh yeah who doesnt like chocolate "

lol i prefer snickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you read the persons profile first, then tailor your message to them, a compliment may help, and a little humour could be a good ice breaker.

I like messages that are a few sentences long, one liners get deleted and long messages can be tedious.

Hope you manage to get some replies soon OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was a winning formula for this. I’m dyslexic so I have to read and re-read every message before I send it to make sure it’s right and seeing it just get deleted gets a bit irritating when I’ve made effort.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Helloooooooo

Seems to work for me!

Is work for u , caz u are a nice lady, but when you recive a message , what you will like to be in ? "

It honestly makes no difference because I will always look at a profile first to see how far away they are etc and go from there. Unless it's a crude message then I probably wouldn't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gizzashagyabitch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It honestly makes no difference because I will always look at a profile first to see how far away they are etc and go from there. Unless it's a crude message then I probably wouldn't bother."

I dont really think the distance is a problem , the problem is if that chemestry Between you and him

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"

It honestly makes no difference because I will always look at a profile first to see how far away they are etc and go from there. Unless it's a crude message then I probably wouldn't bother.

I dont really think the distance is a problem , the problem is if that chemestry Between you and him"

Distance is a deal breaker for me as I have limited time and it goes without saying that there has to be chemistry!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of cock pics next to random objects. Not a sky remote or a lynx can - up your game a bit"
a pint pot

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Make sure you read the persons profile first, then tailor your message to them, a compliment may help, and a little humour could be a good ice breaker.

I like messages that are a few sentences long, one liners get deleted and long messages can be tedious.

Hope you manage to get some replies soon OP."

tl;dr

On a serious note wish there was more people around that did appreciate messages like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't send a message, it's too risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put Hey, then faf and attach cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello is my standard start off, sometimes i say a bit more, but if i was too meet people in a bar or public place my 1st words to them would be hello so i tend to go with that

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

I could only be happy with an incurably unfaithful woman.

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