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"I think if someone is constantly making choices that turn out to be bad, then some jinn isn’t right because most relationships and people have ups and downs and you’d hope and expect the ups to outnumber the downs. It might be you sabataging yourself. Who knows? I’d not waste money on professional help, I’d try and analyze things myself. " Thanks for the reply Steve | |||
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"When i was younger i always picked men that treated me like shit. This esculated into me being in an extremely violent relationship. I swore it would never happen again. This was 30 years ago so no internet or therapy groups I bought some psycology books and learnt to understand why i ended up with those type of guys It was really difficult to break the cycle but once done i never ended up in that type of relationship again. My partner now is the polar opposite of what i went for in my younger years" Glad to hear it’s been positive! I’ll have to look at some books | |||
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"As it has been mentioned above a therapist may help but you have to be aware of the implant of false memory. Therapists are well known to get you to face the so called repressed memory you had in the past but several studies, such as the one of Elizabeth Loftus, proved that it is easy to implant memory into people's mind. " | |||
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"I personally need to understand the mechanism of my own and other people's behaviour in order to be able to move on and to not do the same mistakes. I have developed over the years an peculiar analytical and critical mind..... " That's the crucial part to my mind - a curious mind that wants to understand the patterns and biases in one's life, and of those of significance around you. It's a fascinating subject and I am always hoping to improve my experience of this life and happiness by increasing my understanding. I will happily consider information from any source, but it's good to have someone grounded to discuss things with at least. | |||
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"Stephen Ilardi's book The Depression Cure is interesting in that it looks at six areas: 1. Omega 3 fats. 2. “Anti-rumination” strategies. 3. Exercise. 4. Sunlight exposure. 5. Social connection. 6. A good night’s sleep. It’s worth a read." He did a TED talk too. | |||
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"Will look into that, thanks " That was in relation to the book suggestion and CBT | |||
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