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"Been divorced 12 year and single for 5..i dont think anyone is interested in you once youre over 50..ive tried for a while to find someone on here and pof but not had any success..i just get ignored all the time arrrrr haha..i dont think i would marry again but never say never..the trouble is on these sites people make a decision on a split second glance at a pic..i must be a right ugly fucker haha..my beauty is on the inside" Are you rich though? Do you have a big penis? Have you tried going on first dates? | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! " But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. " Which is “hey wanna fuck” | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. " Not all men will fuck anyone . Just because I am on here it doesn’t affect my own personal standards . | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. Not all men will fuck anyone . Just because I am on here it doesn’t affect my own personal standards . " Doesn’t matter.. you are a man. A disgusting creature. We will tar you with the same brush | |||
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"Is that people who divorced in their 50s? I was divorced in 1999 and still am. " I don't and never have needed to know that I'm attractive to men. I don't need attention from a man to validate myself. | |||
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"Is that people who divorced in their 50s? I was divorced in 1999 and still am. I don't and never have needed to know that I'm attractive to men. I don't need attention from a man to validate myself. " In other words.. I’m a strong independent woman who need no man! I have dildos | |||
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"I’ve been single for 13 years and divorced for the last 8 of those. I was married for 13 years and was with ex for 20 years in total. I’m enjoying life, mynkids are now all over 18 although still at home I do have my freedom. Can’t complain too much I have lovely Fab friends and enjoying lots of fun times. I wouldn’t get remarried or even live permanently with anyone. Would be nice to have a significant other for holidays, meals, etc. You never know what’s around the corner for you. " You can just rent one for holidays & meals etc lol | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. Not all men will fuck anyone . Just because I am on here it doesn’t affect my own personal standards . Doesn’t matter.. you are a man. A disgusting creature. We will tar you with the same brush " If you all at the same way, I'll treat you the same way. | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. Not all men will fuck anyone . Just because I am on here it doesn’t affect my own personal standards . Doesn’t matter.. you are a man. A disgusting creature. We will tar you with the same brush If you all at the same way, I'll treat you the same way." You are right | |||
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"I do believe that I am about to join part of a growing group of the 50 something divorcees according to figures we have the highest divorce rate of any age group. Only been married once do not think I will do it again. Are you a 50+ divorcee what's your views on life after divorce and did you or would you remarry again. " welcome to the club | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. " Fair point! | |||
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"Married twice ...divorced 5yrs well over 50 Agree with caged birds and wouldn't get married again ...like my space freedom and choice. Can have fun when I want and peace when I want that too " | |||
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"Is that people who divorced in their 50s? I was divorced in 1999 and still am. I don't and never have needed to know that I'm attractive to men. I don't need attention from a man to validate myself. In other words.. I’m a strong independent woman who need no man! I have dildos " I don't use my toys on me unless my partner is watching. I want men for sex. | |||
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"I’m not divorced ( I’m a career girl and thoroughly enjoy my single life - and so far not found the right guy!) I would guess... most divorced women in their 50s would find themselves in what I would describe as ‘ caged bird, set FREE’ syndrome. They need to know they still attractive/attracted to men. Just a case of finding the right one. Indeed us girls here do have the pick and chose option and because we can - we do! But don't you think it means nothing, as it seems that on here men will fuck anything? I get a lot of offers, but I know they don't necessarily find me attractive, or want me more than anyone else, they'll have said the same thing they've said to me, to a hundred other women. Not all men will fuck anyone . Just because I am on here it doesn’t affect my own personal standards . Doesn’t matter.. you are a man. A disgusting creature. We will tar you with the same brush " Bananaman what is your proble? Why are you hell bent on annoying people? Please stay off the forums | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. " Good Luck | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. Good Luck " Thank you. X | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. " I know where your at and coming from I see the divorce lawyers tomorrow to file paper work it only 4 weeks since I found out wife was having a affair. To be honest our marrage has been over for years, she told me years ago to go find sex somewhere else that is why I joined this site but I have never had any meets. maybe you could call me a time waster or fake profile but I did enjoy coming on and chatting to people and talking sex. Like you I to move out the family home in 3/4 weeks time leaving my 10 year old son and pets, this is ripping me up inside I too am shitting myself about living alone. But there is that bit of excitement there also may join the local swingers club can now accommodate in my own home if I ever get my first meet on from this site. | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. " It seems hard at first but think of it as a new start and do the things you always wanted to ...good luck x | |||
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"I'm 52 but a widow and seems to be frowned on more being a young widow. When make appts for people to do stuff always asked is my hubby going to be there." Ave you took your wedding ring off yet? People see that and make assumptions | |||
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"It does seem to be the women who are having the time of their lives since a divorce. Not seeing any men posting here." I read an article a while back that what typically happens after divorce of a mature couple let’s say, 12 months on she’s dropped a stone or two, got a new haircut and wardrobe and looks fantastic. He’s gained weight through a shit diet and drink, wears old badly or non ironed clothes, looks a mess. She starts having the time of her life, he can’t get a shag for the life of him - then he joins fabswingers, still can’t get a shag. Starts posting in the forum. Oh my god! What’s happened to me? Probably an element of thruth in all that. | |||
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"Ive been divorced since 1995. Ive been with my partner 12 years. Hes my soulmate and the love of my life but we live seperatly. Im not cut out to live with people i like my space and freedom" To me that sounds like the perfect solution. | |||
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"It does seem to be the women who are having the time of their lives since a divorce. Not seeing any men posting here. I read an article a while back that what typically happens after divorce of a mature couple let’s say, 12 months on she’s dropped a stone or two, got a new haircut and wardrobe and looks fantastic. He’s gained weight through a shit diet and drink, wears old badly or non ironed clothes, looks a mess. She starts having the time of her life, he can’t get a shag for the life of him - then he joins fabswingers, still can’t get a shag. Starts posting in the forum. Oh my god! What’s happened to me? Probably an element of thruth in all that." Lol Your so right about the woman's side of that well my wife and we not separated yet. As for me I have lost 3 stones not been this weight since my early twenty's. I think I look fair to good and can scrub up ok even if I say so myself. As for the shag part your probably right on that part it's so sad but so true. | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. I know where your at and coming from I see the divorce lawyers tomorrow to file paper work it only 4 weeks since I found out wife was having a affair. To be honest our marrage has been over for years, she told me years ago to go find sex somewhere else that is why I joined this site but I have never had any meets. maybe you could call me a time waster or fake profile but I did enjoy coming on and chatting to people and talking sex. Like you I to move out the family home in 3/4 weeks time leaving my 10 year old son and pets, this is ripping me up inside I too am shitting myself about living alone. But there is that bit of excitement there also may join the local swingers club can now accommodate in my own home if I ever get my first meet on from this site." I wish you all the very best. And i mirror your back story. I found out she was having an affair 8 weeks ago. Fingers crossed for you. | |||
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"Im freshly separated (2 months), divorce filed. Im 53 and shitting myself about living alone. (We are still both in the marital home but i leave for new pastures in 3 weeks). I feel washed up but want to be positive. It seems hard at first but think of it as a new start and do the things you always wanted to ...good luck x" Thank you. X | |||
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"I'm 52 but a widow and seems to be frowned on more being a young widow. When make appts for people to do stuff always asked is my hubby going to be there. Ave you took your wedding ring off yet? People see that and make assumptions " Widows and widowers usually keep their wedding rings on. They don’t stop loving those they’ve lost. | |||
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"Divorced 14 years did meet a guy a few years later but he sadly passed away Being single in your 50s is hard" | |||
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"Sorry to say but it's way easier for guys in their 50's than woman. You're near your peak earnings, most the available women you want to date have baggage and will lower their standards accordingly and you've got a much wider range of acceptable ages to date. So sorry, but if you can't get a date in your 50's then it's time for radical change. " Depends what you want. If you are looking for a relationship with women you're own age, you're right. If you are looking for casual sex, you're wrong. Women in their fifties up for casual sex will the loads of offers and many of the guts offering will be younger and hotter than a bloke in his fifties. | |||
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"Sorry to say but it's way easier for guys in their 50's than woman. You're near your peak earnings, most the available women you want to date have baggage and will lower their standards accordingly and you've got a much wider range of acceptable ages to date. So sorry, but if you can't get a date in your 50's then it's time for radical change. Depends what you want. If you are looking for a relationship with women you're own age, you're right. If you are looking for casual sex, you're wrong. Women in their fifties up for casual sex will the loads of offers and many of the guts offering will be younger and hotter than a bloke in his fifties. " Agreed. There are also an alarmingly high number of women who thinking sex is redundant after procreation | |||
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