FabSwingers.com forum: Pick your poison

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone asked me this evening, do I need to be wanted or do I want to be needed.

Interesting question. What are your thoughts?

Little Miss Mischief, philosophical and d*unk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to be wanted I think. I need to feel like someone is choosing me in their life.

Being needed is nice but I would rather be with someone who leans on me through choice, not because they "can't live without me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to be needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely want to be needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted. I think surely that's all that anyone wants is for someone to want them unconditionally. I'm needed now and it's hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone asked me this evening, do I need to be wanted or do I want to be needed.

Interesting question. What are your thoughts?

Little Miss Mischief, philosophical and d*unk x"

Btw you broke my brain working that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be wanted, being someone’s first choice in their life is a good thing for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely wanted, it's a much more passionate and deep 'emotion' than 'needed'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I'll take either ATM.

Would be nice to say I want to be needed though.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I think the correct answer to this is:

"Nobody likes a smartarse".

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I need to be wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the correct answer to this is:

"Nobody likes a smartarse". "

Oh I do. I like a clever clogs and someone with a nice arse

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I need to be wanted

Great answer.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.

I just need any wanted attention....I Haven t got a clue what I'm on about xxxx

Suzi

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I need to be wanted

Great answer. "

No..just sad..

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I need to be wanted

Great answer.

No..just sad.."

It’s what we all seek - it’s a human need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

I'd like more money and less worries.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Poison? I was about to suggest coffee or arsenic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just need any wanted attention....I Haven t got a clue what I'm on about xxxx

Suzi"
. Im sure a gorgeous woman like you is both wanted and needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I do what needs doing because it needs doing.

When no one wants me any more I'll get some cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have to choose the definitely wanted. I want to be chosen by someone, not depended on.

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

I want to be wanted and need to be needed

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Need to be wanted definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not needy, but it would be nice to be wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now I want and need cheese on toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be wanted

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Need to be wanted. Not keen on the other definition, don't want to come across as needy to anyone, smacks of desperation, wanted to be around all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to be wanted. Has to be. To be wanted is suggesting a passion and desire to be with someone no matter what. Needed is just not the same feeling of desire more of a necessity to just get by.

Got to be wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Need to be wanted. Has to be. To be wanted is suggesting a passion and desire to be with someone no matter what. Needed is just not the same feeling of desire more of a necessity to just get by.

Got to be wanted. "

You are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone asked me this evening, do I need to be wanted or do I want to be needed.

Interesting question. What are your thoughts?

Little Miss Mischief, philosophical and d*unk x"

What about when you want what you need and need what you want?

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