FabSwingers.com forum: Should I hide...

By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

...my pics if I'm not meeting?

Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.

It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.

Do you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure its upto you, its your profile.

Why are you asking everything else what you should do? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? It's your profile. It represents you regardless of how you're using the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your decision. No one else's.

If you like your pics being looked at then leave them be x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends if you want unwanted messages or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the girls. It's your profile, do whatever you want.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"I'm sure its upto you, its your profile.

Why are you asking everything else what you should do? x"

I totally agree with you.

I'm simply curious as to what others think. I'll do as I please regardless of what people say on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting but I enjoy sharing my pics bugger what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure its upto you, its your profile.

Why are you asking everything else what you should do? x

I totally agree with you.

I'm simply curious as to what others think. I'll do as I please regardless of what people say on here

Excellent

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

To be clear...I've no intention of removing them...simply curious to see if other people thought the same.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"I'm not meeting but I enjoy sharing my pics bugger what anyone else thinks "

My thoughts exactly

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

By that reckoning every woman who's on the blob and not into blood play should hide their photos once a month. I'm pretty sure the fellas would moan about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By that reckoning every woman who's on the blob and not into blood play should hide their photos once a month. I'm pretty sure the fellas would moan about that!

Actually that’s not a bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.

At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use fab however you want to. Isn’t that the general consensus?

If you try to make everyone happy, you’ll make no-one happy.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.

At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed."

I just delete and block any unwanted attention.

I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"Use fab however you want to. Isn’t that the general consensus?

If you try to make everyone happy, you’ll make no-one happy.

Totally agree Bee

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally do when I'm not meeting it saves receiving unwanted messages and wasting people's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By that reckoning every woman who's on the blob and not into blood play should hide their photos once a month. I'm pretty sure the fellas would moan about that!

That nearly made me ch*ke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want others to see your pics,then yes,hide them.

If on the other hand,you have four fingers and a thumb,raise that hand and bitch slap the person who told you to take down your pics.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"If you don't want others to see your pics,then yes,hide them.

If on the other hand,you have four fingers and a thumb,raise that hand and bitch slap the person who told you to take down your pics.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think if you change your "Looking For" preferences to 98-99, that should deflect a lot of unwanted attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if you change your "Looking For" preferences to 98-99, that should deflect a lot of unwanted attention

Doesn't work, I tried that and still got quite a few. I now have no looking for so I don't come up in searches but still doesn't deflect totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t agree no. You pay your subscription and because of that you can use your account how you want. If you want to post pics, do it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not meeting but I enjoy sharing my pics bugger what anyone else thinks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you, pics can be for yourself rather then the people on FS imo

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Its your profile and your choice. I do understand why you're asking the question as I've also had the "well why do you post pics if you're not meeting?" at times.

You can always use your filters if you want to reduce the amount of people who can contact you. I find that useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...my pics if I'm not meeting?

Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.

It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.

Do you agree? "

Yes you should hide under my quilt until the thingy runs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...my pics if I'm not meeting?

Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.

It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.

Do you agree? "

Nooo be proud that others like me appreciate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless you want to, you are interacting with forum members who may wish to take a peak to see whom they are chatting with. XXX

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I display them cos I'm a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I display them cos I'm a tart

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... hope you dont hide 'em I like looking at your bum

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"I display them cos I'm a tart

... hope you dont hide 'em I like looking at your bum

No plans to!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...my pics if I'm not meeting?

Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.

It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.

Do you agree? "

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail. "

I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.

I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...

Ego boost.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I dont see as its anyone elses business what or why you show in pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...my pics if I'm not meeting?

Though I do meet at clubs with my OH, I'm not using fab to arrange meets anymore, I'm just here for the forums and existing friends.

It's been suggested to me that I should hide all my pics if I'm not looking to meet.

Do you agree? "

It’s your profile and they’re your photos. If you wanna keep them up then go for it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Do what you want....its your profile.....its a site for everbody to join and do what they feel is best for them

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.

I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...

Ego boost.

What is?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.

At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed.

I just delete and block any unwanted attention.

I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting."

Odd ? , no as nothing is odd anymore on here !

Pointless ? Yes , as why would you want to get the attention you’ll inevitably get by displaying them ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Your profile is clear that you're not meeting, so if people mail you trying to meet simply because you have pictures they can't be surprised when you delete.

Having said that I personally hide my profile when I'm not looking to meet as I don't really see the point displaying it otherwise. No right or wrong way though, do what you want!

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By *ilthyStrumpet OP Couple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"You could always hide your profile full stop, doesn't stop you using the site, but would stop unwanted attention.

At the end of the day, it's up to you how you proceed.

I just delete and block any unwanted attention.

I just wondered if others thought it was odd to display pics if you're not meeting.

Odd ? , no as nothing is odd anymore on here !

Pointless ? Yes , as why would you want to get the attention you’ll inevitably get by displaying them ? "

There are several people on site I have and will meet, they seem to appreciate my pics.

I don't mind a little positive attention, compliments are lovely to hear.

When I was meeting I didn't hide my pics from everyone I didn't fancy, what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand people being exhibitionist and showing pics off. I don't understand why they don't use mail filters to block mail.

I wasn't expressing a problem with getting mail...

Ego boost.

What is?

Getting positive comments is an ego boost. An ego boost is a good thing. Everyone wants to feel good.

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