FabSwingers.com forum: Tinders or fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve manged to arrange meets on both but I think tinder is a lot easier to get a meet

What do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard it's much easier for men to get a meet on Tinder than Fab. I won't touch Tinder though, a step too far for me!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get anywhere on either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are just too many women on Tinder looking for a more orthodox relationship. Not for me, although I have a few good nights out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are just too many women on Tinder looking for a more orthodox relationship. Not for me, although I have a few good nights out of it."

Thats because tinder is a dating site and fab isnt

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve not met anyone through Tinder. Had some great dates from POF though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the fishy approach to work better for me, tinder is just full of beautiful people, the other is for the ‘normals’ lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Metsome beautiful women on Tinder and have become good friends with, you have to put in more groundwork to start with, but there’s alot of women looking for FWB on there. All so think there’s more of a fair representation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been interested in the other one, it strikes me that it only works as an effort free hook up site and that just isn’t my bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF, ugh, dreadful, by far the worst dating site I've ever been on (and I've tried most of them believe me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been interested in the other one, it strikes me that it only works as an effort free hook up site and that just isn’t my bag. "

I get the impression it’s a place where you say your into a possible relationship, shag em, then swipe left. (Or right,).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re all about the same -crossover of same people so same rejection levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used Tinder for a few reasons but used POF and Badoo with much more success than Fab. I've met a few fb on both of them over the years where as her on fab most just want to meet a couple times and then move on. Think it's because there's a lot more eye candy on Fab and of course the grass is always greener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"POF, ugh, dreadful, by far the worst dating site I've ever been on (and I've tried most of them believe me)"

See I think that's the biggest misconception of POF. It's not a dating site. It used to be in its earlier years but it's a hook up site mainly. I've spotted many fabbers on there. You can easily spit them in the laguage they use in their profile. Theres certain fab words/phrases that slip in without realising. As soon as you mention it they quickly block you too. Dead give away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il add a 3rd go out and meet people in real life its a lot easier the old ways are always best

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Metsome beautiful women on Tinder and have become good friends with, you have to put in more groundwork to start with, but there’s alot of women looking for FWB on there. All so think there’s more of a fair representation."

Exactly men put more of an effort in on other sites like tinder and pof, they actually try to make conversation, where on here they think "I want you on my face" will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly men put more of an effort in on other sites like tinder and pof, they actually try to make conversation, where on here they think "I want you on my face" will do

Do women? Or do they just join expecting there inbox to do all the work for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't join Tinder as I'm not on Facebook

POF is just full of undesirables - unless they're just the ones that message me

I have accepted that I'm undateable but I still have needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The swipey dating sites are very fickle , guess that applies to all of them really but saying that I have met some lovely ladies who I am still in contact with

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Exactly men put more of an effort in on other sites like tinder and pof, they actually try to make conversation, where on here they think "I want you on my face" will do

Do women? Or do they just join expecting there inbox to do all the work for them?

I expect my profile that I did put a lot of effort and time into do the work for me but it still doesn't work which is why I only meet at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof for me was fantastic, tinder not as much, both better than fab for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nver tried tinder - happy here plus no time for everyone on fab never mind time to even look elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't join Tinder as I'm not on Facebook

POF is just full of undesirables - unless they're just the ones that message me

I have accepted that I'm undateable but I still have needs!

I'm an undesirable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve manged to arrange meets on both but I think tinder is a lot easier to get a meet

What do you guys think? "
most are on fab tinder pof you might notice familiar faces on all sites....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used Tinder

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

Bizarrely I've found men on here send more interesting messages than I've ever received on pof (where "hi" seems to be the message of choice and it goes downhill from there). Okay can still get the odd message when online presuming I must be gagging for it and just waiting for any man to offer a shag, but usually get really lovely messages from fabsters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard it's much easier for men to get a meet on Tinder than Fab. I won't touch Tinder though, a step too far for me! "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets."
So which biscuits are most popular with the ladies then so I can fondle said biscuits and look really cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Tinder but I'm really more of a second impression kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used tinder couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. There has to be more than a pretty face to get me to drop my knickers

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Never used tinder couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. There has to be more than a pretty face to get me to drop my knickers "

Biscuits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used tinder couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. There has to be more than a pretty face to get me to drop my knickers

Biscuits?

They always work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined OKcupid once, had a really hot meet... FAB is really hard and frustrating!

But I’m a cheating bastard so prob explains much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't join Tinder as I'm not on Facebook

POF is just full of undesirables - unless they're just the ones that message me

I have accepted that I'm undateable but I still have needs!

Kick em in the balls send them to space

Sorry tourettes kicking up again

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By *kylar95jack83Couple
over a year ago

coventry

So far on both

Fab

1 single female

2 couples

Tinder

3 single girls uk

1 single guy Mexico

1 couple. American in Mexico

Tinder is easier to find more willing and attractive. Although it’s more a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets. So which biscuits are most popular with the ladies then so I can fondle said biscuits and look really cool

Or look like youre about to pocket them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An actual, really does exist friend of mine met a millionaire on tinder.. they dated for around two yrs but she didnt want to get married again and he did...so it ended

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets."

I find the salad aisle better hunting ground myself.... Get a good calibre of woman in Sainsburys especially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An actual, really does exist friend of mine met a millionaire on tinder.. they dated for around two yrs but she didnt want to get married again and he did...so it ended"

Call me shallow , do you think he’s still on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Tinder last week for a nose. Almost everyone wanted a fuck now without any conversation at all. I'm talking to one potential on my phone now, out of hundreds.

I don't like the way the app works.

Fab is much better in my opinion.

I would recommend Fab; I wouldn't Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely go get an MFFFFFF from here than a meet on tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Tinder for about a year and a half and didn't get a single date

Conversely, I was on Fab only a few months before I had my first meet, plus I'm in a relationship now. So in my experience: Tinder's shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets.

I find the salad aisle better hunting ground myself.... Get a good calibre of woman in Sainsburys especially

But surely Waitrose or M&S would be even better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"POF, ugh, dreadful, by far the worst dating site I've ever been on (and I've tried most of them believe me)"

I agree. Much prefer Bumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined Tinder last week for a nose. Almost everyone wanted a fuck now without any conversation at all. I'm talking to one potential on my phone now, out of hundreds.

I don't like the way the app works.

Fab is much better in my opinion.

I would recommend Fab; I wouldn't Tinder. "

Tried Tinder but I can’t judge people on a picture, I just can’t. So I only swiped on the profiles with text, which were so infrequent that the Tinder algorithm downgraded me to just showing the tramps and serial killers. Of the rest of the dating sites only OKC has generated interesting contacts and POF is just fab lite with extra timewasters and terrible functionality.

Tbh I think online dating’s heyday has passed. It seems very few people are really up for a relationship on the ‘dating’sites. And FAB is full of hot interesting men who can hold a conversation AND are good at sex, who can resist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex husband on dating direct, we were together 10 years and still good friends. It was very different back in 2005 though. Not as much choice as it is now.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Fab is hardest on line site to meet people in my experience.

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

wilts

Tinder is good for nsa sex and fab is better to meet couples or have a regular thing, I personally think anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends. I met my ex on pof, she was amazing. We were together for quite a whilw but decided we wanted different things out of life. There are geniuine relationships to be got from them apps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeld is good, it’s like the hipster tinder, problem is everyone is to cool to message first.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’ve never really fancied this whole swipe left and right thingy.

I’ll stick to hanging around the biscuit aisle of supermarkets.

I find the salad aisle better hunting ground myself.... Get a good calibre of woman in Sainsburys especially

But surely Waitrose or M&S would be even better? "

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Fab is best for us, tinder isn't really set up for couples looking for singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman so far my experiences of tinder and POV are rubbish!! To the point I’ve decided to stop looking for a date etc... fed up of rubbish dates... Tinder is just a shag site so would much rather meet off here for the time being!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"POF, ugh, dreadful, by far the worst dating site I've ever been on (and I've tried most of them believe me)"

I think POF is great for guy's and the standard of women are much better....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you got friend zoned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met my ex husband on dating direct, we were together 10 years and still good friends. It was very different back in 2005 though. Not as much choice as it is now."

Just read it back.. you bought a husband off eBay because they didn’t have a better one at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined Tinder last week for a nose. Almost everyone wanted a fuck now without any conversation at all. I'm talking to one potential on my phone now, out of hundreds.

I don't like the way the app works.

Fab is much better in my opinion.

I would recommend Fab; I wouldn't Tinder. "

How about mumsnet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used tinder couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. There has to be more than a pretty face to get me to drop my knickers "

A big D?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have to try tinder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had much luck on here, Tinder or POF (apart from meeting my ex on POF a few years ago).

I get the feeling that a lot of women treat Tinder like a game, as if they're trying to see how many swipes they get during a day or week. It just seems like a popularity contest. I think I've matched with five people since joining it, four of them never even responded to my message. The fifth one did though but it didn't go anywhere.

POF is half and half for me. I use quite a bit, but a lot of women on there aren't really bothered with it so they don't really put much effort in. Many of them have their Instagram or Snapchat on their profiles because they view it as a game like Tinder. And the few that do message go quiet after a short while.

My approach on there is similar on here, but at least I actually get people looking at my profile on here unlike on there. I can send out ten messages a day on POF and I'll be lucky if I get one view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I overheard a girl in restaurant and according to her I quote “ she uses tinder for free meals “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I overheard a girl in restaurant and according to her I quote “ she uses tinder for free meals “ "

If she's putting out at the end of the night, those meals aren't free. If I ever meet a girl like that, I hope she'll be satisfied with an Happy Meal. She can keep the toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I overheard a girl in restaurant and according to her I quote “ she uses tinder for free meals “

If she's putting out at the end of the night, those meals aren't free. If I ever meet a girl like that, I hope she'll be satisfied with an Happy Meal. She can keep the toy."

Either way it sounds like prostitution

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

I think it definitely has a hidden agenda?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it definitely has a hidden agenda?

It?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined Tinder last week for a nose. Almost everyone wanted a fuck now without any conversation at all. I'm talking to one potential on my phone now, out of hundreds.

I don't like the way the app works.

Fab is much better in my opinion.

I would recommend Fab; I wouldn't Tinder.

Clearly, FAB was so interesting, she had to leave haha

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By *andys manMan
over a year ago

colchester

"I think it definitely has a hidden agenda?

It?

As in tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sugardaddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never used tinder couldn't think of anything worse to be honest. There has to be more than a pretty face to get me to drop my knickers "

Tell me what it is and I shall do it, with bells on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"POF, ugh, dreadful, by far the worst dating site I've ever been on (and I've tried most of them believe me)

I think POF is great for guy's and the standard of women are much better...."

Interesting, I found the standard of men on there appalling. I suppose it all depends on who's there at the same time as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tried Tinder or POF,did try Badoo a couple of years ago. Did meet three ladies,one I met a few times,great fun in bed but turned out to be a gold digger,another I still see for sex occasionally the third has become a good friend,but nothing sexual with her.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Fab is best for us, tinder isn't really set up for couples looking for singles"

Yes and tinder isn’t set up for singles looking for couples

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I overheard a girl in restaurant and according to her I quote “ she uses tinder for free meals “

If she's putting out at the end of the night, those meals aren't free. If I ever meet a girl like that, I hope she'll be satisfied with an Happy Meal. She can keep the toy.

Either way it sounds like prostitution

More fool to the guy offering to pay in full for the meal.

Any early stage dating stuff its half and half all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I overheard a girl in restaurant and according to her I quote “ she uses tinder for free meals “

If she's putting out at the end of the night, those meals aren't free. If I ever meet a girl like that, I hope she'll be satisfied with an Happy Meal. She can keep the toy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey no! Sites where you show your face? Not on your Nellie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People behave the same on both. The only difference is there are naked photos on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never been interested in the other one, it strikes me that it only works as an effort free hook up site and that just isn’t my bag.

I get the impression it’s a place where you say your into a possible relationship, shag em, then swipe left. (Or right,). "

Same on here isn't it, just no swiping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People behave the same on both. The only difference is there are naked photos on here"

Very true.... if you search in a 10 mile radius on any site. It will always be the same people but with different ages on each site.

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