FabSwingers.com forum: Name and shame

By *oupleforfem OP Couple
over a year ago

truro

Hi all think there should be a name and shame part on here , as tired of people aranging to meet with us and then they dont or dont send a message saying they cant turn up.

What does every one think?

thanks JJ

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By *uddlymanMan
over a year ago

newport

Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you but don't think it would be allowed by the admin.

We can but ask, but think it will never be allowed

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all think there should be a name and shame part on here , as tired of people aranging to meet with us and then they dont or dont send a message saying they cant turn up.

What does every one think?

thanks JJ

Well you didn't turn up 500 times for a meet with me!

Well you can see how it can be abused. Its an idea that wouldn't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

must have been something she didnt find attractive, we dont all flot eachothers boats do we??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't work. Too many spiteful people on here!

Sorry you got stood up but you ain't the first and you won't be the last. Just move on and have fun.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

and what is wrong with that... did you expect her to bob up and down on you shouting 'yu is ugly'...UGLY...

not inferring you are..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Admin have said many times that they will never allow naming and shaming on here

There is a facilty to report a profile if they hav'nt turned up for a meet though so you can use that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

and what is wrong with that... did you expect her to bob up and down on you shouting 'yu is ugly'...UGLY...

not inferring you are.."

Nominated for laugh of the week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

and what is wrong with that... did you expect her to bob up and down on you shouting 'yu is ugly'...UGLY...

not inferring you are..

Nominated for laugh of the week!

Had me giggling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

and what is wrong with that... did you expect her to bob up and down on you shouting 'yu is ugly'...UGLY...

not inferring you are..

Nominated for laugh of the week!

Had me giggling!

You got the same mental picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we should have a 'shag a minger' week. I'm one helluva ugly bastard.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I think we should have a 'shag a minger' week. I'm one helluva ugly bastard.

but at least you are honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should have a 'shag a minger' week. I'm one helluva ugly bastard.

but at least you are honest

Proper ming-mong I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should have a 'shag a minger' week. I'm one helluva ugly bastard.

can you let me know when that week is please

i have some hols left to take and i don't like to waste them

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By *uddlymanMan
over a year ago

newport

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

well lets face im not sexy too some women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it would work .... as some would just slag others off for nothing in front of people looking here and it would put people of meeting them ....... and sometimes theres two sides of a story and we here just one . Yes i know the ones who are mucked around for nothing feel fed-up mad being let down .... but i think its now part of swinging and you have to take the good with the bad at times and learn from it .

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Wouldnt work

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi all think there should be a name and shame part on here , as tired of people aranging to meet with us and then they dont or dont send a message saying they cant turn up.

What does every one think?

thanks JJ

You arranged to meet me and didn't turn up.

You didn't but how does anyone else know that? Naming and shaming is your word against theirs and there are always three sides to every story... your version, their version and the truth.

Most people have had a timewaster at one time or another. Suck it up... delete and block (I never see the point in reporting... it's not like they're gonna get detention from Admin) and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly not, i had to cancel a meet recently, the guy was pretty angry and no doubt would of 'named and shamed' at the time until i explained in gory detail (girlie problems)the reason why and was then full of apologies...so would that of been fair to name n shame??

I dont think so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

you cant name and shame someone for that

If someone meets you and dont like you in the flesh do you think they should fuck you anyway?......really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stupid idea....would be a bitch fest....he did this...she did that.... they did this....

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Hi all think there should be a name and shame part on here , as tired of people aranging to meet with us and then they dont or dont send a message saying they cant turn up.

What does every one think?

thanks JJ

We have never, ever had this experience in 4 ish years of swinging. The odd cancellation sure, legitimate vanilla life takes precedeance

- perhaps you need to refine your selection criteria? Z

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i think you should have searched the forums for the hundreds of other threads on this topic.Then you could have read the many good reasons why this is a bad idea.

As others have said if this i a recurring problem look at your selection criteria.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

Perhaps it was the very noticeable tongue in cheek she didn't like? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea ."

yes me too - you arranged to meet us earlier and you didn't turn up or call or anything! Z

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Can you imagine though :

"Don't invite that Mushy over, cheeky fukka asked for a cuppa tea afterwards."

Oh, the embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

yes me too - you arranged to meet us earlier and you didn't turn up or call or anything! Z"

Your obviously mistaken .

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

yes me too - you arranged to meet us earlier and you didn't turn up or call or anything! Z

Your obviously mistaken ."

my point exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

yes me too - you arranged to meet us earlier and you didn't turn up or call or anything! Z

Your obviously mistaken ."

Thanks for your pm - didn't get it straight away! I think I made the point against naming & shaming! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

yes me too - you arranged to meet us earlier and you didn't turn up or call or anything! Z

Your obviously mistaken .

Thanks for your pm - didn't get it straight away! I think I made the point against naming & shaming! Z"

Ok , I will let you off this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

I've done that with a couple of chaps, and had it happen once to me, that's what the initial meet is for surely? to see if ya fancy them. I don't think it's the rules that if ya meet 'em ye have to shag 'em.

...oh shite, I just named and shamed myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

...oh shite, I just named and shamed myself

i best photoshop my real face if were gonna meet Fia...... bugger...this is gonna cost me..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea ."

Why didnt you show up for the orgy here tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"having been letdown a few times on here .

I think its a great idea .

Why didnt you show up for the orgy here tonight

I had no idea .... But wait your a couple . I am rubbish at multi-tasking just like most guys so stick to 1-2-1

Just seems like everbody else is shagging all the other women that play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

...oh shite, I just named and shamed myself

BUSTED ! (;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a 'reliability index' Number of meets turned up at divided by number of meets arranged

Kind of like 'customer re_iews' on Amazon (;_)

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Maybe a 'reliability index' Number of meets turned up at divided by number of meets arranged

Kind of like 'customer re_iews' on Amazon (;_)"

So we'd have to declare every meet we arrange to someone else? Yeah that will work... *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

I don't agree with naming and shaming but definitely not for that as she turned up. I've had a few social meets where the guy hasn't fancied me or I haven't fancied him or it's mutual. Nothing wrong with that as not everyone appeals to everyone. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me "

And she had every right to do so !

Why do some people assume that a social meet just amounts to a drink before a fuck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

And she had every right to do so !

Why do some people assume that a social meet just amounts to a drink before a fuck ?"

Oh come on Bussy got to be at least 2 drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

And she had every right to do so !

Why do some people assume that a social meet just amounts to a drink before a fuck ?"

I took it that the OP was being ironic not serious

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Here Here . I've arranged to meet a person and she sent me away after seeing me

And she had every right to do so !

Why do some people assume that a social meet just amounts to a drink before a fuck ?

I took it that the OP was being ironic not serious

Naming and Shaming..... imagine it.

A thread as long as the bloody Nile. People whinging , slagging , maliging.

What kind of ad would that be for FAB ?

Great reading for moronic types such as bottom feeders ( perhaps not the best phrase to use on here )

It'd be like watching Eastenders without the sound.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Granny Crumpet didn't show up for a meet with me... but she did nick my baby, pour paint on my car, pay a hitman to shoot me with a bunch of daffodils, set fire to the pub and try to blackmail me over an incident with a hooker........ bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats grannys way of showing how much she loves you!!!

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