FabSwingers.com forum: Pick a person

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind either way i just see them as a bit of fun as long as i can get some one to return serve im good to go either in private or on the forum depends how comfortable they are really

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "
I’m a light hearted poster read the thread if I have something to add I’ll jump in with a comment if it’s replies to depending on the reply take it from there with another reply or a message just test the water first

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

Confidently walks in the room.. hii rubidoux

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Confidently walks in the room.. hii rubidoux

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hi

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have been known to indulge in those threads and have in the past struck up conversations and indeed friendships and more out of them - just recently though I think I've rediscovered my cloak of invisibility/timidity and am a little meh about them as a result if I'm honest

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "

I wait until someone mails me, I've chatted to some lovely people thus far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

chester

.... ...........

I will just drop a line right there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My approach varies according to a variety of criteria, one of which is ‘what am I watching on television?’ er...and the lady in question

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life. "

Man hug?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life. "

Cock pic sent, Senor Desperado

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wait for someone to message me, with no expectation that anyone will. So far my expectations have been spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been known to indulge in those threads and have in the past struck up conversations and indeed friendships and more out of them - just recently though I think I've rediscovered my cloak of invisibility/timidity and am a little meh about them as a result if I'm honest "

Where are your smiley threads!?!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We tend to sit back and wait. We always get skipped over in 'the person above' threads and when theres a 'send a face pic' thread we rarely get any back which to me is just bang out of order. If you are going to join in play the game fairly and return your pic! (end of mini rant)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop in occasionally in the hope of being invited back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on a day by day basis, and my confidence in the person I’m replying too. Many times though I will just post I’m in and not make that first comment to anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended up blowing it with someone I had been chatting to, because of one of these posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

Cock pic sent, Senor Desperado

Thanks God you understand what I wanted ! Thank you !

Nice penis btw

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I ended up blowing it with someone I had been chatting to, because of one of these posts"

Yeah? What happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

Man hug?

Only if it is a naked one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We tend to sit back and wait. We always get skipped over in 'the person above' threads and when theres a 'send a face pic' thread we rarely get any back which to me is just bang out of order. If you are going to join in play the game fairly and return your pic! (end of mini rant)"

Hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on a day by day basis, and my confidence in the person I’m replying too. Many times though I will just post I’m in and not make that first comment to anyone x "

Your in alright angie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my little in joke with my fancy man and that's about it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

Cock pic sent, Senor Desperado

Thanks God you understand what I wanted ! Thank you !

Nice penis btw"

I hope you turned the screen sideways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get involved.

Neither do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh there's a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... ...........

I will just drop a line right there"

I see your line and drop you a circle O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

Cock pic sent, Senor Desperado

Thanks God you understand what I wanted ! Thank you !

Nice penis btw

I hope you turned the screen sideways. "

I shoved the phone directly into my ass dude !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't get involved.

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although you leapt (uninvited) into my hot tub (naked) on the other thread with a great big wobbly stomached (splash).....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I just write 'in' and look at my empty box during two days then I eat a bueno and get on with my pathetic life.

Cock pic sent, Senor Desperado

Thanks God you understand what I wanted ! Thank you !

Nice penis btw

I hope you turned the screen sideways.

I shoved the phone directly into my ass dude ! "

You stupid sod! When I texted ‘phone sex switch to vibrate’ that’s NOT why I meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get involved.

although you leapt (uninvited) into my hot tub (naked) on the other thread with a great big wobbly stomached (splash)....."

I hope you accidentally get some of my anus water in your mouth.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oooh there's a few

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it’s me ain’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll dip in, say hi, and then retreat to my corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooh there's a few

it’s me ain’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "

I just look at the amount of blokes who all look like decent guys and think fuck that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't get involved.

although you leapt (uninvited) into my hot tub (naked) on the other thread with a great big wobbly stomached (splash).....

I hope you accidentally get some of my anus water in your mouth."

my party ‘balloon’ has deflated

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

Avoid. You ain't seen me roight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ended up blowing it with someone I had been chatting to, because of one of these posts

Yeah? What happened?"
It seems I offended her by comments on other peoples posts in one of the kiss fuck posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in...

Pulls up my rock...

Sits in the corner quietly...

Wondering what happens next..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally avoid those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it with the sense of fun they are posted with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally avoid those threads"
I will do in future

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "

Mix of the latter two options for me. Assume no one will notice and have been proven right more often than not so avoid those threads as a result - unless I find it amusing to be a spanner in the love-in works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together?

You’d always be my kindred spirit person that I’d pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post on these threads in the vain hope one of the real hotties will say hi to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "

Avoid... same people post, just different threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just wander about lost and add irrelevance and obscurity on most threads we post to.

It's an art form really.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'll say 'I'm in' scan thread and realise that every one is miles away so often forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fun but also absolutely nobody will notice me cos nobody does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just wander about lost and add irrelevance and obscurity on most threads we post to.

It's an art form really.

Your pics are definitely an art form x

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I usually don't bother ... I'm absolutely useless at flirting (and often feel invisible anyhow) so wouldn't want to embarrass myself. And as for 'making the first move' - eek - that's scary and I've almost *never* revealed anything on those 'who's on your hotlist' type threads ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a "no one will notice me". I can't flirt to save my life, and opportunities to practice have been rare the last few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually don't bother ... I'm absolutely useless at flirting (and often feel invisible anyhow) so wouldn't want to embarrass myself. And as for 'making the first move' - eek - that's scary and I've almost *never* revealed anything on those 'who's on your hotlist' type threads ...

Soppy sod! I'm sure many people would love to have a message or 4 from you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never bother with these types of threads as I never get noticed anyway, plus I'm in the arse end of no where and the men in my area? Totally pointless and shite attitudes to women who are on here, and why I have gone without for soo long

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t flirt. "

Your the biggest tart in here Steve! Haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I never bother with these types of threads as I never get noticed anyway, plus I'm in the arse end of no where and the men in my area? Totally pointless and shite attitudes to women who are on here, and why I have gone without for soo long

You’re closer to Norway than you are to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t flirt.

Your the biggest tart in here Steve! Haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fun but also absolutely nobody will notice me cos nobody does

I noticed you guys! Never bothered messaging though since you’re not looking for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few of these type of threads going around and it just go me thinking about the way we approach things.

Are you an all-out put it on the thread flirter? Do you make the first move or wait to see if someone mails you?

Do you go in with confidence or are you more of a "no one will notice me" kinda person?

Do you avoid those threads all together? "

I’ve tried all of the above, either fully consciously or sub-consciously, and normally fucked it right up

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Where are your smiley threads!?!"

They weren't mine but they kind of died a death - might be time to resurrect them - could use some smiles again round this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels right to make the first move... Might be a swingers site but it's a womens perogative to say no

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