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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah then they start there own slating the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s much better than it used to be. A lot of people have met socially, and so there are a lot of groups formed. The debate part, I know I’m guilty of, but it’s a forum and people are going to debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

I think with the other example it's not always intentional, if someone replies to you it's hard not to reply back, that's how conversation works afterall.

I guess it's how you view the purpose of the forums. Are they here purely to discuss the OP or are they here to encourage conversation which as we all know can often go off topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the forum as a room full of people socialising. If someone says lots of things that 'click' with you, you are to respond more to that person. Just natural conversation, nothing more, nothing less. I think some people just feel left out, and turn arsey.

If someone is out of your filters, you cannot pm them, or you just don't want to and keep it to a little bit of fun in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what your trying to say op, there is a them and us in a lot of threads, and not just on here, also in the work place, the pub. It’s going to happen where people get to know others better than the strangers they don’t yet know.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

Yeah there are some 'circles' on here for sure. I guess you will always get that but when they blindly back each other up its a bit annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

I think with the other example it's not always intentional, if someone replies to you it's hard not to reply back, that's how conversation works afterall.

I guess it's how you view the purpose of the forums. Are they here purely to discuss the OP or are they here to encourage conversation which as we all know can often go off topic? "

Do t those threads get closed? When they go off topic?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The best thing to do is reply regardless of who else is on the thread.

It's clear sometimes that people only respond to those they find attractive or who agree with them.. It's human nature and the only way to be included is to join in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

I think with the other example it's not always intentional, if someone replies to you it's hard not to reply back, that's how conversation works afterall.

I guess it's how you view the purpose of the forums. Are they here purely to discuss the OP or are they here to encourage conversation which as we all know can often go off topic?

Do t those threads get closed? When they go off topic? "

Threads only get closed if they break forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brexit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...only joking

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

As a relative Newby I tend to get ignored quite a bit.

I'm OK with that.

Takes time to be "one of the gang"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People go off topic in the debate/discussion - they will support a certain view point /person - lots enjoy the exchange of ideas / opinions - these threads are very organic they are not a meeting.

.... a facilitator will bring them back on topic..., usually an OP will do this if they are involved in the forum - some going off topic have been hilarious

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think it depends on the topic of the thread. Serious ones like depression etc then no, they are respectful.

Light hearted threads are just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Cliques"

Happens on every forum I’ve been on, shame as it often drives some good contributors away

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Cliques"

I still perceive them as friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry iv been known to do this from time to time

Not that sorry tho its part of my charm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cliques

Happens on every forum I’ve been on, shame as it often drives some good contributors away"

At the risk of going off topic, I really like your profile pic...quite striking

That is all..

MrsK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do see a lot of flirting on every post despite the content of the original post

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Thank you!

We are at risk of doing exactly what the OP started the thread about

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I have been known to have a flirty off topic convo from time to time but usually only if I started the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you!

We are at risk of doing exactly what the OP started the thread about "

Haha I know sorry guilty

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think 'why not just take it to pm and flirt there' but at the end of the day its a public forum and anyone can post whatever they like (as long as they don't break any rules that is)….

IMHO its boring to read tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that take over the whole shitting lounge or try too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

It probably comes as no surprise to you that i've had a few heated debates on here, both on my own and other peoples' posts.

It doesn't bother me at all, i actually enjoy debating opinions, there is such a wonderful and diverse set on here bouncing different opinions around is part of the fabric of life.

It's when people begin making incorrect assumptions about your character and then start slinging personal insults as a result that i get annoyed. This is when it stops being a debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

I think with the other example it's not always intentional, if someone replies to you it's hard not to reply back, that's how conversation works afterall.

I guess it's how you view the purpose of the forums. Are they here purely to discuss the OP or are they here to encourage conversation which as we all know can often go off topic?

Do t those threads get closed? When they go off topic? "

Do they? I thought only if they get offensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday, I fell off my bike while going to the shop to buy sonething to eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday, I fell off my bike while going to the shop to buy sonething to eat "

Aww poor thing, can I kiss your boo boo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday, I fell off my bike while going to the shop to buy sonething to eat "

Start ur own thread mate .... mwah kiss it better xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

See it all the time. They have cliques but strongly disagree that they are a clique. Hmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the topic of the thread. Serious ones like depression etc then no, they are respectful.

Light hearted threads are just that."

That just so typical of you to reply with a flaky answer!

Yer it’s always the same with forums most have more time than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer ... Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some people do hijack threads and turn any topic into all about them.It happens a lot here.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"I think it depends on the topic of the thread. Serious ones like depression etc then no, they are respectful.

Light hearted threads are just that.

That just so typical of you to reply with a flaky answer!

Yer it’s always the same with forums most have more time than others "

Why is that flakey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there's always some.

It will never change on the forums. It's a public forum and people will write what they want when they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes some people do hijack threads and turn any topic into all about them.It happens a lot here."

I love a good hijacker..

Hold the Capt. & crew hostage and write messages on granddads hanky..

I want a million dorrah kfc and enough fuel to get to Gazabayoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the ones that take over the whole shitting lounge or try too "

'scuse me, you're sitting on my comfy chair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread "

I hate those threads. Or a few people just take it in turns to rip the OP to shreds.

Some people just love to argue the opposite of any comment raised.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread

I hate those threads. Or a few people just take it in turns to rip the OP to shreds.

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Sometimes posters can be quite dickish.

I don't mind the odd bit of flirting and I enjoy a healthy debate but it does go too far. I might just resume my 'get a room' posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the ones that take over the whole shitting lounge or try too

'scuse me, you're sitting on my comfy chair."

Don't worry I'm house trained

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I think it’s one of the most common actions here on some of the threads and yes I’ve been involved but I also love to sit back a read the goings on as it can be entertaining that is once names and direct insults aren’t fired

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread

I hate those threads. Or a few people just take it in turns to rip the OP to shreds.

Some people just love to argue the opposite of any comment raised. "

No the don’t....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s much better than it used to be. A lot of people have met socially, and so there are a lot of groups formed. The debate part, I know I’m guilty of, but it’s a forum and people are going to debate "
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Let's have a massdebate

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big. "

Cake? You forgot the popcorn, deckchairs & tin hats

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big.

Cake? You forgot the popcorn, deckchairs & tin hats "

You forgot the tea

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big.

Cake? You forgot the popcorn, deckchairs & tin hats

You forgot the tea "

Ha, I'm not falling for that one Missus, so there

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread

I hate those threads. Or a few people just take it in turns to rip the OP to shreds.

Sometimes posters can be quite dickish.

I don't mind the odd bit of flirting and I enjoy a healthy debate but it does go too far. I might just resume my 'get a room' posts. "

This is one of the reasons why I stopped joining in the forums as much as I used to. As much as it's true that this is an open forum and you're always going to get this sort of thing going on, it just gets really boring seeing this stuff after a while, the same handful of people sabotaging a thread to talk absolute rammel. A bit of flirting here and there is fine but if you want to talk to someone that much then just take it to PM. For example there'll be an interesting thread running on the role wombats play in a post-modern society, and then you'll get this shite...

Person A : Oh hello, how are you? I haven't seen you in a while

Person B : I'm fine thanks, nice arse btw!

Person A : Hee hee, cheeky! Fancy a cuppa?

Person B : Don't mind if I do. Milk and two sugars.

Person A : You want some cake too?

Person B : Yes please

Person A : What you been up to then?

Person B : Well, I've just got in from Tesco. Did you know they're selling Jaffa cakes at half price?

Person A : Get away! I prefer a Hobnob myself.

Person B :

Anyway, back to the wombats...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?"

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I notice it alot. Someone posts something asking for advice and then two people just start flirting with each other for 60 comments completely ignoring the thread

I hate those threads. Or a few people just take it in turns to rip the OP to shreds.

Sometimes posters can be quite dickish.

I don't mind the odd bit of flirting and I enjoy a healthy debate but it does go too far. I might just resume my 'get a room' posts.

This is one of the reasons why I stopped joining in the forums as much as I used to. As much as it's true that this is an open forum and you're always going to get this sort of thing going on, it just gets really boring seeing this stuff after a while, the same handful of people sabotaging a thread to talk absolute rammel. A bit of flirting here and there is fine but if you want to talk to someone that much then just take it to PM. For example there'll be an interesting thread running on the role wombats play in a post-modern society, and then you'll get this shite...

Person A : Oh hello, how are you? I haven't seen you in a while

Person B : I'm fine thanks, nice arse btw!

Person A : Hee hee, cheeky! Fancy a cuppa?

Person B : Don't mind if I do. Milk and two sugars.

Person A : You want some cake too?

Person B : Yes please

Person A : What you been up to then?

Person B : Well, I've just got in from Tesco. Did you know they're selling Jaffa cakes at half price?

Person A : Get away! I prefer a Hobnob myself.

Person B :

Anyway, back to the wombats..."
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Jaffa cakes at half price you say

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I like seeing the interaction of others it’s entertaining. This is usually referred to as the ‘clique’. The forum is incredibly dull without friendships and ppl bouncing off each other. There are debates which I enjoy, especially those that are respectful. You may not agree with someone but that doesn’t mean either argument is right or more valid than another. The moral high ground is often a stance taken, I prefer a reasoned discussion. You get to understand how someone has reached their viewpoint and this can change your own.

You also get forum users who start 10 threads a day. This is another complaint of some but they won’t start a thread of their own. Someone has to start threads otherwise there’d be no forum. The forum is definitely a case of the more you put in the more you get out.

In summation, be careful what you wish for, these folk you find annoying keep the forum alive. You may not appreciate every thread they start or comment they post but they make the effort. As in the real world you won’t like everyone on the forum and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people"

So true. Unfortunstely I have had several bans complaing about this behaviour in the thread. Whilst the goaders are allowed to continue with their behaviour.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum... "

Pah!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum...

Pah!"

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum...

Pah!"

It looks rather orange...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum...

Pah!

It looks rather orange... "

It's all those half price Jaffa Cakes he's been eating

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Hi guys, slightly off topic but do you think my bum looks like a love heart?

Yup!

And let's get straight back onto topic, and not think about your bum...

Pah!

It looks rather orange...

It's all those half price Jaffa Cakes he's been eating "

Don't give away my secrets ffs!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Anyone want to get a room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

Yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?"

Surely people can use this site however they wish though? They aren't actually hurting anyone. If people don't like what is being said then it's very quick and simple to scroll on past or view another thread.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I just join in threads for the fun of it. I've been slated for posts, people have laughed at my posts, people have responded to my post, people have completely ignored my posts. But I'm not bothered, it's a free country, and I've paid for fabs, so if I want to join in threads I will, regardless. If people get friendly with others then that's good, that surely is the aim of the site.

Play nicely now people, have fun, and let's all chat ....mwahhhh

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

yep, just ignore them and hope that they get the hint tbh

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't understand the question

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?"

Then perhaps other people should join in the conversation more, instead of whinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s that clique of cunts

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes it happens a bit but the other option is where it's a love-in between two, where someone is trying to get a shag out of a discussion. They'd be wiser to take it off-thread but the forum topics are open to anything within site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't have much self awareness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/04/18 19:19:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the forums are fun sometimes they're not.

Just like the real world....

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"It’s that clique of cunts "

That was the best flounce ever

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

Yes!!!! "

Or just post anyway referring to the original OP and throw a gooseberry into the works. That's what I tend to do anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people don't have much self awareness."

Not me

I regularly wank over my reflection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s that clique of cunts

That was the best flounce ever "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best one I had is my thread when I returned to see what I’d missed. Someone commented and welcomed two other forum users back and not me. That cut deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

I think with the other example it's not always intentional, if someone replies to you it's hard not to reply back, that's how conversation works afterall.

I guess it's how you view the purpose of the forums. Are they here purely to discuss the OP or are they here to encourage conversation which as we all know can often go off topic?

Do t those threads get closed? When they go off topic?

Threads only get closed if they break forum rules. "

And when they reach the maximum numbers of comments the thread can take ...

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

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.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

.

.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me.. "

Limit people’s activity? This strikes me as a bit pedantic. There’s absolutely nothing stopping people starting a thread or saying hi! We were all new once.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

.

.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me..

Limit people’s activity? This strikes me as a bit pedantic. There’s absolutely nothing stopping people starting a thread or saying hi! We were all new once."

We got to a point where the same profile posted umpteen threads every day... ..it wasnt a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

.

.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me..

Limit people’s activity? This strikes me as a bit pedantic. There’s absolutely nothing stopping people starting a thread or saying hi! We were all new once.

We got to a point where the same profile posted umpteen threads every day... ..it wasnt a newbie"

There have been a few like that recently. I would’ve thought that comes down to spamming and should be removed anyway?

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

.

.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me..

Limit people’s activity? This strikes me as a bit pedantic. There’s absolutely nothing stopping people starting a thread or saying hi! We were all new once.

We got to a point where the same profile posted umpteen threads every day... ..it wasnt a newbie

There have been a few like that recently. I would’ve thought that comes down to spamming and should be removed anyway?"

Ypud think so wouldnt you...it seems to have settled and the irish forum is actually beginning to revive itself somewhat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The irish forums have been decimated over the last year because of trolling and 'regular' posting..

.personally i think more policing and limit peoples activity instead of the useless 1/2 day ban...make them put more thought into their posts and comments...

.

.

.ok fab..that'll be 2p you owe me..

Limit people’s activity? This strikes me as a bit pedantic. There’s absolutely nothing stopping people starting a thread or saying hi! We were all new once.

We got to a point where the same profile posted umpteen threads every day... ..it wasnt a newbie

There have been a few like that recently. I would’ve thought that comes down to spamming and should be removed anyway?

Ypud think so wouldnt you...it seems to have settled and the irish forum is actually beginning to revive itself somewhat..."

Except Bold Girl’s left. Surely it’ll never be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the forums are fun sometimes they're not.

Just like the real world...."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

As a relative Newby I tend to get ignored quite a bit.

I'm OK with that.

Takes time to be "one of the gang""

I wouldn’t worry lovely! I’ve been here 4 years and I still get ignored quite a bit - and I’ve got a vagina and everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I've given up on this forum these days. I only drop by occasionally to check updates on socials.

However, this thread caught my attention.

As somebody who in a previous life has been professionally involved in this whole forum malarky (helping to plan and manage them for various publishers) my experience is that you will always see the cliques try to dominate the forum space, and they tend to use the same tactics to get the same rewards.

The clique members invariably need to be defined in public (in my opinion) and thrive on the exclusivity of belonging to their gang.

They could take their gang and their flirting in private,but that defeats the object. The pleasure is in effectively looking down their noses at everyone else, especially those they see as inferior or a threat. The communal act of ignoring others or putting others down helps to reinforce the gang.

They need to be public about their clique, or it's not a real clique. If they take it private it becomes a secret society, and where's the fun in that?

Of course, the occasional non-member can be honoured with a nod of approval if he/she flatters them. It's human nature.

Of course it's all harmless enough until it turns ugly.

You see it turn ugly on the Fab forum when some poor sod - especially a young newbie - dares to ask for advice or feeback on their profile. The gang will often relish kicking several shades of shit out of the poor sod by belittling him (it's usually a him because single males are plentiful and solitary, and ripping into them isn't seen as too much of a crime around these parts.

The irony is that the clique's criticisms of the newbie's photos and profile is often against a backdrop that their own are sometimes lacking.

When it comes to the tactic of them trying to stiffle threads (on Fab,just as on other forums, it tends to be by swamping the thread with mutual appreciation), the only thing you can do is just power through, ignore it and continue with the thread topic. Don't fuel the fire.

Anyway, I enjoyed sharing my observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room ! "

Nature of forums, people like to express themselves in open, it has been this way since ancient times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given up on this forum these days. I only drop by occasionally to check updates on socials.

However, this thread caught my attention.

As somebody who in a previous life has been professionally involved in this whole forum malarky (helping to plan and manage them for various publishers) my experience is that you will always see the cliques try to dominate the forum space, and they tend to use the same tactics to get the same rewards.

The clique members invariably need to be defined in public (in my opinion) and thrive on the exclusivity of belonging to their gang.

They could take their gang and their flirting in private,but that defeats the object. The pleasure is in effectively looking down their noses at everyone else, especially those they see as inferior or a threat. The communal act of ignoring others or putting others down helps to reinforce the gang.

They need to be public about their clique, or it's not a real clique. If they take it private it becomes a secret society, and where's the fun in that?

Of course, the occasional non-member can be honoured with a nod of approval if he/she flatters them. It's human nature.

Of course it's all harmless enough until it turns ugly.

You see it turn ugly on the Fab forum when some poor sod - especially a young newbie - dares to ask for advice or feeback on their profile. The gang will often relish kicking several shades of shit out of the poor sod by belittling him (it's usually a him because single males are plentiful and solitary, and ripping into them isn't seen as too much of a crime around these parts.

The irony is that the clique's criticisms of the newbie's photos and profile is often against a backdrop that their own are sometimes lacking.

When it comes to the tactic of them trying to stiffle threads (on Fab,just as on other forums, it tends to be by swamping the thread with mutual appreciation), the only thing you can do is just power through, ignore it and continue with the thread topic. Don't fuel the fire.

Anyway, I enjoyed sharing my observations."

I miss your posts.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Simple answer ... Yes "
Its a yes from me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given up on this forum these days. I only drop by occasionally to check updates on socials.

However, this thread caught my attention.

As somebody who in a previous life has been professionally involved in this whole forum malarky (helping to plan and manage them for various publishers) my experience is that you will always see the cliques try to dominate the forum space, and they tend to use the same tactics to get the same rewards.

The clique members invariably need to be defined in public (in my opinion) and thrive on the exclusivity of belonging to their gang.

They could take their gang and their flirting in private,but that defeats the object. The pleasure is in effectively looking down their noses at everyone else, especially those they see as inferior or a threat. The communal act of ignoring others or putting others down helps to reinforce the gang.

They need to be public about their clique, or it's not a real clique. If they take it private it becomes a secret society, and where's the fun in that?

Of course, the occasional non-member can be honoured with a nod of approval if he/she flatters them. It's human nature.

Of course it's all harmless enough until it turns ugly.

You see it turn ugly on the Fab forum when some poor sod - especially a young newbie - dares to ask for advice or feeback on their profile. The gang will often relish kicking several shades of shit out of the poor sod by belittling him (it's usually a him because single males are plentiful and solitary, and ripping into them isn't seen as too much of a crime around these parts.

The irony is that the clique's criticisms of the newbie's photos and profile is often against a backdrop that their own are sometimes lacking.

When it comes to the tactic of them trying to stiffle threads (on Fab,just as on other forums, it tends to be by swamping the thread with mutual appreciation), the only thing you can do is just power through, ignore it and continue with the thread topic. Don't fuel the fire.

Anyway, I enjoyed sharing my observations."

I enjoyed reading it.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other. "

There’s some people, a particular group, I’d say, that make it their prime reason to just be shitty to people (women particularly) for no reason at all. As soon as you see the username(s) you just know it’s gonna be a rude comment

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

There’s some people, a particular group, I’d say, that make it their prime reason to just be shitty to people (women particularly) for no reason at all. As soon as you see the username(s) you just know it’s gonna be a rude comment "

And that’s one of the reasons I scan the threads to see if one of those has commented and If their post is going to rip someone apart

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

There’s some people, a particular group, I’d say, that make it their prime reason to just be shitty to people (women particularly) for no reason at all. As soon as you see the username(s) you just know it’s gonna be a rude comment

And that’s one of the reasons I scan the threads to see if one of those has commented and If their post is going to rip someone apart "

Yes xxxx has commented: cringes in anticipation of seeing it and visually imagines a vulture disembowelling a zebra. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are groups that know each other and have been here a while so they talk to each other

Then there are usually, short lived, groups who rail against it because they aren’t one of them. Starting threads about how unfair it is and they are going to tell their mum if the other kids don’t talk to them

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I'd agree, there are some people who seem intent on making digs at each other.

There’s some people, a particular group, I’d say, that make it their prime reason to just be shitty to people (women particularly) for no reason at all. As soon as you see the username(s) you just know it’s gonna be a rude comment

And that’s one of the reasons I scan the threads to see if one of those has commented and If their post is going to rip someone apart

Yes xxxx has commented: cringes in anticipation of seeing it and visually imagines a vulture disembowelling a zebra. Lol"

Couldn’t have put it better myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes there are groups that know each other and have been here a while so they talk to each other

Then there are usually, short lived, groups who rail against it because they aren’t one of them. Starting threads about how unfair it is and they are going to tell their mum if the other kids don’t talk to them "

I think it’s the posting as a gang (when one posts and then their friends start laying in there punches too, agreeing/laughing smileys/thumbs up or ‘you tell em’ type replies. That’s where the problem lies with me.

Or a thread is started directly referencing (or sometimes indirectly) with the intention of mocking someone or a group, for them and their friends to post.

Your right, people make friends, but some groups of friends are only intent is to keep that group exclusive. Not very welcoming in a public forum, is it?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I just join in threads for the fun of it. I've been slated for posts, people have laughed at my posts, people have responded to my post, people have completely ignored my posts. But I'm not bothered, it's a free country, and I've paid for fabs, so if I want to join in threads I will, regardless. If people get friendly with others then that's good, that surely is the aim of the site.

Play nicely now people, have fun, and let's all chat ....mwahhhh "
^ This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very welcoming in a public forum, is it? "

No but then would you walk into a pub, go up to a group of people you’ve not met before and expect them to welcome you in? Maybe not

I do agree that there are, small, groups who think that collectively attacking others is counted as ‘being here for fun on the forums’

Collectively though, the rest of the participants could just ignore them and they’ll soon give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very welcoming in a public forum, is it?

No but then would you walk into a pub, go up to a group of people you’ve not met before and expect them to welcome you in? Maybe not

"

I live in the north. (Manchester, I hate Manchester). We talk to anyone, and reply to anyone who says hello, I think that maybe a different view between you and, I see no problem with approaching a stranger and passing comment, and have no problem in striking a conversation with someone new who approached me. Maybe you would? Maybe ‘they’ would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given up on this forum these days. I only drop by occasionally to check updates on socials.

However, this thread caught my attention.

As somebody who in a previous life has been professionally involved in this whole forum malarky (helping to plan and manage them for various publishers) my experience is that you will always see the cliques try to dominate the forum space, and they tend to use the same tactics to get the same rewards.

The clique members invariably need to be defined in public (in my opinion) and thrive on the exclusivity of belonging to their gang.

They could take their gang and their flirting in private,but that defeats the object. The pleasure is in effectively looking down their noses at everyone else, especially those they see as inferior or a threat. The communal act of ignoring others or putting others down helps to reinforce the gang.

They need to be public about their clique, or it's not a real clique. If they take it private it becomes a secret society, and where's the fun in that?

Of course, the occasional non-member can be honoured with a nod of approval if he/she flatters them. It's human nature.

Of course it's all harmless enough until it turns ugly.

You see it turn ugly on the Fab forum when some poor sod - especially a young newbie - dares to ask for advice or feeback on their profile. The gang will often relish kicking several shades of shit out of the poor sod by belittling him (it's usually a him because single males are plentiful and solitary, and ripping into them isn't seen as too much of a crime around these parts.

The irony is that the clique's criticisms of the newbie's photos and profile is often against a backdrop that their own are sometimes lacking.

When it comes to the tactic of them trying to stiffle threads (on Fab,just as on other forums, it tends to be by swamping the thread with mutual appreciation), the only thing you can do is just power through, ignore it and continue with the thread topic. Don't fuel the fire.

Anyway, I enjoyed sharing my observations."

It's interesting that you refer to people getting ''the s**t kicked out of them'' on a forum. This kind of shows just how seriously some people can take it when someone else upsets them,they may literally feel injured.

The thing is though, no real physical harm has been done. At the end of the day,it's just words on a screen. If you really want it to reflect real life, would it really upset you if someone said something that you disagreed with? If they insulted you instead of answering your point?

Or would you just ignore and avoid them? Or bite back? Often the people who do the trash talking,say more about themselves than about their intended target.

We all need to develop a thick skin and broad shoulders,to some extent in real life,so why not on an internet forum?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t even think it’s a thing of needing a ‘thick skin’. It’s more the observation (by the many it seems, not the few) that some posters just come on to be c**** and offer nothing of any real value to the discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really confused about some of the comments on this thread. I’ve been here for around 2 years now, with a short break recently. I still don’t know who the clique are.

The people who I tend to see being overly rude towards newbies who ask for advice, aren’t the forum regulars, but people who don’t post as often. I can’t refer to the clique, because I have no idea who’s in it. I see groups of people who have met and become close.

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

Yes!!!! "

but these post are more popular than any other they receive 175 replies before I get to tell the op they are hot haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

Yes!!!!

but these post are more popular than any other they receive 175 replies before I get to tell the op they are hot haha "

Im looking closer to home on the hotness scale

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

Yes!!!!

but these post are more popular than any other they receive 175 replies before I get to tell the op they are hot haha

Im looking closer to home on the hotness scale "

sshh you'll get into trouble changing the subject you know

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’m really confused about some of the comments on this thread. I’ve been here for around 2 years now, with a short break recently. I still don’t know who the clique are.

The people who I tend to see being overly rude towards newbies who ask for advice, aren’t the forum regulars, but people who don’t post as often. I can’t refer to the clique, because I have no idea who’s in it. I see groups of people who have met and become close.

"

That’s exactly what ppl refer to as the ‘clique’. Personally I think it’s jealousy, the forum is what you make of it and it’s down to individuals to build friendships. Just another example of how ppl feel entitled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about taking threads over, but I've been known to kill a few...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m really confused about some of the comments on this thread. I’ve been here for around 2 years now, with a short break recently. I still don’t know who the clique are.

The people who I tend to see being overly rude towards newbies who ask for advice, aren’t the forum regulars, but people who don’t post as often. I can’t refer to the clique, because I have no idea who’s in it. I see groups of people who have met and become close.

That’s exactly what ppl refer to as the ‘clique’. Personally I think it’s jealousy, the forum is what you make of it and it’s down to individuals to build friendships. Just another example of how ppl feel entitled "

So there must be lots of cliques then, surely

I agree with you, completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about taking threads over, but I've been known to kill a few... "

We all do that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about taking threads over, but I've been known to kill a few...

We all do that! "

21 August 2017

oops! wrong thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?

Then perhaps other people should join in the conversation more, instead of whinging "

People do try that but often get ignored, insulted etc at times so rarely post after that. Its very hard for new people to join in and feel confident enough to keep posting. I know many people that tried here but gave up because they felt unwelcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter..."

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don’t you think it gives so much information about someone, fantastic filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yes "

Great shoes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required "

Whose bowel movements?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter..."

Totally agree with this

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


" Yes "

Is Clem constipated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yes

Is Clem constipated? "

Hello baby cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yes

Great shoes!"

Is this a takeover bid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

The forums are populated by about 15 people who chat rubbish, including word games and kiss suck or avoid etc. Wouldn’t those people be better off making a WhatsApp group?

Then perhaps other people should join in the conversation more, instead of whinging

People do try that but often get ignored, insulted etc at times so rarely post after that. Its very hard for new people to join in and feel confident enough to keep posting. I know many people that tried here but gave up because they felt unwelcome. "

I hate to think people feel unwelcome, but I still don’t agree that new posters get ignored or abused. I think people who post comments, which are very controversial on an emotive subject can sometimes bring forward a debate.

I’m not denying that sometimes people are shitty and annoying, but compared to other forums like Reddit, this place is okay.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


" Yes

Is Clem constipated?

Hello baby cakes "

Hello cuddle bear

But that doesn’t answer my question

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

Whose bowel movements? "

Mine hurrah.

I've pumped several times today and had a very satisfying shit early this morning

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I get a bit grumpy if it goes off topic or someone says cake but shit happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was just me.... Hubby says I'm a conversation killer in the forums.... watch how this conversation ends now!!!!!!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I get a bit grumpy if it goes off topic or someone says cake but shit happens! "

Aye, right above your post

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To the OP ... Yes.

Do I care? No.

I just see the forums as a bit of fun. Some take the forum, and life in general, much too seriously.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Yes

Great shoes!

Is this a takeover bid? "

A hostile one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

Whose bowel movements?

Mine hurrah.

I've pumped several times today and had a very satisfying shit early this morning "

The Shit Clique is born. You'll be needing a Chair.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

Whose bowel movements?

Mine hurrah.

I've pumped several times today and had a very satisfying shit early this morning

The Shit Clique is born. You'll be needing a Chair."

A commode might work better

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

Whose bowel movements?

Mine hurrah.

I've pumped several times today and had a very satisfying shit early this morning

The Shit Clique is born. You'll be needing a Chair.

A commode might work better "

Game over. I'm on the shitter now and I got the squits. All I've eaten today is a creme egg mcflurry so fuck knows what's going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP ... Yes.

Do I care? No.

I just see the forums as a bit of fun. Some take the forum, and life in general, much too seriously.

Nita"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in very often but you do seem to see the same folk posting in loads of threads, must spend most of their days trawling the posts... tragic lol!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter...

Yes it does seem like that, however these threads appear more frequently than Princess Peach’s bowel movements. They are told the same things over and over again, because that is what single males have said worked for them on various other threads around the subject. The OP invariably ignores any advice given and either goes UNLOS or posts another identical thread within days. The majority that start those kind of threads think Fab is instashag, please note I said the majority. This site is single male heavy and it is going to be difficult for them to be successful in their goal, whichever hole they’re aiming for. Therefore, some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on their profile is required

Whose bowel movements?

Mine hurrah.

I've pumped several times today and had a very satisfying shit early this morning

The Shit Clique is born. You'll be needing a Chair.

A commode might work better

Game over. I'm on the shitter now and I got the squits. All I've eaten today is a creme egg mcflurry so fuck knows what's going on."

Sorry but

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Not in very often but you do seem to see the same folk posting in loads of threads, must spend most of their days trawling the posts... tragic lol! "
Its called conversation . Try it sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it funny how some people complaining about the people being arrogant and unfair to new posters, are currently doing so on another thread.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I find it funny how some people complaining about the people being arrogant and unfair to new posters, are currently doing so on another thread. "

Standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it funny how some people complaining about the people being arrogant and unfair to new posters, are currently doing so on another thread.

Standard "

Banter

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I find it funny how some people complaining about the people being arrogant and unfair to new posters, are currently doing so on another thread.

Standard

Banter "

Knob

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big. "

yes or someone "wanders into room, looks at xxx bum, wanders out again" some people just have to contribute even if it's pointless drivel

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Now and then someone will post about something interesting. All is going well with lots of different contributors to the thread...then it happens...cake anyone...all the usual suspects appear...me,me,me.now it looks like the room is full of five year olds. Before you know it,thread too big. "

This 100%^^^^^^^^^

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"As a complete outsider that reads the forums.

I have noticed the same people tend to comment on the same topic daily with the same advice...

I’m not sure if they are intending to take over the thread... but just look at any single male post asking for advice...

The same people will say

Go to a social

Don’t put cock pics in your profile

Go to a club

Others will tell him

His profile wording stinks

His room is dirty

His clothes are dirty

When I read these threads I feel like the posters are a pack of lions and the original poster is a baby antelope ready for the slaughter..."

It makes them feel special and important or maybe they're just complete d@#ks

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I’ve noticed on some threads, it’s turned into two people just having a heated debate.

Others you can tell they know each other, so they all seem to quote and reply to each other. Everyone else ends up not contributing as it’s like a love in, but they seem to have to do it publicly and not by PM. You feel like saying, just get a room !

As a relative Newby I tend to get ignored quite a bit.

I'm OK with that.

Takes time to be "one of the gang""

Why would you want to be one of the gang?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people"

Why would you expect admin to do their jobs right when they ban people with no real explanation after never previously posting in the forums haha. They are a joke at best. And i'm being kind here . Those people have nothing better to do clearly and it makes loads not post in here. Me i say it how it is and done *drops mike*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people

Why would you expect admin to do their jobs right when they ban people with no real explanation after never previously posting in the forums haha. They are a joke at best. And i'm being kind here . Those people have nothing better to do clearly and it makes loads not post in here. Me i say it how it is and done *drops mike* "

Afternoon 4 posts on the trot...talk about taking over a fecking thread eh

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

If people haven't noticed yet. The ones for it are the people who either take over threads,try to or are in a clique aka friends haha.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people

Why would you expect admin to do their jobs right when they ban people with no real explanation after never previously posting in the forums haha. They are a joke at best. And i'm being kind here . Those people have nothing better to do clearly and it makes loads not post in here. Me i say it how it is and done *drops mike*

Afternoon 4 posts on the trot...talk about taking over a fecking thread eh "

Can't take it over if i'm posting about what the thread is actually about . Thanks for noticing though treacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are six or seven profiles that seem to comment on pretty much every thread.

Almost an unelected committee with common stock replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people

Why would you expect admin to do their jobs right when they ban people with no real explanation after never previously posting in the forums haha. They are a joke at best. And i'm being kind here . Those people have nothing better to do clearly and it makes loads not post in here. Me i say it how it is and done *drops mike*

Afternoon 4 posts on the trot...talk about taking over a fecking thread eh

Can't take it over if i'm posting about what the thread is actually about . Thanks for noticing though treacle "

Your welcome syrup....not Avington ago at your hair btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having *ffs

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"... some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on [sic] profile is required "

I think I've just found my new tagline!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Frequently. And they display bad.manners and talk over you when you add a comment.

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"There are six or seven profiles that seem to comment on pretty much every thread.

Almost an unelected committee with common stock replies. "

It's called not having a life.. Its pretty sad when your only friends are on a Internet chat site... Or you spend all day on here lol... Get some fresh air ffs

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Honestly it's pretty much the same handful of people that constantly post inflammatory remarks. I don't know why admins don't hand out permanent bans for the forums more often. There some people who literally offer nothing to the forums other than insulting comments and comments specifically designed to get a rise out of people

Why would you expect admin to do their jobs right when they ban people with no real explanation after never previously posting in the forums haha. They are a joke at best. And i'm being kind here . Those people have nothing better to do clearly and it makes loads not post in here. Me i say it how it is and done *drops mike* "

Let’s put some perspective on this, there were in excess of 3000 threads in the lounge alone last month. The number of mods/admin is small and they are unpaid. They have a huge task to trawl through threads and keep the forum fun for everyone. They aren’t armed with the knowledge of who’s friends with who etc and which comments are ‘banter’ or malicious. Some rule breaking is obvious but there are a lot of comments made indirectly that are impossible to spot. Mistakes will happen things will be missed, that’s life. Everyone has access to the report button, use it to alert them of rule breaking etc and stay within the rules. There are always ways we as users can improve things, by making sure you’re not part of the problem is a start. Yes I know I don’t always get it right, shock horror, I’m not perfect

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"... some effort beyond a few tinky winky pics and ‘message me’ on [sic] profile is required

I think I've just found my new tagline! "

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread is fun. Agree with many of the comments above tho, some people appear to spend 24/7 posting on here which implies they have no life/mates etc. Cliquey doesn't even start to describe it.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Well this thread is fun. Agree with many of the comments above tho, some people appear to spend 24/7 posting on here which implies they have no life/mates etc. Cliquey doesn't even start to describe it.

"

There may be a reason they are on here so frequently other than your rather limited explanation. There are also patterns, watch and all may become clear

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

This thread shows that it never happens.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Eh what who's done what now. Oh regulars bashing owwwwk as you where.

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts

Hijackers, please hijack my thread... Some have there for years and it's been only me commenting on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Trans use sock puppets to do their dirty work or use their male profiles to chip in, its pretty obvious, same with everybody else when you seem to get a clique that know each other and play ping pong and silly buggers to wreck threads or to praise one of the clique its most likely one person using several profiles...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Some Trans use sock puppets to do their dirty work or use their male profiles to chip in, its pretty obvious, same with everybody else when you seem to get a clique that know each other and play ping pong and silly buggers to wreck threads or to praise one of the clique its most likely one person using several profiles..."

Genius. Nobody would suss that out would they especially not them knobs that have been here years and years. I'm going go put 1 together now. Oh a name got to be something different to blade errrrr got it fs1e. Back in a giff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is everyone now scared to reply or quote on a thread more than once now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is everyone now scared to reply or quote on a thread more than once now? "

Just waiting to have the last word!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Is everyone now scared to reply or quote on a thread more than once now? "

Nope, you know me, too opinionated to be scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is everyone now scared to reply or quote on a thread more than once now?

Just waiting to have the last word! "

There you go...if your fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Is everyone now scared to reply or quote on a thread more than once now?

Just waiting to have the last word!

There you go...if your fast"

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last word

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think we shall close this one. Too many posts - the limit is 175.

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