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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " ^this. | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " I’d much rather put my hands in my pocket and fiddle myself than pay for sex. I thought it was against site rules to offer paid services in here? | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " Taking the easy way out | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? I’d much rather put my hands in my pocket and fiddle myself than pay for sex. I thought it was against site rules to offer paid services in here? " It is | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? I’d much rather put my hands in my pocket and fiddle myself than pay for sex. I thought it was against site rules to offer paid services in here? It is " I thought so. There’s the answer to our problems op. Report the profiles. Hopefully they disappear. | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. " Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? Taking the easy way out " Yip Sad really. For me sex is icing on the cake. Lifestyle is more than that. | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on." It's the same with women posting statuses asking to be spoilt. Ban them all! | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " I was thinking more widely and the bigger picture to be honest. But, swingers site! more like F**ebook this place most of the time! | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? I was thinking more widely and the bigger picture to be honest. But, swingers site! more like F**ebook this place most of the time! " You mean how people constantly post their displeasure at everything everyone else is doing? Yes, I suppose your right. | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? I was thinking more widely and the bigger picture to be honest. But, swingers site! more like F**ebook this place most of the time! You mean how people constantly post their displeasure at everything everyone else is doing? Yes, I suppose your right. " *chuckles away in corner* | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. It's the same with women posting statuses asking to be spoilt. Ban them all! " I thought being spoiled was about being given a good time, with great sex. I've not seen this phenomenon of £, which is an unwelcome move. There is absolutely nothing wrong with such transactions and needs but they shouldn't be via here. There is a move to restrict the internet from such content, which is very wrong imo, as it's just pushing things underground, making people less safe. | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on." I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! " Hotels... meals... wine not my profile then im a tight northerner@)! | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! " . I'd say more fiesta than escort, readers wives, 1992? | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " This is not a swingers site anymore, ppl can do what they like on here and this is the reason it's gone down hill... I wouldn't be surprised if less than 20% of people actually met others on here.. The place is becoming a bit of a joke... Men just expecting to fuck without even sending a few messages... Couples who just like the thrill and idea of doing something... Women who just want attention... Even these forums are not being used properly, just full of silly childish threads such as kiss, fuck, avoid.. Or say something nice about the person above ... Again, just full of people wanting compliments | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? This is not a swingers site anymore, ppl can do what they like on here and this is the reason it's gone down hill... I wouldn't be surprised if less than 20% of people actually met others on here.. The place is becoming a bit of a joke... Men just expecting to fuck without even sending a few messages... Couples who just like the thrill and idea of doing something... Women who just want attention... Even these forums are not being used properly, just full of silly childish threads such as kiss, fuck, avoid.. Or say something nice about the person above ... Again, just full of people wanting compliments " Agree 1000% | |||
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"Hotels... meals... wine not my profile then im a tight northerner@)! " Me too, although I like to think I’m ‘careful’. I also thought that seeking payment was against site rules? | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? This is not a swingers site anymore, ppl can do what they like on here and this is the reason it's gone down hill... I wouldn't be surprised if less than 20% of people actually met others on here.. The place is becoming a bit of a joke... Men just expecting to fuck without even sending a few messages... Couples who just like the thrill and idea of doing something... Women who just want attention... Even these forums are not being used properly, just full of silly childish threads such as kiss, fuck, avoid.. Or say something nice about the person above ... Again, just full of people wanting compliments " . Misuse of forums carries a mandatory whipping with a stocking full of pig piss!. Although technically that's over in the BDSM forum | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! . I'd say more fiesta than escort, readers wives, 1992? " Nope! In my case, freemans catalogue, littlewoods, grattan etc! I was the one of the knicker models! | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! . I'd say more fiesta than escort, readers wives, 1992? Nope! In my case, freemans catalogue, littlewoods, grattan etc! I was the one of the knicker models! " . Ooh lord, I knocked some out to Littlewoods as a kid | |||
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"It's sad because this is a swingers site. Swingers didn't pay for sex.. . Its stuff like this that is causing the decline of the site. Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? I’d much rather put my hands in my pocket and fiddle myself than pay for sex. I thought it was against site rules to offer paid services in here? It is I thought so. There’s the answer to our problems op. Report the profiles. Hopefully they disappear. " We did report a profile that offered money to fuck Mrs A. Evidently nothing was done about it as the member in questions profile is still active and in regular use. | |||
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"Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? " Why would I fork out £50 when I can be sociable for free? . "Even these forums are not being used properly, just full of silly childish threads such as kiss, fuck, avoid.. Or say something nice about the person above ... Again, just full of people wanting compliments " I’m not always a fan of those threads, although I have occasionally taken part. It does feel like there’s constantly at least two vatiations on the go at the same time, populated by exactly the same people saying exactly the same things to each other as they have a dozen times before. But, for all I know, maybe it leads to people PMing each other and arranging meets. . I would ask what you think using the forums ‘properly’ would entail, though. It certainly works differently to others I’ve been on; what would you change? | |||
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"Why would people bother to be sociable and meet new people when they can put their hand in their pockets and get a ride for £50?? Why would I fork out £50 when I can be sociable for free? . Even these forums are not being used properly, just full of silly childish threads such as kiss, fuck, avoid.. Or say something nice about the person above ... Again, just full of people wanting compliments I’m not always a fan of those threads, although I have occasionally taken part. It does feel like there’s constantly at least two vatiations on the go at the same time, populated by exactly the same people saying exactly the same things to each other as they have a dozen times before. But, for all I know, maybe it leads to people PMing each other and arranging meets. . I would ask what you think using the forums ‘properly’ would entail, though. It certainly works differently to others I’ve been on; what would you change?" Well there's the lounge section that should be used for the silly kiss, fuck, avoid stuff... Then the swingers part for talk about actual swinging lol... But like you said, it's as though people are clogging up both cause the one already has at least 4 of the same type of thread... It just feels like there packed with utter nonsense, as mentioned its same people looking for a few compliments | |||
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"Yeh code for selling sex.... people are sad enough to pay for it. Honestly, why is it sad of them? Or for that matter a person accepting money for sex, it's not illegal. Its sad because if a guy wants to pay for sex, there is thousands of other site's on internet just for that, dont be bringing that practice to a swinging site where sex is meant to be a mutual enjoyment. Its because of things like this i am seeing more and more escorts on here and/or women with status with "£££" "generous men only" and so on. I expect men to be VERY generous with their bodies - especially their penis!! Have noticed on a lot of profiles that they ‘like’ to be wined and dined, treated to nice hotels, taken shopping etc. As they don’t insist on it (on their profile anyway) or name a fee, it would be difficult to prove that it’s a financial transaction! To prove intent to charge for services and throw them all off the site would be virtually impossible I imagine! Pity though - as I get several messages a day offering payment for sex (the assumption seems to be that because I’m on hot photos a lot, I must be an Escort!) and tbh it gets a little tiring! . I'd say more fiesta than escort, readers wives, 1992? Nope! In my case, freemans catalogue, littlewoods, grattan etc! I was the one of the knicker models! . Ooh lord, I knocked some out to Littlewoods as a kid " In that case - you’re welcome! | |||
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