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By *aelaelil OP   Man
over a year ago

swindon

Is it common for people to block you once pictures have been sent, I mean a msg saying not my thing or not intrested would be nice before a straight block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not nice but it happens

Also they are not required to respond either so best just suck it up and move on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with."

I always take it personally when people leave the site when I send a face pic...

Really, am I that fugly?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it's after you've exchanged a couple of messages back and forth already OP, I'd agree it would be the polite thing to do, although by no means a requirement.

If it's off the back of a totally cold first message you've sent, that happens to include pics, then it's no different from you putting the local pizza place or double glazing firm's unsolicited junk mail in the bin and shouldn't be seen as anything more.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with."

I have a talent for scaring them off... one yesterday had only been on the site 18 minutes, was localish, sent a lovely pic of himself, I return one of us (as I always would) and a minute later he was unlos ... Im trying very hard not to take it personally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with.

I always take it personally when people leave the site when I send a face pic...

Really, am I that fugly? "

No .

People have left the site on seeing our faces. We laughed!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with.

I have a talent for scaring them off... one yesterday had only been on the site 18 minutes, was localish, sent a lovely pic of himself, I return one of us (as I always would) and a minute later he was unlos ... Im trying very hard not to take it personally "

We just think we're so gorgeous that they're dazzled...or they know us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people to block you once pictures have been sent, I mean a msg saying not my thing or not intrested would be nice before a straight block "

Better than being told you owe them a new phone cause the screen broke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me most of the time once I send a face pic.....the obvious disappointment of me not looking like David Gandy would make most block me but I don't take it to heart.....much ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people to block you once pictures have been sent, I mean a msg saying not my thing or not intrested would be nice before a straight block "

A message saying not interested would be nice yes. What a lot of couples tend to do to us single guys is send a friends invite very early on. Don't fall for it guys, all they are after is a nose at your private pics..................once they've looked they then block you..........now that is sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with.

I have a talent for scaring them off... one yesterday had only been on the site 18 minutes, was localish, sent a lovely pic of himself, I return one of us (as I always would) and a minute later he was unlos ... Im trying very hard not to take it personally

We just think we're so gorgeous that they're dazzled...or they know us "

It's the "or" bit.....that's when the paranoia sets in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It is quite common, it's also quite common for people to respond to polite rejection with abuse or for people to leave the site once they see your pictures.

It's not nice but it's something we have to live with.

I have a talent for scaring them off... one yesterday had only been on the site 18 minutes, was localish, sent a lovely pic of himself, I return one of us (as I always would) and a minute later he was unlos ... Im trying very hard not to take it personally

We just think we're so gorgeous that they're dazzled...or they know us

It's the "or" bit.....that's when the paranoia sets in"

Well we manage to walk the streets without people falling at our feet so we usually opt for them knowing us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common for people to block you once pictures have been sent, I mean a msg saying not my thing or not intrested would be nice before a straight block "

They're normally just wankers. Move on

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

It's common, OP. We sent pics and got no reply even though promised he would, we messaged 'everything okay' to which he replied 'absolutely not'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had it. We didn't like it, but it is what it is. Nobody owes anybody anything here, least of all an explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked after sending face pic.ah well sure we aint all gona be everyones cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people are just in it to nose at pics and have no intention of reciprocating. I had this the other day: I started the conversation, including face pics with my first message. A few messages back and forth until I asked if I could see a face pic from her. Cue a speech about how I shouldn't need one because she's got good veris and then she blocked me. People are just weird!

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