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How to get your first meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look to get my first meet how and what will help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs or socials and speak to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, all the people will be real and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and include different pictures.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Seaside Sussex

Get yourself to a social and if there are none nearby that appeal to you then organise one for yourself and invite everyone, not just the category you want to play with.

Best wishes. Let us all know how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off search the forums looking for first meet, profile advice, first messages etc. Make sure your profile and pictures are as good an advert as possible, and your messages are personal friendly funny and appropriate.

Then get out to clubs, and socials, get known. After that, good luck, and lucky timing is all you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are those two cocks even the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write in ur status where u r n that u r looking to fuck. U will be surprised what attention u get, particularly if ur pics r incredibly horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Are those two cocks even the same?"

Or healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put 37 cock pics to view on your profile no less and send on with every message you will be sorted out in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find the answer op. Please share it with others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are those two cocks even the same?"

Are they? I'll now to your greater knowledge. I'm not going to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders"

What if you have virgin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

What if you have virgin? "

You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are those two cocks even the same?

Or healthy "

Second doesn’t look like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

What if you have virgin? "

If you fuck a Virgin box it becomes a Sky Q one. True story

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Get yourself to a social and if there are none nearby that appeal to you then organise one for yourself and invite everyone, not just the category you want to play with.

Best wishes. Let us all know how it goes. "

Among the piss taking, a nugget of wisdom.

^this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

What if you have virgin?

You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote"

Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

What if you have virgin?

You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote

Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it? "

You’re a genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cock pic with a Sky remote control works wonders

What if you have virgin?

You’ll need borrow someone else’s sky remote

Or use them both? It better with 2 isn’t it?

You’re a genius!"

Haha....can I get that in a verification?

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

Less dick pics, more face pics.

Go to a club and be yourself and talk to people.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a single meet off fab but that said, I don’t use it for that. Clubs are where it’s at for me.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Rhohipnol

Joking obviously

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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Top tip...

Most women will know you have a cock, and will know what one looks like...

As much as you might be amazed by your own cock... it’s not really what girls (or guys) want to see...

Try having normal photos, and only send a cock pic if someone specifically wants to see it... which will be rare

In my experience, girls will want to see what you look like before they decide that they want to see your cock... so don’t put them off

Keep it hidden, and be normal

Other than that... it’s difficult to get things moving... I haven’t been to a club yet, but I’ve found chatting on the forums and being positive really helps

Be genuine, original, and be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's one tip - ingore the majority of the forum dwellers as a good number of them are just point-scoring sycophants.

But there are some decent people here, you just need to figure out those that make up the forum clique...

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

^true that about folk not wanting to see cocks. If someone sends me an unsolicited picture of their dick it’s a complete turn off.

Some folk do like it, but those I find are relatively rare.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Look to get my first meet how and what will help me "

Hi op

Most people will say go to a club.

But if you don't drive or no wear thar are its kind of pointless saying go to a club.

My best advice is find a groop social that is near you or you can get to / travel to. That way you will probably end up with 4-5 verys at 1ce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used the chat rooms. Chatted with women. Met one

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Here's one tip - ingore the majority of the forum dwellers as a good number of them are just point-scoring sycophants.

But there are some decent people here, you just need to figure out those that make up the forum clique..."

I see what you did there.

*applauds slowly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try clubs and socials; you have(based on your stated location) a well established club practically on your door step. Talking to real people is a heck of a lot easier than living behind your virtual comfort blanket of a phone/tablet/computer.

Also don’t be a dick. By that I mean, understand that ownership of a penis is pretty much expected of blokes, photographic evidence is not always required. Some may ask to see before meeting as they like to know what might be on offer.

Have photos other than your todger. This doesn’t mean a need to post face pics. Last time I checked, men have more body parts than a face and a penis. Torso pics, clothed body, suits, sports gear etc seem to go down well.

Read profiles and respect their content before messaging.

Mostly, get yourself to a club or organised social.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely get rid of that close-up penis picture - try some body ones or face, if you feel comfortable doing so.

Enjoy, OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was very horny i was local and available the rest is history

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Get rid of the dick pics, especially the one where the member looks less than healthy. It could just be bad lighting and poor photography but that dick does not look well. In any case, most ladies are more interested in what's attached to the dick.

You need to indicate what (other than a worryingly red penis) you bring to the table. Why should a lady reply to you, rather than the other twenty guys who message her between now and her lunch break?

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Message, pick yourself up after rejection, message someone else.....repeat until you find someone you can click with and they click with you.

Be nice and respectful and eventually it'll come good.....and maybe a better selection of pics? Just saying

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