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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would make a person unattractive if you saw them in person?

You have never seen a pic of them.

You have never been told how they look, talk or act.

All you know is that you both click from conversation alone.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole crappy and fake Towie/reality tv look.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Scruffy dressed not groomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise. "

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only struggle with people's attitude. Looks and the like only go so far if the person is deeply unlikable.

But heavy smokers really turn Geoff as I like kissing so much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scruffy dressed not groomed "

Long and dirty nails and last but not least...

Sticky hair, not the sticky hair due to lotion or wax product but hair that hasn't been washed for days... At the point where they are so sticky that I could use the grease to cook my french fries..

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty teeth

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise. "

Ok I got this now... poor hygeine (unwashed, bad breath, stale clothes etc), chewing gum, heavy drinker or smoker, baseball caps, wooley beanie hats indoors or in summer, innapropriate dress sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise.

Ok I got this now... poor hygeine (unwashed, bad breath, stale clothes etc), chewing gum, heavy drinker or smoker, baseball caps, wooley beanie hats indoors or in summer, innapropriate dress sense."

This. Except I wouldn’t meet anyone without seeing a picture first, I just wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only struggle with people's attitude. Looks and the like only go so far if the person is deeply unlikable.

But heavy smokers really turn Geoff as I like kissing so much lol "

Geoff? Blooming autocorrect! Meant me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad personality or no sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can be attractive but a bad personality can make them ugly .It works both ways ,once i wasnt attracted to someome but he made me laugh and we had great time together and i did date him for few years .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t explain how I find one work of art a nice painting to look at and one which I think is not so nice. As much as I’d like to say big ears or a big nose is what I think is ugly to me, I can’t.

I find personality the most attractive thing in a person, but, I can’t turn off my eyes, but they have their own rules.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Dirty teeth "

Eeeww yeah & that - teeth obsessed, love nice teeth & smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people can be attractive but a bad personality can make them ugly .It works both ways ,once i wasnt attracted to someome but he made me laugh and we had great time together and i did date him for few years . "

When me and my husband first got together I didn’t find him overly attractive, and he was the total opposite of my ‘type’ at the time. Seven years on, happily married, a house, four dogs, and he’s perfect to me

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Scruffy dressed not groomed

Long and dirty nails and last but not least...

Sticky hair, not the sticky hair due to lotion or wax product but hair that hasn't been washed for days... At the point where they are so sticky that I could use the grease to cook my french fries..

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7 years of marriage and still 21... I thought married life was supposed to age you "

Haha, one year of marriage, been together seven years in June

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise.

Ok I got this now... poor hygeine (unwashed, bad breath, stale clothes etc), chewing gum, heavy drinker or smoker, baseball caps, wooley beanie hats indoors or in summer, innapropriate dress sense.

This. Except I wouldn’t meet anyone without seeing a picture first, I just wouldn’t. "

I have and would again.

Years and years ago I used one of those telephone chat sites, (it was before the time of camera phones that tells you how old I am!) I got chatting to a man in Northampton and we really got on well. Arranged to meet for a drink halfway and I had this picture in my head, tall, dark hair, brown eyes.... I was a bit dumbstruck when he turned up and was black... not because that bothered me, Id just built a picture of a white guy in my head.

We got on great and dated for a few weeks til distance became a problem.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Anything that's linked to poor hygiene.

And the poorly drawn on eyebrows, orange skin and coffin nails look. It's just not something I've ever found attractive and I doubt I would now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly cant think of any physical features that would turn me off if we clicked personality wise.

Ok I got this now... poor hygeine (unwashed, bad breath, stale clothes etc), chewing gum, heavy drinker or smoker, baseball caps, wooley beanie hats indoors or in summer, innapropriate dress sense.

This. Except I wouldn’t meet anyone without seeing a picture first, I just wouldn’t.

I have and would again.

Years and years ago I used one of those telephone chat sites, (it was before the time of camera phones that tells you how old I am!) I got chatting to a man in Northampton and we really got on well. Arranged to meet for a drink halfway and I had this picture in my head, tall, dark hair, brown eyes.... I was a bit dumbstruck when he turned up and was black... not because that bothered me, Id just built a picture of a white guy in my head.

We got on great and dated for a few weeks til distance became a problem."

Aww, see that’s a lovely story! Just knowing my luck, I’d end up murdered or something my anxiety would never let me, I’d be far too nervous about it. Which is awful, I know

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Scruffy hair. dirty nails. Bad teeth. But on the whole a great personality is way more important than looks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would make a person unattractive if you saw them in person?

You have never seen a pic of them.

You have never been told how they look, talk or act.

All you know is that you both click from conversation alone. "

This scenario would never happen..

I dont chat to pictureless profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance. You can be a really good looking guy, but being arrogant and unkind is a big no.

Looks-wise, long nails & dirty teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without first seeing pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would make a person unattractive if you saw them in person?

You have never seen a pic of them.

You have never been told how they look, talk or act.

All you know is that you both click from conversation alone. "

It would never happen, as i won't even chat without seeing a pic, but bad teeth, bad breath, greasy hair, dirty nails and scruffy clothes are instant physical turn offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had endless faceless conversations, with people who are great fun to chat with.

But never deluded myself, that a load of text might turn into a good blind date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t explain how I find one work of art a nice painting to look at and one which I think is not so nice. As much as I’d like to say big ears or a big nose is what I think is ugly to me, I can’t.

I find personality the most attractive thing in a person, but, I can’t turn off my eyes, but they have their own rules. "

This + as mentioned above heavy smoker and people who don't put any effort to how they look(clean and wearing appropriate clothes) on a first meet

Kitten

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Dirty unwashed people. It happened once... it's left me scarred for life. Yuck.

Soap cost very little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're up their own arse and think they're better than you

Also swearing like a chav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many things. That's why I wouldn't do a blind date style meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say they're a fan of Dan Brown.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We could get on like a house on fire but until I see them face to face I couldn't be sure whether it could become a sexual attraction or purely platonic. That doesn't mean I'd have to find them drop dead gorgeous but there'd need to be enough to say 'yeah, I could really get to know them intimately'. As for things like personal hygiene I'm pretty sure we'd have already spoken about our thoughts on such so that would hopefully have been addressed adequately. A lot of bases would have been covered before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sort of bad hygiene.

No sense of humour - people that take themselves really seriously.

Arrogance, Chavvy type orange tans and bizzare eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Sunderland Shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Sunderland Shirt "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Anything that's linked to poor hygiene.

And the poorly drawn on eyebrows, orange skin and coffin nails look. It's just not something I've ever found attractive and I doubt I would now.

"

Dammit...goes to file nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Sunderland Shirt "

Lol unless its on fire

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

Stinky breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smell. Bad clothing choices. Unclean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without pics. Preferably a direct one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything and everything.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't care how much we clicked in convo I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Rotten or dirty teeth.

Met a guy but couldn't look at him cause of the fuzz growing on them

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who chat shit...

Wait a minute, that's all of them.

Only joking don't start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who chat shit...

Wait a minute, that's all of them.

Only joking don't start. "

I AM OUTRAGED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who chat shit...

Wait a minute, that's all of them.

Only joking don't start.

I AM OUTRAGED"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dentists do an "air flo" system for teeth now as opposed to prodding and scraping they kind of sand blast .

had mine done with a groupon deal 39 quid

should your teeth have any stains they wont after this

only takes 20 minutes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scruffy hair. dirty nails. Bad teeth. But on the whole a great personality is way more important than looks . "

Drawn on six pack? Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol @ bad clothing choices

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