FabSwingers.com forum: Compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either? "

Give, not great at taking compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give. I like to receive though.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either? "

It's always nice to receive, so I give.

Cracking tits, by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give definitely, I’m not good at receiving compliments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm a giver. I love buttering people up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I get a few in the forums. I give out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give naturally. Find it awkward to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give definitely, I’m not good at receiving compliments x "

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like yo give I like to receive

same as I do with sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always give. Lovely to think someone's got a wee spring in their step because of something nice I said.

I'm getting better at receiving them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a giver, I'm not great at accepting compliments, I tend not to believe them.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I believe ladies don't receive enough compliments and that shows with all the self doubt and insecurities flying about so I always try and throw compliments in, maybe too much.

It's nice to receive the odd one too but I don't give them so that I can get them. It's just the nice thing to do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either?

It's always nice to receive, so I give.

Cracking tits, by the way!

Why thank you Ms Luscious Lips

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Give definitely, I’m not good at receiving compliments x

This xx"

Ah yes, this

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I give most times xx

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By *onforming_deviantWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is "

Ditto

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I give. I cant handle receiving them.. i shrug them off. Dont know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is "

I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

receive lots,,but I'm not shy in giving now n then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I believe ladies don't receive enough compliments and that shows with all the self doubt and insecurities flying about so I always try and throw compliments in, maybe too much.

It's nice to receive the odd one too but I don't give them so that I can get them. It's just the nice thing to do x"

You'd be surprised how many we get around here! I always wonder how many other girls have had the "oh wow, youre the most beautiful woman on the site" mail before me.

I guess that's what makes us skeptical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"receive lots,,but I'm not shy in giving now n then

Your avatar! Be still my heart.

sexy as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is

I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady

....what’s your motive?!

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

I love to give but I adore to receive

I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the ego boost.

Mrs S x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to receive them but not from Fab people as I don’t trust they are true....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone in a shop came up to me today and said I had a nice accent....I didn’t know how to take it

I definitely prefer to give unless it’s for something I’ve actually done...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either? "

Human nature generally gives more. Few know how to receive well they think they the owe the other person instead of seeing as it is...a gift given freely by the other and should therfore be received without the feeling of owing.

If one refuses a gift given freely... in turn one is actually preventing a blessing the other gets by giving generously without expectation.

Learning to recieve properly is one of the hardest lessons we learn.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I love to receive . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either? "

Give..

Im not good at accepting them

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I give them quite freely. I like to receive as well and have got better at not downplaying them. Provided they are well intentioned ones, that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a giver, I'm not great at accepting compliments, I tend not to believe them."

Exactly how I feel too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m very skeptical when I get a compliment because I always wonder what there motive is

I don't think you should be skeptical.. Your a cracking looking lady

....what’s your motive?!"

(Mr here) honestly it makes me feel good to give a compliment to someone I think deserves one, it's not necessarily to get browny points and sex is not always the motive..for me generally it's just nice to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't trust the compliments I receive anymore, women just say for sex

I do give plenty though

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give plenty....

.... I tend not to believe compliments given though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give a lot of compliments but I don't like reciving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give a lot of compliments but I don't like reciving them "

Your not getting a compliment.. You'll be looking for a motive as well

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"I like to receive them but not from Fab people as I don’t trust they are true....

This....taken with a pinch(if not a handful) of salt from Fab. So i don't give then unless i really mean them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give a lot of compliments but I don't like reciving them

Your not getting a compliment.. You'll be looking for a motive as well

I don't want a compliment and I have no motives or motivation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible receiving them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like giving complements

It's lovely to receive them too it shows people have taken time to give them and should be received with grace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

A compliment is not honest then and always has an agenda? I'd beg to differ. I send a message to people that I'd possibly never need and tell them I like their latest pic and explain why...

So you're saying my compliments about your pics to you have been wasted breath?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

That pretty much is a compliment...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I get somewhat awkward at both giving and receiving them!! Unless I'm particularly comfortable with someone I always fear coming across as insincere when giving them, and get very coy and don't know how to respond when I receive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give them, only when I mean it though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not great with taking compliments.. pretty just say thanks lol I always compliment someone whether it be from their nice hair to sunny personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give loads dont get many but dont really know how to take them anyway do like a bit of flirty banter tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a frequent giver, infrequent recipient, but that’s ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a frequent giver, infrequent recipient, but that’s ok. "

Nice ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

That pretty much is a compliment..."

Yes I know, sorry I explained really badly.

I have this strange thinking that the word 'compliment' means they don't mean it.

I know I'm odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

That pretty much is a compliment..."

It’s exactly what a compliment is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't 'do' compliments as such. If I tell someone they look nice/ or are nice/ etc, I mean it. It's an honest statement with no hidden agenda.

That pretty much is a compliment...

Yes I know, sorry I explained really badly.

I have this strange thinking that the word 'compliment' means they don't mean it.

I know I'm odd."

More insincere flattery like.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I take pleasure in giving compliments and know it gives people a boost.

I am learning to accept compliments. As someone with low self esteem, it's easy to dismiss them.

I realise that it is like being given a gift. So if you don't accept it, it's like handing back a present someone has chosen for you.

Even if it feels uncomfortable initially, I try to thank people and accept what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you said it perfectly Lizzy, it’s nice to be nice.

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either?

Give, not great at taking compliments

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give more than I receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a frequent giver, infrequent recipient, but that’s ok.

Nice ass

Well hasn’t that just gone and made my evening

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I accept graciously.

Giving compliments is good thing to do, and I am quite happy to do that too.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I give, but it is nice to receive also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you give or receive more?

Which do you prefer if either? "

Give. Definitely give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Credit where it is due.

I enjoy giving compliments but I only give them if I mean them....little bit often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a receiver. I never give

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We’re happier giving them, we find receiving them a little bit embarrassing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re happier giving them, we find receiving them a little bit embarrassing x"

Ah dammit. this was what I was meant to say

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Often send a message to others to compliment them on their profile and photos. Doesnt take much to let someone know they look great an say thanks for sharing. But can honestly say never had a compliment myself. But then i dont see myself as anything special to warrent one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (female) am rubbish at receiving compliments, but that being said I am getting better and actually believing what’s being said ! I like to compliment people as it brightens up their day and makes them feel better about themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.

That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.

There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.

That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.

There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them."

I don't think that's just here it's everywhere..though im not going to vouch for the "mingers" but maybe they're happy enough with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mingers is such a harsh word.. everyone is beautiful to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just received a lovely one from Lizzy, thank you. X

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

depends if they are honest or here on fab...

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

It gives me a buzz to pay a compliment. Beautiful women especially. If I say it I mean it. Compliments are also nice to receive although sometimes it is difficult to find the right reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As nasty as it sounds it's the truth that when people are after something they will say or do anything.

That includes sending a lie/compliment to someone when they don't mean it just to get sex.

There's a lot of that here where desperate guys will say someone's the most stunning person ever even though they think there a minger just to empty there balls in them."

Thats not true at all theres people on here scattered all around the world i know il never meet i give them compliments all the time theres no agenda im just being a decent guy

Granted im atracted to them but i have nothing to gain what so ever appart from i feel like a good bloke its not that i wouldnt want to get with them as with some i would but in most cases thats not a possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not great with taking compliments.. pretty just say thanks lol I always compliment someone whether it be from their nice hair to sunny personality "

Same here , let any comp whizz last and don’t generally acknowledge them as don’t know how to (if I even realise it’s been a comp)

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