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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What has made you take stock recently and get a better perspective on your first world problems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work does. Every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a good chat with a friend i hadnt seen for a few months

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Having a car accident last year made me reassess my life for a few months. I appreciate life a little more when I think it could have been game over. Hurrah for fucking strongly built Mercedes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing the person my dad was slowly disappearing

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Work does. Every day. "

A lot of what I do does too... but it's easy to become inured to it and lose that perspective.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

31 yr old lad at work being diagnosed with the dreaded C.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Having a good chat with a friend i hadnt seen for a few months "

I'm about to spam all my friends as most live overseas or out in the shires. It's easy to lose touch.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Having a car accident last year made me reassess my life for a few months. I appreciate life a little more when I think it could have been game over. Hurrah for fucking strongly built Mercedes! "

I'm pleased it was a strong car. You'd be missed (and you've got all those books).

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

The amount of cash leaking from our bank into utilities coffers. Have saved about £75p/m in the last 36hrs can't help but think the 1st World has a great deal of out to screw you about it, despite what the majority of people want.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Seeing the person my dad was slowly disappearing"

Dementia is really hard. Remember who he was and care for who he is now. Look after your mother. Good luck.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"31 yr old lad at work being diagnosed with the dreaded C. "

I hope he has great treatment and beats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching someone close to us battle against cancer at the young age of 38! Made us realise just how trivial our problems and issues are and how fragile life is

BD x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in a car accident on Sunday, whilst we only sustained minor injuries, bruising and a bit of whiplash it could have been much worse, certainly makes you realise how life has the ability to change in the blink of an eye.

Ginger

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I cleaned my glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The amount of cash leaking from our bank into utilities coffers. Have saved about £75p/m in the last 36hrs can't help but think the 1st World has a great deal of out to screw you about it, despite what the majority of people want.

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It's almost the founding of the first world. Fantastic savings, though. I switched energy supply to a social enterprise and have saved £11 a month. That's huge on the size of my bills (I don't use much).

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Watching someone close to us battle against cancer at the young age of 38! Made us realise just how trivial our problems and issues are and how fragile life is

BD x "

It is fragile and yet we have to treat it as unbreakable or we'd do nothing.

I have a young relative holding on tonight.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Being in a car accident on Sunday, whilst we only sustained minor injuries, bruising and a bit of whiplash it could have been much worse, certainly makes you realise how life has the ability to change in the blink of an eye.

Ginger "

It does. Which is why I find it so odd that people can be so judgemental about people in need, on here and elsewhere. None of us know what led to their need.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The forums. "

Yeah, it's not always in a good way.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"31 yr old lad at work being diagnosed with the dreaded C.

I hope he has great treatment and beats it.

"

Fingers crossed as he's in one of the best hospitals in Japan as he's gone home for treatment.

Thoughts to your young relative xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Losing my mum. Make you think life really is too short to be unhappy

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Losing my mum. Make you think life really is too short to be unhappy "

I always think life is way too long to keep being miserable. It just makes it feel even longer.

Condolences on your loss.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"31 yr old lad at work being diagnosed with the dreaded C.

I hope he has great treatment and beats it.

Fingers crossed as he's in one of the best hospitals in Japan as he's gone home for treatment.

Thoughts to your young relative xx"

If someone else dies he might get some lungs. It's not good for someone, whatever way it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My otherwise fit and healthy cousin got an infection and her organs failed. She passed away yesterday morning.

Makes you think. No one is invincible.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Getting a diagnosis that could have severely affected my lifestyle and then finding out a week later the doctor 'misread' my results!!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My otherwise fit and healthy cousin got an infection and her organs failed. She passed away yesterday morning.

Makes you think. No one is invincible. "

I am so sorry to read that. It's random and cruel. Love and look after each other.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Getting a diagnosis that could have severely affected my lifestyle and then finding out a week later the doctor 'misread' my results!! "

Trauma and relief. Hold on to the positive from it.

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