FabSwingers.com forum: Please can a bi female point us in the direction of finding a FFM

By *oxycouple69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Well weve been looking for our first FFM since last year and still hasn't happened we live on the i.o.w and are happy to travel or accommodate,and even help with her travel,any ladies that can help we would be so appreciative,any ways love to hear some ideas ??????

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Probably better to try a club for this. Single bi fems are like the holy grail on here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxycouple69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

"Probably better to try a club for this. Single bi fems are like the holy grail on here"

We did wonder if a club might be best but we don't want any attention/interest from men & obviously don't know what clubs are like for that. We've been chatting to quite a few bi females on here but as soon as we say where we're from they go quiet on us (or we find out its a fake profile!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try an organised social to meet other swingers and go from there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Probably better to try a club for this. Single bi fems are like the holy grail on here

I'd also advise clubs, there are a fair few single bi females that go to clubs.

We once had an all girl orgy at Chams lol.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Probably better to try a club for this. Single bi fems are like the holy grail on here

Lots of clubs do evenings for couples and single ladies only so you won't be bothered by single men.

Have you considered meeting another couple with a bi fem? Lots of people do this and the ladies will play together and then they play with their own partners - you don't have to have penetrative sex with the other couple if you don't want to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you considered meeting another couple with a bi fem? Lots of people do this and the ladies will play together and then they play with their own partners - you don't have to have penetrative sex with the other couple if you don't want to."

This method has worked out well for us at times.

Also clubs and probably even more socials. Just as couples have extra issues as both have to get on and be attracted to both, a bi female will need to be attracted to both of you.

There really are a lot of bi women out there, but I don't think you can find them so easily online.

In Germany and Italy we have picked up a 3rd to play in local bars as well as clubs.

Think your island location is possibly a bit of a stumbling block.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not as easy as some may think to find a lady, we were advised to go to a club and we did go but having never been to one before and it was a daytime event we were just finding our feet. Going back in June though lol.

One little tip to filter out the fakes on here ask for a live face pic quite early on before all the endless talk happens and you get nowhere fast, it’s amazing how quick the chat stops!

Geeky x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say be honest about your location. If I got chatting with you then found out quite how far away you are I'd be put off. If it's on your profile then people can make a decision whether to engage or not.

I would agree with clubs as a suggestion. Maybe try talk with some ladies who will be there and arrange to meet there and see how things go?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread