FabSwingers.com forum: How much time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I'm going on a meet I will plan my outfit a couple of days before, I may try on a dozen different pieces of sexy underwear, and then decide on the clothing. The day before I then 'tidy' up and shave where needs it.

I then bathe, do my hair and make up before heading to my meet.

This is why if a meet cancels last minute I get annoyed.

How much time do you spend?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I get out of bed

Have a barth and shave (face)

Throw on 1 of my Hawaiian shirts.

Go out to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes me to clip my toenails.

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By *helleyj69TV/TS
over a year ago

everywhere!!

It takes me ages!!! As you can imagine I need a little longer for my make up lol. Does drive me mad when I get a no show xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Gotta tidy the bastard house too in case it turns to fun!

A week. Lol

No show bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Day before I smooth the rough bits

. That Same day sort out eye brows nails outfit etc, the day of the meet plan my journey with enough time to spare over a cuppa, shower, change, dry/curl/or straighten hair add nessasary makeup, check I’ve packed lube/ condoms, wipes etc, check myself in the mirror endless times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a lot of thought in and clear my schedule and pick a place suited for both.

I hate last minute cancellations and people wasting my time.

Effort in equals rewards out

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'll let you know when I get 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm going on a meet I will plan my outfit a couple of days before, I may try on a dozen different pieces of sexy underwear, and then decide on the clothing. The day before I then 'tidy' up and shave where needs it.

I then bathe, do my hair and make up before heading to my meet.

This is why if a meet cancels last minute I get annoyed.

How much time do you spend? "

I spend similar amount of time and effort.

Luckily I've never had a meet cancelled.

Socials I've lost count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it...

Used to make more of an effort then noticed those i met never bothered much so now its just another days outfit and a bit of slap and im done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night washed the cobra changed the boxers and brushed my teeth. We didn’t even eat our steaks x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

The three S's

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've not met anyone from here yet! However I keep myself clean and groomed at all times anyway so wouldn't take me long. No different to a night out really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our meets are all spontaneous so it's usually only an hour or two between it being arranged and the guy arriving at the door

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I appreciate the time and effort that ladies put into meeting and that it takes them a lot longer to get ready so consider myself lucky that us men have it relatively easy by comparison.

For me it's a case of deciding what to wear (and ironing it if necessary) and just the usual shower and shave (although if it's a play meet I always douche even if anal isn't on the cards just so I feel clean there), apply some after shave etc then dress and out the door.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If it was a coffee social... shower and casual clean clothes.

For a club i spent ages selecting my outfit, preening and pampering, shave and moisturize all over etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I then bathe, do my hair and make up before heading to my meet.

This is why if a meet cancels last minute I get annoyed.

How much time do you spend? "

I’m pretty much the same as you, I always try to look my best even for a social as you just never know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally spend all afternoon getting ready, bath, de-fuzz, washing/drying my hair (takes me an hour to dry my bloody hair!), bit of make up etc

Luckily my Mr uses that time to tidy the house, change the bedding then jumps in the shower himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need all the time I can, takes a lot to make me passable lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's a social or a play meet.

If it's a play meet I spend time planning different outfits toys etc then the day before shave exfoliate, paint nails get brows done etc etc

For a social I would spent a little bit more time getting ready than I normally do.

I used to be easy going but if people cancel on me on a first meet then I more than likely will cut them off.

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around one hour top !

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

How on earth can that take three hours? That’s equiv to 2 football matches. Seems you girls need some male efficiency lessons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if it's a social or a play meet.

If it's a play meet I spend time planning different outfits toys etc then the day before shave exfoliate, paint nails get brows done etc etc

For a social I would spent a little bit more time getting ready than I normally do.

I used to be easy going but if people cancel on me on a first meet then I more than likely will cut them off. "

The meet sounds more appealing lol

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

How on earth can that take three hours? That’s equiv to 2 football matches. Seems you girls need some male efficiency lessons."

Several reasons....

I have a large body that therefore takes longer to shave.

Simply drying my hair takes 20 mins.

I'm a professional makeup artist and so like to take my time and do a good job on that too.

I don't like to rush

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

How on earth can that take three hours? That’s equiv to 2 football matches. Seems you girls need some male efficiency lessons."

You men have no idea

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

How on earth can that take three hours? That’s equiv to 2 football matches. Seems you girls need some male efficiency lessons.

Several reasons....

I have a large body that therefore takes longer to shave.

Simply drying my hair takes 20 mins.

I'm a professional makeup artist and so like to take my time and do a good job on that too.

I don't like to rush

Well, I must take my hat off and salute you ladies for the effort you put in. I had no idea. All these years and I thought us guys had it tougher. Having to shave everyday- although I don’t do that so often. Agonising over our best shirt and pants. Sometimes cleaning shoes.

I imagine the effort and time to get ready is part of the thrill?

Enlightened of Cambridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I then bathe, do my hair and make up before heading to my meet.

This is why if a meet cancels last minute I get annoyed.

How much time do you spend? "

I’m just like you OP, I put a lot of thought into what I’ll wear and getting ready.

I will even ask a chap what he’d like to see me in or If he’d like my hair up down...I do this because I like to know that he will like what he’s seeing’s and want me, even if it’s just a social. I make this effort because I feel good doing and tantalising someone

So if it gets cancelled short notice it really grinds my gears..or if they make no reciprocal effort in their appearance.

MrsK x

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"3 hours.

Bath

Shave my entire body

Shower and wash hair

Dry hair

Apply makeup

De frizz hair with straighteners

Body oil and lingerie/stockings goes on

Dress on

Shoes on

Out

How on earth can that take three hours? That’s equiv to 2 football matches. Seems you girls need some male efficiency lessons.

Several reasons....

I have a large body that therefore takes longer to shave.

Simply drying my hair takes 20 mins.

I'm a professional makeup artist and so like to take my time and do a good job on that too.

I don't like to rush

I imagine the effort and time to get ready is part of the thrill?

Enlightened of Cambridge "

I enjoy getting ready for a meet.

I always dress for a meet, stockings, suspenders, nice shoes and well applied makeup and styled hair. It makes me feel good and generally leads to a better meet if I'm on top form

It's always nice to see them flush a little pink when they catch a little glimpse of your stocking tops when you get up to get some sugar for your coffee too....they can't see what you have on underneath, but they know it's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new sex meet will be at least 2 weeks in the planning(longer if he needs to get tested before) Need 7 days to go back on the pill as when I'm not having regular sex I come off it. Then the diet changes, no processed crap, increase water and the days leading up to it no red meat or strong smelling foods and plenty of fruit. The day of the meet I'll bath and shower and douche my arse hole, shave all inappropriate hair, fanny and feet. Dry and style hair, make up, perfume, I don't have sexy outfits so I usually wear shorts and a vest top cos I like to chill with the guy first, have a cuppa tea and watch some telly.

I like to meet the same person for as long as possible then each meet thereafter is normal prep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A new sex meet will be at least 2 weeks in the planning(longer if he needs to get tested before) Need 7 days to go back on the pill as when I'm not having regular sex I come off it. Then the diet changes, no processed crap, increase water and the days leading up to it no red meat or strong smelling foods and plenty of fruit. The day of the meet I'll bath and shower and douche my arse hole, shave all inappropriate hair, fanny and feet. Dry and style hair, make up, perfume, I don't have sexy outfits so I usually wear shorts and a vest top cos I like to chill with the guy first, have a cuppa tea and watch some telly.

I like to meet the same person for as long as possible then each meet thereafter is normal prep. "

Hahahaha I

how you are thorough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet the same person for as long as possible then each meet thereafter is normal prep.

Hahahaha I

how you are thorough"

For you I'd want to wear some kind of flowery dress pulled down so my boobs are hanging out and I'd just want to hold you like a baby and have you suck my nipples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my time to look splendidly presentable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet the same person for as long as possible then each meet thereafter is normal prep.

Hahahaha I

how you are thorough

For you I'd want to wear some kind of flowery dress pulled down so my boobs are hanging out and I'd just want to hold you like a baby and have you suck my nipples! "

Haha your imaginative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies on here put me to shame lol! My meet bags are already packed and contain everything including different lingerie, toys,lube, condoms etc Bath, hair, makeup; half hour max, holdups, dress and heels then I'm on my way

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and keep myself presentable at all times and on the day of the meet make sure I leave time to shower and freshen up. My “kit” bag containing protection and the like is always close at hand should I need it.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I then bathe, do my hair and make up before heading to my meet.

This is why if a meet cancels last minute I get annoyed.

How much time do you spend? "

Ha. Wow..that is some preparation hun.

Takes me between 2 days and 3 hours to be ready for a meet. All depending whether i have to have my hair done or not

. If not then it's literally. Home,shower,spray of aftershave and body spray,shave and i'm ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never really thought about it...

Used to make more of an effort then noticed those i met never bothered much so now its just another days outfit and a bit of slap and im done lol"

This ^

If you have already met that person before I reckon you subconsciously make less effort. You don’t need to make a fantastic first impression.

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