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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That I’m a lesbian!

A man added me on a chat app. I told him I wasn’t interested, and explained why (he asked). He continued to message, saying how much of a turn on it is to be told ‘no’.

Alarm bells ringing?!

I ignored him, and eventually he told me he would love to ‘dom’ me. I explained that if he was to ‘dom’ me, I would have all the power as a sub. And that he would have to respect me, which he clearly doesn’t, as I’ve told him I’m not interested, explained why, and asked him to leave me alone.

The reply?

‘Short hair, fucking lesbian’ and alas, I was finally left alone.

Question is, do I tell my husband that I’m a lesbian? He should have seen the signs, I’ve had short hair for five out of seven years of our relationship.

What other lovely insults that make no sense have you beautiful lot had the honour of receiving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to work at a place and got called a fat cu..... daily.

I said I maybe a cu.... but I'm not fat.

Bald cu.... would have been perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Used to work at a place and got called a fat cu..... daily.

I said I maybe a cu.... but I'm not fat.

Bald cu.... would have been perfect. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to work at a place and got called a fat cu..... daily.

I said I maybe a cu.... but I'm not fat.

Bald cu.... would have been perfect.

"

Anyway. You're alright you - for a lesbian

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Used to work at a place and got called a fat cu..... daily.

I said I maybe a cu.... but I'm not fat.

Bald cu.... would have been perfect.

Anyway. You're alright you - for a lesbian "

Haha. I’ve actually been sent messages similar to that, because of my current status! always reply with ‘what has my looks got to do with my sexual orientation?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards "

Bet you are a wanker though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though "

Only after 6pm, it's my secret identity

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though

Only after 6pm, it's my secret identity "

Only 46 minutes to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though

Only after 6pm, it's my secret identity

Only 46 minutes to go "

Only 15 past 12 where I am right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though

Only after 6pm, it's my secret identity

Only 46 minutes to go

Only 15 past 12 where I am right now "

Ah, bit of a longer wait then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get put in the lesbian box all because i have short hair, a bit of a tomboy and will get on and do things for myself rather than mamby pambying about.

.....what did frustrate me a bit was a guy at a local social, i got asked,

am i?

am i what?

You know

No idea what you're talking about

You know

....i didn't twig at first and then it dawned i said is it because of how I'm dressed and my short hair and he said yes.....now i understand if it was from a 'normal' guy but it was from someone who had a lot of piercings and tattoos, someone who would be put in the 'thug' box

I told him, of all the people to put me in a box because of how i looked i didn't expect it to come from him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get put in the lesbian box all because i have short hair, a bit of a tomboy and will get on and do things for myself rather than mamby pambying about.

.....what did frustrate me a bit was a guy at a local social, i got asked,

am i?

am i what?

You know

No idea what you're talking about

You know

....i didn't twig at first and then it dawned i said is it because of how I'm dressed and my short hair and he said yes.....now i understand if it was from a 'normal' guy but it was from someone who had a lot of piercings and tattoos, someone who would be put in the 'thug' box

I told him, of all the people to put me in a box because of how i looked i didn't expect it to come from him "

God that’s awful!! I hate stereotypes. I’ve had short hair since I was fourteen, I’m not girly at all and I swear far too much. Automatically makes me a lesbian, doesn’t it?

I’m not insulted by this. I’m bi-curious. I’m insulted that people use it as an insult towards me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get put in the lesbian box all because i have short hair, a bit of a tomboy and will get on and do things for myself rather than mamby pambying about.

.....what did frustrate me a bit was a guy at a local social, i got asked,

am i?

am i what?

You know

No idea what you're talking about

You know

....i didn't twig at first and then it dawned i said is it because of how I'm dressed and my short hair and he said yes.....now i understand if it was from a 'normal' guy but it was from someone who had a lot of piercings and tattoos, someone who would be put in the 'thug' box

I told him, of all the people to put me in a box because of how i looked i didn't expect it to come from him

God that’s awful!! I hate stereotypes. I’ve had short hair since I was fourteen, I’m not girly at all and I swear far too much. Automatically makes me a lesbian, doesn’t it?

I’m not insulted by this. I’m bi-curious. I’m insulted that people use it as an insult towards me "

your description of yourself is exactly like me i swear waaaaay to much

I'm not insulted just frustrated at being labelled without getting to know me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get put in the lesbian box all because i have short hair, a bit of a tomboy and will get on and do things for myself rather than mamby pambying about.

.....what did frustrate me a bit was a guy at a local social, i got asked,

am i?

am i what?

You know

No idea what you're talking about

You know

....i didn't twig at first and then it dawned i said is it because of how I'm dressed and my short hair and he said yes.....now i understand if it was from a 'normal' guy but it was from someone who had a lot of piercings and tattoos, someone who would be put in the 'thug' box

I told him, of all the people to put me in a box because of how i looked i didn't expect it to come from him

God that’s awful!! I hate stereotypes. I’ve had short hair since I was fourteen, I’m not girly at all and I swear far too much. Automatically makes me a lesbian, doesn’t it?

I’m not insulted by this. I’m bi-curious. I’m insulted that people use it as an insult towards me

your description of yourself is exactly like me i swear waaaaay to much

I'm not insulted just frustrated at being labelled without getting to know me "

I feel ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody lesbians with your short hair

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

I would let your husband catch you in bed with another woman. I’m sure he’d be furious and teach the naughty pair of you a good lesson x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m frigid. Clearly.

That I’m fat and ugly...no shit Sherlock on the fat part!!

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a random insult, but once when I was walking hand in hand with my then girlfriend, a bloke went past and muttered 'lesbian c*nts' under his breath. I turned to my girlfriend and said that I'm not one, but I definitely have one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a random insult, but once when I was walking hand in hand with my then girlfriend, a bloke went past and muttered 'lesbian c*nts' under his breath. I turned to my girlfriend and said that I'm not one, but I definitely have one. "

Oh dear! When I was 12 I got my very first girlfriend. Was walking down the corridor at school, very shy and embarrassed and someone shouted ‘dyke!’

Don’t know what came over me, but I turned and said ‘And? You’re just jealous because I get more pussy’ and walked away! Don’t know what came over me. Saw the guy in class later on and got an apology, very sheepish. Been friends since - he was only 12 at the time. Still makes me laugh though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I am stuck up.

Because I didn't want to meet up with the guy.

Surprise surprise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been told I am stuck up.

Because I didn't want to meet up with the guy.

Surprise surprise.

"

It’s always when you reject them isn’t it? I’m ignorant too, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told I should be grateful that a “straight” man was willing to fuck me.

I replied, take a number and join the queue.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was called a ginger pensioner on another site. I was neither ginger nor a pensioner at the time and don't consider either an insult.

Still my loss eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I am stuck up.

Because I didn't want to meet up with the guy.

Surprise surprise.

It’s always when you reject them isn’t it? I’m ignorant too, lol "

Oh yeah that's part of the decor

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though "

Two types of men. Wankers and liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone called me a donut once after reading my forum posts.

I said if I'm a donut I better be a ring donut so that I have no filling that could be hurt by his comment!

He called me a wanker afterwards

Bet you are a wanker though

Two types of men. Wankers and liars "

Bahahaha

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