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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go dogging

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Go dogging "

An excellent idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go dogging "

Just kidding

Id go at cooking course or a language course... Great way to make new friends and learn one thing or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

"

Talking to strangers on the street is usually where people start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go dogging

An excellent idea "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Go dogging

An excellent idea

"

What’s up with that ?

We meet some lovely people dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some social activities that you've never tried before, reading groups, exercise classes, college courses, loads of ways to get yourself out there. This is such a big step forward, you're very brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

"

Volunteer

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Been wondering the same thing myself lately. Some good ideas coming so will follow with intrest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started going bowling, just to get me out of the pub on my night off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go dogging

An excellent idea

What’s up with that ?

We meet some lovely people dogging "

Random.sausage in a car park isn't on my bucket list

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There are social websites like the Brighton cafe society or walking the downs group etc. Social then your home town might do it.

I’d do ya, btw.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are social websites like the Brighton cafe society or walking the downs group etc. Social then your home town might do it.

I’d do ya, btw. "

It's a bit of a drive....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"There are social websites like the Brighton cafe society or walking the downs group etc. Social then your home town might do it.

I’d do ya, btw.

It's a bit of a drive.... "

Er.....you’re not coming to Hove?

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By *parky4gMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Try the fab runners club on the forums

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Go dogging

An excellent idea

What’s up with that ?

We meet some lovely people dogging

Random.sausage in a car park isn't on my bucket list"

Ah ok , fair enough .

Try the volunteering suggestion then perhaps .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Start going to the same places e.g. coffee shop at regular times, often other people go at the same time each day weekend. Say "good morning/afternoon to them".

Evening classes are good for social opportunities but I've been attending them all my adult life and people can be quite closed off.

Invite everyone in your street for a drinks and snacks evening, we did that when we moved in here.

Get a puppy and go to puppy classes.

Volunteer in a charity shop on a Saturday afternoon.

Advertise in the paper.

Some areas have social groups that organise events but these (despite their name) tend to be very cliquey.

Organise a fab social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are social websites like the Brighton cafe society or walking the downs group etc. Social then your home town might do it.

I’d do ya, btw.

It's a bit of a drive....

Er.....you’re not coming to Hove? "

No pet, I'm.not... I shall stay up in geordieland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good ideas,... I want to cut fab ties tho....

Tired of being just a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have started going bowling, just to get me out of the pub on my night off"

It's good fun... Used to do that

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Learn to swing dance - spend your evenings in the arms of charming, well-groomed men!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

book yourself a meal evening and get dressed and go for the meal.

or find another to go for a meal with you.

as you can get already and enjoy the evening without having to cook it.

another point you could end up meeting someone there that might be interested in a meal at a restaurant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

Talking to strangers on the street is usually where people start."

They look at me funny and walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

Talking to strangers on the street is usually where people start."

You have an appropriate user name for that advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this. I've moved from a area wherw I had loads of friends to a villiage where I have none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

Talking to strangers on the street is usually where people start.

They look at me funny and walk away. "

You win some you lose some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got a Spice group near you? I was in it for a while, you pay a small monthly fee to be a member then just book and pay onto whatever activities you fancy. Could be anything from bowling, rambles, theatre, dancing, rifle shooting, all sorts! It's primarily singles and I found everyone really friendly as they're all in the same situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crossfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a WI. Ours does do many ace things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/04/18 21:46:47]"

Try again... get fit and meet a great bunch of people at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensible suggestions for the socially inept please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you work, do they organise social outings at work ? Join a book club or set one up? Aquacise class or similar.

Dog walking ? Even volunteer at your local dogs home - I think dog walkers are very sociable.

Quiz nights at a local pub, Sunday nights there are lots around here. You can join some people already there.

Singles dinner nights out, I’ve seen these advertised where a group of singles all meet for dinner somewhere locally. I knew someone that went and really enjoyed it. It’s a social thing nothing to do with dating.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Right guys...

I'm on a mission to find myself more friends and social opportunities to meet people the traditional way.

I'm terrible at the high heels tight dress car thing,and don't get out enough.

How can I overcome my lack of social opportunities?

"

I don't see the problem, The Hermit lifestyle is my end goal. I just need to crack the early retirement thing then it's plain sailing to Hermit bliss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you work, do they organise social outings at work ? Join a book club or set one up? Aquacise class or similar.

Dog walking ? Even volunteer at your local dogs home - I think dog walkers are very sociable.

Quiz nights at a local pub, Sunday nights there are lots around here. You can join some people already there.

Singles dinner nights out, I’ve seen these advertised where a group of singles all meet for dinner somewhere locally. I knew someone that went and really enjoyed it. It’s a social thing nothing to do with dating. "

I.dont want to socialise with colleagues...

Sadly allergic to dogs...

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I recently moved to Oxfordshire and one of the best things I found was an app/website called meetup. People in the area post meetups where you can meet people with the same interests. So, I am a member of my local book group, film group, social group where you meetup for drinks on a Friday night. You can go to as many or as few as you want. Some charge a cover fee (the organisers are charged for having groups).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Try again... get fit and meet a great bunch of people at the same time "

I'm.already a gym member... But its a female only one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you got a Spice group near you? I was in it for a while, you pay a small monthly fee to be a member then just book and pay onto whatever activities you fancy. Could be anything from bowling, rambles, theatre, dancing, rifle shooting, all sorts! It's primarily singles and I found everyone really friendly as they're all in the same situation."

Mention spice up here and you will get drugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start dancing, i dance contemporary, jive n blues.. Whats not to like, you wont regret it

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