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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's essentially a reply.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Perhaps they're still laughing? Maybe it's been pinned to a dartboard?

Just going from what I've been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me yet but I did got ignored once when I sent a picture of my right foot.

Was devasted

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Is it more annoying than being ignored when you send a message without a face picture? It's just another way of saying no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it but it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get ignored. I'm an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic. "

Better than a rude reply surely?

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Its the first rule of Fab.. ignor everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics. Send cock pics. They love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics. Send cock pics. They love it. "

back that up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it more annoying than being ignored when you send a message without a face picture? It's just another way of saying no.

I get that, they completely up for meeting, ready to give their address. And they messaged me.

But as soon as I sent a face pic they just completely ignored me. Just makes me feel ugly. And I've been told I'm not a model but I'm not ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often get ignored. I'm an acquired taste"

You get ignored? Hardly an aquired taste.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic. "
Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos we’re ugly mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?"

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't let things on here annoy you, this place is meant to be about fun. Take a chill pill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often get ignored. I'm an acquired taste"

Really??? Looking great from your pics...

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Is it more annoying than being ignored when you send a message without a face picture? It's just another way of saying no.

I get that, they completely up for meeting, ready to give their address. And they messaged me.

But as soon as I sent a face pic they just completely ignored me. Just makes me feel ugly. And I've been told I'm not a model but I'm not ugly. "

They obviously think otherwise. Just suck it up and move onto someone who does find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You shouldn't let things on here annoy you, this place is meant to be about fun. Take a chill pill

I know its about fun. But if you have no fun then you're not gonna be happy about it. Its happened so many times now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never happened to me yet but I did got ignored once when I sent a picture of my right foot.

Was devasted "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Never happened to me yet but I did got ignored once when I sent a picture of my right foot.

Was devasted "

Was it to Daniel Day Lewis? He prefers the left one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x "

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body. "

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy. "

They started the conversation, went through how the meet would go and then was sorting put address and time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy.

They started the conversation, went through how the meet would go and then was sorting put address and time. "

And? I’m sorry but they obviously didn’t like the look of you, if they’re anything like me, and the majority of people on fab, they won’t fuck someone they aren’t attracted too. If you delete your sent messages, you won’t be obsessing over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me. "

Their loss move on.. more fish in the sea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry over it - plenty more on here to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me.

Their loss move on.. more fish in the sea x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy.

They started the conversation, went through how the meet would go and then was sorting put address and time.

I get that. I'm the same. Over reacting then.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy.

They started the conversation, went through how the meet would go and then was sorting put address and time. "

Do you think it may have been a single male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

But they never deleted the message. So it kinda leaves me hanging. I'd prefer them to say I'm not their type. They complimented my profile and body.

I’ve told you before. Delete your sent messages! Then you’ll never know if they delete the message or not. Then you’re not left ‘hanging’.

I never EVER delete messages. So if this is the case, I leave half of the men that message me ‘hanging’, when in reality, I’m lazy.

They started the conversation, went through how the meet would go and then was sorting put address and time.

I get that. I'm the same. Over reacting then.

Just move on. Would you want to fuck someone who wasn’t attracted to you? I wouldn’t. You’ll find someone to verify you soon enough young one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never happened to me yet but I did got ignored once when I sent a picture of my right foot.

Was devasted "

Should've sent the left one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me.

Their loss move on.. more fish in the sea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic. "

The kindest form of criticism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it more annoying than being ignored when you send a message without a face picture? It's just another way of saying no.

I get that, they completely up for meeting, ready to give their address. And they messaged me.

But as soon as I sent a face pic they just completely ignored me. Just makes me feel ugly. And I've been told I'm not a model but I'm not ugly. "

It's crap that they didn't have the decency to reply. Be glad you won't have to meet someone as rude as that. Or tell yourself they fancied you so much they decided against meeting you in case they fell in love. x

I'm really disliking the whole "just move on and find another" chant that always happens on the forums. It's treating people like meat on a conveyor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it more annoying than being ignored when you send a message without a face picture? It's just another way of saying no.

I get that, they completely up for meeting, ready to give their address. And they messaged me.

But as soon as I sent a face pic they just completely ignored me. Just makes me feel ugly. And I've been told I'm not a model but I'm not ugly.

I'm really disliking the whole "just move on and find another" chant that always happens on the forums. It's treating people like meat on a conveyor. "

Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its either respond and risk getting abuse or ignore..

I always choose to ignore for that reason..

Unless they are fit that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its either respond and risk getting abuse or ignore..

I always choose to ignore for that reason..

Unless they are fit that is"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was prob just a guy, not a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was prob just a guy, not a couple"

Wasn't. They are verified.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, someone asked me for a face pic in the first message. I sent it, why not.

They viewed it, deleted it, ignored me.

I just blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll drive yourself insane trying to fathom people's actions and motives here. Move on

And if they lack the manners to be straight with you then bollox to them anyway

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

All the time dude its a fickle place. Don't worry about it

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Not sure how many days you have been waiting for a reply. Maybe they have a life outside fab and haven't got round to it.

Why not send them a message to query if they no longer wish to meet you and that you would rather know their thoughts.

Don't pester them, but one message to clarify and if it's a no, then block them , so you don't accidently contact them in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was prob just a guy, not a couple

Wasn't. They are verified. "

Unfortunately that does not mean they are genuine..

Verifications can be faked also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it... I send a lovely message to someone with a face pic. They fail to respond and after a window of time I figure that's a "no". So it seems only gentlemanly to block them so I don't accidentally message them again in a couple of months time. And this goes on until one day I log onto Fab and see there's absolutely no one else on the site and figure "oh well there's all my options gone" and I leave

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic. "

No. Have to say never. If anything their determination to meet me just grows and grows.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I find it a bit odd when people start arranging things for a meet before face pics have been exchanged tbh.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a bit odd when people start arranging things for a meet before face pics have been exchanged tbh. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected "

Why does my age always come into the subject?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? "
your username?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That how it goes on here the women have loads of men to pick from so give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You shouldn't let things on here annoy you, this place is meant to be about fun. Take a chill pill

I know its about fun. But if you have no fun then you're not gonna be happy about it. Its happened so many times now. "

It's all a state of mind though. There's only yourself who is responsible for how it makes you feel. Try being more pro active in the scene, rather than relying solely on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be? "

I’m 21 and my username isn’t my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You shouldn't let things on here annoy you, this place is meant to be about fun. Take a chill pill

I know its about fun. But if you have no fun then you're not gonna be happy about it. Its happened so many times now.

It's all a state of mind though. There's only yourself who is responsible for how it makes you feel. Try being more pro active in the scene, rather than relying solely on this site."

I know you have clubs and socials. I've been trying to get to a social but none have been close enough or the time has been wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be?

I’m 21 and my username isn’t my age

Fair enough, but I didn't know what else to put

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Why does my age always come into the subject? "
Because, contrary to what some folk say, it’s more than just a number.

Thankfully, it’s one thing about you that changes without you even having to do anything.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be?

I’m 21 and my username isn’t my age

Fair enough, but I didn't know what else to put

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I've read your profile..... and taking the characteristics you say you have ..... how about SensualGuy... PatientMale..... Sarky Sod - or Terry the Bastard. I like the last one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be?

I’m 21 and my username isn’t my age

Fair enough, but I didn't know what else to put

I've read your profile..... and taking the characteristics you say you have ..... how about SensualGuy... PatientMale..... Sarky Sod - or Terry the Bastard. I like the last one

I get called terry sometimes and I am the original meaning of a bastard.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? your username?

Thats because I'm 23. On fab its like being a child because most of the people on here have kids my age. What else would my username be? "
Try using your imagination? Or not. You asked the question not I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New username; 59 Yug Gnuoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"New username; 59 Yug Gnuoy"

What does that even mean?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"New username; 59 Yug Gnuoy

What does that even mean? "

Facepalm.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Reverse it ......... n work it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username; 59 Yug Gnuoy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reverse it ......... n work it. "

I sang that in my head

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm doing a lab report at the same time. And I'm tired.

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By *unning LinguistMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

Have you any idea how many messages single women receive? Well let me tell you, it's into the hundreds....per day. That's an awful lot of '10 second slots'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

‘Why not? What is your type?’

‘Ok I respect that but I think you should give me a shot’

‘Well you’re a fat slut anyway I just felt sorry for you’

‘Thanks for fucking wasting my time, reporting you’

Are just lovely examples of some of the messages women receive when they turn men down. And that’s before a full blown conversation before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

When lasses send that now they get loads of abuse. So I kinda understand why they ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a chill pill, I am not having a go here, so please don't think I am, but you are not really creating a good impression of your self on here, relax, try and get to know people, without being pushy or desperate, it will happen xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm doing a lab report at the same time. And I'm tired.

What's to report ..... They are golden and hump a lot. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?"

I like the rude replies.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Better than a rude reply surely?

I like the rude replies."

Good job Fatty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm doing a lab report at the same time. And I'm tired.

What's to report ..... They are golden and hump a lot. End of."

My mother in law has a black one. She doesn’t hump a lot either! (Both the lab and the mother in law....)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take a chill pill, I am not having a go here, so please don't think I am, but you are not really creating a good impression of your self on here, relax, try and get to know people, without being pushy or desperate, it will happen xx"

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot. "

I think you fit in well here. Persistent with just the right amount of fucking annoying ......

God should smite all the bland people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm doing a lab report at the same time. And I'm tired.

What's to report ..... They are golden and hump a lot. End of."

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Its for electronics laboratory experiments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot.

I think you fit in well here. Persistent with just the right amount of fucking annoying ......

God should smite all the bland people."

Me, annoying? You sure?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot.

I think you fit in well here. Persistent with just the right amount of fucking annoying ......

God should smite all the bland people.

Me, annoying? You sure? "

I'm sure. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot.

I think you fit in well here. Persistent with just the right amount of fucking annoying ......

God should smite all the bland people.

Me, annoying? You sure? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do that. This was just a statement of what happens alot.

I think you fit in well here. Persistent with just the right amount of fucking annoying ......

God should smite all the bland people.

Me, annoying? You sure?

I'm sure. x"

I prefer memorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject? "

You lack experience when you're younger. Not your fault and we have all been there but this is fab and you need to learn not to get so hung up and serious about these kind of things.

Forget about it and move on to the next one... If something's meant to be it will and you grumbling about it on the forums sadly won't change a thing.

Because you're so young you probably have less constraints than us older ones so you should be enjoying the experience to the max.

I know I do when I can

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By *unning LinguistMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Any guy who reacts to a polite decline with abuse is a total and utter dickhead. However I would hope they're in the minority so please don't tar us all with the same brush. In this case however there have presumably been several messages exchanged until a face pic was sent. To ignore the sender at that point is ignorance. Plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might change my name to PrincessNiki50. Seeing as I look 21 it will avoid future misunderstandings

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject?

You lack experience when you're younger. Not your fault and we have all been there but this is fab and you need to learn not to get so hung up and serious about these kind of things.

Forget about it and move on to the next one... If something's meant to be it will and you grumbling about it on the forums sadly won't change a thing.

Because you're so young you probably have less constraints than us older ones so you should be enjoying the experience to the max.

I know I do when I can

I don't care about it usually. But when it happens 10 times in a row after talking. It kinda gets to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignored? whats that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any guy who reacts to a polite decline with abuse is a total and utter dickhead. However I would hope they're in the minority so please don't tar us all with the same brush. In this case however there have presumably been several messages exchanged until a face pic was sent. To ignore the sender at that point is ignorance. Plain and simple."

You'd be surprised. I've had private conversations with a fair few lasses about this, and its a pretty average response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a single male, what do you expect, I am at the other end of the age spectrum, so just as difficult, you are not the only one who get ignored, rejected or what ever, it happens to us all, what you have to remember is as single males, we far outnumber the single ladies, ok your age may out some off, I have the same problem, they may not like the look of you, I have the same problem, at the end of the day it's a game, don't take it personally, don't take it seriously, Christ if I got upset with all the knockbacks, I would never show my face, which to be honest is well lived in , try to convey who you are in your forum posts, some will run others won't, does it matter, not really, is it life or death, not at all, it could be months before you get a meet, it could be next week, go with the flow mate

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not how many times you get knocked back; it's about how many times you keep going forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject?

You lack experience when you're younger. Not your fault and we have all been there but this is fab and you need to learn not to get so hung up and serious about these kind of things.

Forget about it and move on to the next one... If something's meant to be it will and you grumbling about it on the forums sadly won't change a thing.

Because you're so young you probably have less constraints than us older ones so you should be enjoying the experience to the max.

I know I do when I can

I don't care about it usually. But when it happens 10 times in a row after talking. It kinda gets to you. "

I understand that too... Just try not to let it get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone from "hot as fuck" to an "ugly tranny with issues" immediately after saying no thanks

They are a minority though on the whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not how many times you get knocked back; it's about how many times you keep going forward. "

On here and in the non Fab world too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people take fab waaaaaaaaay to seriously... Mind you, the OP is very young so perhaps to be expected

Why does my age always come into the subject?

You lack experience when you're younger. Not your fault and we have all been there but this is fab and you need to learn not to get so hung up and serious about these kind of things.

Forget about it and move on to the next one... If something's meant to be it will and you grumbling about it on the forums sadly won't change a thing.

Because you're so young you probably have less constraints than us older ones so you should be enjoying the experience to the max.

I know I do when I can

I don't care about it usually. But when it happens 10 times in a row after talking. It kinda gets to you.

I understand that too... Just try not to let it get to you

I understand that. I don't consider myself ugly as I've been called cute and nice looking. Never fit though, and I agree I'm no model.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"It's not how many times you get knocked back; it's about how many times you keep going forward. "

You see, I try to approach life like that. Sometimes I get knocked down, but then, straight away, I get up again. I say to myself, “You ain’t never gonna keep me down.” And then I counsel myself for using a double negative. So vulgar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not how many times you get knocked back; it's about how many times you keep going forward.

I love that song, bad grammar and all

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's not how many times you get knocked back; it's about how many times you keep going forward.

Well one must confess that one simply used an altered cliche for effect. Sadly for you there is not coming back from a double negative. You're done for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic. "

Did they actually ask you personally for a face pic or is it just on their profile? If it's the former then think she should have at least messaged "not for me" but if it's the later then hey-oh!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Sadly for you there is not coming back from a double negative. You're done for. "

It’s like that time I sent an email with “roof” when I meant “ceiling”. I came close to seppuku that day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Did they actually ask you personally for a face pic or is it just on their profile? If it's the former then think she should have at least messaged "not for me" but if it's the later then hey-oh!

It was a couple that wanted to meet. We got to the arranging time and address for me to go tonight (last night now). Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages."

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts."

All what?

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what? "

my what small hands you have

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

my what small hands you have

Mine are average sized. Still lost.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

my what small hands you have

small enough to cover a cocktail sausage......

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what? "

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq3ZbQuMD3U

Daphne and Celeste - U.G.L.Y. - YouTube

Don't they teach you anything at university?

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

my what small hands you have

small enough to cover a cocktail sausage...... "

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"All what? "
Can write lab reports. Can’t use google.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq3ZbQuMD3U

Daphne and Celeste - U.G.L.Y. - YouTube

Don't they teach you anything at university?

I know that song doesn't apply to me. So I can't see that being an issue and if anyone said shit like that to me they'd get told to fuck off and blocked.

And that song is very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts."

Saw them last weekend. Top gig

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

my what small hands you have

small enough to cover a cocktail sausage...... "

Can't see how that would bother me when you can't even show a face pic. Shows alot about you.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I know that song doesn't apply to me. So I can't see that being an issue and if anyone said shit like that to me they'd get told to fuck off and blocked. And that song is very annoying. "

Do you take everything literally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know that song doesn't apply to me. So I can't see that being an issue and if anyone said shit like that to me they'd get told to fuck off and blocked. And that song is very annoying.

Do you take everything literally?"

No, I just love peole to think that while being sarcastic. People in person have said that sometimes they can't tell if I'm being serious or joking till I laugh.

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over a year ago

"Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Could’ve been worse. They could’ve gone all Daphne & Celeste on your ass. That shit hurts.

All what?

my what small hands you have

small enough to cover a cocktail sausage......

Can't see how that would bother me when you can't even show a face pic. Shows alot about you. "

I CAN,,,,I can,,,,i can ,,let do the can can

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"No, I just love peole to think that while being sarcastic. People in person have said that sometimes they can't tell if I'm being serious or joking till I laugh. "

I’m not sure you really understand what sarcasm is or how to use it. Either that, or you’ve just picked a really bad defence. Don’t worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often get ignored. I'm an acquired taste"

I'm ignoring that comment

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over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Did they actually ask you personally for a face pic or is it just on their profile? If it's the former then think she should have at least messaged "not for me" but if it's the later then hey-oh!

It was a couple that wanted to meet. We got to the arranging time and address for me to go tonight (last night now). Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Sod 'um, mate, consider yourself better than them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Did they actually ask you personally for a face pic or is it just on their profile? If it's the former then think she should have at least messaged "not for me" but if it's the later then hey-oh!

It was a couple that wanted to meet. We got to the arranging time and address for me to go tonight (last night now). Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Sod 'um, mate, consider yourself better than them.

You can't go around being self entitled as that just makes you a dick and, nobody likes a self entitled guy. Its just that I'm not their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been an interesting thread.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Don't leave it til you are arranging to meet to send a face pic, get it in early.... like with one of your first messages. This way you dont waste each others time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Annoying getting ignored after you send a face pic.

Did they actually ask you personally for a face pic or is it just on their profile? If it's the former then think she should have at least messaged "not for me" but if it's the later then hey-oh!

It was a couple that wanted to meet. We got to the arranging time and address for me to go tonight (last night now). Asks for a face pic and just nothing. Exchange around 20 messages.

Sod 'um, mate, consider yourself better than them.

You can't go around being self entitled as that just makes you a dick and, nobody likes a self entitled guy. Its just that I'm not their type. "

I like your style.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We need to remember it for the next time, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's "self-entitled" to think "sod them then".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it appears rejection. It’s painful, can knock out your confidence as well as the disappointment felt after everything being built up to just about ready for a great night

However....

There could be other circumstances, death in the family, dropped phone and broke it etc, they weren’t a genuine couple or the photo you sent was not an optimum one of you or they just didn’t find a chemistry connection when they saw your face ......lots of reasons UNKNOWN.

By you going through this process shows you take risk, rejection is expected at times.

Be kind to yourself.... you like who you are, your family and friends like who you are. People don’t shy away and turn their heads when you walk down the street, do they? Bring reality into your thinking.

Be kind to you. ONE couple may have rejected you - that’s it .....just one couple who you don’t know. So perspective is required here. One couple in the world of billions, perhaps didn’t like your face in a sexual way.

So what have you gained.....

Support in FAB

Some good advice in the forum

Perhaps self growth

Perhaps take some different face pics

Awareness it’s just one couple who chose not to reply - reason assumed - reason unknown

That you are so much more than one apparent rejection

Have fun .... enjoy the world darling ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to all. You just have to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me. "

It was probably your Mum

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over a year ago

"I never send a face pic straight away like to get to the person first, good personality is more attractive x

I didn't. They asked as they were sending their address to me.

It was probably your Mum

pmsl

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over a year ago

"Sad that a simple "sorry, you're not my type" seems to be beyond most of the ladies on fab. It takes about 10 seconds to type and send.

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as has been mentioned before, it can cause more problems by responding, I don't get upset with thanks but no thanks reply, I know exactly where I stand, I will say thanks for the reply, and move on, I don't question their decision

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