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Empty nest syndrome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My youngest has just left home. I feel completely lost in an empty house. How have you survived this feeling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill it with lots of shagging! Woohoo

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I bought two kittens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately I’m not allowed any pets. Otherwise I would definitely get a fur baby or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to distract yourself and keep yourself busy. Have the radio on so you always have background noise. Get out and about and enjoy your own space and not having anyone to answer to or explain where you're going to.

Host a Fab party?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I have that to come I'm not looking forward to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep busy. Plan things to do that you couldn't before, like nights away. Resist the temptation to just veg on the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter went today for a week with her Dad. Kind of feel like I should be doing something now but I'm still sitting on the sofa watching tv like I would if she was here and in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting for my last one to fly away. I think I may be waiting forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My youngest has just left home. I feel completely lost in an empty house. How have you survived this feeling? "

The 3 dogs are my babies since mine left home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest is gone, two more to go and we can get on with our travel plans uninterrupted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep busy. Plan things to do that you couldn't before, like nights away. Resist the temptation to just veg on the sofa. "

I feel incredibly sad, like I’ve lost my best friend. The sofa seems like it’s apart of me already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My daughter went today for a week with her Dad. Kind of feel like I should be doing something now but I'm still sitting on the sofa watching tv like I would if she was here and in bed. "

Totally get you on this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to distract yourself and keep yourself busy. Have the radio on so you always have background noise. Get out and about and enjoy your own space and not having anyone to answer to or explain where you're going to.

Host a Fab party?"

Good advice thank you. Not sure about a Fab party tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a new hobby, something different to focus on.

Are some of your friends in the same situation? Could you go out with them?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We actively looked forward to ours leaving home. Our youngest went a week after their 17th birthday.

It wasn't because we didn't like having them at home but because we deliberately looked on it as a celebration of them moving on with their lives in the way they're supposed to.

We enjoyed having the freedom to do things we hadn't been able to for years.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When they leave we will be rattling around in a big house so might move and downsize, free up some equity and buy a yacht.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they leave we will be rattling around in a big house so might move and downsize, free up some equity and buy a yacht. "

We're planning on an apartment I'm Portugal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they leave we will be rattling around in a big house so might move and downsize, free up some equity and buy a yacht.

We're planning on an apartment I'm Portugal "

*in

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"When they leave we will be rattling around in a big house so might move and downsize, free up some equity and buy a yacht.

We're planning on an apartment I'm Portugal

*in"
that’s a good idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When they leave we will be rattling around in a big house so might move and downsize, free up some equity and buy a yacht. "

We downsized but we didn't buy a yacht, we gave up work

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