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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

This isn't a look at me thread I just wanted to see if anyone else had lost a meet for a funny or random reason ?

I noticed a younger woman on fab looking for fun with an older man so as you do I dropped her a polite message and photo which is usually as far as it gets but imagine my surprise when I get a reply ?!

However excitement soon turns to normality when she said that she would have met me but one of my veris has over 60 meets

I explained that when I met her she'd only had around 15 veris and to be fair out of the 60 veris she's met a few of the guys multiple times and done a veri for each meet and it was over something like 6 plus years

Oh well you can't miss what you haven't had lol

I would say it's her loss but it's probably mine

What reasons have you been given ?

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"This isn't a look at me thread I just wanted to see if anyone else had lost a meet for a funny or random reason ?

I noticed a younger woman on fab looking for fun with an older man so as you do I dropped her a polite message and photo which is usually as far as it gets but imagine my surprise when I get a reply ?!

However excitement soon turns to normality when she said that she would have met me but one of my veris has over 60 meets

I explained that when I met her she'd only had around 15 veris and to be fair out of the 60 veris she's met a few of the guys multiple times and done a veri for each meet and it was over something like 6 plus years

Oh well you can't miss what you haven't had lol

I would say it's her loss but it's probably mine

What reasons have you been given ?"

You both had fair points i suppose, as i won't meet guys that have met certain females on here. I couldn't give two fks what others think of that either, we all have freedom of choice...but i also understand that kind of thing can be frustrating, guilty through association...such is life.

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"This isn't a look at me thread I just wanted to see if anyone else had lost a meet for a funny or random reason ?

I noticed a younger woman on fab looking for fun with an older man so as you do I dropped her a polite message and photo which is usually as far as it gets but imagine my surprise when I get a reply ?!

However excitement soon turns to normality when she said that she would have met me but one of my veris has over 60 meets

I explained that when I met her she'd only had around 15 veris and to be fair out of the 60 veris she's met a few of the guys multiple times and done a veri for each meet and it was over something like 6 plus years

Oh well you can't miss what you haven't had lol

I would say it's her loss but it's probably mine

What reasons have you been given ?

You both had fair points i suppose, as i won't meet guys that have met certain females on here. I couldn't give two fks what others think of that either, we all have freedom of choice...but i also understand that kind of thing can be frustrating, guilty through association...such is life. "

Such is life indeed,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't a look at me thread I just wanted to see if anyone else had lost a meet for a funny or random reason ?

I noticed a younger woman on fab looking for fun with an older man so as you do I dropped her a polite message and photo which is usually as far as it gets but imagine my surprise when I get a reply ?!

However excitement soon turns to normality when she said that she would have met me but one of my veris has over 60 meets

I explained that when I met her she'd only had around 15 veris and to be fair out of the 60 veris she's met a few of the guys multiple times and done a veri for each meet and it was over something like 6 plus years

Oh well you can't miss what you haven't had lol

I would say it's her loss but it's probably mine

What reasons have you been given ?

You both had fair points i suppose, as i won't meet guys that have met certain females on here. I couldn't give two fks what others think of that either, we all have freedom of choice...but i also understand that kind of thing can be frustrating, guilty through association...such is life. "

It's hard to get something like that out of your head when it gives you the heebies. I won't meet if the guy has met certain women too. One guy I'm talking to was cam verified by her & even that puts me off. I'm trying to rationalize that with myself because he seems fun, but that is like flashing lights going off in my head, sirens too

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We always look at veri's as there are a few on here who we wouldn't go near.

If they have them in their veri's then it's a sorry not for us.

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